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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
So I’m a bit too chilled out and believe that stuff will happen when the time is right and all that..
How do you behave on here?!?
Go after what you like or wait for it to come to you?!!
2 chilled out people may mean nothing will ever happen... just sayin.... |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Travelling |
A bit between, usually based on my mood and situation.
Definitely lean more towards chilled back and just see how things flow not forcing things too much. But if I see an opportunity or a chance to do something I'll attempt to make it happen. If things are forced too much, it can potentially be worse than letting something progress on its own at its own pace - but at the same time too much of that and it may not go anywhere when all it needed was a small push. |
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
the abyss |
I'm very much a 'wait and see what comes to me' but I'm not sure that's me being chilled or just my rubbish self confidence. I was the same on dating app - would never message first  |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"Hey Saffron
It's a dilemma for sure. I'm still new, but what I'm learning is just to mingle and don't come on too hard.
So a balance I guess "
 I think that’s a nice attitude to take when you’re getting familiar with something new.. often we present ourselves as closed books which is difficult for others to read but by and large it’s a friendly place to make new connections.. good luck x |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"A bit between, usually based on my mood and situation.
Definitely lean more towards chilled back and just see how things flow not forcing things too much. But if I see an opportunity or a chance to do something I'll attempt to make it happen. If things are forced too much, it can potentially be worse than letting something progress on its own at its own pace - but at the same time too much of that and it may not go anywhere when all it needed was a small push. "
Can I push back your duvet cupcake?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey Saffron
It's a dilemma for sure. I'm still new, but what I'm learning is just to mingle and don't come on too hard.
So a balance I guess
I think that’s a nice attitude to take when you’re getting familiar with something new.. often we present ourselves as closed books which is difficult for others to read but by and large it’s a friendly place to make new connections.. good luck x"
Thanks saffron x
Ps - that's a hell of a gin glass lol |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"I'm very much a 'wait and see what comes to me' but I'm not sure that's me being chilled or just my rubbish self confidence. I was the same on dating app - would never message first "
Snap x I’m shit.. but also not needing anything so kinda sat on a fence. |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"Previously I spent loads of time and energy on here which got no results. Now I spend less time and energy with the same outcome but less frustration. "
Balance is important. I feel better for a 6 month break. I now see what I truly missed and don’t need |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"Previously I spent loads of time and energy on here which got no results. Now I spend less time and energy with the same outcome but less frustration. "
Balance is important. I feel better for a 6 month break. I now see what I truly missed and don’t need |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Travelling |
"A bit between, usually based on my mood and situation.
Definitely lean more towards chilled back and just see how things flow not forcing things too much. But if I see an opportunity or a chance to do something I'll attempt to make it happen. If things are forced too much, it can potentially be worse than letting something progress on its own at its own pace - but at the same time too much of that and it may not go anywhere when all it needed was a small push.
Can I push back your duvet cupcake? "
go on then, but not for too long, it's getting a bit cold |
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On here we don't go out seeking people to carry out our sexual fantasies with. We seek out people we get on well with. We know that in general people on here are sexually liberal so finding people we get on with opens up doors by itself.
Some wonderful opportunities have opened up with that approach.
If we meet people we like and it doesn't go beyond that, we're still pleased to know people we like. It's an all-round win. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I feel like there’s genuine connection on both sides then I’ll be fairly open about it and nurture it so that it grows into full blown lust and leads to meeting.
Otherwise I’m not arsed.
I just like to have the craic. |
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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago
London |
"If I feel like there’s genuine connection on both sides then I’ll be fairly open about it and nurture it so that it grows into full blown lust and leads to meeting.
Otherwise I’m not arsed.
I just like to have the craic."
COME ‘ERE SEX GOD! |
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I think I'm a bit of both - generally happy to chill and see who I come across in the course of my wanderings, but happy to pursue someone that piques my interest. I have also been known to go hunting 
Although currently I'm not really interested in meeting anyone new, so I'm probably giving out more "bugger off and leave me alone" vibes than anything else |
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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago
Southampton |
"So I’m a bit too chilled out and believe that stuff will happen when the time is right and all that..
How do you behave on here?!?
Go after what you like or wait for it to come to you?!!
2 chilled out people may mean nothing will ever happen... just sayin.... "
I'm the watey Katie, wait for them come to me, when I've messaged them, no reply. It takes guts for me to message them, a no thank you would do. |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"A bit between, usually based on my mood and situation.
Definitely lean more towards chilled back and just see how things flow not forcing things too much. But if I see an opportunity or a chance to do something I'll attempt to make it happen. If things are forced too much, it can potentially be worse than letting something progress on its own at its own pace - but at the same time too much of that and it may not go anywhere when all it needed was a small push.
Can I push back your duvet cupcake? go on then, but not for too long, it's getting a bit cold"
Ffs.. I’ll toughen you up. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Travelling |
"A bit between, usually based on my mood and situation.
Definitely lean more towards chilled back and just see how things flow not forcing things too much. But if I see an opportunity or a chance to do something I'll attempt to make it happen. If things are forced too much, it can potentially be worse than letting something progress on its own at its own pace - but at the same time too much of that and it may not go anywhere when all it needed was a small push.
Can I push back your duvet cupcake? go on then, but not for too long, it's getting a bit cold
Ffs.. I’ll toughen you up. "
Could a just said warm me up! |
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
the abyss |
"I'm very much a 'wait and see what comes to me' but I'm not sure that's me being chilled or just my rubbish self confidence. I was the same on dating app - would never message first
Snap x I’m shit.. but also not needing anything so kinda sat on a fence. "
To be honest not being able to meet has been a bit of a blessing to me as its taken the pressure off and I've just been able to enjoy chatting and perusing the forums |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"I'm very much a 'wait and see what comes to me' but I'm not sure that's me being chilled or just my rubbish self confidence. I was the same on dating app - would never message first
Snap x I’m shit.. but also not needing anything so kinda sat on a fence.
To be honest not being able to meet has been a bit of a blessing to me as its taken the pressure off and I've just been able to enjoy chatting and perusing the forums "
I feel the same kind of a safety net! |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"So I’m a bit too chilled out and believe that stuff will happen when the time is right and all that..
How do you behave on here?!?
Go after what you like or wait for it to come to you?!!
2 chilled out people may mean nothing will ever happen... just sayin.... I'm the watey Katie, wait for them come to me, when I've messaged them, no reply. It takes guts for me to message them, a no thank you would do. "
Do you think you’re missing out by not being more confident? X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey Saffron
It's a dilemma for sure. I'm still new, but what I'm learning is just to mingle and don't come on too hard.
So a balance I guess "
With a body like that, come on as strong as you like! Haha. Do you come with the shower?! Mrs x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A bit of both. Taking it chilled and being pro-active.
I know posting on the forums gets you noticed even if you don't think anyone has noticed. And I'm more likely to PM someone off of the back of a post and then see what happens.
I think some of the threads about PMing a message to someone can get someone who's not sure to send a message to someone they like.
I do think if there is someone you particularly like you may need to take the initiative sometimes to see if anything would come of it. |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"On here we don't go out seeking people to carry out our sexual fantasies with. We seek out people we get on well with. We know that in general people on here are sexually liberal so finding people we get on with opens up doors by itself.
Some wonderful opportunities have opened up with that approach.
If we meet people we like and it doesn't go beyond that, we're still pleased to know people we like. It's an all-round win. "
I certainly think it helps if you’re very clear on what you’re looking for |
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"I’m not one to sleep with just anyone so I like to find someone similar to me and see if there’s a connection.in a good place right now so what will be will be x
Ahhh you’re adorable "
Stop making me blush saffy,you know I have a soft spot for you!  |
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Never been shy to say I like someone, so it’s a mixture of both for me. Conversation does need to flow naturally though, and feel mutual, if it feels forced I will back away.
No intention of meeting anyone new so my flirting days are on hold |
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I play around being silly buggers a lot, probably far too much at times and I miss things I get told about after the event.
Im a little shy in being forward sometimes but getting there slowly where I'll say what im after. |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"A bit of both. Taking it chilled and being pro-active.
I know posting on the forums gets you noticed even if you don't think anyone has noticed. And I'm more likely to PM someone off of the back of a post and then see what happens.
I think some of the threads about PMing a message to someone can get someone who's not sure to send a message to someone they like.
I do think if there is someone you particularly like you may need to take the initiative sometimes to see if anything would come of it."
Totally blind messaging is awful. Won’t do it. But chats via threads are way easier to see if you can communicate! |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"I play around being silly buggers a lot, probably far too much at times and I miss things I get told about after the event.
Im a little shy in being forward sometimes but getting there slowly where I'll say what im after."
Often the case with those who appear confident. You don’t give that impression at all! X |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"Never been shy to say I like someone, so it’s a mixture of both for me. Conversation does need to flow naturally though, and feel mutual, if it feels forced I will back away.
No intention of meeting anyone new so my flirting days are on hold "
But you’re so good at it!! You need a good night out x |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"I’m a little of both - if someone takes my eye and it’s mutual I will contact via PM. Otherwise I’m happy to just flirt a little and join in the fun via the forums "
You’re a confident lady consistent with how you come across! |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"A bit between, usually based on my mood and situation.
Definitely lean more towards chilled back and just see how things flow not forcing things too much. But if I see an opportunity or a chance to do something I'll attempt to make it happen. If things are forced too much, it can potentially be worse than letting something progress on its own at its own pace - but at the same time too much of that and it may not go anywhere when all it needed was a small push.
Can I push back your duvet cupcake? go on then, but not for too long, it's getting a bit cold
Ffs.. I’ll toughen you up.
Could a just said warm me up! "
That too ..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On here I'd say I'm a introverted gent. In person it's down to how I come across I guess.
I've no idea.
Fab might be wrong for me but the forum the other day about the towing bar make things worthwhile and add a bit of laughter. |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
harrow |
"Tbh I am bad asking and with Covid I really don’t want to ask
Isn’t that a great opportunity to get to know someone with zero pressure though?!!"
I see your point but for me i rarely meet people directly from fab, I go to clubs do for me I miss the watching and being invited and taking with people about clubs
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A bit of both. Taking it chilled and being pro-active.
I know posting on the forums gets you noticed even if you don't think anyone has noticed. And I'm more likely to PM someone off of the back of a post and then see what happens.
I think some of the threads about PMing a message to someone can get someone who's not sure to send a message to someone they like.
I do think if there is someone you particularly like you may need to take the initiative sometimes to see if anything would come of it.
Totally blind messaging is awful. Won’t do it. But chats via threads are way easier to see if you can communicate!"
Not a fan of blind messaging.
I have to have a reason to message - and sometimes that could just be something about a status update from someone on my hotlist, but, more likely to be from a forum post.
And it's not always with the expectation that anything will come of it. It is sometimes purely because I want to tell that particular person something rather than post it on the forum. |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"On here I'd say I'm a introverted gent. In person it's down to how I come across I guess.
I've no idea.
Fab might be wrong for me but the forum the other day about the towing bar make things worthwhile and add a bit of laughter. "
I think you’re definately one that comes across much better in person. |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"I’m a wait and see. I occasionally get brave and message someone but usually I know they’re interested before I do x "
Looks likes many are the same.. makes you wonder how much time is lost with this waiting stuff! |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"I'm chilled. I do send people messages. at the same time, if I get a reply great if not, that's ok as well, I wont send a second message without getting a reply from the first one. "
Sounds like a lovely balance |
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"Never been shy to say I like someone, so it’s a mixture of both for me. Conversation does need to flow naturally though, and feel mutual, if it feels forced I will back away.
No intention of meeting anyone new so my flirting days are on hold
But you’re so good at it!! You need a good night out x"
Here was me thinking I was subtle  A good night out is very much needed been too long x |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"Never been shy to say I like someone, so it’s a mixture of both for me. Conversation does need to flow naturally though, and feel mutual, if it feels forced I will back away.
No intention of meeting anyone new so my flirting days are on hold
But you’re so good at it!! You need a good night out x
Here was me thinking I was subtle A good night out is very much needed been too long x"
Subtle?!?!! Nah mate.. as a southern brick!!!  lets just pretend it’s a big social and go get pissed and dance!!! |
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"I’m a little of both - if someone takes my eye and it’s mutual I will contact via PM. Otherwise I’m happy to just flirt a little and join in the fun via the forums
You’re a confident lady consistent with how you come across! "
Thank you x |
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"Never been shy to say I like someone, so it’s a mixture of both for me. Conversation does need to flow naturally though, and feel mutual, if it feels forced I will back away.
No intention of meeting anyone new so my flirting days are on hold
But you’re so good at it!! You need a good night out x
Here was me thinking I was subtle A good night out is very much needed been too long x
Subtle?!?!! Nah mate.. as a southern brick!!! lets just pretend it’s a big social and go get pissed and dance!!! "
I’m a northern brick disguised as a south one, northerners don’t do subtle Sounds perfect to me, drinking, dancing and laughter |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"Never been shy to say I like someone, so it’s a mixture of both for me. Conversation does need to flow naturally though, and feel mutual, if it feels forced I will back away.
No intention of meeting anyone new so my flirting days are on hold
But you’re so good at it!! You need a good night out x
Here was me thinking I was subtle A good night out is very much needed been too long x
Subtle?!?!! Nah mate.. as a southern brick!!! lets just pretend it’s a big social and go get pissed and dance!!!
I’m a northern brick disguised as a south one, northerners don’t do subtle Sounds perfect to me, drinking, dancing and laughter "
Always room for you ooop here bird when you fancy a break and some northern madness |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always get told that nice things come to those who wait so that’s what I’m going to do, I’ve rejoined Slimming World as I had a kidney transplant in 2009 & my health is very important. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"On here I'd say I'm a introverted gent. In person it's down to how I come across I guess.
I've no idea.
Fab might be wrong for me but the forum the other day about the towing bar make things worthwhile and add a bit of laughter.
I think you’re definately one that comes across much better in person. "
And random? Thanks X |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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When it comes to actually meeting (and I'm talking pre Covid), I'm a bit more... well reticent. I'll message first and openly say I fancy someone but I rarely suggest meeting someone because I don't want them to feel obligated to meet me out of politeness. I think my anxiety makes me a bit more refrained. |
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"Never been shy to say I like someone, so it’s a mixture of both for me. Conversation does need to flow naturally though, and feel mutual, if it feels forced I will back away.
No intention of meeting anyone new so my flirting days are on hold
But you’re so good at it!! You need a good night out x
Here was me thinking I was subtle A good night out is very much needed been too long x
Subtle?!?!! Nah mate.. as a southern brick!!! lets just pretend it’s a big social and go get pissed and dance!!!
I’m a northern brick disguised as a south one, northerners don’t do subtle Sounds perfect to me, drinking, dancing and laughter "
Can you pack me please? I promise to stay away from prosecco;-) |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"I think some proactive attitude can't do harm. People are not mind readers. And it also saves some time. I think when you know "you just know". "
You come across as proactive!! I’m wayyyy to chilled for my own good.. |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"Never been shy to say I like someone, so it’s a mixture of both for me. Conversation does need to flow naturally though, and feel mutual, if it feels forced I will back away.
No intention of meeting anyone new so my flirting days are on hold
But you’re so good at it!! You need a good night out x
Here was me thinking I was subtle A good night out is very much needed been too long x
Subtle?!?!! Nah mate.. as a southern brick!!! lets just pretend it’s a big social and go get pissed and dance!!!
I’m a northern brick disguised as a south one, northerners don’t do subtle Sounds perfect to me, drinking, dancing and laughter
Can you pack me please? I promise to stay away from prosecco;-)"
Pisspot?!? You?!? Never...  I only saw you on water.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I could probably be a bit more proactive to be honest!
Come on Nora love it when you’re on a mission..."
Feel like I’m on mission impossible right now!
New mission underway I think! |
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"Never been shy to say I like someone, so it’s a mixture of both for me. Conversation does need to flow naturally though, and feel mutual, if it feels forced I will back away.
No intention of meeting anyone new so my flirting days are on hold
But you’re so good at it!! You need a good night out x
Here was me thinking I was subtle A good night out is very much needed been too long x
Subtle?!?!! Nah mate.. as a southern brick!!! lets just pretend it’s a big social and go get pissed and dance!!!
I’m a northern brick disguised as a south one, northerners don’t do subtle Sounds perfect to me, drinking, dancing and laughter
Can you pack me please? I promise to stay away from prosecco;-)
Pisspot?!? You?!? Never... I only saw you on water...."
A spirited water  |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"When it comes to actually meeting (and I'm talking pre Covid), I'm a bit more... well reticent. I'll message first and openly say I fancy someone but I rarely suggest meeting someone because I don't want them to feel obligated to meet me out of politeness. I think my anxiety makes me a bit more refrained. "
You come across super confident on here! It’s funny how we vary in private x |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"I could probably be a bit more proactive to be honest!
Come on Nora love it when you’re on a mission...
Feel like I’m on mission impossible right now!
New mission underway I think! "
Come on Nora!!! Back to it!!!! Let’s find you some totty!!! ;
( bloody thing just changed itself to torture ) |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"On here I'd say I'm a introverted gent. In person it's down to how I come across I guess.
I've no idea.
Fab might be wrong for me but the forum the other day about the towing bar make things worthwhile and add a bit of laughter.
I think you’re definately one that comes across much better in person.
And random? Thanks X"
Random is good as you know.. in most circumstances. |
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"So I’m a bit too chilled out and believe that stuff will happen when the time is right and all that..
How do you behave on here?!?
Go after what you like or wait for it to come to you?!!
2 chilled out people may mean nothing will ever happen... just sayin.... "
I'm probably to chilled for fab, I'm not pushy with women but might miss out because of it.
Can't help it and won't change |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"I always get told that nice things come to those who wait so that’s what I’m going to do, I’ve rejoined Slimming World as I had a kidney transplant in 2009 & my health is very important. "
Life’s a bigger picture so good to make your own ti_eline |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I could probably be a bit more proactive to be honest!
Come on Nora love it when you’re on a mission...
Feel like I’m on mission impossible right now!
New mission underway I think!
Come on Nora!!! Back to it!!!! Let’s find you some totty!!! ;
( bloody thing just changed itself to torture )"
shall we go out on the pull in manc! |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"I could probably be a bit more proactive to be honest!
Come on Nora love it when you’re on a mission...
Feel like I’m on mission impossible right now!
New mission underway I think!
Come on Nora!!! Back to it!!!! Let’s find you some totty!!! ;
( bloody thing just changed itself to torture )
shall we go out on the pull in manc!"
Hell yeah!!!! SPURSSSSSSSSSD |
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"Never been shy to say I like someone, so it’s a mixture of both for me. Conversation does need to flow naturally though, and feel mutual, if it feels forced I will back away.
No intention of meeting anyone new so my flirting days are on hold
But you’re so good at it!! You need a good night out x
Here was me thinking I was subtle A good night out is very much needed been too long x
Subtle?!?!! Nah mate.. as a southern brick!!! lets just pretend it’s a big social and go get pissed and dance!!!
I’m a northern brick disguised as a south one, northerners don’t do subtle Sounds perfect to me, drinking, dancing and laughter
Always room for you ooop here bird when you fancy a break and some northern madness "
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"Never been shy to say I like someone, so it’s a mixture of both for me. Conversation does need to flow naturally though, and feel mutual, if it feels forced I will back away.
No intention of meeting anyone new so my flirting days are on hold
But you’re so good at it!! You need a good night out x
Here was me thinking I was subtle A good night out is very much needed been too long x
Subtle?!?!! Nah mate.. as a southern brick!!! lets just pretend it’s a big social and go get pissed and dance!!!
I’m a northern brick disguised as a south one, northerners don’t do subtle Sounds perfect to me, drinking, dancing and laughter
Can you pack me please? I promise to stay away from prosecco;-)"
You could end up looking after me |
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"I could probably be a bit more proactive to be honest!
Come on Nora love it when you’re on a mission...
Feel like I’m on mission impossible right now!
New mission underway I think!
Come on Nora!!! Back to it!!!! Let’s find you some totty!!! ;
( bloody thing just changed itself to torture )
shall we go out on the pull in manc!
Hell yeah!!!! SPURSSSSSSSSSD"
You yelled |
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"Never been shy to say I like someone, so it’s a mixture of both for me. Conversation does need to flow naturally though, and feel mutual, if it feels forced I will back away.
No intention of meeting anyone new so my flirting days are on hold
But you’re so good at it!! You need a good night out x
Here was me thinking I was subtle A good night out is very much needed been too long x
Subtle?!?!! Nah mate.. as a southern brick!!! lets just pretend it’s a big social and go get pissed and dance!!!
I’m a northern brick disguised as a south one, northerners don’t do subtle Sounds perfect to me, drinking, dancing and laughter
Can you pack me please? I promise to stay away from prosecco;-)
You could end up looking after me "
Ah I am very natural mother hen as long as my friend cooperates I'm happy carer |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"I could probably be a bit more proactive to be honest!
Come on Nora love it when you’re on a mission...
Feel like I’m on mission impossible right now!
New mission underway I think!
Come on Nora!!! Back to it!!!! Let’s find you some totty!!! ;
( bloody thing just changed itself to torture )
shall we go out on the pull in manc!
Hell yeah!!!! SPURSSSSSSSSSD
You yelled "
birds night out!!! |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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Never have been and never will be a "hunter"
Have always taken a more laid back, relaxed approach, talk to people, get to know them and see if there's a mutual connection and chemistry there, and letting the flow take us down the paths it will take us and it's not failed me
My flirting days are over, but then they never existed in the first place |
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"I could probably be a bit more proactive to be honest!
Come on Nora love it when you’re on a mission...
Feel like I’m on mission impossible right now!
New mission underway I think!
Come on Nora!!! Back to it!!!! Let’s find you some totty!!! ;
( bloody thing just changed itself to torture )
shall we go out on the pull in manc!
Hell yeah!!!! SPURSSSSSSSSSD
You yelled
birds night out!!! "
I’ve got my heels ready |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"Never been shy to say I like someone, so it’s a mixture of both for me. Conversation does need to flow naturally though, and feel mutual, if it feels forced I will back away.
No intention of meeting anyone new so my flirting days are on hold
But you’re so good at it!! You need a good night out x
Here was me thinking I was subtle A good night out is very much needed been too long x
Subtle?!?!! Nah mate.. as a southern brick!!! lets just pretend it’s a big social and go get pissed and dance!!!
I’m a northern brick disguised as a south one, northerners don’t do subtle Sounds perfect to me, drinking, dancing and laughter
Can you pack me please? I promise to stay away from prosecco;-)
You could end up looking after me
Ah I am very natural mother hen as long as my friend cooperates I'm happy carer"
Last time I saw you you were a hilarious cross eyed bambi!! |
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"On here I'd say I'm a introverted gent. In person it's down to how I come across I guess.
I've no idea.
Fab might be wrong for me but the forum the other day about the towing bar make things worthwhile and add a bit of laughter.
I think you’re definately one that comes across much better in person.
And random? Thanks X
Random is good as you know.. in most circumstances."
I do |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"Never have been and never will be a "hunter"
Have always taken a more laid back, relaxed approach, talk to people, get to know them and see if there's a mutual connection and chemistry there, and letting the flow take us down the paths it will take us and it's not failed me
My flirting days are over, but then they never existed in the first place "
Mine neither.. I think I’m a bit of a cavewoman.. |
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"I could probably be a bit more proactive to be honest!
Come on Nora love it when you’re on a mission...
Feel like I’m on mission impossible right now!
New mission underway I think!
Come on Nora!!! Back to it!!!! Let’s find you some totty!!! ;
( bloody thing just changed itself to torture )
shall we go out on the pull in manc!
Hell yeah!!!! SPURSSSSSSSSSD
You yelled
birds night out!!! "
I have a tutu and an 80’s wig,can I tag along!!?? |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"I could probably be a bit more proactive to be honest!
Come on Nora love it when you’re on a mission...
Feel like I’m on mission impossible right now!
New mission underway I think!
Come on Nora!!! Back to it!!!! Let’s find you some totty!!! ;
( bloody thing just changed itself to torture )
shall we go out on the pull in manc!
Hell yeah!!!! SPURSSSSSSSSSD
You yelled
birds night out!!!
I have a tutu and an 80’s wig,can I tag along!!?? "
Don’t mention wigs... hell yeah.. I’ll bring the parka and the swagger. |
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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago
The Land that time forgot (Norfolk) |
"So I’m a bit too chilled out and believe that stuff will happen when the time is right and all that..
How do you behave on here?!?
Go after what you like or wait for it to come to you?!!
2 chilled out people may mean nothing will ever happen... just sayin.... "
I'm cool as a cucumber but nobody wants my cucumber. |
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"I could probably be a bit more proactive to be honest!
Come on Nora love it when you’re on a mission...
Feel like I’m on mission impossible right now!
New mission underway I think!
Come on Nora!!! Back to it!!!! Let’s find you some totty!!! ;
( bloody thing just changed itself to torture )
shall we go out on the pull in manc!
Hell yeah!!!! SPURSSSSSSSSSD
You yelled
birds night out!!!
I have a tutu and an 80’s wig,can I tag along!!?? "
Saff likes a wig |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"So I’m a bit too chilled out and believe that stuff will happen when the time is right and all that..
How do you behave on here?!?
Go after what you like or wait for it to come to you?!!
2 chilled out people may mean nothing will ever happen... just sayin....
I'm cool as a cucumber but nobody wants my cucumber."
You are cool as f*** red wants it. You’re a lucky man! |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"I could probably be a bit more proactive to be honest!
Come on Nora love it when you’re on a mission...
Feel like I’m on mission impossible right now!
New mission underway I think!
Come on Nora!!! Back to it!!!! Let’s find you some totty!!! ;
( bloody thing just changed itself to torture )
shall we go out on the pull in manc!
Hell yeah!!!! SPURSSSSSSSSSD
You yelled
birds night out!!!
I have a tutu and an 80’s wig,can I tag along!!??
Don’t mention wigs... hell yeah.. I’ll bring the parka and the swagger."
Is it my imaginatttttioon.. |
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"I could probably be a bit more proactive to be honest!
Come on Nora love it when you’re on a mission...
Feel like I’m on mission impossible right now!
New mission underway I think!
Come on Nora!!! Back to it!!!! Let’s find you some totty!!! ;
( bloody thing just changed itself to torture )
shall we go out on the pull in manc!
Hell yeah!!!! SPURSSSSSSSSSD
You yelled
birds night out!!!
I have a tutu and an 80’s wig,can I tag along!!??
Don’t mention wigs... hell yeah.. I’ll bring the parka and the swagger."
I’m there! |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"I could probably be a bit more proactive to be honest!
Come on Nora love it when you’re on a mission...
Feel like I’m on mission impossible right now!
New mission underway I think!
Come on Nora!!! Back to it!!!! Let’s find you some totty!!! ;
( bloody thing just changed itself to torture )
shall we go out on the pull in manc!
Hell yeah!!!! SPURSSSSSSSSSD
You yelled
birds night out!!!
I have a tutu and an 80’s wig,can I tag along!!??
Saff likes a wig "
Errrrrrrr I think we both do cute one!!!! |
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"I could probably be a bit more proactive to be honest!
Come on Nora love it when you’re on a mission...
Feel like I’m on mission impossible right now!
New mission underway I think!
Come on Nora!!! Back to it!!!! Let’s find you some totty!!! ;
( bloody thing just changed itself to torture )
shall we go out on the pull in manc!
Hell yeah!!!! SPURSSSSSSSSSD
You yelled
birds night out!!!
I have a tutu and an 80’s wig,can I tag along!!??
Saff likes a wig "
Do tell!!! |
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"I could probably be a bit more proactive to be honest!
Come on Nora love it when you’re on a mission...
Feel like I’m on mission impossible right now!
New mission underway I think!
Come on Nora!!! Back to it!!!! Let’s find you some totty!!! ;
( bloody thing just changed itself to torture )
shall we go out on the pull in manc!
Hell yeah!!!! SPURSSSSSSSSSD
You yelled
birds night out!!!
I have a tutu and an 80’s wig,can I tag along!!??
Don’t mention wigs... hell yeah.. I’ll bring the parka and the swagger.
I’m there! "
Room for a quiet, well-behaved one on this night out?? |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"I could probably be a bit more proactive to be honest!
Come on Nora love it when you’re on a mission...
Feel like I’m on mission impossible right now!
New mission underway I think!
Come on Nora!!! Back to it!!!! Let’s find you some totty!!! ;
( bloody thing just changed itself to torture )
shall we go out on the pull in manc!
Hell yeah!!!! SPURSSSSSSSSSD
You yelled
birds night out!!!
I have a tutu and an 80’s wig,can I tag along!!??
Don’t mention wigs... hell yeah.. I’ll bring the parka and the swagger.
I’m there!
Room for a quiet, well-behaved one on this night out?? "
Yes and you’ll be welcome too! |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"I could probably be a bit more proactive to be honest!
Come on Nora love it when you’re on a mission...
Feel like I’m on mission impossible right now!
New mission underway I think!
Come on Nora!!! Back to it!!!! Let’s find you some totty!!! ;
( bloody thing just changed itself to torture )
shall we go out on the pull in manc!
Hell yeah!!!! SPURSSSSSSSSSD
You yelled
birds night out!!!
I have a tutu and an 80’s wig,can I tag along!!??
Don’t mention wigs... hell yeah.. I’ll bring the parka and the swagger.
Is it my imaginatttttioon.. "
Christ I’m glad I gave up the fags... such a Manc cliche.. |
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"I could probably be a bit more proactive to be honest!
Come on Nora love it when you’re on a mission...
Feel like I’m on mission impossible right now!
New mission underway I think!
Come on Nora!!! Back to it!!!! Let’s find you some totty!!! ;
( bloody thing just changed itself to torture )
shall we go out on the pull in manc!
Hell yeah!!!! SPURSSSSSSSSSD
You yelled
birds night out!!!
I have a tutu and an 80’s wig,can I tag along!!??
Don’t mention wigs... hell yeah.. I’ll bring the parka and the swagger.
I’m there!
Room for a quiet, well-behaved one on this night out?? "
Quiet and what?! |
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"I could probably be a bit more proactive to be honest!
Come on Nora love it when you’re on a mission...
Feel like I’m on mission impossible right now!
New mission underway I think!
Come on Nora!!! Back to it!!!! Let’s find you some totty!!! ;
( bloody thing just changed itself to torture )
shall we go out on the pull in manc!
Hell yeah!!!! SPURSSSSSSSSSD
You yelled
birds night out!!!
I have a tutu and an 80’s wig,can I tag along!!??
Don’t mention wigs... hell yeah.. I’ll bring the parka and the swagger.
Is it my imaginatttttioon..
Christ I’m glad I gave up the fags... such a Manc cliche.."
You love it!! |
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"I could probably be a bit more proactive to be honest!
Come on Nora love it when you’re on a mission...
Feel like I’m on mission impossible right now!
New mission underway I think!
Come on Nora!!! Back to it!!!! Let’s find you some totty!!! ;
( bloody thing just changed itself to torture )
shall we go out on the pull in manc!
Hell yeah!!!! SPURSSSSSSSSSD
You yelled
birds night out!!!
I have a tutu and an 80’s wig,can I tag along!!??
Don’t mention wigs... hell yeah.. I’ll bring the parka and the swagger.
I’m there!
Room for a quiet, well-behaved one on this night out?? "
Quiet ? We shall see about that |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"We try to go after it but unfortunately we have no choice but to sit in the wings and wait.... Kind of like a unused substitute  "
Hopefully things will change once the rules change it’s a weird time but good to get to know people without pressure x |
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"I could probably be a bit more proactive to be honest!
Come on Nora love it when you’re on a mission...
Feel like I’m on mission impossible right now!
New mission underway I think!
Come on Nora!!! Back to it!!!! Let’s find you some totty!!! ;
( bloody thing just changed itself to torture )
shall we go out on the pull in manc!
Hell yeah!!!! SPURSSSSSSSSSD
You yelled
birds night out!!!
I have a tutu and an 80’s wig,can I tag along!!??
Don’t mention wigs... hell yeah.. I’ll bring the parka and the swagger.
I’m there!
Room for a quiet, well-behaved one on this night out??
Yes and you’ll be welcome too! "
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"I could probably be a bit more proactive to be honest!
Come on Nora love it when you’re on a mission...
Feel like I’m on mission impossible right now!
New mission underway I think!
Come on Nora!!! Back to it!!!! Let’s find you some totty!!! ;
( bloody thing just changed itself to torture )
shall we go out on the pull in manc!
Hell yeah!!!! SPURSSSSSSSSSD
You yelled
birds night out!!!
I have a tutu and an 80’s wig,can I tag along!!??
Don’t mention wigs... hell yeah.. I’ll bring the parka and the swagger.
Is it my imaginatttttioon..
Christ I’m glad I gave up the fags... such a Manc cliche..
You love it!! "
Im a walking cliche... |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"I could probably be a bit more proactive to be honest!
Come on Nora love it when you’re on a mission...
Feel like I’m on mission impossible right now!
New mission underway I think!
Come on Nora!!! Back to it!!!! Let’s find you some totty!!! ;
( bloody thing just changed itself to torture )
shall we go out on the pull in manc!
Hell yeah!!!! SPURSSSSSSSSSD
You yelled
birds night out!!!
I have a tutu and an 80’s wig,can I tag along!!??
Don’t mention wigs... hell yeah.. I’ll bring the parka and the swagger.
Is it my imaginatttttioon..
Christ I’m glad I gave up the fags... such a Manc cliche.."
Didn't manage the alcohol though |
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"I could probably be a bit more proactive to be honest!
Come on Nora love it when you’re on a mission...
Feel like I’m on mission impossible right now!
New mission underway I think!
Come on Nora!!! Back to it!!!! Let’s find you some totty!!! ;
( bloody thing just changed itself to torture )
shall we go out on the pull in manc!
Hell yeah!!!! SPURSSSSSSSSSD
You yelled
birds night out!!!
I have a tutu and an 80’s wig,can I tag along!!??
Don’t mention wigs... hell yeah.. I’ll bring the parka and the swagger.
Is it my imaginatttttioon..
Christ I’m glad I gave up the fags... such a Manc cliche..
You love it!!
Im a walking cliche... "
Na you’re not too bad saff |
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