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Gym bods vs dad bods
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ll be boring and say it really does depend on the person, although I prefer a bit of squish to ripped so if I had to choose on just the body I’ll go with dadbod  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I see a lot of female and cpuple profiles saying gym fit... the only Jim I know is the one that serves my food.
I have dad bod but I'm a Rugby player and have that build seems a bit of a rare thing to be required. Maybe thats just round this way |
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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago
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Dad bod. Gym bods can be too hard to cuddle into.
Hubby is in the dad bod category, although he'd like a little more gym. Doughnuts and Deadlifts is definitely his ideal though. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I like a guy that's looked after himself, but also got a bit of wear and tear...
Shows they look after themselves, but not an up themselves pretty boy  
Just my preference  "
So for you a pretty boy is someone who gyms a lot or that's one of the characteristics of a pretty boy for you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like both. His personality is the important part"
Good point same here - personality is everything but for some reason I’ve always gone for the dad bod |
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"I like a guy that's looked after himself, but also got a bit of wear and tear...
Shows they look after themselves, but not an up themselves pretty boy
Just my preference
So for you a pretty boy is someone who gyms a lot or that's one of the characteristics of a pretty boy for you?"
If looks is all they've got going for them, no personality to match. |
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"I feel like other guys are more impressed with a gym fit body. Girls generally dont seem to care "
This is so true. I'm always getting compliments from guys. Literally have guys come up to me in shops and bars just to tell me I'm jacked.
Random young lads following my insta and asking me advice and sending me compliments.
I've even had a guy in a vanilla club go and get his girlfriend so he could make her feel my arms. It was really awkward.
Never happens from girls.
When I was single and using Tindr a lot the girls I would meet often told me they would have passed me by because of my pictures but only swiped right because my bio was funny and I made them laugh when we messaged. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As long as you look after your body I don’t mind too much. Abs are nice, but so is eating chocolate with someone in bed!
Treat yourself, your body and those around you with respect and I’m more likely to have an interest.
An Adonis is always nice, but if there is no substance to the person I’d kick a Greek god out of bed for being boring. |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"See I’m confused by my place in the world here as I’ve never been to a gym in my life but I don’t have kids either  "
Yours is just a damn fine bod. Can't be defined |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"See I’m confused by my place in the world here as I’ve never been to a gym in my life but I don’t have kids either
Yours is just a damn fine bod. Can't be defined "
Nope! Can’t accept that! I must be pigeon holed! |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"See I’m confused by my place in the world here as I’ve never been to a gym in my life but I don’t have kids either
Yours is just a damn fine bod. Can't be defined
Nope! Can’t accept that! I must be pigeon holed! "
Oh I'm sure there are many ladies who'd like to squeeze you in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For the record..... you can have a gym fit body and a nice personality.....
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Agreed, think too many assumptions associated to guys with a good body... Full of himself/on the gear/no personality etc etc
These traits are present in all shapes n sizes, my experience with 'ripped guys' has been that they are gentle, sophisticated, educated and often shy, Kai Green for example. I'm not saying all, just as all aren't knuckle dragging neanderthals. |
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Define a gym bod ? It's primarily about attraction. We both look after ourselves but don't gym. Neither of us would find someone seriously overweight as attractive. Sex is attraction. Generally people will have a type and that is sometimes dictated by their own body shape. |
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By *91kMan
over a year ago
Maidstone |
"For the record..... you can have a gym fit body and a nice personality.....
Agreed, think too many assumptions associated to guys with a good body... Full of himself/on the gear/no personality etc etc
These traits are present in all shapes n sizes, my experience with 'ripped guys' has been that they are gentle, sophisticated, educated and often shy, Kai Green for example. I'm not saying all, just as all aren't knuckle dragging neanderthals. "
This  the amount of gear comments that get thrown around makes me laugh. Heaven forbid that someone actually puts the commitment in with training/diet to achieve the results... No no, it must be gear! And cause they're on gear they must be a complete bellend too  
Personally, if someone's personality attracts me and they have some body confidence then I don't really care what shape/size that body is. If you like what you see then you like what you see...
On the other side of the fence though, some people feel body types need to match. Plenty of rejection from women who say stuff like "why you messaging me go find yourself a gym girl, I'm not right for you"
It's all subjective at the end of the day |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For the record..... you can have a gym fit body and a nice personality.....
Agreed, think too many assumptions associated to guys with a good body... Full of himself/on the gear/no personality etc etc
These traits are present in all shapes n sizes, my experience with 'ripped guys' has been that they are gentle, sophisticated, educated and often shy, Kai Green for example. I'm not saying all, just as all aren't knuckle dragging neanderthals.
This the amount of gear comments that get thrown around makes me laugh. Heaven forbid that someone actually puts the commitment in with training/diet to achieve the results... No no, it must be gear! And cause they're on gear they must be a complete bellend too
Personally, if someone's personality attracts me and they have some body confidence then I don't really care what shape/size that body is. If you like what you see then you like what you see...
On the other side of the fence though, some people feel body types need to match. Plenty of rejection from women who say stuff like "why you messaging me go find yourself a gym girl, I'm not right for you"
It's all subjective at the end of the day"
Most don't get that even those who are taking it still have to work really hard, they think it's a case of take a jab before bed and boom, wake up looking like Arnold lolol you see it all the time, guy will have a great photo and the 'on it' comments get posted usually from men who could never get that way, roids or not!
As Ive implied, some of the people I've known through bb have been beautiful people and very very humble..... You look great by the way, well done |
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By *91kMan
over a year ago
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"For the record..... you can have a gym fit body and a nice personality.....
Agreed, think too many assumptions associated to guys with a good body... Full of himself/on the gear/no personality etc etc
These traits are present in all shapes n sizes, my experience with 'ripped guys' has been that they are gentle, sophisticated, educated and often shy, Kai Green for example. I'm not saying all, just as all aren't knuckle dragging neanderthals.
This the amount of gear comments that get thrown around makes me laugh. Heaven forbid that someone actually puts the commitment in with training/diet to achieve the results... No no, it must be gear! And cause they're on gear they must be a complete bellend too
Personally, if someone's personality attracts me and they have some body confidence then I don't really care what shape/size that body is. If you like what you see then you like what you see...
On the other side of the fence though, some people feel body types need to match. Plenty of rejection from women who say stuff like "why you messaging me go find yourself a gym girl, I'm not right for you"
It's all subjective at the end of the day
Most don't get that even those who are taking it still have to work really hard, they think it's a case of take a jab before bed and boom, wake up looking like Arnold lolol you see it all the time, guy will have a great photo and the 'on it' comments get posted usually from men who could never get that way, roids or not!
As Ive implied, some of the people I've known through bb have been beautiful people and very very humble..... You look great by the way, well done "
There's just a lot of misinformed people out there when it comes to that. There's no magic injection that will transform you overnight, the same as there's no magic pill to shed unwanted weight. Agreed!
Cheers darling |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah very beautiful personality right ??98% of women go for pictures 6 packs models or muscles..cause I know guys can have a great personality but after the 1st message sent with a face and just the face all they get is a block button not matter how great the personality is....
I experienced this myself.  "
Don't be disheartened, of course its not gonna be just personality or just looks, all has to align and I'm sure with the right attitude you'll find someone you like n she likes you.
What the mind can conceive and believe, it can achieve |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
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"Yeah very beautiful personality right ??98% of women go for pictures 6 packs models or muscles..cause I know guys can have a great personality but after the 1st message sent with a face and just the face all they get is a block button not matter how great the personality is....
I experienced this myself. "
I have to agree - you have all the wit and charm in the world, but as soon as the women see the 6-packs you get dropped like a stone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im not bothered skinny muscular or dad bod its more how the dick looks lol
But i have found skinny guys to be the biggest and have the best stamina I like i guy that can cum multiple times and keep going |
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