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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Not like that - but I have certainly had people that I have had an immediate "click" with where connection and chemistry is there straight away and who I know that connection will be lasting - not just sexual partners but non-sexual too |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Not like that - but I have certainly had people that I have had an immediate "click" with where connection and chemistry is there straight away and who I know that connection will be lasting - not just sexual partners but non-sexual too"
I have had encounters in clubs and known that I could easily spend my life with that person. I am sure I am very adaptive but just sometimes... Pissed my ex right off probably why I am single now.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"No
Never had that captivation, and then the happiness by going for it? Or the loss by not taking the chance? x
Done it in clubs but the next day its like oh"
Valid point, when all the endorphins have worn off. I get that, but don't you want more of that moment? |
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I've felt pretty intense physical attraction for people. But people tend to grow on me. And when I do feel that intensely, my inclination is to look away. It's like looking into the sun, it's painful. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I've felt pretty intense physical attraction for people. But people tend to grow on me. And when I do feel that intensely, my inclination is to look away. It's like looking into the sun, it's painful."
That's always been me, it the last person this happened with I couldn't break the stare. Ended up waving like Forest Gump. We keep in touch and she blows my mind with a text  |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"I've felt pretty intense physical attraction for people. But people tend to grow on me. And when I do feel that intensely, my inclination is to look away. It's like looking into the sun, it's painful.
That's always been me, it the last person this happened with I couldn't break the stare. Ended up waving like Forest Gump. We keep in touch and she blows my mind with a text "
I remember |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I could look at someone and know i am attracted to them but would need to speak and get to know them before i knew if i really, really liked them."
Yeah but I mean above physical attraction, I mean the air full of static, like you have know Ln each other longer that that moment? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Not across a crowded room, however there is someone who I had that instant and undeniable chemistry with. It's been the most incredible and painful journey. I wouldn't change it though. Its too powerful |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I've felt pretty intense physical attraction for people. But people tend to grow on me. And when I do feel that intensely, my inclination is to look away. It's like looking into the sun, it's painful.
That's always been me, it the last person this happened with I couldn't break the stare. Ended up waving like Forest Gump. We keep in touch and she blows my mind with a text
I remember "
Me too xxx xxx xxx |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"I've felt pretty intense physical attraction for people. But people tend to grow on me. And when I do feel that intensely, my inclination is to look away. It's like looking into the sun, it's painful.
That's always been me, it the last person this happened with I couldn't break the stare. Ended up waving like Forest Gump. We keep in touch and she blows my mind with a text
I remember
Me too xxx xxx xxx "
 will text you later |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I've felt pretty intense physical attraction for people. But people tend to grow on me. And when I do feel that intensely, my inclination is to look away. It's like looking into the sun, it's painful.
That's always been me, it the last person this happened with I couldn't break the stare. Ended up waving like Forest Gump. We keep in touch and she blows my mind with a text
I remember
Me too xxx xxx xxx
will text you later "
Still have my number, that's love for a life time that is... And on que bon jovi bed of roses comes on x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Not across a crowded room, however there is someone who I had that instant and undeniable chemistry with. It's been the most incredible and painful journey. I wouldn't change it though. Its too powerful "
Don't mean to pry but why the pain? X |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"I've felt pretty intense physical attraction for people. But people tend to grow on me. And when I do feel that intensely, my inclination is to look away. It's like looking into the sun, it's painful.
That's always been me, it the last person this happened with I couldn't break the stare. Ended up waving like Forest Gump. We keep in touch and she blows my mind with a text
I remember
Me too xxx xxx xxx
will text you later
Still have my number, that's love for a life time that is... And on que bon jovi bed of roses comes on x"
I do xx |
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"I've felt pretty intense physical attraction for people. But people tend to grow on me. And when I do feel that intensely, my inclination is to look away. It's like looking into the sun, it's painful.
That's always been me, it the last person this happened with I couldn't break the stare. Ended up waving like Forest Gump. We keep in touch and she blows my mind with a text "
I don't think I'm wired like that |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yes in friendship and a lover.... you just know and it is like you’ve known them longer than you have.... I can’t explain it, you just know it’s something special"
A connection, a spark, something inside gravitating towards them, that what I am talking about.. X |
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"Yes in friendship and a lover.... you just know and it is like you’ve known them longer than you have.... I can’t explain it, you just know it’s something special
A connection, a spark, something inside gravitating towards them, that what I am talking about.. X"
Totally ! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I've felt pretty intense physical attraction for people. But people tend to grow on me. And when I do feel that intensely, my inclination is to look away. It's like looking into the sun, it's painful.
That's always been me, it the last person this happened with I couldn't break the stare. Ended up waving like Forest Gump. We keep in touch and she blows my mind with a text
I don't think I'm wired like that "
You just wait until that person touches your hand and zap. You feel something that you can't explain, try to rationalise it if you want. Oh it was the carpet lol. Mark my words x |
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"I've felt pretty intense physical attraction for people. But people tend to grow on me. And when I do feel that intensely, my inclination is to look away. It's like looking into the sun, it's painful.
That's always been me, it the last person this happened with I couldn't break the stare. Ended up waving like Forest Gump. We keep in touch and she blows my mind with a text
I don't think I'm wired like that
You just wait until that person touches your hand and zap. You feel something that you can't explain, try to rationalise it if you want. Oh it was the carpet lol. Mark my words x"
Shrug. I know myself |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yes. And that first kiss was something I’ll never forget. His arms pulling me in, his warm breath on my skin made me feel desired. "
Isn't that beautiful? What more could you want? X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yes and unfortunately we have just parted our ways"
Sorry to hear that, I miss my ex every day of the week, but I don't miss the stress she brought... Heartbreaking. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yes!! I wanted him... knew he wanted me... so I had him that night and was not disappointed!! So I kept him  "
Intense but yes I hear what you are saying, go sister! x |
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"Yes!! I wanted him... knew he wanted me... so I had him that night and was not disappointed!! So I kept him
Intense but yes I hear what you are saying, go sister! x"
you know what it’s like when you’re blown away just by that first look... and you just know it’s the one... you have to lock them in your cupboard and keep them, don’t you  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yes!! I wanted him... knew he wanted me... so I had him that night and was not disappointed!! So I kept him
Intense but yes I hear what you are saying, go sister! x
you know what it’s like when you’re blown away just by that first look... and you just know it’s the one... you have to lock them in your cupboard and keep them, don’t you "
Does that cupboard have air and a glory hole? |
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"Yes!! I wanted him... knew he wanted me... so I had him that night and was not disappointed!! So I kept him
Intense but yes I hear what you are saying, go sister! x
you know what it’s like when you’re blown away just by that first look... and you just know it’s the one... you have to lock them in your cupboard and keep them, don’t you
Does that cupboard have air and a glory hole? "
Yeah, He was still alive... last time I checked |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yes!! I wanted him... knew he wanted me... so I had him that night and was not disappointed!! So I kept him
Intense but yes I hear what you are saying, go sister! x
you know what it’s like when you’re blown away just by that first look... and you just know it’s the one... you have to lock them in your cupboard and keep them, don’t you
Does that cupboard have air and a glory hole?
Yeah, He was still alive... last time I checked "
Quick perhaps he needs some mouth to..... (you fill in the dots) resuscitation? |
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"Yes!! I wanted him... knew he wanted me... so I had him that night and was not disappointed!! So I kept him
Intense but yes I hear what you are saying, go sister! x
you know what it’s like when you’re blown away just by that first look... and you just know it’s the one... you have to lock them in your cupboard and keep them, don’t you
Does that cupboard have air and a glory hole?
Yeah, He was still alive... last time I checked
Quick perhaps he needs some mouth to..... (you fill in the dots) resuscitation? "
Oh he gets plenty and he’s very well trained and happily reciprocates |
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Yup.... had a couple of great relationships that started that way. Sadly, the initial spark didn’t last. In one instance it was because of parental pressure in another it was career opportunities and recognition that long distance relationships are very hard to maintain. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yes but wasn’t in the position to act upon that said feeling. Long story but sadly I believe it is the one that got away. Hindsight is a wonderful thing but then again maybe everything happens for a reason(damn I am one big cliche) haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Know that you really, really like them? I mean there is a room full of people and all you can see is them? Eyes lock and you slowly come together? "
Yes,of course... |
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Yeah. It’s a great feeling. When you don’t have to list what you like about someone. You look for that when you swing. A connection, a buzz and knowing it won’t end up in you doing their washing. Just the boom, attraction not squelch, wet patch. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Awk yeah I've looked at someone I was instantly attracted to in a swarm of people, but twas not mutual as I tried the whole walking past them, catching thier attention and looking and smiling but no joy  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"This happened to me...it was powerful! We were together 18yrs"
Not sure why the past tense, but as Alfred Lord Tennyson said: 'Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. X |
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"This happened to me...it was powerful! We were together 18yrs
Not sure why the past tense, but as Alfred Lord Tennyson said: 'Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. X"
It was ever after but hey we shared 18yrs, 3 kids, 2 grandkids and a dog...Happy days |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"This happened to me...it was powerful! We were together 18yrs
Not sure why the past tense, but as Alfred Lord Tennyson said: 'Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. X
It was ever after but hey we shared 18yrs, 3 kids, 2 grandkids and a dog...Happy days"
Sending you a big over the shoulder hug x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only once.
His eyes and smile just melted me!
But I was at work and being the ever professional customer service bod that I am, just left it at that. I was surprised I could actually speak in order to serve him! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Only once.
His eyes and smile just melted me!
But I was at work and being the ever professional customer service bod that I am, just left it at that. I was surprised I could actually speak in order to serve him! "
That's really nice and built a memory too x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like in the films
I dont think I have ever walked into a room full of strangers and fell in love. I have met people I have been messaging and knew I could be in love once I saw them in person. Poor sods |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Know that you really, really like them? I mean there is a room full of people and all you can see is them? Eyes lock and you slowly come together? "
It's only happened to me twice in my life... and it is the most surreal feeling. Not something I'd have ever believed, until it happened. On the occasions the ladies who had that effect on me were each so totally different to the other that it's impossible to identify what was the trigger... but then how do you define attraction, sexual or otherwise?
Neither scenario ended well for me though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Oh yes. Used to work with a woman who would simply light up the area around her.
She was the nicest person you could ever hope to meet, and her eyes sparkled and all those other clichés
Swoon. |
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"Know that you really, really like them? I mean there is a room full of people and all you can see is them? Eyes lock and you slowly come together? "
This has happened 3 times in my life made mistakes with the first two married 3... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"When I first got with Bry, I knew by the end of the day, that THIS was it! 15 months on, and I'm the happiest I've ever been!
Char"
Glad to hear it, take care x |
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