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By *Vine OP Man
over a year ago
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What are people’s thoughts about singles profiles that have pictures of them with other people in?
Do you find it attractive or a distraction? Do you wonder if they have consent? |
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"What are people’s thoughts about singles profiles that have pictures of them with other people in?
Do you find it attractive or a distraction? Do you wonder if they have consent? "
Red flag for sure also shows lack of discretion i believe..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What are people’s thoughts about singles profiles that have pictures of them with other people in?
Do you find it attractive or a distraction? Do you wonder if they have consent? "
It would put me off for sure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We appear on a few couples profiles, they definitely asked us at the time and we oked it. So we assume everyone who has others in their profiles have asked and gotten consent to do so. |
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I don't mind the ones where it's not explicit and just a hand or something, but not those where it's just the bottom inch of someone's cock and the rest is all woman with a not very disguised face |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I personally am not a fan of single profiles showing a sexual act with another person.
I think of the consent aspect and I think of whether they would take pics without the other persons knowledge. I think that they display them as a badge of honour and I don't want to see potential play partners hanging out of a woman. I also don't like to see unprotected sex, so I scrutinise the image to look for a condom...
By the time all of the above goes through my mind the person is not someone of interest to me.
Some pics can look very sexy and artistic but these could be in the friends only section.
Her x
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I have a photo I love with someone else in it; even though it’s not explicit, only their hands, he said I could / should upload it, but I haven’t as it just doesn’t sit right with me
I don’t like seeing other people in single profiles, it does put me off, but everyone runs their profile as they choose |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t really like it - unless it mentions they have a partner & are playing with consent.
Sure, I don’t mind Hotwire scenario taking pictures for Mr to enjoy after. I like surprises, what’s there to be surprised at when you see a DP of some random guy’s?
Less is more sometimes.. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"What are people’s thoughts about singles profiles that have pictures of them with other people in?
Do you find it attractive or a distraction? Do you wonder if they have consent?
Red flag for sure also shows lack of discretion i believe.. "
Agreed unless it’s a leg or something with agreement. I think there’s the odd bit of us here and there.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m not a fan. I don’t need to see someone’s penis in a vagina to believe they are capable of doing so.
I just scroll by but if their profile is full of them it would put me off. |
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By *leeperMan
over a year ago
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"I generally swipe on past those pics as they don't interest me and If a profile is full of them with different women I will avoid chatting
Didn’t think of that tbh thanks ?? "
The emoji didn't come out haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How about someone being dragged on the beach? lol
That’s quite funny! "
Isn't it? 
I rather avoid people being too serious than people with action photos on their profiles |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How about someone being dragged on the beach? lol
That’s quite funny!
Isn't it?
I rather avoid people being too serious than people with action photos on their profiles "
Is it you in the pic? |
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"I get confused by couples profiles with only pictures of her..... makes me wonder if she’s actually single! 
They’re everywhere, always sending me fanny pics too.  "
I’m one of those couples profiles lol
More pics of me than anything - a few of us and a few with our meets ( with consent ) so show we play how we say , but it’s all explained in the profile it’s our way of play he’s totally involved -but not always present x
Apologies _iddlesticks if i am guilty  |
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"I get confused by couples profiles with only pictures of her..... makes me wonder if she’s actually single!
They’re everywhere, always sending me fanny pics too. "
Apologies, I'll start sending you pics of hubby instead xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Couples profiles with pics of only the lady are confusing
Pics showing sex acts a huge turn off for me
Each to there own though,there profile ,there pics |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get a lot of good feedback from women with the pics / videos using a sex toy rather than having pics with other people.
I think men are far too late to the sexy toy game, there would be far less anger in the world... |
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I generally find it irritating, as it doesn't give me what I want, which is to see how someone looks and assess whether I find them attractive or not.
Almost invariably, a single man will show less of himself than he will of the others in the pics, so it also smacks of someone who isn't sensitive to others' needs. That's a red flag, as he'll need to be sensitive this way when meeting.
Once someone is beyond puberty then it's reasonable to assume that we know what sex is, we don't need visual guidance to know that someone knows this and isn't a virgin.
A good rule here would for each photo to have 80% plus of the profile holder as content. They could also be required to add the names of anyone else in the photo, which would probably deter many of them as well as to state the date that consent was given to have them publicly displayed.
It would probably be best to have single profiles only showing photos of themselves, without anyone else but I'm guessing that fab will not move this way. |
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"I get confused by couples profiles with only pictures of her..... makes me wonder if she’s actually single!
They’re everywhere, always sending me fanny pics too.
Apologies, I'll start sending you pics of hubby instead xx"
Now don’t be hasty  |
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By *Vine OP Man
over a year ago
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"I get confused by couples profiles with only pictures of her..... makes me wonder if she’s actually single! "
I get confused if a couple or single woman has lots of pictures with another woman. It’s sometimes difficult to know which woman is the profile owner and which one is the prop. |
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"I get confused by couples profiles with only pictures of her..... makes me wonder if she’s actually single!
I get confused if a couple or single woman has lots of pictures with another woman. It’s sometimes difficult to know which woman is the profile owner and which one is the prop. "
... "Prop" 
It's so true |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What are people’s thoughts about singles profiles that have pictures of them with other people in?
Do you find it attractive or a distraction? Do you wonder if they have consent? "
I expect a single profile to only have photos of that person on it. With a couples profile, I expect to see both parties on it.
Third parties? Personally, if I'm looking at a profile its because I'm curious or interested in the person(or persons) behind the profile. Do I need to see action shots? No.
I would hope that consent has been sought before photos of third parties are splashed all over a profile. But given how the majority of people do not understand how the law works on such things, I doubt consent has always been sought, or offered. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I get confused by couples profiles with only pictures of her..... makes me wonder if she’s actually single!
I get confused if a couple or single woman has lots of pictures with another woman. It’s sometimes difficult to know which woman is the profile owner and which one is the prop. "
Prop vs bait |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mostly off putting. Especially when there' is more of the extra person than the profile person.
Though I have someone's boobs and someone's penis in mine, they are in the minority and both have consented. |
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