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I must be ugly lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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With the current situation that we are in at the minute. It doesn't matter if you message 50 women or not and you get no replies. I used to message now and again and still only receive messages from guys pretending to be women lol. You've just gotta go with the flow it takes time you've got to remember that there are a good amount of percentage of men on here compared to women. Just imagine how many of the women get messages every single day and your message goes down the order. Don't go thinking that you're ugly don't go thinking that they're not into you, not coming onto you don't worry  I don't swing on the gay side |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Message 50 women and lucky to have one reply lol I have better success in bars "
Stop messaging people too much. Concentrate more on your profile text. Say more about you as a person. Use the forums and be respectful. They'll message you if they spot what they like.
PM me with the sort of first message you send and I'll have a read and give my honest opinion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Message 50 women and lucky to have one reply lol I have better success in bars
Stop messaging people too much. Concentrate more on your profile text. Say more about you as a person. Use the forums and be respectful. They'll message you if they spot what they like.
PM me with the sort of first message you send and I'll have a read and give my honest opinion. "
Oh be DIFFERENT.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Message 50 women and lucky to have one reply lol I have better success in bars "
Maybe review the message you sent. Was it a copy and paste or original just to that person. Or maybe you dont match their preferences and need to message less,but more suitable ppl.
If I messaged any 50 women I'm pretty sure atleast 20-25 would reply, even if a polite no ty. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Even though people aren't meeting at the moment it shouldn't stop someone messaging back. Now would be the time to get to know someone, see if there is some sort of attraction personality wise then your good to go when you're allowed. We try to message back even to say that we don't think we're suited. Unless what they message is crap & goes straight to dirty chat then we ignore them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Flip it...
Instead of asking yourself why they're not replying...why would they?
What's special about you?
What makes you stand out?
What makes your message more appealing than the other 4629 in her inbox?
Any man can be successful on fab...you get out what you put in. |
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If you can pull face to face in a bar chances are you’re not unattractive, my money is on the way you approach people on here.
Also, people tend to be more polite face to face, it’s harder to ignore someone in person.
Maybe tweak your profile and your opening messages.
Good luck.
Lou x |
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Watch my videos.
I cover this very subject .... and a few more you may do well to take note of.
Also, 50 women in 6 weeks. That sounds pretty net casty widey to me and I must say I'd be surprised if you found 50 women who you believed you ticked all their boxes after reading their profile and likes/dislikes etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Flip it...
Instead of asking yourself why they're not replying...why would they?
What's special about you?
What makes you stand out?
What makes your message more appealing than the other 4629 in her inbox?
Any man can be successful on fab...you get out what you put in."
This |
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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago
Doire Theas |
Not at all OP it can be very easy to miss a message on here try keep them original I’m usually attracted to the messages that relate to me rather than something you have sent to the last 50 people   good luck  |
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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago
Doire Theas |
"Not at all OP it can be very easy to miss a message on here try keep them original I’m usually attracted to the messages that relate to me rather than something you have sent to the last 50 people good luck
im currently trying something different, im asking certain folk if theyd like a date night meet rather than smash and dash... not much luck so far unfortunately but patience is a virtue they say "
I don’t think you should be asking for any kind of a meet right now  maybe getting to know a few people is a better option |
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People are not meeting and haven't for months. They probably have a waiting list of people who they have wanted to meet since before the virus struck.
If you want regular sex and can get it elsewhere, then you will have a choice. People here have tons of choice and also have mf couples, groups etc for sex as well as choices on others sexuality, where they have probably been there and done that, with the mundane.
People are also here for swinging social interaction. How do you measure up? There's tough competition and you need to stand out and be better for somebody than the others |
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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago
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"Not at all OP it can be very easy to miss a message on here try keep them original I’m usually attracted to the messages that relate to me rather than something you have sent to the last 50 people good luck
im currently trying something different, im asking certain folk if theyd like a date night meet rather than smash and dash... not much luck so far unfortunately but patience is a virtue they say
I don’t think you should be asking for any kind of a meet right now maybe getting to know a few people is a better option "
who said anything about meeting 'right now?' |
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