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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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You have speaking to the other person for ages, you go out for drinks. Get on like a house on fire and snog each other’s face off most of the night. And also when you leave each other.
Yet she doesn’t want to see you again?
What went wrong?
In fact fuck it. Yeah it wasn’t right from the start obviously. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe you weren't that great a kisser. The snogging before you parted being her final test of you. I very much doubt it but whatever it was, fuck it, it wasn't meant to be  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You have speaking to the other person for ages, you go out for drinks. Get on like a house on fire and snog each other’s face off most of the night. And also when you leave each other.
Yet she doesn’t want to see you again?
What went wrong?
In fact fuck it. Yeah it wasn’t right from the start obviously. "
It's horrible isn't it 
Happened to me too and it turned out he was in a relationship |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You have speaking to the other person for ages, you go out for drinks. Get on like a house on fire and snog each other’s face off most of the night. And also when you leave each other.
Yet she doesn’t want to see you again?
What went wrong?
In fact fuck it. Yeah it wasn’t right from the start obviously.
It's horrible isn't it
Happened to me too and it turned out he was in a relationship"
I’d rather her come out with a good reason than lead me on all night. 
At least say what it is  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You have speaking to the other person for ages, you go out for drinks. Get on like a house on fire and snog each other’s face off most of the night. And also when you leave each other.
Yet she doesn’t want to see you again?
What went wrong?
In fact fuck it. Yeah it wasn’t right from the start obviously.
It's horrible isn't it
Happened to me too and it turned out he was in a relationship
I’d rather her come out with a good reason than lead me on all night.
At least say what it is "
Yeah exactly, it's not nice, at least have the decency to say.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You have speaking to the other person for ages, you go out for drinks. Get on like a house on fire and snog each other’s face off most of the night. And also when you leave each other.
Yet she doesn’t want to see you again?
What went wrong?
In fact fuck it. Yeah it wasn’t right from the start obviously.
It's horrible isn't it
Happened to me too and it turned out he was in a relationship
I’d rather her come out with a good reason than lead me on all night.
At least say what it is "
They never do, it’s easier for them to bottle it and ignore you |
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"You have speaking to the other person for ages, you go out for drinks. Get on like a house on fire and snog each other’s face off most of the night. And also when you leave each other.
Yet she doesn’t want to see you again?
What went wrong?
In fact fuck it. Yeah it wasn’t right from the start obviously.
It's horrible isn't it
Happened to me too and it turned out he was in a relationship
I’d rather her come out with a good reason than lead me on all night.
At least say what it is "
In the nicest possible way maybe she just didn’t want to.. for whatever reason. As is everyone’s right.. I haven’t shagged everyone I’ve kissed. It was a social.. it ended there. Sometimes that’s just it. There’s no great secret, maybe she just didn’t want sex. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You have speaking to the other person for ages, you go out for drinks. Get on like a house on fire and snog each other’s face off most of the night. And also when you leave each other.
Yet she doesn’t want to see you again?
What went wrong?
In fact fuck it. Yeah it wasn’t right from the start obviously.
It's horrible isn't it
Happened to me too and it turned out he was in a relationship
I’d rather her come out with a good reason than lead me on all night.
At least say what it is
In the nicest possible way maybe she just didn’t want to.. for whatever reason. As is everyone’s right.. I haven’t shagged everyone I’ve kissed. It was a social.. it ended there. Sometimes that’s just it. There’s no great secret, maybe she just didn’t want sex. "
That is not what I’m getting at. In fact I probably posted because I just wanted a rant. I wasn’t expecting a kiss for starters. At one point, it just felt right so I initiated one and then as the night carried on so did she. And even at the end of the night she wanted one. And she was even talking about meeting up, so why be like..., let me lead you into this way of thinking to then fuck you off?
Tbh I’m done. Fuck it. Next. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You have speaking to the other person for ages, you go out for drinks. Get on like a house on fire and snog each other’s face off most of the night. And also when you leave each other.
Yet she doesn’t want to see you again?
What went wrong?
In fact fuck it. Yeah it wasn’t right from the start obviously.
It's horrible isn't it
Happened to me too and it turned out he was in a relationship
I’d rather her come out with a good reason than lead me on all night.
At least say what it is "
Why do you get to decide whether she has a good reason or not?
Like all things on Fab, take it as an "I'm not interested" for whatever her personal reasons are and move on. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You have speaking to the other person for ages, you go out for drinks. Get on like a house on fire and snog each other’s face off most of the night. And also when you leave each other.
Yet she doesn’t want to see you again?
What went wrong?
In fact fuck it. Yeah it wasn’t right from the start obviously.
It's horrible isn't it
Happened to me too and it turned out he was in a relationship
I’d rather her come out with a good reason than lead me on all night.
At least say what it is
Why do you get to decide whether she has a good reason or not?
Like all things on Fab, take it as an "I'm not interested" for whatever her personal reasons are and move on."
Never met her through fab, but fair point. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You have speaking to the other person for ages, you go out for drinks. Get on like a house on fire and snog each other’s face off most of the night. And also when you leave each other.
Yet she doesn’t want to see you again?
What went wrong?
In fact fuck it. Yeah it wasn’t right from the start obviously. "
It could be anything.
She may idealising you in her fantasies, maybe it was the stress, or just she wanted to fuck you just once and bye.
Dont take it too personally. It happens |
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"You have speaking to the other person for ages, you go out for drinks. Get on like a house on fire and snog each other’s face off most of the night. And also when you leave each other.
Yet she doesn’t want to see you again?
What went wrong?
In fact fuck it. Yeah it wasn’t right from the start obviously.
It's horrible isn't it
Happened to me too and it turned out he was in a relationship
I’d rather her come out with a good reason than lead me on all night.
At least say what it is
In the nicest possible way maybe she just didn’t want to.. for whatever reason. As is everyone’s right.. I haven’t shagged everyone I’ve kissed. It was a social.. it ended there. Sometimes that’s just it. There’s no great secret, maybe she just didn’t want sex.
That is not what I’m getting at. In fact I probably posted because I just wanted a rant. I wasn’t expecting a kiss for starters. At one point, it just felt right so I initiated one and then as the night carried on so did she. And even at the end of the night she wanted one. And she was even talking about meeting up, so why be like..., let me lead you into this way of thinking to then fuck you off?
Tbh I’m done. Fuck it. Next. "
Do you watch friends? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You have speaking to the other person for ages, you go out for drinks. Get on like a house on fire and snog each other’s face off most of the night. And also when you leave each other.
Yet she doesn’t want to see you again?
What went wrong?
In fact fuck it. Yeah it wasn’t right from the start obviously.
It's horrible isn't it
Happened to me too and it turned out he was in a relationship
I’d rather her come out with a good reason than lead me on all night.
At least say what it is
In the nicest possible way maybe she just didn’t want to.. for whatever reason. As is everyone’s right.. I haven’t shagged everyone I’ve kissed. It was a social.. it ended there. Sometimes that’s just it. There’s no great secret, maybe she just didn’t want sex.
That is not what I’m getting at. In fact I probably posted because I just wanted a rant. I wasn’t expecting a kiss for starters. At one point, it just felt right so I initiated one and then as the night carried on so did she. And even at the end of the night she wanted one. And she was even talking about meeting up, so why be like..., let me lead you into this way of thinking to then fuck you off?
Tbh I’m done. Fuck it. Next.
Do you watch friends?"
I have done yeah? |
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"You have speaking to the other person for ages, you go out for drinks. Get on like a house on fire and snog each other’s face off most of the night. And also when you leave each other.
Yet she doesn’t want to see you again?
What went wrong?
In fact fuck it. Yeah it wasn’t right from the start obviously.
It's horrible isn't it
Happened to me too and it turned out he was in a relationship
I’d rather her come out with a good reason than lead me on all night.
At least say what it is
In the nicest possible way maybe she just didn’t want to.. for whatever reason. As is everyone’s right.. I haven’t shagged everyone I’ve kissed. It was a social.. it ended there. Sometimes that’s just it. There’s no great secret, maybe she just didn’t want sex.
That is not what I’m getting at. In fact I probably posted because I just wanted a rant. I wasn’t expecting a kiss for starters. At one point, it just felt right so I initiated one and then as the night carried on so did she. And even at the end of the night she wanted one. And she was even talking about meeting up, so why be like..., let me lead you into this way of thinking to then fuck you off?
Tbh I’m done. Fuck it. Next.
Do you watch friends?
I have done yeah?"
There’s an episode when chandler says ‘I’ll call you’ every time he sees Janice..some humans are just like that. Well intentioned but just not meant to be. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You have speaking to the other person for ages, you go out for drinks. Get on like a house on fire and snog each other’s face off most of the night. And also when you leave each other.
Yet she doesn’t want to see you again?
What went wrong?
In fact fuck it. Yeah it wasn’t right from the start obviously. "
It's not nice O P especially when you thought that you both hit it off,I'd rant to if I got no explanation to way,we live&learn though |
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"You have speaking to the other person for ages, you go out for drinks. Get on like a house on fire and snog each other’s face off most of the night. And also when you leave each other.
Yet she doesn’t want to see you again?
What went wrong?
In fact fuck it. Yeah it wasn’t right from the start obviously.
It's horrible isn't it
Happened to me too and it turned out he was in a relationship
I’d rather her come out with a good reason than lead me on all night.
At least say what it is "
she has said she doesnt want to see you again. That isn't leading you on. I've met guys at a club.. had sex and once was enough. I had no intention of repeating the experience so I tell them. Would you rather she kept saying she was busy and making excuses not to see you again? |
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"You have speaking to the other person for ages, you go out for drinks. Get on like a house on fire and snog each other’s face off most of the night. And also when you leave each other.
Yet she doesn’t want to see you again?
What went wrong?
In fact fuck it. Yeah it wasn’t right from the start obviously.
It's horrible isn't it
Happened to me too and it turned out he was in a relationship
I’d rather her come out with a good reason than lead me on all night.
At least say what it is she has said she doesnt want to see you again. That isn't leading you on. I've met guys at a club.. had sex and once was enough. I had no intention of repeating the experience so I tell them. Would you rather she kept saying she was busy and making excuses not to see you again?"
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Who cares it's fab.
Maybe you didn't do anything wrong.
Maybe she thought she liked you a bit too much, but didn't want the hurt of catching feelings for a fabster or isn't in the place to explore that.
I know I've certainly pulled away from people I've saw myself falling for on here over the years. |
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"You have speaking to the other person for ages, you go out for drinks. Get on like a house on fire and snog each other’s face off most of the night. And also when you leave each other.
Yet she doesn’t want to see you again?
What went wrong?
In fact fuck it. Yeah it wasn’t right from the start obviously.
It's horrible isn't it
Happened to me too and it turned out he was in a relationship
I’d rather her come out with a good reason than lead me on all night.
At least say what it is
Yeah exactly, it's not nice, at least have the decency to say.
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You met her once, she doesn’t owe you an explanation. Often people might give a reason, but it isn’t necessarily THE reason so you’ll never know really. And as she seems to have been straight with you about not wanting to meet again I don’t see how this is leading you on. |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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She’s a Russian spy and was trying to infiltrate the UK and thought you were 008.
Obviously at some point you told her what you did for a living. She realised she’d got the wrong man. Dammit.
Now in order to protect herself (and you) she has to get rid of you. So she does the kissing thing to shut you up (walls have ears) and leaves you wanting more.
Only now she’s flying over Moscow and is incommunicado.
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Perhaps your kissing didn't do it for her - I've turned down further meets with guys in the past because, even though I found them physically attractive and we got on well, their kissing didn't give me fanny flutters. A good kiss is important to me, all other attraction wanes if their kiss doesn't make me want to rip their clothes off. |
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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago
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"Perhaps your kissing didn't do it for her - I've turned down further meets with guys in the past because, even though I found them physically attractive and we got on well, their kissing didn't give me fanny flutters. A good kiss is important to me, all other attraction wanes if their kiss doesn't make me want to rip their clothes off. "
Definitely this! If a kiss is rubbish then it ain’t going further! Not saying your kisses are rubbish OP but women are fickle creatures!   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You have speaking to the other person for ages, you go out for drinks. Get on like a house on fire and snog each other’s face off most of the night. And also when you leave each other.
Yet she doesn’t want to see you again?
What went wrong?
In fact fuck it. Yeah it wasn’t right from the start obviously. "
You didn't stop sucking her face off long enough for her to tell you. You guys are stronger than you look you know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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She wanted a snog (right here, right now) that minute and yours were the closest pair of lips.
She got what she wanted.
She used you purely as a snogging machine and forgot to see you as a person with feelings. Now you're sullied goods. A bit of meat that's been left out of the fridge for too long.
Hope that thought makes you feel better OP. Have a great day  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You have speaking to the other person for ages, you go out for drinks. Get on like a house on fire and snog each other’s face off most of the night. And also when you leave each other.
Yet she doesn’t want to see you again?
What went wrong?
In fact fuck it. Yeah it wasn’t right from the start obviously.
It's horrible isn't it
Happened to me too and it turned out he was in a relationship
I’d rather her come out with a good reason than lead me on all night.
At least say what it is
In the nicest possible way maybe she just didn’t want to.. for whatever reason. As is everyone’s right.. I haven’t shagged everyone I’ve kissed. It was a social.. it ended there. Sometimes that’s just it. There’s no great secret, maybe she just didn’t want sex.
That is not what I’m getting at. In fact I probably posted because I just wanted a rant. I wasn’t expecting a kiss for starters. At one point, it just felt right so I initiated one and then as the night carried on so did she. And even at the end of the night she wanted one. And she was even talking about meeting up, so why be like..., let me lead you into this way of thinking to then fuck you off?
Tbh I’m done. Fuck it. Next.
Do you watch friends?
I have done yeah?
There’s an episode when chandler says ‘I’ll call you’ every time he sees Janice..some humans are just like that. Well intentioned but just not meant to be. "
Great example!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"She’s a Russian spy and was trying to infiltrate the UK and thought you were 008.
Obviously at some point you told her what you did for a living. She realised she’d got the wrong man. Dammit.
Now in order to protect herself (and you) she has to get rid of you. So she does the kissing thing to shut you up (walls have ears) and leaves you wanting more.
Only now she’s flying over Moscow and is incommunicado.
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Definitely this.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You have speaking to the other person for ages, you go out for drinks. Get on like a house on fire and snog each other’s face off most of the night. And also when you leave each other.
Yet she doesn’t want to see you again?
What went wrong?
In fact fuck it. Yeah it wasn’t right from the start obviously.
It's horrible isn't it
Happened to me too and it turned out he was in a relationship
I’d rather her come out with a good reason than lead me on all night.
At least say what it is
In the nicest possible way maybe she just didn’t want to.. for whatever reason. As is everyone’s right.. I haven’t shagged everyone I’ve kissed. It was a social.. it ended there. Sometimes that’s just it. There’s no great secret, maybe she just didn’t want sex. "
I've experienced this and always thought I did something wrong,
However I have met people just for chat and coffee (haven't led on) but we know before we leave generally if its right.
I tend to leave earlier if it doesn't feel right. |
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