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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"114 mostly due to my cock request thread yesterday  
Schoolgirl error  "
How many schoolgirls do you know who request dick pics? Please don't answer that!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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42 still working my way though them lol was 240 this morning but profile went say high yesterday made the mistake off puting new pics up and leveing fab open on a browser tab lol oops new record high off 900 profile views lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Couples read them
Then mark unread
They reply to they feel like
Up to them really
I don’t get many messages
I read all of I do
Only polite to reply
But every one is different and I respect that |
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"70 at the moment. I'm gradually working my way through them but usually get bored after the first 20. I tend to ignore my inbox most of the time. "
I've just had one that I can see starts with "hey baby girl" from someone I've never interacted with. 
Can't bring myself to open it.
And that's part of the reason I have to be in the mood to even go through and delete, because just seeing the opening few words of a fair few highly inappropriate messages is enough to get me "man hating" for the day. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"70 at the moment. I'm gradually working my way through them but usually get bored after the first 20. I tend to ignore my inbox most of the time.
I've just had one that I can see starts with "hey baby girl" from someone I've never interacted with.
Can't bring myself to open it.
And that's part of the reason I have to be in the mood to even go through and delete, because just seeing the opening few words of a fair few highly inappropriate messages is enough to get me "man hating" for the day."
Oh that would make me too. I got called a "good girl" the other day Can completely relate to this. Hence why I don't pay much attention to it. Some of it is just vile, some just not even worth my energy. |
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Zero 
Is it only me that gets a little excited when they log in and see that messages is highlighted showing you have a new mail.... only for it to be an automated message saying your site supporter is running out soon |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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461 need a clear out but it's too time consuming as others have said most are the boring 'hi how are you' messages, I only open the ones that get my attention and spark my curiosity |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not here, I have zero, had one today...deleted and blocked unread."
Why delete and block an unread message? Your profile makes no mention of not meeting?
As for me, just one this morning. From a 'couple' asking me to measure my cock and send them proof as they are regularly lied to...mmmm really  |
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Not here, I have zero, had one today...deleted and blocked unread.
Why delete and block an unread message? Your profile makes no mention of not meeting?
As for me, just one this morning. From a 'couple' asking me to measure my cock and send them proof as they are regularly lied to...mmmm really "
Why not delete and block?
If someone has clearly not read the recipients profile and gone in all gung-ho or whatever, then I think that's a fair response.
I don't allow people in my "outside" life that disrespect me, so why should it be acceptable here? |
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Not here, I have zero, had one today...deleted and blocked unread.
Why delete and block an unread message? Your profile makes no mention of not meeting?
As for me, just one this morning. From a 'couple' asking me to measure my cock and send them proof as they are regularly lied to...mmmm really
Why not delete and block?
If someone has clearly not read the recipients profile and gone in all gung-ho or whatever, then I think that's a fair response.
I don't allow people in my "outside" life that disrespect me, so why should it be acceptable here?"
Thanks PP. I was going to explain why but then...no...phuckit, strangers have no right to know anything about me except what I choose to offer. |
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"What is a message ? Oh yeh one of those things you send which causes you to get blocked however polite you were; I gave up on those ages ago (almost)."
The block function here is nothing but a positive one.
I get sent really lovely, polite messages that treat me like I'm a disposable fuck toy. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"600+ as I haven't the time to read/reply to all "
Wow, surely it’s not possible to read 600+ ?
We generally delete all unread on Fridays, a bit like work email so they don’t spoil the weekend, if it’s important they will let you know... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not here, I have zero, had one today...deleted and blocked unread.
Why delete and block an unread message? Your profile makes no mention of not meeting?
Why not delete and block?
If someone has clearly not read the recipients profile and gone in all gung-ho or whatever, then I think that's a fair response.
I don't allow people in my "outside" life that disrespect me, so why should it be acceptable here?
Thanks PP. I was going to explain why but then...no...phuckit, strangers have no right to know anything about me except what I choose to offer."
How have you both managed to misread this? OP you have stated that you deleted and blocked a person who sent you a message. A message that you never opened in the first place to decide whether the author should be blocked?
That is the question
Life was a lot easier when we used carrier pigeons to communicate
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"600+ as I haven't the time to read/reply to all
Wow, surely it’s not possible to read 600+ ?
We generally delete all unread on Fridays, a bit like work email so they don’t spoil the weekend, if it’s important they will let you know..."
I did delete all my messages a few weeks ago, I was a tad d*unk at the time but they have crept up again.
I should maybe try and do as you do x |
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Not here, I have zero, had one today...deleted and blocked unread.
Why delete and block an unread message? Your profile makes no mention of not meeting?
Why not delete and block?
If someone has clearly not read the recipients profile and gone in all gung-ho or whatever, then I think that's a fair response.
I don't allow people in my "outside" life that disrespect me, so why should it be acceptable here?
Thanks PP. I was going to explain why but then...no...phuckit, strangers have no right to know anything about me except what I choose to offer.
How have you both managed to misread this? OP you have stated that you deleted and blocked a person who sent you a message. A message that you never opened in the first place to decide whether the author should be blocked?
That is the question
Life was a lot easier when we used carrier pigeons to communicate
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You know you don't need to actually open a message to see the first few words right?
You know you don't have to read the message to view someone's profile right?
I can easily check the profile of the sender without reading the message, see he is a cheating liar and decide that's someone that I not only don't want to converse with, but also someone that had completely disregarded everything I've taken the time to write on my profile.
It really is that simple. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not here, I have zero, had one today...deleted and blocked unread.
Why delete and block an unread message? Your profile makes no mention of not meeting?
Why not delete and block?
If someone has clearly not read the recipients profile and gone in all gung-ho or whatever, then I think that's a fair response.
I don't allow people in my "outside" life that disrespect me, so why should it be acceptable here?
Thanks PP. I was going to explain why but then...no...phuckit, strangers have no right to know anything about me except what I choose to offer.
How have you both managed to misread this? OP you have stated that you deleted and blocked a person who sent you a message. A message that you never opened in the first place to decide whether the author should be blocked?
That is the question
Life was a lot easier when we used carrier pigeons to communicate
You know you don't need to actually open a message to see the first few words right?
You know you don't have to read the message to view someone's profile right?
I can easily check the profile of the sender without reading the message, see he is a cheating liar and decide that's someone that I not only don't want to converse with, but also someone that had completely disregarded everything I've taken the time to write on my profile.
It really is that simple."
This! I delete unread and block all the time. If they took the time to read my profile before sending the message, they wouldn't land on my block list of the first place. Also anyone that sends FaF, has a cock as their avatar, sends a dick pic or generally vile, earns a place there too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You know you don't need to actually open a message to see the first few words right?
You know you don't have to read the message to view someone's profile right?
I can easily check the profile of the sender without reading the message, see he is a cheating liar and decide that's someone that I not only don't want to converse with, but also someone that had completely disregarded everything I've taken the time to write on my profile.
It really is that simple."
Thank you. So you read the first few words of a message only.
Makes absolute sense that. As you say, very simple  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not here, I have zero, had one today...deleted and blocked unread.
Why delete and block an unread message? Your profile makes no mention of not meeting?
Why not delete and block?
If someone has clearly not read the recipients profile and gone in all gung-ho or whatever, then I think that's a fair response.
I don't allow people in my "outside" life that disrespect me, so why should it be acceptable here?
Thanks PP. I was going to explain why but then...no...phuckit, strangers have no right to know anything about me except what I choose to offer.
How have you both managed to misread this? OP you have stated that you deleted and blocked a person who sent you a message. A message that you never opened in the first place to decide whether the author should be blocked?
That is the question
Life was a lot easier when we used carrier pigeons to communicate
You know you don't need to actually open a message to see the first few words right?
You know you don't have to read the message to view someone's profile right?
I can easily check the profile of the sender without reading the message, see he is a cheating liar and decide that's someone that I not only don't want to converse with, but also someone that had completely disregarded everything I've taken the time to write on my profile.
It really is that simple.
This! I delete unread and block all the time. If they took the time to read my profile before sending the message, they wouldn't land on my block list of the first place. Also anyone that sends FaF, has a cock as their avatar, sends a dick pic or generally vile, earns a place there too. "
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Not here, I have zero, had one today...deleted and blocked unread.
Why delete and block an unread message? Your profile makes no mention of not meeting?
Why not delete and block?
If someone has clearly not read the recipients profile and gone in all gung-ho or whatever, then I think that's a fair response.
I don't allow people in my "outside" life that disrespect me, so why should it be acceptable here?
Thanks PP. I was going to explain why but then...no...phuckit, strangers have no right to know anything about me except what I choose to offer.
How have you both managed to misread this? OP you have stated that you deleted and blocked a person who sent you a message. A message that you never opened in the first place to decide whether the author should be blocked?
That is the question
Life was a lot easier when we used carrier pigeons to communicate
You know you don't need to actually open a message to see the first few words right?
You know you don't have to read the message to view someone's profile right?
I can easily check the profile of the sender without reading the message, see he is a cheating liar and decide that's someone that I not only don't want to converse with, but also someone that had completely disregarded everything I've taken the time to write on my profile.
It really is that simple.
This! I delete unread and block all the time. If they took the time to read my profile before sending the message, they wouldn't land on my block list of the first place. Also anyone that sends FaF, has a cock as their avatar, sends a dick pic or generally vile, earns a place there too.
What about those that have become friends and chatted before? "
Would be SOOOOOO much easier if there was a friend inbox and a stranger inbox. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not here, I have zero, had one today...deleted and blocked unread.
Why delete and block an unread message? Your profile makes no mention of not meeting?
Why not delete and block?
If someone has clearly not read the recipients profile and gone in all gung-ho or whatever, then I think that's a fair response.
I don't allow people in my "outside" life that disrespect me, so why should it be acceptable here?
Thanks PP. I was going to explain why but then...no...phuckit, strangers have no right to know anything about me except what I choose to offer.
How have you both managed to misread this? OP you have stated that you deleted and blocked a person who sent you a message. A message that you never opened in the first place to decide whether the author should be blocked?
That is the question
Life was a lot easier when we used carrier pigeons to communicate
You know you don't need to actually open a message to see the first few words right?
You know you don't have to read the message to view someone's profile right?
I can easily check the profile of the sender without reading the message, see he is a cheating liar and decide that's someone that I not only don't want to converse with, but also someone that had completely disregarded everything I've taken the time to write on my profile.
It really is that simple.
This! I delete unread and block all the time. If they took the time to read my profile before sending the message, they wouldn't land on my block list of the first place. Also anyone that sends FaF, has a cock as their avatar, sends a dick pic or generally vile, earns a place there too.
What about those that have become friends and chatted before?
Would be SOOOOOO much easier if there was a friend inbox and a stranger inbox."
I guess so, I’ve sent messages to friends unaware that they have so many unread messages, on reflection all I’m doing is adding to that number unless they just happen to see it. |
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"It makes me wonder if there’s much point in messaging anyone if there’s 100’s I’d unread messages as all you’re doing is increasing that number. "
I can sift mine pretty quickly if I've got the time and the inclination.
I've been here long enough to recognise FAF from a random or a message worth a follow up from someone interesting.
I had all my filters right up over lockdown,and got very few messages though which was fine.
If it gets unmanageable I'll bring my filters in again.
Top and bottom of it is if I want to chat to you I will.
Most of my best convo and meets have come through the forums anyway
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Not here, I have zero, had one today...deleted and blocked unread.
Why delete and block an unread message? Your profile makes no mention of not meeting?
Why not delete and block?
If someone has clearly not read the recipients profile and gone in all gung-ho or whatever, then I think that's a fair response.
I don't allow people in my "outside" life that disrespect me, so why should it be acceptable here?
Thanks PP. I was going to explain why but then...no...phuckit, strangers have no right to know anything about me except what I choose to offer.
How have you both managed to misread this? OP you have stated that you deleted and blocked a person who sent you a message. A message that you never opened in the first place to decide whether the author should be blocked?
That is the question
Life was a lot easier when we used carrier pigeons to communicate
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I've not misread anything. You want to know why I blocked someone from an unread message and I said I don't have to explain that to a complete stranger. |
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I just can't read them fast enough. I'd be here all day x
