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over a year ago
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Ladies and also gentlemen, do you ever or have you ever met someone on fab and the sex was so good that you wanted to develop an emotional connection with them despite being in a couple and how did that complicate things for you? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"This is why i would rather be myself on fab and not part of a couple."
This is one of my biggest questions about Fab, since I joined, like as a couple do you ever wonder, like have it in the back of your mind that not only might your significant other enjoy sex with someone else more than you, but that they might fall for someone else and develop feelings etc. |
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"This is why i would rather be myself on fab and not part of a couple.
This is one of my biggest questions about Fab, since I joined, like as a couple do you ever wonder, like have it in the back of your mind that not only might your significant other enjoy sex with someone else more than you, but that they might fall for someone else and develop feelings etc."
No. And this assumption boils my piss.
We're not swinging because our relationship lacks anything. There's nothing we need that we don't get from each other. We swing because it's SO good it'd be rude not to share 
And friendships aside, it's just sex. |
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"This is why i would rather be myself on fab and not part of a couple.
This is one of my biggest questions about Fab, since I joined, like as a couple do you ever wonder, like have it in the back of your mind that not only might your significant other enjoy sex with someone else more than you, but that they might fall for someone else and develop feelings etc.
No. And this assumption boils my piss.
We're not swinging because our relationship lacks anything. There's nothing we need that we don't get from each other. We swing because it's SO good it'd be rude not to share
And friendships aside, it's just sex. "
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It does happen and especially in poly relationships, its common for a couple to have each other and emotionally connected girlfriends and boyfriends, the important part is clear communication with all parties involved |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is why i would rather be myself on fab and not part of a couple.
This is one of my biggest questions about Fab, since I joined, like as a couple do you ever wonder, like have it in the back of your mind that not only might your significant other enjoy sex with someone else more than you, but that they might fall for someone else and develop feelings etc.
No. And this assumption boils my piss.
We're not swinging because our relationship lacks anything. There's nothing we need that we don't get from each other. We swing because it's SO good it'd be rude not to share
And friendships aside, it's just sex. "
We agree with this
All of our play...including any kind of solo fun is for us as a couple. We have a fantastic relationship where communication is paramount.
No emotional ties would come from either of us towards a play partner and if a play partner began displaying such signs we would both walk away from any future fun with that person.
Our relationship is much more important than playing with additional people, that is purely NSA fun...our relationship is love.
Her x |
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"This is why i would rather be myself on fab and not part of a couple.
This is one of my biggest questions about Fab, since I joined, like as a couple do you ever wonder, like have it in the back of your mind that not only might your significant other enjoy sex with someone else more than you, but that they might fall for someone else and develop feelings etc."
No, never but it does happen. It's a mindset thing. We have the mindset that there are going to be some things other people can do that we can't an example is that we once met a couple where the lady could deep throat, I can't do that. I was happy that my partner got to experience it but I wasn't threatened by it any more than I'd be threatened by him enjoying a meal in a restaurant that I didn’t have the culinary skills to prepare.
If a relationship is in trouble or there's something missing and the people in it look outside rather than communicating with each other then yeah, it's very possible that things will go belly up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is why i would rather be myself on fab and not part of a couple.
This is one of my biggest questions about Fab, since I joined, like as a couple do you ever wonder, like have it in the back of your mind that not only might your significant other enjoy sex with someone else more than you, but that they might fall for someone else and develop feelings etc.
No. And this assumption boils my piss.
We're not swinging because our relationship lacks anything. There's nothing we need that we don't get from each other. We swing because it's SO good it'd be rude not to share
And friendships aside, it's just sex. "
That's healthy swinging I agree and you two are amazing! However there are plenty who aren't in your position yet still swing. I had an experience like this recently where she wanted the attention because they didn't talk it spend time together and she was dragging him along with her and she then asked if she could see me behind his back regularly. Swinging relationships are just like regular relationships, some are amazing and unbreakable but most are not perfect. For some reason people seem eager to forget this a LOT on fab and then they wonder why things go a bit turbo....  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for your feedback and yes I think in a perfect world swinging is just about nsa fun, unfortunately we don't live in a perfect world do we. Was just curious about experiences like this and again as always I appreciate the feedback x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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All I can say is that I’ve received messages from couple accounts which I decline and then I’ll get messages from the male from a different account asking to meet without her knowing.  Swinging partnerships are no different to any other. Some are great but many are not. |
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I'm not going to say it could never happen as we really don't know that. The way we look at it is that it is just as likely as one of us falling for someone else in our everyday life. In fact probably less as we go into this knowing what we doing and we also talk about it honestly.
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"All I can say is that I’ve received messages from couple accounts which I decline and then I’ll get messages from the male from a different account asking to meet without her knowing. Swinging partnerships are no different to any other. Some are great but many are not."
Yep. |
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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago
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"Ladies and also gentlemen, do you ever or have you ever met someone on fab and the sex was so good that you wanted to develop an emotional connection with them despite being in a couple and how did that complicate things for you?"
Not been in a couple whilst on Fab. Gahhhhh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ladies and also gentlemen, do you ever or have you ever met someone on fab and the sex was so good that you wanted to develop an emotional connection with them despite being in a couple and how did that complicate things for you?
Not been in a couple whilst on Fab. Gahhhhh."
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"All I can say is that I’ve received messages from couple accounts which I decline and then I’ll get messages from the male from a different account asking to meet without her knowing. Swinging partnerships are no different to any other. Some are great but many are not."
Yep, and sometimes one part of the couple is even rubbing it in the others face, when they're clearly uncomfortable with a scenario.
*sigh*
Shit ain't it. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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It depends what you mean by emotional connection, we have partners we like and see from time to time and some night even be regular but no one is going to do anything silly that disrupts a marriage, we can spit and avoid people like that that’s just immature. If you aren’t in control of your emotions or if they tend to control you and make you do stupid things, swinging ain’t for you. That doesn’t mean you have to be cold or do one offs, you can still have great connections, long term friendships and chemistry. |
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"It depends what you mean by emotional connection, we have partners we like and see from time to time and some night even be regular but no one is going to do anything silly that disrupts a marriage, we can spit and avoid people like that that’s just immature. If you aren’t in control of your emotions or if they tend to control you and make you do stupid things, swinging ain’t for you. That doesn’t mean you have to be cold or do one offs, you can still have great connections, long term friendships and chemistry."
This is exactly how we think and what we look for in other couples. Relationships differ though and so does how people go about all this x |
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