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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

My bubble fwb is hosting another friend for a few days this week.

I see her quite regularly and this other guy has travelled along way to see her, so I have no problem with it.

But still I'm a bit jealous that SOMEONE ELSE IS HAVING FUN WITH HER RIGHT NOW ... and I'm STUCK HERE WRITING THIS.

All I can say is roll on FRIDAY

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By *ady23Woman over a year ago

Coventry

"My bubble fwb is hosting another friend for a few days this week.

I see her quite regularly and this other guy has travelled along way to see her, so I have no problem with it.

But still I'm a bit jealous that SOMEONE ELSE IS HAVING FUN WITH HER RIGHT NOW ... and I'm STUCK HERE WRITING THIS.

All I can say is roll on FRIDAY

Feeling ur pain. Just think many others are feeling like u tonight. Grab a beer and chill. Aw

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By *iamondCougarWoman over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Take pleasure from the fact she will be with you on Friday and he will be miles away

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

it's a weird old feeling isn't it.

Like, you don't want them not to be enjoying themselves, but at the same time you want them to hate it, stop what they're doing and come begging cap in hand coz they made a mistake and you're the only person they want.

Just me then

In my defence, my head got messed with and I was told one thing often yet got given very different signals by behaviour displayed.

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By *allySlinkyWoman over a year ago

Leeds

"My bubble fwb is hosting another friend for a few days this week.

How can she have two bubble friends ?

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By *edeWoman over a year ago

the abyss

"it's a weird old feeling isn't it.

Just me then

In my defence, my head got messed with and I was told one thing often yet got given very different signals by behaviour displayed."

I completely understand this. It's why I could never go down the FWB route as I'm not sure I could stop myself from getting 'feelings'!

Life isn't easy thats for sure

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

It's her decision and not one she made easily.

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By *orbidden eastMan over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

unfortunately OP that’s how it is we are but human

My advice would be sit back relax have a cup of tea and watch gone in 60 seconds

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My bubble fwb is hosting another friend for a few days this week.

How can she have two bubble friends ?"

That was my first thought too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would be the same I’m a bit of a jealous fucker even down to seeing the guy I like flirt with someone else gives me a jealous pang but I just find ways to manage it and try to not let it bother me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It will soon be Friday

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

"My bubble fwb is hosting another friend for a few days this week.

How can she have two bubble friends ?

That was my first thought too."

And mine, but I've been terribly "follow the rules ya cunt" recently and thought I must be sounding like a right whinge

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"it's a weird old feeling isn't it.

Just me then

In my defence, my head got messed with and I was told one thing often yet got given very different signals by behaviour displayed."

Also me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Least you have a fwb bubble... i don't even have a fwb... nothing since the start of lockdown!

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By *uke olovingmanMan over a year ago

Gravesend

"My bubble fwb is hosting another friend for a few days this week.

How can she have two bubble friends ?"

She's got a big bubble

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"How can she have two bubble friends ?

That was my first thought too"

It's obvious really, she's breaking the rules. Like I said earlier, it was her decision and she felt the circumstances were right. She had agreed not to play if I didn't want her to, and the guy would have been ok with this too. Either way he's still staying at her house, so the rules are broken.

I'm not casting stones at her for it.

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By *luebell888Woman over a year ago

Glasgowish

"My bubble fwb is hosting another friend for a few days this week.

I see her quite regularly and this other guy has travelled along way to see her, so I have no problem with it.

But still I'm a bit jealous that SOMEONE ELSE IS HAVING FUN WITH HER RIGHT NOW ... and I'm STUCK HERE WRITING THIS.

All I can say is roll on FRIDAY

So she is breaking the restrictions rules?. Not sure she will thank you for telling hundreds of us on the forums.

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

"it's a weird old feeling isn't it.

Just me then

In my defence, my head got messed with and I was told one thing often yet got given very different signals by behaviour displayed."

This is so true, you want them to have fun, just not too much fun

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By *allySlinkyWoman over a year ago

Leeds

" Like I said earlier, it was her decision and she felt the circumstances were right. "

But it isn't just her decision. It is against government guidelines, so how can you say the circumstances felt right ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If I had a bubble FWB and he decided to meet someone else, I'd be more concerned about Covid than seeing him again. I wouldn't meet him again, I'd tell him to sod off. But that's just me, I'm following the social distancing guidelines and trying to protect the vulnerable.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

" But it isn't just her decision. It is against government guidelines, so how can you say the circumstances felt right ?"

You make a good and valid point, but it's not really the point of my post which is about feeling left out.

I'd be happy to start another thread on the criminality/ethics of it if you like?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I don't mean to dismiss the seriousness of the situation either.

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By *ily WhiteWoman over a year ago

I understand your feelings OP, and I'm sure many would feel the same...but I'm not sure you're likely to get much sympathy from the legions of people that either haven't got an FWB/partner or haven't been able to see them for the last six long months

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I'd be a bit miffed if my fb was entertaining someone else for a few days but it is what it is! It would make me think twice about meeting them again especially with this bloody virus about.

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By *ikeC81Man over a year ago

harrow

I would feel a bit jealous in a turned on way even more so if she was fucking him

That’s me tho

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By *reat me rightWoman over a year ago

Rotherham

"My bubble fwb is hosting another friend for a few days this week.

How can she have two bubble friends ?

That was my first thought too."

Me 3

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By *apiomanMan over a year ago

Shipley

"My bubble fwb is hosting another friend for a few days this week.

I see her quite regularly and this other guy has travelled along way to see her, so I have no problem with it.

But still I'm a bit jealous that SOMEONE ELSE IS HAVING FUN WITH HER RIGHT NOW ... and I'm STUCK HERE WRITING THIS.

All I can say is roll on FRIDAY

Some of us haven’t had any sex since before lockdown so don’t feel too hard done by.

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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Is the friend on here?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple over a year ago

North West

It's worth noting there is a very similar thread about having FWB plus another partner etc on here, but from a lady protagonist and no-one has questioned bubbles and other arrangements. I'm sure everything is kosher, but it does seem guys get questioned more directly than ladies.

PS: I am a lady (or female, at least).

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I thought the whole point of a fwb was that you're not exclusive to each other. You're friends that sleep together but not committed to a relationship, as there aren't any feelings there. Maybe just a strong liking but nothing else. I can understand the feeling left out but if it really bothers you chat to her or how about you make her your girlfriend. Are you keeping her as your only fwb or have you another??? If you do you might have a cheek being like this . Sorry but this is my view

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By *reat me rightWoman over a year ago

Rotherham

"My bubble fwb is hosting another friend for a few days this week.

How can she have two bubble friends ?

That was my first thought too."

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By *91kMan over a year ago

Maidstone

"My bubble fwb is hosting another friend for a few days this week.

I see her quite regularly and this other guy has travelled along way to see her, so I have no problem with it.

But still I'm a bit jealous that SOMEONE ELSE IS HAVING FUN WITH HER RIGHT NOW ... and I'm STUCK HERE WRITING THIS.

All I can say is roll on FRIDAY

Is she a swinger or someone you're hooking up with? Regardless though, safety would be a concern for me if she has more than one person in her bubble

especially meeting her straight after him, maybe that's just me though?

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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"It's worth noting there is a very similar thread about having FWB plus another partner etc on here, but from a lady protagonist and no-one has questioned bubbles and other arrangements. I'm sure everything is kosher, but it does seem guys get questioned more directly than ladies.

PS: I am a lady (or female, at least). "

Or maybe not everyone has read all threads on the forum

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My bubble fwb is hosting another friend for a few days this week.

How can she have two bubble friends ?"

She can't and that's not what the "bubble" is for just another person breaking restrictions for personal pleasure sticking two fingers up to society.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple over a year ago

North West

PS: I am a lady (or female, at least).

Or maybe not everyone has read all threads on the forum"

This is jolly true, although they were geographically very close when I posted *shrug*

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

PS: I am a lady (or female, at least).

Or maybe not everyone has read all threads on the forum

This is jolly true, although they were geographically very close when I posted *shrug*"

Reading every thread is not compulsory

Having looked at the other OP , she is not saying her FB is in two bubbles, so it isn't the same as this

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

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OK these posts I removed are admitting to breaking Covid rules on a site where at the moment we have rules about Covid

For info, please don't advertise you are breaking covid rules

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