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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So as a black guy unless a woman has up she is looking for bbc we normally don't know if she'll be interested in us when we make the first move. So this post is for all black guys to see some of the women here on fab who are interested in black or mixed race guys (or either or).
So if you're a woman who likes black guys and/or mixed race guys, drop a comment so that the black guys like myself (and mixed race guys) can know who we should message/wink etc.
A nice friendly post to help us get some interest and maybe some meets later on (please don't come on this post with any drama, much thanks) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Someone's skin colour has zero impact on our enjoyment or desire. If he's hot, fun and not a twat, then great.
We find lots of black guys attractive, but not BECAUSE they're black.
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people.
It's about people, the content of their core, their values, their respect level plus a whole lot more for me.
If a black guy/mixed race guy displayed the qualities I was looking for and I found him attractive then that's cool.
However I don't think I'm compatible with those who place such importance on skin colour.
I have to admit I almost find it offensive when they feel the need to tell me they're black, like ... do they really think I'm that fucking thick I can't see it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"people.
It's about people, the content of their core, their values, their respect level plus a whole lot more for me.
If a black guy/mixed race guy displayed the qualities I was looking for and I found him attractive then that's cool.
However I don't think I'm compatible with those who place such importance on skin colour.
I have to admit I almost find it offensive when they feel the need to tell me they're black, like ... do they really think I'm that fucking thick I can't see it? "
Yeah, I am instantly put off by guys who label themselves BBC tbh...the same guy, who's not harping on about his skin colour in every message tho, different story.
There's more to me than being a fat woman...there's more to him than being black. And I wouldn't want to be a fetish for someone or my fatness to be the reason they want to meet me. Works the other way round, I may well find their skin colour attractive but it won't be the reason I'm into them. |
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The post wasn't for women who like black guys exclusively but who fancy them as well. A lot of women don't like guys because they are black, but black guys aren't aware of this. So this isn't about bbc, qos or snowbunnies etc. Just a simple post for black and mixed race guys to see women who fancy guys who look like us (doesn't have to be exclusively x) much thanks, hope this clears things up x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The post wasn't for women who like black guys exclusively but who fancy them as well. A lot of women don't like guys because they are black, but black guys aren't aware of this. So this isn't about bbc, qos or snowbunnies etc. Just a simple post for black and mixed race guys to see women who fancy guys who look like us (doesn't have to be exclusively x) much thanks, hope this clears things up x"
But I don't fancy ALL black men.
Same as I don't fancy ALL white men. Depends on the man...not his skin colour. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The post wasn't for women who like black guys exclusively but who fancy them as well. A lot of women don't like guys because they are black, but black guys aren't aware of this. So this isn't about bbc, qos or snowbunnies etc. Just a simple post for black and mixed race guys to see women who fancy guys who look like us (doesn't have to be exclusively x) much thanks, hope this clears things up x
But I don't fancy ALL black men.
Same as I don't fancy ALL white men. Depends on the man...not his skin colour."
This really. I wanted to join in on this thread a couple of times this morning but backspaced because I thought I'd be taken the wrong way or jumped on for daring to question anything. That makes me feel more sad than the thread itself.....   |
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"The post wasn't for women who like black guys exclusively but who fancy them as well. A lot of women don't like guys because they are black, but black guys aren't aware of this. So this isn't about bbc, qos or snowbunnies etc. Just a simple post for black and mixed race guys to see women who fancy guys who look like us (doesn't have to be exclusively x) much thanks, hope this clears things up x
But I don't fancy ALL black men.
Same as I don't fancy ALL white men. Depends on the man...not his skin colour.
This really. I wanted to join in on this thread a couple of times this morning but backspaced because I thought I'd be taken the wrong way or jumped on for daring to question anything. That makes me feel more sad than the thread itself..... "
Same, I struggled to word mine for fear it would be taken not as intended, or that I'd be seen as causing drama, and that really did give me a sinking feeling |
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We go BMFC and similar style clubs/parties as that way there is no confusion.
When we use to go to places like Eureka, we found Frisky got a lot more attention when we use to give lifts to a black friend and guys could clearly see we were open to approach by black guys. |
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Personally feel sorry for black men: constantly fetished sexually and dehumanised by wider society
See many ‘BBC only’ profiles as if that is the summary of the person’s whole self.
Low-key racism is still racism.
Good luck to you, buddy! |
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