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God loves a trier!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You never reply and I send you hundreds of messages every day. One reply. Just one. Please. Please. Please. Please. Please..."
No, because you send me the wrong messages  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes many do, but rather that than show no effort at all. If you can walk the tightrope between trying too hard and trying too little then you're doing right. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You never reply and I send you hundreds of messages every day. One reply. Just one. Please. Please. Please. Please. Please...
No, because you send me the wrong messages "
 But since I did I've now seen you in a new light... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You never reply and I send you hundreds of messages every day. One reply. Just one. Please. Please. Please. Please. Please...
No, because you send me the wrong messages
But since I did I've now seen you in a new light..."
I still won't reply  |
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By *Vine OP Man
over a year ago
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"I prefer nonchalance in a man when it pertains to sexual activity.
I only like keen men when it comes to matters of the heart."
If you like I could give you a damn good seeing to! But I’m fine if you don’t. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But do you?
Do some people try too hard on here?
What are the indicators that someone is trying too hard? Trying too hard to do what?
In the forums mainly "
Ah. A dig at certain forum users. Got ya  |
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"But do you?
Do some people try too hard on here?
What are the indicators that someone is trying too hard? Trying too hard to do what?
In the forums mainly "
Trying too hard to do what, OP? Flirt? Be liked? Be controversial? Be noticed? We need specifics 
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"But do you?
Do some people try too hard on here?
What are the indicators that someone is trying too hard? Trying too hard to do what?
In the forums mainly
Trying too hard to do what, OP? Flirt? Be liked? Be controversial? Be noticed? We need specifics
Mrs TMN x"
Thank you Mrs TMN I was just going to ask the same type of question  |
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By *Vine OP Man
over a year ago
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"But do you?
Do some people try too hard on here?
What are the indicators that someone is trying too hard? Trying too hard to do what?
In the forums mainly
Trying too hard to do what, OP? Flirt? Be liked? Be controversial? Be noticed? We need specifics
Mrs TMN x"
You can pick any. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Iwant what is not available... So if you are a trier, you are already off my list lol"
*takes a note* send a message every six months not every six minutes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People show keeness in different ways, doesnt have to be a trying to hard could just be an excitability that has to go somewhere.  "
I can relate to that. |
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"But do you?
Do some people try too hard on here?
What are the indicators that someone is trying too hard? Trying too hard to do what?
In the forums mainly
Trying too hard to do what, OP? Flirt? Be liked? Be controversial? Be noticed? We need specifics
Mrs TMN x
You can pick any. "
But doesnt everyone give the same advice to people. Get involved in the forums, keep TRYING because new people, and older profiles, often get ignored x  |
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"But do you?
Do some people try too hard on here?
What are the indicators that someone is trying too hard? Trying too hard to do what?
In the forums mainly
Trying too hard to do what, OP? Flirt? Be liked? Be controversial? Be noticed? We need specifics
Mrs TMN x
You can pick any.
But doesnt everyone give the same advice to people. Get involved in the forums, keep TRYING because new people, and older profiles, often get ignored x "
Exactly, aren’t we trying to be inclusive to all site users? If we all piped down the forum would be dead surely 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But do you?
Do some people try too hard on here?
What are the indicators that someone is trying too hard? Trying too hard to do what?
In the forums mainly
Trying too hard to do what, OP? Flirt? Be liked? Be controversial? Be noticed? We need specifics
Mrs TMN x
You can pick any.
But doesnt everyone give the same advice to people. Get involved in the forums, keep TRYING because new people, and older profiles, often get ignored x "
It's all a conundrum.
The only answer is just be yourself.
Don't try to be what you think someone wants.
If you are yourself then those who will want to chat/meet with you will find you. And you may be surprised at who that turns out to be.
But there will be false starts and blind alleys (and maybe a few boobie traps) as well those who will help you find your way through the maze |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But do you?
Do some people try too hard on here?
What are the indicators that someone is trying too hard? Trying too hard to do what?
In the forums mainly
Trying too hard to do what, OP? Flirt? Be liked? Be controversial? Be noticed? We need specifics
Mrs TMN x
You can pick any.
But doesnt everyone give the same advice to people. Get involved in the forums, keep TRYING because new people, and older profiles, often get ignored x
Exactly, aren’t we trying to be inclusive to all site users? If we all piped down the forum would be dead surely
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I keep trying to be George for you One day you will notice... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Try too hard to be twats? I think it comes naturally to many on here...
I can be a twat without even trying "
One person's twat is another person's studmuffin and vice versa
We're all twats one way or another |
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"Try too hard to be twats? I think it comes naturally to many on here...
I can be a twat without even trying
One person's twat is another person's studmuffin and vice versa
We're all twats one way or another "
True that |
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"But do you?
Do some people try too hard on here?
What are the indicators that someone is trying too hard? Trying too hard to do what?
In the forums mainly
Trying too hard to do what, OP? Flirt? Be liked? Be controversial? Be noticed? We need specifics
Mrs TMN x
You can pick any. "
What do you think, OP? |
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"But do you?
Do some people try too hard on here?
What are the indicators that someone is trying too hard? Trying too hard to do what?
In the forums mainly
Trying too hard to do what, OP? Flirt? Be liked? Be controversial? Be noticed? We need specifics
Mrs TMN x
You can pick any.
But doesnt everyone give the same advice to people. Get involved in the forums, keep TRYING because new people, and older profiles, often get ignored x
Exactly, aren’t we trying to be inclusive to all site users? If we all piped down the forum would be dead surely
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think initially newbies try hard just to be noticed, but that usually settles down after a while. For the old timers (mentioned no names here lol), if they weren't trying hard, to keep the threads rolling on, think it would be a quiet place, just an opinion  |
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It's all very subjective, and the answer to your OP is down to individual perception of what others aims are and how they attempt to achieve those aims. There are a myriad of different personalities on here - it makes for interesting people watching at times |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes people try far too hard. Be it trying to meet or begging for attention. Some are cringeworthy.
Harry Maguire from lifting a Cup to finding a Cop "
He was defending his sister!! |
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I think you will actually find if you analyse closely (or not that closely) that the "try hards" aren't REALLY trying, more "pot luck genitals in hand blind hope" and at times with eau de desperation adorning their cuffs.
It's less "try" and more a persistent lack of thought or effort. |
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"But do you?
Do some people try too hard on here?
What are the indicators that someone is trying too hard? Trying too hard to do what?
In the forums mainly
Trying too hard to do what, OP? Flirt? Be liked? Be controversial? Be noticed? We need specifics
Mrs TMN x
You can pick any. "
This is a complex question with many aspects to it!
I think it depends on the individual and what they are looking for from fab. Rather than "trying too hard" I'd frame it as getting what you want from your interactions.
Some people want a bit of a flirt, some people want serious discussions, some people want to make friends, some people want to explore fantasies, some people want to be controversial, some people want to get their rocks off.
If you are here looking for a specific outcome, but you're not achieving it, I guess you could be trying too hard, or just going about it in the wrong way.
Have I thought too hard about this answer? Probably
Mrs TMN x |
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