Just what is the mindset of people you've never ever engaged with sending you messages telling you you're def not for them and then blocking you?
Never winked them or messaged them or spoke to them in any way.
Fucking insecure pricks |
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"Just what is the mindset of people you've never ever engaged with sending you messages telling you you're def not for them and then blocking you?
Never winked them or messaged them or spoke to them in any way.
Fucking insecure pricks "
Really???? That is just weird |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most people want to be loved, wanted, liked or at least accepted?
If they can't achieve those, they select the like to be hated option as it gets the same attention! |
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over a year ago
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"Just what is the mindset of people you've never ever engaged with sending you messages telling you you're def not for them and then blocking you?
Never winked them or messaged them or spoke to them in any way.
Fucking insecure pricks "
1. Got more time on their hands
2. Makes them feel better about themselves
3. Insecure idiots
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over a year ago
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"Just what is the mindset of people you've never ever engaged with sending you messages telling you you're def not for them and then blocking you?
Never winked them or messaged them or spoke to them in any way.
Fucking insecure pricks "
You are clearly out of their league and it made them feel insecure. Take it as a massive compliment. ![](/icons/s/2/heart.gif) |
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over a year ago
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"Just what is the mindset of people you've never ever engaged with sending you messages telling you you're def not for them and then blocking you?
Never winked them or messaged them or spoke to them in any way.
Fucking insecure pricks " its when they send something like that and dont block you that gets me.....are they hoping i will beg them to change thier mind ...oh well . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont see the need to get nasty on here whether rejected or otherwise.
If they are not for you or you’re not for them then accept it and move on for fucks sake. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You probably would have rejected them anyway, so they are exactly as you described them.
You are lovely, dont let it bug you xx"
This
Think of it as a positive as they've made themselves shown to you and you can block them and that's one less idiot to worry about. Don't let word affect you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You probably would have rejected them anyway, so they are exactly as you described them.
You are lovely, dont let it bug you xx"
Definitely the case, I've had it a few times before |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ive only had one case of this.. yeah it feels crap. But then i get lots of really lovely messages too.
Just a shame we concentrate one the negative feelings rather than remember the positive experiences and messages.
You know your an inspiration to me x x |
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"ive only had one case of this.. yeah it feels crap. But then i get lots of really lovely messages too.
Just a shame we concentrate one the negative feelings rather than remember the positive experiences and messages.
Soooo cute x
You know your an inspiration to me x x "
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Sorry this happened to you OP, there is no excuse for this sort of behaviour.
They obviously wanted to feel a sense of power and control that they don’t normally get to feel in their sad little lives. |
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over a year ago
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Pay no heed to negative messages they have to be insecure about themselves to take the time to message you saying that they clearly want a response back to make themselves feel important. Just keep being your lovely self.
Knowone has the right to put you down
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just received a message from a guy who thanked me for telling people I'm not meeting so don't ask! I have never engaged with him before. Sarcastic prick. We just have to block and ignore and not let it get to us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just what is the mindset of people you've never ever engaged with sending you messages telling you you're def not for them and then blocking you?
Never winked them or messaged them or spoke to them in any way.
Fucking insecure pricks "
The mindset is to make you irritated and insecure I guess and you putting this thread up will tell them they have achieved their goal if they read this.
There is no point letting things get to you on here just ignore block and move on. |
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I had an opening message from a single guy once saying " I would love to meet you, but you are too fat for my girlfriend".
Such a charmer
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I got one from a guy 20 years outside my age range telling me I was "too BBW" for him.
I agreed, then realised I'd probably done exactly what he was aiming for by responding, so I blocked.
OP, sometimes if people can't get positive attention they will settle for negative.
You've never interacted, it can't possibly be anything to do with you, it's 100% their issue. Pity them and counter-block to make sure they can't message you again in future ![](/icons/s/2/heart.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I brush up reasonably ok lol
Can hold a conversation and having been on here awhile pretty thick skinned now
I do now think perhaps it's time to get photo verified though.....
I find occasionally if you wink / hot list a block happens and be good if a lady explained why before blocking.....
I think it's civil to just say no thank you which gets a good luck in your search back
Saying that on occasion a lady then engages which is a, real tonic |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just what is the mindset of people you've never ever engaged with sending you messages telling you you're def not for them and then blocking you?
Never winked them or messaged them or spoke to them in any way.
Fucking insecure pricks "
At least you get a message saying that. I just find i'm blocked |
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over a year ago
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"Just what is the mindset of people you've never ever engaged with sending you messages telling you you're def not for them and then blocking you?
Never winked them or messaged them or spoke to them in any way.
Fucking insecure pricks
At least you get a message saying that. I just find i'm blocked"
How strange.
It’s almost as if you started a thread asking people to block you... |
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"Just what is the mindset of people you've never ever engaged with sending you messages telling you you're def not for them and then blocking you?
Never winked them or messaged them or spoke to them in any way.
Fucking insecure pricks "
The simple answer is that some people are assholes ![](/icons/rainbow.png) |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
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It would never cross my mind to send anyone a message like that, it's hurtful and rude
I won't be for lots and they won't be for me, best just to avoid those who are not your type rather than make them feel crap
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just imagine how desperately undesirable they must be if they've the time or inclination to spend their time on here sending messages like that . Wee souls. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think half of site have me blocked even tho never spoken to them but hey there lose.
Anyone who thinks body shaming is nice needs a slap with a pipe "
Hey I’ve not blocked you
in a no homo way u seem a good lad ...
qualities right there pal ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Just what is the mindset of people you've never ever engaged with sending you messages telling you you're def not for them and then blocking you?
Never winked them or messaged them or spoke to them in any way.
Fucking insecure pricks "
Ignore them xxx
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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago
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Evie - big cuddle from me. We will never know what is on their minds and unfortunately it’s hard not to focus on a horrible message.
But I think it was the care bear though because Care Bears care. I personally love them . |
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"Just what is the mindset of people you've never ever engaged with sending you messages telling you you're def not for them and then blocking you?
Never winked them or messaged them or spoke to them in any way.
Fucking insecure pricks
The mindset is to make you irritated and insecure I guess and you putting this thread up will tell them they have achieved their goal if they read this.
There is no point letting things get to you on here just ignore block and move on. "
I get what you are saying but I really am nothing but bemused by it all. If I'd have asked them if they liked me I'd get it but just a random message out of the blue.
I hope they do see it and see what a truly odd thing it is to do. |
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"ive only had one case of this.. yeah it feels crap. But then i get lots of really lovely messages too.
Just a shame we concentrate one the negative feelings rather than remember the positive experiences and messages.
You know your an inspiration to me x x "
Awww thank you x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just what is the mindset of people you've never ever engaged with sending you messages telling you you're def not for them and then blocking you?
Never winked them or messaged them or spoke to them in any way.
Fucking insecure pricks "
Sounds that way. Too much time on their hands too. |
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