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Do you like being told what to do?
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over a year ago
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I used to hate it up until maybe the last ten years or so but I'm always evolving and begining to see that others have some great ideas in all three areas and the more open I am the more value they can add.....   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends....At work yes but my boss rarely does
Outside of it never. Even my say nav has a womans voice because never have I ever taken orders off a Man and I'm not about to start now  |
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In bed .. it’s a mutual appreciation of each other’s sexual prowess,, Aye right.. It’s on her terms only ..
in life ,, I’m the commander of my Own ship except when the wife wants something different . Then it’s nag nag nag until she gets her own way.
In general. I don’t really mind as long as it keeps the wife from nagging as much.. lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As it says on my profile, don't tell me what to do unless it's in the bedroom "
I just had to have a look, for research purposes.
To see if you were telling the truth.  |
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It is all how it is said, if like an order or someone thinks they know you better than you know yourself definitely not; as a request then maybe; it really is all dependant on the situation and who is asking |
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In bed in the right situations.
In work, it's just the way it is isn't it. If I have a good manager then it's usually great and everything goes smoothly. I used to get annoyed by incompetent managers but over the years I've just got to the point where I'll question something once if it doesn't seem right to me but if they insist I just do it. Their problem if it fucks up. I don't get paid enough to keep fixing the mess of those paid more than me.
In my personal life, no. Advice is fine but don't tell others what to do. Obviously exceptions apply with things like laws and rules in certain places if you are the person employed to enforce them. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"In bed in the right situations.
In work, it's just the way it is isn't it. If I have a good manager then it's usually great and everything goes smoothly. I used to get annoyed by incompetent managers but over the years I've just got to the point where I'll question something once if it doesn't seem right to me but if they insist I just do it. Their problem if it fucks up. I don't get paid enough to keep fixing the mess of those paid more than me.
In my personal life, no. Advice is fine but don't tell others what to do. Obviously exceptions apply with things like laws and rules in certain places if you are the person employed to enforce them. "
I do the same with managers. They are paid a damn sight more than me and don’t have a clue what they are doing. So when shit hits the fan it’s their fault.  |
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"In bed in the right situations.
In work, it's just the way it is isn't it. If I have a good manager then it's usually great and everything goes smoothly. I used to get annoyed by incompetent managers but over the years I've just got to the point where I'll question something once if it doesn't seem right to me but if they insist I just do it. Their problem if it fucks up. I don't get paid enough to keep fixing the mess of those paid more than me.
In my personal life, no. Advice is fine but don't tell others what to do. Obviously exceptions apply with things like laws and rules in certain places if you are the person employed to enforce them.
I do the same with managers. They are paid a damn sight more than me and don’t have a clue what they are doing. So when shit hits the fan it’s their fault. "
When I was younger I made a rod for my own back with it. It's difficult as I work in healthcare so I'll still bend over backwards to fix a mess that will directly affect a patient. Going part time helped. My current manager is fantastic but her deputy is a total plonker. |
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