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Starting a new Clique...

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So we all know this goes on so I'm starting my own.

This is for those who feel they're being left out of threads and being ignored. For the reasons you know why!

Rules are... If you post 'I'm in' then whenever you see anyone on this thread post a comment or thread in the future you will make sure you make them feel part of the forums. You don't pass them in threads and will make sure you interact with them.

Make sense?

I'm In!

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By *uke olovingmanMan over a year ago

Gravesend

I always try to make people feel comfortable in the threads

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love being inclusive. Consider me well and truly in.

Balls deep.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I always try to make people feel comfortable in the threads

So you're in?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like to involve people on threads anyway...

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By *lbinoGorillaMan over a year ago

Redditch

I'm in, because I'm weird like that

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By *luebellRacerCouple over a year ago

Shropshire

I try and do this anyway... nice to be nice!

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By *andyfloss2000Woman over a year ago

ashford

I get u x

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By *siancouplehantsCouple over a year ago

K-PAX

Prefer lurking and making the odd comment here and there not really bothered if I get ignored

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm in.

Only because it's you

though I try and be inclusive when and where I can

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By *uke olovingmanMan over a year ago

Gravesend

"I always try to make people feel comfortable in the threads

So you're in?

"
oh yes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I never try and one side anything on here.

And try and always be inclusive. I also only post on threads I’m interested in.

If I miss people it’s accidentally.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If I post a thread I try to respond to everyone that posts. I also will pick up on people that have been overlooked on threads.

Some threads are fast moving and if multiple people post within 120 seconds of each other it is possible for people to miss things unless they go back through the posts.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman over a year ago

ashford

"Prefer lurking and making the odd comment here and there not really bothered if I get ignored

Yes me 2 I'm very thick skinned I dont mind being ignored I'm used to it my kids ignore me all time lol x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

New to the forum world but try to participate in threads I like while being nice to all.

I’m in... lock, stock, the fucking lot

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By *aul1973HullMan over a year ago

East Hull

I see a few friendly names here already...

I'm in! If i'm welcome?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Prefer lurking and making the odd comment here and there not really bothered if I get ignored

Yes me 2 I'm very thick skinned I dont mind being ignored I'm used to it my kids ignore me all time lol x"

Who said that?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'm in.

Only because it's you

though I try and be inclusive when and where I can "

Thanks. It wasn't aimed at everyone but it does go on. Xx

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By *orraine999Woman over a year ago

Somewhere

I’m in.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *andyfloss2000Woman over a year ago

ashford

"Prefer lurking and making the odd comment here and there not really bothered if I get ignored

Yes me 2 I'm very thick skinned I dont mind being ignored I'm used to it my kids ignore me all time lol x

Who said that?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nope.... I’m happy to do my own thing if you enjoy my posts or don’t it really doesn’t matter... I’m not here to impress anyone or for attention I do my own thing

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By *edeWoman over a year ago

the abyss

I'm in, only starting to really interact on the forums more now - I was always a lurker (fine - a perv) before

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like being inclusive - nice one OP

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm in, only starting to really interact on the forums more now - I was always a lurker (fine - a perv) before

Perv away lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Prefer lurking and making the odd comment here and there not really bothered if I get ignored

Yes me 2 I'm very thick skinned I dont mind being ignored I'm used to it my kids ignore me all time lol x"

To and me both lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I like to involve people on threads anyway...

You're obviously just lovely human being x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm in, because I'm weird like that

I think we all got some weird in us lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I see a few friendly names here already...

I'm in! If i'm welcome?

Everyone is! Don't put yourself down mate

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Nope.... I’m happy to do my own thing if you enjoy my posts or don’t it really doesn’t matter... I’m not here to impress anyone or for attention I do my own thing "

Did anyone say anything about attention seeking? I said to be made to FEEL welcome. Fuck sake mun.

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By *edeWoman over a year ago

the abyss

"I'm in, only starting to really interact on the forums more now - I was always a lurker (fine - a perv) before

Perv away lol"

Why thank you - don't mind if I do

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nope.... I’m happy to do my own thing if you enjoy my posts or don’t it really doesn’t matter... I’m not here to impress anyone or for attention I do my own thing

Did anyone say anything about attention seeking? I said to be made to FEEL welcome. Fuck sake mun.

Behave yourself you

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 26/08/20 22:01:03]

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nope.... I’m happy to do my own thing if you enjoy my posts or don’t it really doesn’t matter... I’m not here to impress anyone or for attention I do my own thing

Did anyone say anything about attention seeking? I said to be made to FEEL welcome. Fuck sake mun.

Everyone is welcome and always have been

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By *aitonelMan over a year ago

Travelling

Did you ask the old clique permission to form this new clique?

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By *uge G RectionMan over a year ago

where I like to be... down south

Im in.... I hate it when my comments get overlooked all the time!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I always welcome anyone new to the forums. It's always great to hear peoples comments or threads

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Did you ask the old clique permission to form this new clique? "

Yeah but they ignored me so I did it anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Im in.... I hate it when my comments get overlooked all the time!

Good man!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Nope.... I’m happy to do my own thing if you enjoy my posts or don’t it really doesn’t matter... I’m not here to impress anyone or for attention I do my own thing

Did anyone say anything about attention seeking? I said to be made to FEEL welcome. Fuck sake mun.

Everyone is welcome and always have been "

No mate... we both know that's not true lol. Ok they're welcome but not made to feel welcome. There are cliques on here and people do get ignored of they're not popular enough.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I’m in. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Can we have badges? The best clubs have badges.

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By *harpDressed ManMan over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"There's a clique on here" is forum code for "I'm not getting enough attention" , in my opinion.

Regulars know regulars. Post a lot and you become regular. Post less and you're soon forgotten. That's true of all forums, everywhere on the Internet.

Post interesting stuff, and all will be well. Post occasional gibberish like me and you see phrases like "somebody viewed your profile last week".

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nope.... I’m happy to do my own thing if you enjoy my posts or don’t it really doesn’t matter... I’m not here to impress anyone or for attention I do my own thing

Did anyone say anything about attention seeking? I said to be made to FEEL welcome. Fuck sake mun.

Everyone is welcome and always have been

No mate... we both know that's not true lol. Ok they're welcome but not made to feel welcome. There are cliques on here and people do get ignored of they're not popular enough.

No sorry I’m not having it we’ve been here so many times with cliques and how it divides the forum and it gets me down and I probably speak for many where that is concerned my advice for what it’s worth is just be yourself

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nope.... I’m happy to do my own thing if you enjoy my posts or don’t it really doesn’t matter... I’m not here to impress anyone or for attention I do my own thing

Did anyone say anything about attention seeking? I said to be made to FEEL welcome. Fuck sake mun.

Everyone is welcome and always have been

No mate... we both know that's not true lol. Ok they're welcome but not made to feel welcome. There are cliques on here and people do get ignored of they're not popular enough.

Although I’m inclined to agree with you I think this thread is more tongue in cheek no? I could be wrong. I usually am

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Can we have badges? The best clubs have badges.

Yeah of course. Send me the design at

01 The Tent

A Forest

Somewhere In Europe

TR33 S3X

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By *aven RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

"Nope.... I’m happy to do my own thing if you enjoy my posts or don’t it really doesn’t matter... I’m not here to impress anyone or for attention I do my own thing

Did anyone say anything about attention seeking? I said to be made to FEEL welcome. Fuck sake mun.

Everyone is welcome and always have been

No mate... we both know that's not true lol. Ok they're welcome but not made to feel welcome. There are cliques on here and people do get ignored of they're not popular enough.

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By *iamondCougarWoman over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"If I post a thread I try to respond to everyone that posts. I also will pick up on people that have been overlooked on threads.

Some threads are fast moving and if multiple people post within 120 seconds of each other it is possible for people to miss things unless they go back through the posts.

same here!

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By *tephTV67TV/TS over a year ago

Cheshire

I’m in several ‘cliques’ they just don’t know it

So I’m always up to join another

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Nope.... I’m happy to do my own thing if you enjoy my posts or don’t it really doesn’t matter... I’m not here to impress anyone or for attention I do my own thing

Did anyone say anything about attention seeking? I said to be made to FEEL welcome. Fuck sake mun.

Everyone is welcome and always have been

No mate... we both know that's not true lol. Ok they're welcome but not made to feel welcome. There are cliques on here and people do get ignored of they're not popular enough.

I agree. There's No one on here more unique than me!

More individual...

But it does go on! You don't see it as you are one of the popular ones. Don't get me wrong you're a decent guy but why do people feel this way if it doesn't go on. Do you read people's comments or just looking for the people you know? Read!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Nope.... I’m happy to do my own thing if you enjoy my posts or don’t it really doesn’t matter... I’m not here to impress anyone or for attention I do my own thing

Did anyone say anything about attention seeking? I said to be made to FEEL welcome. Fuck sake mun.

Everyone is welcome and always have been

No mate... we both know that's not true lol. Ok they're welcome but not made to feel welcome. There are cliques on here and people do get ignored of they're not popular enough.

It's happened to me on many occasions that's why I avoid the kiss, fuck, slap ,pass shit! I've posted and it's been 2 or 3 minutes and I've been skipped. I don't give a shit bit for you to say it doesn't happen is a joke. You're just blind to it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is it weird that I kinda like being ignored? It's the same way I tweet, just plod about saying whatever I want then I think 'oh shit' if people actually want to interact

...are weirdos like that allowed in?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nope.... I’m happy to do my own thing if you enjoy my posts or don’t it really doesn’t matter... I’m not here to impress anyone or for attention I do my own thing

Did anyone say anything about attention seeking? I said to be made to FEEL welcome. Fuck sake mun.

Everyone is welcome and always have been

No mate... we both know that's not true lol. Ok they're welcome but not made to feel welcome. There are cliques on here and people do get ignored of they're not popular enough.

I agree. There's No one on here more unique than me!

More individual...

I post a lot and I try and respond to most. I think it makes a thread a bit boring if I respond to everyone! I rarely look at who posts a thread before I comment. I don’t do cliques, I refuse to join any group chats that I keep getting invited to. I don’t like them they’re not my thing. I have friends but I don’t suck up to them, I’ll comment if I don’t agree, whether we’re friends or not. This clique thing has been going on for years. I wish people would tell me who’s in it as I don’t see it. I see friends having banter and a laugh with each other sometimes that’s all. The bitchiness seems to go on behind the scenes in my experience! Whether this is tongue in cheek I don’t know but this clique business really gets on my lils!!!

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By *ed VoluptaWoman over a year ago

Wirral.

I'm in. If only because I'm pretty new to the forums, no idea if there's cliques or not

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By *uge G RectionMan over a year ago

where I like to be... down south

"Nope.... I’m happy to do my own thing if you enjoy my posts or don’t it really doesn’t matter... I’m not here to impress anyone or for attention I do my own thing

Did anyone say anything about attention seeking? I said to be made to FEEL welcome. Fuck sake mun.

Everyone is welcome and always have been

No mate... we both know that's not true lol. Ok they're welcome but not made to feel welcome. There are cliques on here and people do get ignored of they're not popular enough.

I agree. There's No one on here more unique than me!

More individual...

Op what is it that makes you think there is no one more unique than you?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nope.... I’m happy to do my own thing if you enjoy my posts or don’t it really doesn’t matter... I’m not here to impress anyone or for attention I do my own thing

Did anyone say anything about attention seeking? I said to be made to FEEL welcome. Fuck sake mun.

Everyone is welcome and always have been

No mate... we both know that's not true lol. Ok they're welcome but not made to feel welcome. There are cliques on here and people do get ignored of they're not popular enough.

I agree. There's No one on here more unique than me!

More individual...

Yea well said sweetie..... there really is room for everyone

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By *X2019Man over a year ago

Newcastle

I haven't been on the forums long, only since lockdown, and I've found the large majority of people very welcoming. I can see how its easy to feel left out or ignored as I've been there, but I think the best way to counter this is keep getting involved which worked for me. I understand it not easy for eveyone, and people on here do have friends and connections which may seem like cliques. But I think as someone mentioned the fast pace of some of the threads makes it easy to miss replies etc and some people can have comments missed. I'm not for a second saying it doesn't happen.

I've had some genuine chats from getting to know people and not just flirting (although I'm getting a reputation lol). Some people don't answer but then you just respect their decision and move on. I'm not saying anyone is right or wrong but this is just the opinion of a newish memeber of the forums so hope this just shows a different perspective

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By *aven RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

"I haven't been on the forums long, only since lockdown, and I've found the large majority of people very welcoming. I can see how its easy to feel left out or ignored as I've been there, but I think the best way to counter this is keep getting involved which worked for me. I understand it not easy for eveyone, and people on here do have friends and connections which may seem like cliques. But I think as someone mentioned the fast pace of some of the threads makes it easy to miss replies etc and some people can have comments missed. I'm not for a second saying it doesn't happen.

Perfectly put x

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By *andyfloss2000Woman over a year ago

ashford

"I'm in. If only because I'm pretty new to the forums, no idea if there's cliques or not

Hiya I'm quite new to forums 2 x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m always nice and try and make everyone feel as welcome as possible.

Lots of regular forum users stretched out their hands and were kind to me when I first started posting, so it would be discourteous of me to do anything less.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Awww I was enjoying hearing what OP had been up to on his travels

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh he’s gone again.

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By *uge G RectionMan over a year ago

where I like to be... down south

Where did the op go?

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By *uke olovingmanMan over a year ago

Gravesend

He reckoned he got a lifetime ban

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

He comes and goes

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By *uge G RectionMan over a year ago

where I like to be... down south

Ouch

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"He reckoned he got a lifetime ban "

Because of this thread

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman over a year ago

On a mooch

Who was that ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Shag

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

Seems the OP has decided he doesn’t even want to be included in his own thread anymore. Or the site in general.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"He reckoned he got a lifetime ban "

Who was it?

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By *ed VoluptaWoman over a year ago

Wirral.

"I'm in. If only because I'm pretty new to the forums, no idea if there's cliques or not

Hiya I'm quite new to forums 2 x"

Yay! Forum fwends

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Let's smash the clique by.....making a new clique?!?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Who was that ? "

Welshtraveller. The guy in Switzerland.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think the hardest threads on here are the Ooft you're hot/you'll get mail at 10pm/best bum, cock, etc. You are going to get overlooked on these as there are very subjective threads and there are some damned fine Forumites who always come out on top. Just the way it is xxx

I generally keep away from them as just have nothing to give/get anything from them.

Good threads to go to are the Good Morning or the Late Night ones. You nearly always get an answer and the Late night you can get some great conversations on

Happy posting

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Shag"

Not on a Wednesday

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Who was that ?

Welshtraveller. The guy in Switzerland."

Oh hes posted a lot today.

Thats a surprise that he's just gone.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A forum is about discussions and having your say,regardless of who posted a thread. I dont even look to see if anyone is in a clique or whatever..Its an adult sex site not a child's playground..

I respond to something I find funny amusing or interesting regardless of who posted. If they wish to reply to me great if not i don't spit my Teddy out or say you've missed me out. If you don't like how the forums work dont join in simple..

I can honestly say I like everyone I have spoken to..

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman over a year ago

On a mooch

"Who was that ?

Welshtraveller. The guy in Switzerland."

He didn’t last longer back on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Who was that ?

Welshtraveller. The guy in Switzerland.

Oh hes posted a lot today.

Thats a surprise that he's just gone.

He comes and goes at the moment.

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By *nabelle21Woman over a year ago

B38

"He reckoned he got a lifetime ban "

For this thread?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wow! That was an interesting read and not something I expected from the OP (I've just caught up) agree with a comment further up though, there isn't cliques just friends having a laugh and a joke.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Who was that ?

Welshtraveller. The guy in Switzerland.

He didn’t last longer back on

Yeah what is it with people who leave and come back?

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman over a year ago

On a mooch

"Who was that ?

Welshtraveller. The guy in Switzerland.

He didn’t last longer back on

Yeah what is it with people who leave and come back?

I know shocking behaviour

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By *nabelle21Woman over a year ago

B38

"Shag

Not on a Wednesday

38 mins and it's Thursday

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman over a year ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

"Who was that ?

Welshtraveller. The guy in Switzerland.

He didn’t last longer back on

Yeah what is it with people who leave and come back?

No stamina lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Shag

Not on a Wednesday

38 mins and it's Thursday

37 now woo hoo

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Seems the OP has decided he doesn’t even want to be included in his own thread anymore. Or the site in general. "

Apparently so

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By *nabelle21Woman over a year ago

B38

"Shag

Not on a Wednesday

38 mins and it's Thursday

37 now woo hoo

Clock watching

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wow! That was an interesting read and not something I expected from the OP (I've just caught up) agree with a comment further up though, there isn't cliques just friends having a laugh and a joke. "

That's exactly what I think x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Most of the time my comments are passed by .. just like this one .. never stops me though as I say what I feel .. love or hate it

.. I’d rather people see me for me than something I’m not ..

I love being a one man band

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Shag

Not on a Wednesday

38 mins and it's Thursday

37 now woo hoo

Clock watching

Clock watching before cock watching

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By *hav02Man over a year ago

Glasgow/London

"[Original Poster left the clique at 26/Aug/2020 22:59]"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Most of the time my comments are passed by .. just like this one .. never stops me though as I say what I feel .. love or hate it

.. I’d rather people see me for me than something I’m not ..

I love being a one man band

Oh me too. Except im a one woman band. Best not use the word lady

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Who was that ?

Welshtraveller. The guy in Switzerland.

He didn’t last longer back on

Yeah what is it with people who leave and come back?

I know! I never do that

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By *affron40Woman over a year ago

manchester

The irony is real..the clique finished him off.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Most of the time my comments are passed by .. just like this one .. never stops me though as I say what I feel .. love or hate it

.. I’d rather people see me for me than something I’m not ..

I love being a one man band

Oh me too. Except im a one woman band. Best not use the word lady

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By *nabelle21Woman over a year ago

B38

"Shag

Not on a Wednesday

38 mins and it's Thursday

37 now woo hoo

Clock watching

Clock watching before cock watching

Story of my life

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Most of the time my comments are passed by .. just like this one .. never stops me though as I say what I feel .. love or hate it

.. I’d rather people see me for me than something I’m not ..

I love being a one man band

Oh me too. Except im a one woman band. Best not use the word lady

Oi what’s funny miss?!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This changes the subject a bit, but the OP is away so can't chastise me

...but do you think its partly to do with the limitedness of the site that it seems like there's cliques? There's loads of times I'd love to give a post a wee thumbs up but don't want to dominate commenting on everything! I'd say my favourite posters, I've never interacted with at all so they wouldn't even know I enjoy reading their posts.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Shag

Not on a Wednesday

38 mins and it's Thursday

37 now woo hoo

Clock watching

Clock watching before cock watching

Story of my life

Me too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Most of the time my comments are passed by .. just like this one .. never stops me though as I say what I feel .. love or hate it

.. I’d rather people see me for me than something I’m not ..

I love being a one man band

Oh me too. Except im a one woman band. Best not use the word lady

Lady is appropriate

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By *elle xWoman over a year ago

Doire Theas

"Seems the OP has decided he doesn’t even want to be included in his own thread anymore. Or the site in general.

Apparently so "

Don’t think he had a choice anymore

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By *nabelle21Woman over a year ago

B38

"Shag

Not on a Wednesday

38 mins and it's Thursday

37 now woo hoo

Clock watching

Clock watching before cock watching

Story of my life

Me too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Most of the time my comments are passed by .. just like this one .. never stops me though as I say what I feel .. love or hate it

.. I’d rather people see me for me than something I’m not ..

I love being a one man band

Oh me too. Except im a one woman band. Best not use the word lady

Lady is appropriate

Bless you! Are you quite new?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This changes the subject a bit, but the OP is away so can't chastise me

This is where a like button would come in handy.

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By *nabelle21Woman over a year ago

B38

"Most of the time my comments are passed by .. just like this one .. never stops me though as I say what I feel .. love or hate it

.. I’d rather people see me for me than something I’m not ..

I love being a one man band

Oh me too. Except im a one woman band. Best not use the word lady

Lady is appropriate

Lady on the streets......

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Has the OP gone AWOL ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Most of the time my comments are passed by .. just like this one .. never stops me though as I say what I feel .. love or hate it

.. I’d rather people see me for me than something I’m not ..

I love being a one man band

Oh me too. Except im a one woman band. Best not use the word lady

Lady is appropriate

Lady on the streets......

But a freak in the sheets

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Most of the time my comments are passed by .. just like this one .. never stops me though as I say what I feel .. love or hate it

.. I’d rather people see me for me than something I’m not ..

I love being a one man band

Oh me too. Except im a one woman band. Best not use the word lady

Oi what’s funny miss?!

Nothing

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By *aven RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

"This changes the subject a bit, but the OP is away so can't chastise me

I've noticed you in the forums. I do the thumbs up a lot for various posts. Do what you want, post how you want. That's what the forums are for x

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By *nabelle21Woman over a year ago

B38

"Most of the time my comments are passed by .. just like this one .. never stops me though as I say what I feel .. love or hate it

.. I’d rather people see me for me than something I’m not ..

I love being a one man band

Oh me too. Except im a one woman band. Best not use the word lady

Lady is appropriate

Lady on the streets......

But a freak in the sheets

That's the one

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Most of the time my comments are passed by .. just like this one .. never stops me though as I say what I feel .. love or hate it

.. I’d rather people see me for me than something I’m not ..

I love being a one man band

Oh me too. Except im a one woman band. Best not use the word lady

Lady is appropriate

Lady on the streets......

But a freak in the sheets

That's the one

... growwwlll ...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Most of the time my comments are passed by .. just like this one .. never stops me though as I say what I feel .. love or hate it

.. I’d rather people see me for me than something I’m not ..

I love being a one man band

Oh me too. Except im a one woman band. Best not use the word lady

Lady is appropriate

Lady on the streets......

But a freak in the sheets

That's the one

I’m saying nothing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Seems the OP has decided he doesn’t even want to be included in his own thread anymore. Or the site in general.

Apparently so

Don’t think he had a choice anymore

There's always a choice, no one chased him away just said what they thought. If he was was all about inclusivity then he should respect not everyone will agree with him.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Most of the time my comments are passed by .. just like this one .. never stops me though as I say what I feel .. love or hate it

.. I’d rather people see me for me than something I’m not ..

I love being a one man band

Oh me too. Except im a one woman band. Best not use the word lady

Lady is appropriate

Lady on the streets......

But a freak in the sheets

That's the one

... growwwlll ... "

Oh my goodness he’s a growler too!

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By *nabelle21Woman over a year ago

B38

"Most of the time my comments are passed by .. just like this one .. never stops me though as I say what I feel .. love or hate it

.. I’d rather people see me for me than something I’m not ..

I love being a one man band

Oh me too. Except im a one woman band. Best not use the word lady

Lady is appropriate

Bless you! Are you quite new?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This changes the subject a bit, but the OP is away so can't chastise me

I've noticed you in the forums. I do the thumbs up a lot for various posts. Do what you want, post how you want. That's what the forums are for x"

This!

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By *nabelle21Woman over a year ago

B38

"Most of the time my comments are passed by .. just like this one .. never stops me though as I say what I feel .. love or hate it

.. I’d rather people see me for me than something I’m not ..

I love being a one man band

Oh me too. Except im a one woman band. Best not use the word lady

Lady is appropriate

Lady on the streets......

But a freak in the sheets

That's the one

I’m saying nothing

No comment

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Most of the time my comments are passed by .. just like this one .. never stops me though as I say what I feel .. love or hate it

.. I’d rather people see me for me than something I’m not ..

I love being a one man band

Oh me too. Except im a one woman band. Best not use the word lady

Lady is appropriate

Bless you! Are you quite new?

Haha ... I cotton on quick ... still I know nothing .. so still lady to me

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By *hav02Man over a year ago

Glasgow/London

"This changes the subject a bit, but the OP is away so can't chastise me

That's where the "i fancy you"/ooofftttt threads are quite good.... Or just send a friendly message

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This changes the subject a bit, but the OP is away so can't chastise me

I've noticed you in the forums. I do the thumbs up a lot for various posts. Do what you want, post how you want. That's what the forums are for x

This!

I'm gonna do a thread on it

, hate hearing about people feeling invisible!

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman over a year ago

On a mooch

"This changes the subject a bit, but the OP is away so can't chastise me

I've noticed you in the forums. I do the thumbs up a lot for various posts. Do what you want, post how you want. That's what the forums are for x

This!

I'm gonna do a thread on it

, hate hearing about people feeling invisible! "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This changes the subject a bit, but the OP is away so can't chastise me

That's where the "i fancy you"/ooofftttt threads are quite good.... Or just send a friendly message

Ah see I'm not that into them. The forum for me is just chatting to cool people, local messaging is for who I fancy

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By *X2019Man over a year ago

Newcastle

"This changes the subject a bit, but the OP is away so can't chastise me

I've noticed you in the forums. I do the thumbs up a lot for various posts. Do what you want, post how you want. That's what the forums are for x"

Well said. There can always be a part 2 etc.

To leave a positive spin on all this as I mentioned I feel almost everyone is inclusive and would just encourage new members to get stuck in. Everyone started somewhere and I don't think anyone deliberately ignores people. If someone doesn't get back to you, move on. This place isn't short of nice people. If someone seems to be struggling maybe give them a hand. Happy fabbing you lovely bunch

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By *nabelle21Woman over a year ago

B38

"This changes the subject a bit, but the OP is away so can't chastise me

I've noticed you in the forums. I do the thumbs up a lot for various posts. Do what you want, post how you want. That's what the forums are for x"

This for me too

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By *uke olovingmanMan over a year ago

Gravesend

I go invisible sometimes...but I guess even if I don't get a smiley face or thumb after one of my comments someone somewhere is quietly laughing at it

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By *uke olovingmanMan over a year ago

Gravesend

"This changes the subject a bit, but the OP is away so can't chastise me

I've noticed you in the forums. I do the thumbs up a lot for various posts. Do what you want, post how you want. That's what the forums are for x

This for me too

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

OP has gone

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By *nabelle21Woman over a year ago

B38

"OP has gone"

He appears to have a lifetime ban!

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"OP has gone

He appears to have a lifetime ban!"

Oh dear

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"OP has gone

He appears to have a lifetime ban!

Oh dear "

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

I'm staying in the old clique, we have a Queen, cake and sexual favours!

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

What clique?

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

"What clique?"

Shhhhhh!

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By *ustyMilfxxxCouple over a year ago

Swansea

"Im in.... I hate it when my comments get overlooked all the time!

I’m the same. X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

who was the op?

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"who was the op?"

The one who is travelling

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By *uke olovingmanMan over a year ago

Gravesend

"Im in.... I hate it when my comments get overlooked all the time!

I’m the same. X"
noticed

and fabbed as well

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By *andyfloss2000Woman over a year ago

ashford

Shame op has gone he was an interesting type envy his life style x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This changes the subject a bit, but the OP is away so can't chastise me

If you like it then comment. If a thread you have enjoyed slips below the line unnoticed then give it a thumbs up to bump it. If you don't want to comment directly on the thread then send a PM (respecting filters)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Cliques do exist in the forums and on the site in chat, etc. too.

The thing is that cliques are not always intentional and people often don't realise that they are part of one, why should you?

You tend to chat and respond to the people you know and get on with, sometimes even blindly back other clique members up without considering if they are right or wrong.

The same can be said in person, people tend to sit in pubs with their known associates and chat to them whilst paying little attention to others around them, similar to going to lunch with people you work with, etc.

Err, hang on, unless there is an intention to ignore, pick on or belittle others isn't the description of a clique similar to that of friends?

I bet this post get's no responses as I'm not in the clique or the anti-clique

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Cliques do exist in the forums and on the site in chat, etc. too.

The thing is that cliques are not always intentional and people often don't realise that they are part of one, why should you?

You tend to chat and respond to the people you know and get on with, sometimes even blindly back other clique members up without considering if they are right or wrong.

Err, hang on, unless there is an intention to ignore, pick on or belittle others isn't the description of a clique similar to that of friends?

I bet this post get's no responses as I'm not in the clique or the anti-clique

I'm in no clique just some people I get on with more

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I try and do this anyway... nice to be nice! "
this

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By *aven RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

"Cliques do exist in the forums and on the site in chat, etc. too.

The thing is that cliques are not always intentional and people often don't realise that they are part of one, why should you?

You tend to chat and respond to the people you know and get on with, sometimes even blindly back other clique members up without considering if they are right or wrong.

Err, hang on, unless there is an intention to ignore, pick on or belittle others isn't the description of a clique similar to that of friends?

I bet this post get's no responses as I'm not in the clique or the anti-clique

I get what you are saying and agree for the most part. It's the 'clique' word I'm not a fan of. Friends do gravitate towards each other and I get that it can be hard for new posters. Some threads move so fast comments get lost. I try to be inclusive and friendly when I post, or start threads x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The more people say they are not in one the more you realise they are strangely.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Cliques do exist in the forums and on the site in chat, etc. too.

The thing is that cliques are not always intentional and people often don't realise that they are part of one, why should you?

You tend to chat and respond to the people you know and get on with, sometimes even blindly back other clique members up without considering if they are right or wrong.

Err, hang on, unless there is an intention to ignore, pick on or belittle others isn't the description of a clique similar to that of friends?

I bet this post get's no responses as I'm not in the clique or the anti-clique

That's the point of my (ever so slightly sarcastic) post, it's human nature to be drawn to chatting with those you are familiar, friendly with or even attracted to.

It's not always an intentional sleight towards anyone new or not within the usual group that their posts get passed by, people just naturally respond to their group, basic human nature.

The more you get involved the more you will become familiar and likely to be responded to because of that familiarity.

You get out what you put in, is a bit cheesey but, is often true.