So I was laid here bored and started thinking about the way people meet. Dating sites, going out, even people going for walks and seeing each other regular in the gym.
And I my thoughts are that people probably stand better chances of starting a relationship whilst at work. Not sounding bias, but white collar jobs I would say stands high about 80% Chance? I know alot of people especially doing call centre work that never had partners before. Started doing call centre work or some sort of office work, then ended up starting intimate encounters after becoming good friends and lead onto proper loving relationships.
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"So I was laid here bored and started thinking about the way people meet. Dating sites, going out, even people going for walks and seeing each other regular in the gym.
And I my thoughts are that people probably stand better chances of starting a relationship whilst at work. Not sounding bias, but white collar jobs I would say stands high about 80% Chance? I know alot of people especially doing call centre work that never had partners before. Started doing call centre work or some sort of office work, then ended up starting intimate encounters after becoming good friends and lead onto proper loving relationships.
What do you's think?"
If you heard the bitchin, backbiting, squabbling etc that goes on in offices/call-centres you'd have a different opinion...lol...and NOTHING is sacred in those places, its like chinese whispers. " Doris just fetched me a cup of tea".....38 minutes later at the other end of the office " Doris has been shagging Bill from accounts"
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Don't think I have ever dated someone from work. When you are in your twenties you have a wide circle of single friends and they have circles of friends so it's easy to meet new ones. As you get older the circle narrows and I think it is probs then more common to meet people through mutal interests or activities.
Lots of people seem to meet on the web though, these days, but it's probs still mostly through mutual interests. |
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:D Stenson got a point but I suppose it all depends if those two people are good at secrets and get the thrill of sneaking around with others knowing. Going back to each others places on days off after work for a bit or roll play and romp :D.
Fem yeah I suppose your right. The majority of people that look hard through dating sites find nothing then suddenly out the blue through doing something not even related to looking suddenly sets a weird spark off! |
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":D Stenson got a point but I suppose it all depends if those two people are good at secrets and get the thrill of sneaking around with others knowing. Going back to each others places on days off after work for a bit or roll play and romp :D.
Fem yeah I suppose your right. The majority of people that look hard through dating sites find nothing then suddenly out the blue through doing something not even related to looking suddenly sets a weird spark off!"
Without others knowing sorry |
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"So I was laid here bored and started thinking about the way people meet. Dating sites, going out, even people going for walks and seeing each other regular in the gym.
And I my thoughts are that people probably stand better chances of starting a relationship whilst at work. Not sounding bias, but white collar jobs I would say stands high about 80% Chance? I know alot of people especially doing call centre work that never had partners before. Started doing call centre work or some sort of office work, then ended up starting intimate encounters after becoming good friends and lead onto proper loving relationships.
What do you's think?"
Ever heard the saying "don't shit where you eat"
In other words don't mix business with pleasure. Relationships at work when the break down can be horrendous!
That doesn't mean they all do. But for me it's why go looking for trouble.
I have had couples working for me at the call centre I managed and we would have issues over shift patterns, we would have to have them in different teams and it could be difficult when and if there were any performance issues (work related) or when holidays were required.
Of course you can't prevent people getting together but they have to understand the business comes first.
We would accomodate when possible but it would always be an awkward situation, especially if you've had to turn someone else's (a single) down. |
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I will tell you what i think, you never know when love will strike. I dont believe you can "look" for it, it has a habit of finding you. It might be your first girlfriend/boyfriend at 16 you might have to wait until your 50. You could meet them on a swingers site or at church on a sunday. |
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I think more and more meeting on dating sites ..... theres now loads and some do cost alot to be on ..... But i think like that you get to see what people like and get to know them before you meet .. |
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"I will tell you what i think, you never know when love will strike. I dont believe you can "look" for it, it has a habit of finding you. It might be your first girlfriend/boyfriend at 16 you might have to wait until your 50. You could meet them on a swingers site or at church on a sunday."
Your so right there and when it comes ... You know it . i can see where the saying madley in love comes from .. as its like a madness at times being in love.  |
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