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Hi there
Just because this is a swinging site doesn't mean that all the ladies here have sky high libidos
So am curious ladies
How high would you say your libido is?
Does it change whether single vs relationship?
IF you have a high libido when you are single does that automatically mean lots of masturbation, or does your high libido only come out when you are with someone?
How has your libido changed from say late teens to the age you are now? Eg low in 20's, sky high in 30's non existent in 40's back with a vengeance in 50's etc
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"Varies through the month, definitely mellowed when I first had kids (probably exhausted) it's definitely ramped up again after the last few years! "
Out of interest would you say you or your partner has the higher drive? |
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"Varies through the month, definitely mellowed when I first had kids (probably exhausted) it's definitely ramped up again after the last few years!
Out of interest would you say you or your partner has the higher drive?"
Erm, probably me, possibly a confidence thing too. Though I think he's scrumptious so works for me |
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I'd say libido varies, if I feel sexy and confident in myself I have a higher sex drive. In my last relationship I had zero libido cause I was put down n unappreciated, now its just me I know my worth and am kicking ass at life and damn I feel sexy because of it!!!! I have more fun mainly on my own now then I ever have!!! Also definetly varies through out a woman's month I have certain days or blocks of days during my cycle that I'm crazy horny every month I can predict it coming! |
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"Out of control since coming off the pill "
Same thing happened to a friend of mine. Think it was very pronounced with her as her's was for acne so had an anti androgen (anti testosterone) part to it.She was single and went from masturbating 2-4 times a week to 6-8 times a day
Is that a similar picture for you? |
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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago
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"Out of control since coming off the pill
Same thing happened to a friend of mine. Think it was very pronounced with her as her's was for acne so had an anti androgen (anti testosterone) part to it.She was single and went from masturbating 2-4 times a week to 6-8 times a day
Is that a similar picture for you?"
Been on it since I was 14 seems like it suppressed it alot!
Now I can't get enough lol
I will do it myself daily a few times.. I am married but lucky if I get sex ever |
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"Varies through the month, definitely mellowed when I first had kids (probably exhausted) it's definitely ramped up again after the last few years!
Out of interest would you say you or your partner has the higher drive?
Erm, probably me, possibly a confidence thing too. Though I think he's scrumptious so works for me "
Sounds like you've got it sorted! |
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"Out of control since coming off the pill
Same thing happened to a friend of mine. Think it was very pronounced with her as her's was for acne so had an anti androgen (anti testosterone) part to it.She was single and went from masturbating 2-4 times a week to 6-8 times a day
Is that a similar picture for you?
Been on it since I was 14 seems like it suppressed it alot!
Now I can't get enough lol
I will do it myself daily a few times.. I am married but lucky if I get sex ever "
Good you can diy but better if hubby joined in! |
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"Mines too high 3/4 weeks a month. 1 week it tails off. If I don’t get sex it slows a little, the more sex I get the more I want. It’s a curse "
Does sex increase the craving more than masturbating does? |
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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago
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"Out of control since coming off the pill
Same thing happened to a friend of mine. Think it was very pronounced with her as her's was for acne so had an anti androgen (anti testosterone) part to it.She was single and went from masturbating 2-4 times a week to 6-8 times a day
Is that a similar picture for you?
Been on it since I was 14 seems like it suppressed it alot!
Now I can't get enough lol
I will do it myself daily a few times.. I am married but lucky if I get sex ever
Good you can diy but better if hubby joined in!"
It would be, but no |
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"Out of control since coming off the pill
Same thing happened to a friend of mine. Think it was very pronounced with her as her's was for acne so had an anti androgen (anti testosterone) part to it.She was single and went from masturbating 2-4 times a week to 6-8 times a day
Is that a similar picture for you?
Been on it since I was 14 seems like it suppressed it alot!
Now I can't get enough lol
I will do it myself daily a few times.. I am married but lucky if I get sex ever
Good you can diy but better if hubby joined in!
It would be, but no "
That's such a shame
Well DIY to your hearts content |
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"Mines too high 3/4 weeks a month. 1 week it tails off. If I don’t get sex it slows a little, the more sex I get the more I want. It’s a curse
Does sex increase the craving more than masturbating does?"
Yup |
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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago
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"Out of control since coming off the pill
Same thing happened to a friend of mine. Think it was very pronounced with her as her's was for acne so had an anti androgen (anti testosterone) part to it.She was single and went from masturbating 2-4 times a week to 6-8 times a day
Is that a similar picture for you?
Been on it since I was 14 seems like it suppressed it alot!
Now I can't get enough lol
I will do it myself daily a few times.. I am married but lucky if I get sex ever
Good you can diy but better if hubby joined in!
It would be, but no
That's such a shame
Well DIY to your hearts content"
Oh I do |
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"Mines too high 3/4 weeks a month. 1 week it tails off. If I don’t get sex it slows a little, the more sex I get the more I want. It’s a curse
Does sex increase the craving more than masturbating does?
Yup "
Well that's something, imagine if both did you'd get nothing done! |
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"Out of control since coming off the pill
Same thing happened to a friend of mine. Think it was very pronounced with her as her's was for acne so had an anti androgen (anti testosterone) part to it.She was single and went from masturbating 2-4 times a week to 6-8 times a day
Is that a similar picture for you?
Been on it since I was 14 seems like it suppressed it alot!
Now I can't get enough lol
I will do it myself daily a few times.. I am married but lucky if I get sex ever
Good you can diy but better if hubby joined in!
It would be, but no
That's such a shame
Well DIY to your hearts content
Oh I do "
I hope you own a Doxy wand, if not, treat yourself! |
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High for me. Since being with my partner it's off the scale at times but I'm always horny lol. Bit of a shock going to this from a relationship of 13 years that I did everything to avoid sex & never wanted to do it. Can't get enough of my partner 3 & half years on & we still can't get enough. He's opened me up to trying new things,new positions that I would never have tried before & now going to have a foursome which I've always thought of but didn't trust my ex to do it with. I've come a long way !!! |
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"High for me. Since being with my partner it's off the scale at times but I'm always horny lol. Bit of a shock going to this from a relationship of 13 years that I did everything to avoid sex & never wanted to do it. Can't get enough of my partner 3 & half years on & we still can't get enough. He's opened me up to trying new things,new positions that I would never have tried before & now going to have a foursome which I've always thought of but didn't trust my ex to do it with. I've come a long way !!! "
Wow, am genuinely pleased for you. It's so important I feel that our romantic partners gel with us sexually too. Sounds like you have got the perfect combo! |
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I have struck it lucky thankfully!!! He's opened up my eyes to sex anything I want to do or try all I have to do say. We talk about everything & we have an amazing sex life already & venturing into this with each other is so exciting I'm getting to do things I've always thought of but never thought I'd ever get to do. I can't wait for our first time |
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Mine is lower than it used to be but it was like I was on heat in my teens and early 20s . When I was 18 I had a boyfriend actually break up with me giving one of his reasons that I wanted to have sex every time I saw him . I thought that was normal for 18 and 21! Hey ho. My libido at the moment I'm not aure how to describe. I'd be happy with sex maybe 3 times a week so I guess average? But then I'll happily have sex 3 or 4 times in a day. I'm not really sure what average is anymore. |
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"Mine is lower than it used to be but it was like I was on heat in my teens and early 20s . When I was 18 I had a boyfriend actually break up with me giving one of his reasons that I wanted to have sex every time I saw him . I thought that was normal for 18 and 21! Hey ho. My libido at the moment I'm not aure how to describe. I'd be happy with sex maybe 3 times a week so I guess average? But then I'll happily have sex 3 or 4 times in a day. I'm not really sure what average is anymore.
I imagine your partner's need to insure their private parts for wear and tear "
I think I'm a bit of a binge fucker . Though also if it's really good I want more. Sometimes I masturbate loads the day after a really good meet. Not because it didn't satisfy me at the time but because remembering it makes me really horny. |
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"Mine is lower than it used to be but it was like I was on heat in my teens and early 20s . When I was 18 I had a boyfriend actually break up with me giving one of his reasons that I wanted to have sex every time I saw him . I thought that was normal for 18 and 21! Hey ho. My libido at the moment I'm not aure how to describe. I'd be happy with sex maybe 3 times a week so I guess average? But then I'll happily have sex 3 or 4 times in a day. I'm not really sure what average is anymore.
I imagine your partner's need to insure their private parts for wear and tear
I think I'm a bit of a binge fucker . Though also if it's really good I want more. Sometimes I masturbate loads the day after a really good meet. Not because it didn't satisfy me at the time but because remembering it makes me really horny. "
Oh I agree with the latter! I sometimes like to wank to the thought of past meets, there's nothing better |
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"Mine is lower than it used to be but it was like I was on heat in my teens and early 20s . When I was 18 I had a boyfriend actually break up with me giving one of his reasons that I wanted to have sex every time I saw him . I thought that was normal for 18 and 21! Hey ho. My libido at the moment I'm not aure how to describe. I'd be happy with sex maybe 3 times a week so I guess average? But then I'll happily have sex 3 or 4 times in a day. I'm not really sure what average is anymore.
I imagine your partner's need to insure their private parts for wear and tear
I think I'm a bit of a binge fucker . Though also if it's really good I want more. Sometimes I masturbate loads the day after a really good meet. Not because it didn't satisfy me at the time but because remembering it makes me really horny.
Oh I agree with the latter! I sometimes like to wank to the thought of past meets, there's nothing better "
Agreed. Fond memories! |
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Mine has always been high. Ridiculously so, and it’s just getting worse as I get older
If I go a day without having sex I get grumpy as all hell and if I can’t masturbate to take the edge off then you may as well hide from me because I’ll probably be the devil incarnate |
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"Mine has always been high. Ridiculously so, and it’s just getting worse as I get older
If I go a day without having sex I get grumpy as all hell and if I can’t masturbate to take the edge off then you may as well hide from me because I’ll probably be the devil incarnate "
Makes you an easy tie and tease target |
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It comes and goes depending on where I am in my cycle. Sometimes it's crazy high and I'm frankly insatiable, other times I'm pretty 'meh'. Hormones eh lol |
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"Mine has always been high. Ridiculously so, and it’s just getting worse as I get older
If I go a day without having sex I get grumpy as all hell and if I can’t masturbate to take the edge off then you may as well hide from me because I’ll probably be the devil incarnate
Makes you an easy tie and tease target "
You just try it |
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"At the moment very high
Which is the norm for me especially If i’m having sex but if i’m taking time out it can slow down... abit "
So if you are single does a lot of masturbation keep you satisfied? |
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"Sky high in the middle of my menstrual cycle. Very frustrating when life prevents it being satiated.
I'm guessing from the way you wrote that that masturbating a lot doesn't satiate you?"
Have you tried masturbating when blood is pouring out of your foof?? Not exactly straightforward..... |
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"Mine is lower than it used to be but it was like I was on heat in my teens and early 20s . When I was 18 I had a boyfriend actually break up with me giving one of his reasons that I wanted to have sex every time I saw him . I thought that was normal for 18 and 21! Hey ho. My libido at the moment I'm not aure how to describe. I'd be happy with sex maybe 3 times a week so I guess average? But then I'll happily have sex 3 or 4 times in a day. I'm not really sure what average is anymore.
I imagine your partner's need to insure their private parts for wear and tear
I think I'm a bit of a binge fucker . Though also if it's really good I want more. Sometimes I masturbate loads the day after a really good meet. Not because it didn't satisfy me at the time but because remembering it makes me really horny. "
Can totally related to binge fucking then masturbating loads the next day at the thought of what happened
How many times do you masturbate the day after a really good meet? I can go a good 6-8 times a least |
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"Always been quite high but off the scale in my forties. Can’t see it getting any lower once I hit the fifties either. "
Is it only high when you meet or do you need to masturbate a lot when not meeting to satisfy things? |
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"It comes and goes depending on where I am in my cycle. Sometimes it's crazy high and I'm frankly insatiable, other times I'm pretty 'meh'. Hormones eh lol "
Yup those old hormones can really mix things up! So when insatiable if you are with a partner how many times do you like to orgasm? And if single how many times do you orgasm by yourself to satisfy yourself? |
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"Quite high, one simply cannot keep it up!
It’s been less in my 20s , increased early 30s and keep increasing after I hit 35 "
So do you masturbate a lot to keep yourself satisfied? Or save yourself more for partner sex? |
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"Sky high in the middle of my menstrual cycle. Very frustrating when life prevents it being satiated.
I'm guessing from the way you wrote that that masturbating a lot doesn't satiate you?
Have you tried masturbating when blood is pouring out of your foof?? Not exactly straightforward..... "
Lol fair comment! |
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"Quite high, one simply cannot keep it up!
It’s been less in my 20s , increased early 30s and keep increasing after I hit 35
So do you masturbate a lot to keep yourself satisfied? Or save yourself more for partner sex?"
There is a massive difference in between so masturbations simply cannot fulfill my desire but might save the day in frustration |
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I'm hypersexual. I have a very high libido.
I am able to distract myself sometimes though...if I need to.
My relationship status doesn't effect it, but the more I get, the more I want.
Lu |
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"I'm hypersexual. I have a very high libido.
I am able to distract myself sometimes though...if I need to.
My relationship status doesn't effect it, but the more I get, the more I want.
Lu "
I feel you on that! Once you are in the circle, it starts spinning so fast that you cannot get out x |
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"Quite high, one simply cannot keep it up!
It’s been less in my 20s , increased early 30s and keep increasing after I hit 35
So do you masturbate a lot to keep yourself satisfied? Or save yourself more for partner sex?
There is a massive difference in between so masturbations simply cannot fulfill my desire but might save the day in frustration "
Out of curiosity, and if you are comfortable sharing, how many orgasms would you give yourself to save the day, so to speak?! |
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"I'm hypersexual. I have a very high libido.
I am able to distract myself sometimes though...if I need to.
My relationship status doesn't effect it, but the more I get, the more I want.
Lu "
My FWB is hypersexual so I can relate a bit. So on a very hypersexual day how many orgasms are you likely to have? |
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"It comes and goes depending on where I am in my cycle. Sometimes it's crazy high and I'm frankly insatiable, other times I'm pretty 'meh'. Hormones eh lol
Yup those old hormones can really mix things up! So when insatiable if you are with a partner how many times do you like to orgasm? And if single how many times do you orgasm by yourself to satisfy yourself?"
I've spent entire days playing lol. Time well spent |
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"I'm hypersexual. I have a very high libido.
I am able to distract myself sometimes though...if I need to.
My relationship status doesn't effect it, but the more I get, the more I want.
Lu
I feel you on that! Once you are in the circle, it starts spinning so fast that you cannot get out x "
Indeed! I'm dizzy a lot |
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"I'm hypersexual. I have a very high libido.
I am able to distract myself sometimes though...if I need to.
My relationship status doesn't effect it, but the more I get, the more I want.
Lu
My FWB is hypersexual so I can relate a bit. So on a very hypersexual day how many orgasms are you likely to have?"
It varies massively...
If I'm alone...maybe 3, maybe 20.
If I'm with J...many, many more |
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"It comes and goes depending on where I am in my cycle. Sometimes it's crazy high and I'm frankly insatiable, other times I'm pretty 'meh'. Hormones eh lol
Yup those old hormones can really mix things up! So when insatiable if you are with a partner how many times do you like to orgasm? And if single how many times do you orgasm by yourself to satisfy yourself?
I've spent entire days playing lol. Time well spent "
lol I totally agree it's time well spent! How many orgasms can you have on one of those days, genuinely curious. Only answer if you are comfortable to do so though |
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"I'm hypersexual. I have a very high libido.
I am able to distract myself sometimes though...if I need to.
My relationship status doesn't effect it, but the more I get, the more I want.
Lu
My FWB is hypersexual so I can relate a bit. So on a very hypersexual day how many orgasms are you likely to have?
It varies massively...
If I'm alone...maybe 3, maybe 20.
If I'm with J...many, many more "
Yes that's what my FWB is like, when we are apart she can eassily have 30 orgasms if she has the day off..... |
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"I'm hypersexual. I have a very high libido.
I am able to distract myself sometimes though...if I need to.
My relationship status doesn't effect it, but the more I get, the more I want.
Lu
My FWB is hypersexual so I can relate a bit. So on a very hypersexual day how many orgasms are you likely to have?
It varies massively...
If I'm alone...maybe 3, maybe 20.
If I'm with J...many, many more
Yes that's what my FWB is like, when we are apart she can eassily have 30 orgasms if she has the day off....."
Tbf...my fella is a rare find...
Before him, finding someone who could keep up was a hard task, and few can push my buttons like he can.
I'm not easily pleased, but get it right and I sometimes struggle to stop cumming |
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"I'm hypersexual. I have a very high libido.
I am able to distract myself sometimes though...if I need to.
My relationship status doesn't effect it, but the more I get, the more I want.
Lu
My FWB is hypersexual so I can relate a bit. So on a very hypersexual day how many orgasms are you likely to have?
It varies massively...
If I'm alone...maybe 3, maybe 20.
If I'm with J...many, many more
Yes that's what my FWB is like, when we are apart she can eassily have 30 orgasms if she has the day off.....
Tbf...my fella is a rare find...
Before him, finding someone who could keep up was a hard task, and few can push my buttons like he can.
I'm not easily pleased, but get it right and I sometimes struggle to stop cumming "
lol that's no bad thing, the more pleasure the better. |
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"Mine has always been high. Ridiculously so, and it’s just getting worse as I get older
If I go a day without having sex I get grumpy as all hell and if I can’t masturbate to take the edge off then you may as well hide from me because I’ll probably be the devil incarnate "
So how many orgasms a day to keep you satisfied ?! |
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I have sex more often than most/all of my friends. When I have it on tap I'm content and barely masturbate. When it's not I'll actively hunt and masturbate occasionally. I'm equally happy meeting new people socially, so I think a big factor for me is connecting with people, not just fucking. |
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"I have sex more often than most/all of my friends. When I have it on tap I'm content and barely masturbate. When it's not I'll actively hunt and masturbate occasionally. I'm equally happy meeting new people socially, so I think a big factor for me is connecting with people, not just fucking. "
Thanks for answering, so would you say you have an average libido or high/very high? |
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"I have sex more often than most/all of my friends. When I have it on tap I'm content and barely masturbate. When it's not I'll actively hunt and masturbate occasionally. I'm equally happy meeting new people socially, so I think a big factor for me is connecting with people, not just fucking.
Thanks for answering, so would you say you have an average libido or high/very high?"
I'm not sure it's high, but I'm also not in a boring old relationship |
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"I have sex more often than most/all of my friends. When I have it on tap I'm content and barely masturbate. When it's not I'll actively hunt and masturbate occasionally. I'm equally happy meeting new people socially, so I think a big factor for me is connecting with people, not just fucking.
Thanks for answering, so would you say you have an average libido or high/very high?
I'm not sure it's high, but I'm also not in a boring old relationship "
That's a really important factor. Being in a happy relationship |
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