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Evening everyone can I start by saying this is an amazing site and I was hoping to get some advice. I've got a hidden disability I'm fact it's a stoma would this put you off contacting me. I've tried and messaged people and haven't had much luck so it'd either my stoma or just me hoping someone can help. X |
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Hi there, single men in general find it a challenge to get meets on FAB as they far outnumber the women.
I'd be upfront about your disability and then keep your messages respectful and polite.
Getting involved in the forums is a good way to get your face know also.
Good luck
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Obviously having a stoma will put some people off, as will age and other factors (I'm a 58 yr old bisexual smoker with arthritic psoriasis) and I am the nicest guy on the planet, no really I am
It just depends on how you come across to other people I suppose.
Prioritise your strong points, let any future meets know what to expect in advance, and just be yourself matey x ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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