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Blocked for asking lady if she's put weight on

By *acial giver OP Man over a year ago

hull

Looking for some advice was chatting to a lady and she sent pic. So asked if she had put weight on as her arse looked bigger. She's now blocked me so should you not ask if they have or just say no thanks

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By *hitehunter4bbcMan over a year ago

Bristol

Advise , day one school boy error

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By *r MoriartyMan over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

"Looking for some advice was chatting to a lady and she sent pic. So asked if she had put weight on as her arse looked bigger. She's now blocked me so should you not ask if they have or just say no thanks "

I like you

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple over a year ago

Maidstone

Women love being told they look fatter. It gets us all going. I thought all men knew that?

Lou x

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By *acey_RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hahaha oh dear, yeah the block was going to happen. Best to never ask a woman that!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

It's all in how you say it.

Telling someone their derriere looked more delicious than ever would have been a yes yes.....

Saying your arse looks fatter won't get you tiny little dick into anywhere warm soon.

Tact..... Always tact.

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By *uriouscouple83Couple over a year ago

Worcester

I’m presuming this is your first time engaging in conversation with a lady?

Next time tell her she’s looking tired, or that her roots need doing.

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By *assie-oCouple over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

Ha ha ha what on earth possessed you to ask a lady that!!

... she's not going to feel horny if you've just told her, her arse looks big is she? Nope. I can totally see why she blocked you lol

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By *acial giver OP Man over a year ago

hull

It's all in how you say it.

Telling someone their derriere looked more delicious than ever would have been a yes yes.....

Saying your arse looks fatter won't get you tiny little dick into anywhere warm soon.

Tact..... Always tact. "

How do you know ive a little dick ????

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

F*cking h*ll... I'd do more than block you

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By *acial giver OP Man over a year ago

hull

I’m presuming this is your first

time engaging in conversation with

a lady?

No we had been chatting for ages was going to meet. But not now

Next time tell her she’s looking tired, or that her roots need doing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's all in how you say it.

Telling someone their derriere looked more delicious than ever would have been a yes yes.....

Saying your arse looks fatter won't get you tiny little dick into anywhere warm soon.

Tact..... Always tact.

How do you know ive a little dick ????

Because this is the reply you chose to reply to!

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By *hitehunter4bbcMan over a year ago

Bristol

If your the lady please respond on here I need cheering up

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It’s all about the words...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

She was right to block you.

It's not sensible to make such a comment.

Maybe her ass just looked bigger because of the angle of the camera.

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By *affeine DuskMan over a year ago

Caerphilly

Sometimes I touch myself to your green arrow, OP

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By *acial giver OP Man over a year ago

hull

"It’s all about the words...

Should i just said your to fat for me

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By *uriouscouple83Couple over a year ago

Worcester

"If your the lady please respond on here I need cheering up

We really do need a popcorn emoji.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"It’s all about the words...

Yeah ..... it's all about tactful words.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"It’s all about the words...

Should i just said your to fat for me"

I know a song about that ......

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By *elle xWoman over a year ago

Doire Theas

Oh Jebus you didn’t

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Jesus OP at your age have not learnt anything about women?!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It’s all about the words...

Should i just said your to fat for me"

It’s you’re not your

Also it’s not clever to say anyone is fat

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By *olidOak85Couple over a year ago

Yorkshire

I’m presuming this is your first time engaging in conversation with a lady?

Next time tell her she’s looking tired, or that her roots need doing.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3cn-iPEEzfA

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ask yourself this....

How would you feel, if someone said to you "Gosh doesn't your cock look tiny"?

Your confidence and self esteem would be kinda knocked yes?

Engage brain before you type a reply

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By *acey_RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

Sometimes I touch myself to your green arrow, OP

I vowed never to kink shame but you make it so hard

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ask yourself this....

How would you feel, if someone said to you "Gosh doesn't your cock look tiny"?

Your confidence and self esteem would be kinda knocked yes?

Engage brain before you type a reply

Ah but someone can always lose/gain weight. His cock will always be small

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By *affeine DuskMan over a year ago

Caerphilly

Sometimes I touch myself to your green arrow, OP

I vowed never to kink shame but you make it so hard

. "

Can't get me if I get there first.

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By *acial giver OP Man over a year ago

hull

"Ask yourself this....

How would you feel, if someone said to you "Gosh doesn't your cock look tiny"?

Your confidence and self esteem would be kinda knocked yes?

Engage brain before you type a reply

Ah but someone can always lose/gain weight. His cock will always be small"

I dont understand why your saying ive small cock you've not seen it. Are you a weirdo

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ask yourself this....

How would you feel, if someone said to you "Gosh doesn't your cock look tiny"?

Your confidence and self esteem would be kinda knocked yes?

Engage brain before you type a reply

Ah but someone can always lose/gain weight. His cock will always be small"

Ahh this is true!!

Seriously laughing now

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

Oh bloody hell, this made me giggle. Way to cock block yourself.

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By *ribsaMan over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ask yourself this....

How would you feel, if someone said to you "Gosh doesn't your cock look tiny"?

Your confidence and self esteem would be kinda knocked yes?

Engage brain before you type a reply

Ah but someone can always lose/gain weight. His cock will always be small

I dont understand why your saying ive small cock you've not seen it. Are you a weirdo "

Oh yeah, I'm totally a weirdo

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By *hitehunter4bbcMan over a year ago

Bristol

Wind up ,o.p is 53 and been on a year

Can’t be that dumb

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Such a comedian

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It’s all about the words...

Should i just said your to fat for me"

Have you not learnt anything then?

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By *illycarrolCouple over a year ago

n/cle on tyne

Sweet talking guy how did she resist your silky charm ?

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By *sm265Woman over a year ago

Shangri-la

Am assuming that this is a joke?

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By *uvhandle20Man over a year ago

SE London

Hmmm, no idea ...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Rookie mistake.

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Why would you talk about her weight why?? Your profile says your curvy etc so yes she was right to block you dont the opinions then dont start a thread about it weight is a sensitive issue try to be nice.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sweet lord ... Seriously ??? .you asked THAT question ???..and now you're puzzled why she blocked you ..??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Did meant to reply with..

"what's that between your legs, it looks like a penis but smaller"

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By *acial giver OP Man over a year ago

hull

I was just been honest didn't see it as a problem

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What do you think you should have done OP? If unsure just ignore.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lucky you didn't get a kick in the baws!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Auto spell ruins all my jockes.

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By *partharmonyCouple over a year ago

Ruislip

I can't imagine anything going wrong with that question. Consider it her loss and move on.

Just in case you are naive, OP, that is pure sarcasm.

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By *orbidden eastMan over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

That is definitely a slap in the face moment

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By *acial giver OP Man over a year ago

hull

"Did meant to reply with..

"what's that between your legs, it looks like a penis but smaller"

Dont give up your day job. And you've not seen my cock weirdo

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I was just been honest didn't see it as a problem"

In future, dont be honest. Tell her that her ass looks fantastic and as long as you have a face, her arse will always have a seat.

Now show me this small cock of yours

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman over a year ago

On a mooch

OP you don’t seem to have learnt from last time and I don’t think you ever will, even with people here telling you why it’s wrong

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Brilliant

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Leave the poor man's cock alone Op in future dont talk about weight good day

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Auto spell ruins all my jockes."

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

I was just been honest didn't see it as a problem"

If you don't see it as a problem you should probably get used to the barren, arid wasteland your dick is going to reside in for all time.

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

I was just been honest didn't see it as a problem"

Try to be nicer in future xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I was just been honest didn't see it as a problem

Try to be nicer in future xx "

Yes and don't give facial to ppl who haven't asked for it even if you are a giver

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By *acial giver OP Man over a year ago

hull

I was just been honest didn't see it as a problem

Try to be nicer in future xx "

I was just asking if she had put weight on wasn't been nasty

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

I was just been honest didn't see it as a problem

Try to be nicer in future xx

Yes and don't give facial to ppl who haven't asked for it even if you are a giver

But do to F&B it's his favourite

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Am assuming that this is a joke? "

Boom Boom! ASSuming ...... ASS....

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

I was just been honest didn't see it as a problem

Try to be nicer in future xx

I was just asking if she had put weight on wasn't been nasty "

Ok but she blocked you she found it rude lesson learnt yes.

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By *acial giver OP Man over a year ago

hull

I was just been honest didn't see it as a problem

Try to be nicer in future xx

I was just asking if she had put weight on wasn't been nasty

Ok but she blocked you she found it rude lesson learnt yes."

Not really dont like to lie to a lady maybe in too honest

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

I was just been honest didn't see it as a problem

Try to be nicer in future xx

I was just asking if she had put weight on wasn't been nasty

Ok but she blocked you she found it rude lesson learnt yes.

Not really dont like to lie to a lady maybe in too honest"

Yeah stay honest and respectful

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By *sm265Woman over a year ago

Shangri-la

"Am assuming that this is a joke?

Boom Boom! ASSuming ...... ASS....

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By *andyfloss2000Woman over a year ago

ashford

Oops!! X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

To me he was just asking a question she only had to say yes or no. Cant understand why women get upset because there fat i like big ladies

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

"To me he was just asking a question she only had to say yes or no. Cant understand why women get upset because there fat i like big ladies"

Because it's insensitive and rude.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"To me he was just asking a question she only had to say yes or no. Cant understand why women get upset because there fat i like big ladies"

You like big butts and you cannot lie!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To me he was just asking a question she only had to say yes or no. Cant understand why women get upset because there fat i like big ladies

Because it's insensitive and rude. "

Why is it rude to ask a genuine question

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"To me he was just asking a question she only had to say yes or no. Cant understand why women get upset because there fat i like big ladies

Because it's insensitive and rude.

Why is it rude to ask a genuine question"

The penny has dropped you are the Op why two profiles both no pics very similar

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To me he was just asking a question she only had to say yes or no. Cant understand why women get upset because there fat i like big ladies

Because it's insensitive and rude.

Why is it rude to ask a genuine question"

If you have to ask that question, even after all the advice given, then hang up your fab account! Head straight to jail, do not pass go, do not collect £200 and dont expect to pull a girl.....ever.

Now show me your little cock

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By *layfullsamMan over a year ago

Solihull

Lmao, you made a school boy error.

Listen to me and repeat slowly Never ever and I mean EVER be honest when asked does my bum look big in this.

Go to the back of the class

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Inspector Yasmeen

Your welcome x

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

"To me he was just asking a question she only had to say yes or no. Cant understand why women get upset because there fat i like big ladies

Because it's insensitive and rude.

Why is it rude to ask a genuine question"

1. It's none of his business if she gained weight

2. It's still none of his business

3. What right has he got to ask such a personal question?

4. It's still none of his business

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"To me he was just asking a question she only had to say yes or no. Cant understand why women get upset because there fat i like big ladies

Because it's insensitive and rude.

Why is it rude to ask a genuine question"

It's not rude to ask a genuine question but it IS rude to ask a genuine question about something that is viewed as negative in society.

Fat and weight gain , is not something that people like to admit to.

You wouldn't say to someone - Have you stopped using good hairdressers or have you started shopping in Oxfam or even .... why are you so fucking scruffy these days........ or Did you bash your nose on a brick wall since I last saw you .... etc etc....

personal comments about appearance ? Why ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Uhmmmmmm I've been labouring under the assumption that this is a spoof thread.

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Uhmmmmmm I've been labouring under the assumption that this is a spoof thread.

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By *os19Man over a year ago

Edmonton

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By *acial giver OP Man over a year ago

hull

"To me he was just asking a question she only had to say yes or no. Cant understand why women get upset because there fat i like big ladies

Because it's insensitive and rude.

Why is it rude to ask a genuine question

1. It's none of his business if she gained weight

2. It's still none of his business

3. What right has he got to ask such a personal question?

4. It's still none of his business"

I was a simple question i know alot have got lock down lard. If she asked me i would just said yes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To me he was just asking a question she only had to say yes or no. Cant understand why women get upset because there fat i like big ladies

Because it's insensitive and rude.

Why is it rude to ask a genuine question

1. It's none of his business if she gained weight

2. It's still none of his business

3. What right has he got to ask such a personal question?

4. It's still none of his business

I was a simple question i know alot have got lock down lard. If she asked me i would just said yes "

Please just give up on this thread

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

There are a few things that are like huge elephants in the room ...... ( no pun )

Mentioning someone's weight is one of them I guess but FUCK...... we can ALLLLLLLLLL see.

It's like your best mountain climbing mate turning up in a wheel chair and you never mentioning his wheels n calipers.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

BUT we shouldn't say.....

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Makes a mockery of Catchphrase really ........

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By *91kMan over a year ago

Maidstone

Okay so as you can see by now, this was not the way to go about this...

As mentioned, it could have damaged her self esteem and confidence in herself.

How do you know she hadn't spent ages plucking up the courage to share that picture? Then you go and say that to her

Then you made the situation worse for yourself by posting it on here for all to see

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Surely this isn’t for real

So as an example on how to speak to woman op. When my man was fucking me he said I love your juicy ass. Had he said you have a fat arse he wouldn’t have got the same reaction as he did to the first statement

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By *acial giver OP Man over a year ago

hull

Okay so as you can see by now, this was not the way to go about this...

As mentioned, it could have damaged her self esteem and confidence in herself.

How do you know she hadn't spent ages plucking up the courage to share that picture? Then you go and say that to her

Then you made the situation worse for yourself by posting it on here for all to see

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she can't see it if she's blocked me.maybe i was stupid asking but it did look quite alot bigger

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By *acial giver OP Man over a year ago

hull

"Surely this isn’t for real

See you've blocked me as well. Have you put weight on

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By *oupleforxtrafunCouple over a year ago

Nottingham

That’s the problem nowadays you have to pussyfoot around everyone as everything is offensive to everyone

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Surely this isn’t for real

See you've blocked me as well. Have you put weight on

I’m fat anyway I must have blocked you for some other reason

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

How dare you mention Pussyfoot !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's all in how you say it.

Telling someone their derriere looked more delicious than ever would have been a yes yes.....

Saying your arse looks fatter won't get you tiny little dick into anywhere warm soon.

Tact..... Always tact. "

I don't think he wanted to ... it sounded like he was put off since she put the weight on, he asked should he have asked or should he just have said no thanks.

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By *91kMan over a year ago

Maidstone

Okay so as you can see by now, this was not the way to go about this...

As mentioned, it could have damaged her self esteem and confidence in herself.

How do you know she hadn't spent ages plucking up the courage to share that picture? Then you go and say that to her

Then you made the situation worse for yourself by posting it on here for all to see

she can't see it if she's blocked me.maybe i was stupid asking but it did look quite alot bigger"

She can't see what, your message? Of course she saw it that's why she blocked you...

And regardless of who is/isn't blocked all forums posts are visible. Meaning she could see this thread too ya numpty

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By *acial giver OP Man over a year ago

hull

"That’s the problem nowadays you have to pussyfoot around everyone as everything is offensive to everyone"

This is what i dont get it was a yes or no answer i could have said your arse is massive

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

OP as others have I suspect this is a wind up thread and if it is it's not big and it's not clever.

If it's genuinely not, can I ask how you've got to 53 and not learned the basics of being thoughtful and considerate? I wouldn't dream of asking someone I knew well that question, let alone a random person I was hoping to meet and get naked with - so I'm not surprised in the slightest you were blocked if indeed this whole thing is genuine

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By *uriouscouple83Couple over a year ago

Worcester

"I was a simple question i know alot have got lock down lard. If she asked me i would just said yes "

Please tell us that you didn’t use the word lard in your message.

It takes a lot of confidence and trust that people won’t be nasty for some people to post pics at all.

Let’s face it OP, you haven’t got any pics on your profile so you must not be comfortable for whatever reason.

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By *aughtyhotlipsWoman over a year ago

belfast

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I have no pics and I love me. I just don't want to spread the beauty.

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By *aughtyhotlipsWoman over a year ago

belfast

If you seen she had put on weight why would you need to ask her

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By *acial giver OP Man over a year ago

hull

"I was a simple question i know alot have got lock down lard. If she asked me i would just said yes

Please tell us that you didn’t use the word lard in your message.

It takes a lot of confidence and trust that people won’t be nasty for some people to post pics at all.

Let’s face it OP, you haven’t got any pics on your profile so you must not be comfortable for whatever reason. "

No i never i just asked have you put weight on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have no pics and I love me. I just don't want to spread the beauty."

Ah I can't even imagine how you look and it drives me bananas! I want to see you.

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By *orello-pieWoman over a year ago

southwest

No face pic or pictures on your profile! maybe she blocked you because you’re ugly, nothing to do with size of her ass or your small Dick!!!

And yes before you reply with a horrible comment I have a huge ass lol x

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By *uriouscouple83Couple over a year ago

Worcester

"I have no pics and I love me. I just don't want to spread the beauty."

But then I am sure wouldn’t body shame someone who has had the courage to send you a picture of their derrière.

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By *acial giver OP Man over a year ago

hull

No face pic or pictures on your profile! maybe she blocked you because you’re ugly, nothing to do with size of her ass or your small Dick!!!

And yes before you reply with a horrible comment I have a huge ass lol x "

Why do you assume ive a small dick when you just said ive no pics. I have but private if that's ok with you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP her weight isn't your business at the end of the day and we all know weight can be a sensitive subject so you do have to approach with caution.

I know it's easy to say she is too sensitive, and even I think it's a little much to block for a question that seems harmless, but who knows what she has been through with her weight, maybe an eating disorder where you could really trigger something deep within her by telling her she looks bigger. Or maybe she's depressed and having a terrible day beating herself up and then you make her feel even worse.

My advice would be forget about it, and if it has bothered you maybe take a different approach in the future.

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Is this still going

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I have no pics and I love me. I just don't want to spread the beauty.

But then I am sure wouldn’t body shame someone who has had the courage to send you a picture of their derrière. "

No. I'd never knowingly shame anyone. Not even an enemy.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Is this still going "

No. Legs Eleven. It's finished.

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Is this still going

No. Legs Eleven. It's finished."

Ahhh ok x

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By *acial giver OP Man over a year ago

hull

"Is this still going

No. Legs Eleven. It's finished."

Dont think it for you to say we live in a democracy

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By *orello-pieWoman over a year ago

southwest

"OP her weight isn't your business at the end of the day and we all know weight can be a sensitive subject so you do have to approach with caution.

My advice would be forget about it, and if it has bothered you maybe take a different approach in the future. "

In all seriousness this is good advice OP, learn from this lesson and know that none of us know what others are going through or challenges we are facing. Kindness is everything in life and I apologize about my comment Before x

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Is this still going

No. Legs Eleven. It's finished.

Dont think it for you to say we live in a democracy

You need to lift the Matrix a little dear heart.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is this still going

No. Legs Eleven. It's finished.

Dont think it for you to say we live in a democracy

In that case, I vote that this thread never ends

too funny

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By *91kMan over a year ago

Maidstone

"I have no pics and I love me. I just don't want to spread the beauty.

But then I am sure wouldn’t body shame someone who has had the courage to send you a picture of their derrière. "

Try being a naked butler.

People absolutely tear that derriere apart and believe me... That is not wanted, in verbal nor physical format

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

At least us women know we need to block you after that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My time honoured advice would be, If you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all. You could have had a conversation about any other topic in the whole wide world of topics, but you went with are you fat.

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By *ensualtouch15Man over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

So just to add to the contradiction thread

Why is it wrong of me to infer that those who suggest the OP is wrong may also not think size gain IS a positive attribute ?

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By *acial giver OP Man over a year ago

hull

"OP her weight isn't your business at the end of the day and we all know weight can be a sensitive subject so you do have to approach with caution.

My advice would be forget about it, and if it has bothered you maybe take a different approach in the future.

No need to apologise maybe i should put we had been chatting for weeks and was going to meet up. Strange thing is she's not even fat is size 12 we used to laugh about lock down lard

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"So just to add to the contradiction thread

Why is it wrong of me to infer that those who suggest the OP is wrong may also not think size gain IS a positive attribute ? "

That's up to the individual to decide not you

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"I have no pics and I love me. I just don't want to spread the beauty.

But then I am sure wouldn’t body shame someone who has had the courage to send you a picture of their derrière.

Try being a naked butler.

People absolutely tear that derriere apart and believe me... That is not wanted, in verbal nor physical format

Show off

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By *ensualtouch15Man over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"So just to add to the contradiction thread

Why is it wrong of me to infer that those who suggest the OP is wrong may also not think size gain IS a positive attribute ? "

I assume that all that suggest the OP has a small willy also think small Willys are in desirable??

I also note

You cant change your silly size to a better bigger size

Then awfully offensive suggest she could change to a more desirable size

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why the fuck would you ask a lady if she's put weight on ???.

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By *acial giver OP Man over a year ago

hull

"Why the fuck would you ask a lady if she's put weight on ???."

Because i can we dont live in russia

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why the fuck would you ask a lady if she's put weight on ???.

Because i can we dont live in russia"

I'm willing to bet you're a short little man, shaped like a bowling ball with an inverted cock but massive dangling bollocks that are full of green cum? Balding head but with a long and stupid looking comb over. Milk bottle glasses and fat little sausage fingers?

Just show me your willy!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

. You haven’t read the handbook have you?

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By *uriouscouple83Couple over a year ago

Worcester

"Try being a naked butler.

People absolutely tear that derriere apart and believe me... That is not wanted, in verbal nor physical format

That must be absolutely unbearable

Do you have a card? Asking for a friend

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By *oxyvixen99Woman over a year ago

Newtownabbey

You can ask, up to her whether or not she answers

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By *acial giver OP Man over a year ago

hull

"Why the fuck would you ask a lady if she's put weight on ???.

Because i can we dont live in russia

Just show me your willy!

You sad weird bastard

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Why the fuck would you ask a lady if she's put weight on ???.

Because i can we dont live in russia

Just show me your willy!

You sad weird bastard

No just no

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why the fuck would you ask a lady if she's put weight on ???.

Because i can we dont live in russia

Just show me your willy!

You sad weird bastard

I'm right though aren't I?

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By *ensualtouch15Man over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"So just to add to the contradiction thread

Why is it wrong of me to infer that those who suggest the OP is wrong may also not think size gain IS a positive attribute ?

That's up to the individual to decide not you "

You are 100 percent correct it's up to the individual to decide if they are inconsistent and self contradicting

All shapes sizes should be considered equally no better or worse

Dont tell a person they are larger because being thought of as larger is not good

Spot the inconsistency

If you truly truly truly think that all sizes are fabulous that's utterly brilliant but logically and honestly you should then not perpetuate a lie that being larger is automatically a derogatory suggestion

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By *acial giver OP Man over a year ago

hull

"You can ask, up to her whether or not she answers "

The only comment that is sensible and your a woman

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By *abs..Woman over a year ago

I’m not sure why you would ask a question like that.

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By *acial giver OP Man over a year ago

hull

"So just to add to the contradiction thread

Why is it wrong of me to infer that those who suggest the OP is wrong may also not think size gain IS a positive attribute ?

That's up to the individual to decide not you

You are 100 percent correct it's up to the individual to decide if they are inconsistent and self contradicting

All shapes sizes should be considered equally no better or worse

Dont tell a person they are larger because being thought of as larger is not good

Spot the inconsistency

I actually prefer a fuller figure not keen on skinny women

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By *acey_RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

"You can ask, up to her whether or not she answers

The only comment that is sensible and your a woman

Must be her turn on the shared braincell today.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

At least she wasn't hiding behind a silhouette and insulting people.

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"At least she wasn't hiding behind a silhouette and insulting people. "

Xxxx

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"So just to add to the contradiction thread

Why is it wrong of me to infer that those who suggest the OP is wrong may also not think size gain IS a positive attribute ?

That's up to the individual to decide not you

You are 100 percent correct it's up to the individual to decide if they are inconsistent and self contradicting

All shapes sizes should be considered equally no better or worse

Dont tell a person they are larger because being thought of as larger is not good

Spot the inconsistency

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You’re 53 and you still haven’t figured out how to speak to women ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Did you send her a picture of your ass, OP?

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By *acial giver OP Man over a year ago

hull

"You’re 53 and you still haven’t figured out how to speak to women ? "

To be fair ill never be speaking to you??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Would you do it in real life?

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By *acial giver OP Man over a year ago

hull

"Did you send her a picture of your ass, OP?"

Yes she's seen arse and cock i was going to meet her. But not now

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By *evoncream2017Couple over a year ago

exeter

Oh dear. No no no

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

"OP her weight isn't your business at the end of the day and we all know weight can be a sensitive subject so you do have to approach with caution.

My advice would be forget about it, and if it has bothered you maybe take a different approach in the future.

No need to apologise maybe i should put we had been chatting for weeks and was going to meet up. Strange thing is she's not even fat is size 12 we used to laugh about lock down lard"

A size 12 is too fat for you?

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By *acial giver OP Man over a year ago

hull

Would you do it in real life?"

Yes i have done is that a problem

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not exactly polite is it?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Did you send her a picture of your ass, OP?

Yes she's seen arse and cock i was going to meet her. But not now"

You were going to meet her even though she had a big ass and you obviously had an issue with it?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Funny how people automatically presume a bigger ass Is a negative, Plenty of men like myself love a fuller derrière and see it as a positive, I suggest people cool their jets.

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By *acial giver OP Man over a year ago

hull

"OP her weight isn't your business at the end of the day and we all know weight can be a sensitive subject so you do have to approach with caution.

My advice would be forget about it, and if it has bothered you maybe take a different approach in the future.

No need to apologise maybe i should put we had been chatting for weeks and was going to meet up. Strange thing is she's not even fat is size 12 we used to laugh about lock down lard

A size 12 is too fat for you? "

No if you read it properly you will see i never said that. But thanks for your kind words

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By *acial giver OP Man over a year ago

hull

"Did you send her a picture of your ass, OP?

Yes she's seen arse and cock i was going to meet her. But not now

You were going to meet her even though she had a big ass and you obviously had an issue with it?"

No not at all like i said i prefer bigger ladies to skinny. Read what i said before you comment

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Love your profile, nice to see someone put the effort in

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You should have been more tactful OP

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By *abs..Woman over a year ago

"Funny how people automatically presume a bigger ass Is a negative, Plenty of men like myself love a fuller derrière and see it as a positive, I suggest people cool their jets."

Surely it’s about the lady though as she is the one he was asking? In this case she clearly didn’t take kindly.

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By *91kMan over a year ago

Maidstone

"Try being a naked butler.

People absolutely tear that derriere apart and believe me... That is not wanted, in verbal nor physical format

That must be absolutely unbearable

Do you have a card? Asking for a friend

It was meant in a light hearted way

apart from that pride festival we did, my cheeks were literally red raw

Hahaha would your friend like a booking

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By *acial giver OP Man over a year ago

hull

"Love your profile, nice to see someone put the effort in

And your point is ?????? Keyboard warrior alert

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Did you send her a picture of your ass, OP?

Yes she's seen arse and cock i was going to meet her. But not now

You were going to meet her even though she had a big ass and you obviously had an issue with it?

No not at all like i said i prefer bigger ladies to skinny. Read what i said before you comment"

Why would you ask her if she has put on weight then? No need to read the whole thread, your original post is enough for me to comment on.

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

"It’s all about the words...

Should i just said your to fat for me"

You did say that op!

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By *acial giver OP Man over a year ago

hull

"It’s all about the words...

Should i just said your to fat for me

You did say that op!"

I said i prefer bigger women dont like skinny women so any size over 12 is fine with me

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By *acial giver OP Man over a year ago

hull

"Did you send her a picture of your ass, OP?

Yes she's seen arse and cock i was going to meet her. But not now

You were going to meet her even though she had a big ass and you obviously had an issue with it?

No not at all like i said i prefer bigger ladies to skinny. Read what i said before you comment

Why would you ask her if she has put on weight then? No need to read the whole thread, your original post is enough for me to comment on."

To be honest didnt think it would be a issue. Like i said we laughed joked about lockdown lard

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This made me chuckle (

)

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

"It’s all about the words...

Should i just said your to fat for me

You did say that op!

I said i prefer bigger women dont like skinny women so any size over 12 is fine with me"

You asked if you should just have told her she's too fat for you, then later said she's a size 12 which isn't too fat for you. Methinks you're just fibbing.

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By *oxyvixen99Woman over a year ago

Newtownabbey

"You can ask, up to her whether or not she answers

The only comment that is sensible and your a woman

"
shocking eh

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why the fuck would you ask a lady if she's put weight on ???.

Because i can we dont live in russia

Just show me your willy!

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By *acial giver OP Man over a year ago

hull

"It’s all about the words...

Should i just said your to fat for me

You did say that op!

I said i prefer bigger women dont like skinny women so any size over 12 is fine with me

You asked if you should just have told her she's too fat for you, then later said she's a size 12 which isn't too fat for you. Methinks you're just fibbing. "

Me thinks your taking things out of context.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Would you do it in real life?

Yes i have done is that a problem"

Did it work out for you that time then?

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By *acial giver OP Man over a year ago

hull

Thank you all for your lovely comments she now unblocked me and apologised for taking it the wrong way....

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By *acial giver OP Man over a year ago

hull

Would you do it in real life?

Yes i have done is that a problem

Did it work out for you that time then? "

Ha yes it has we will be having sex soon x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thank you all for your lovely comments she now unblocked me and apologised for taking it the wrong way.... "

Oh that's good but you dont want to meet her now anyway so she wont have to endure your nastiness.

Show me your willy please

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

"Thank you all for your lovely comments she now unblocked me and apologised for taking it the wrong way.... "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Would you do it in real life?

Yes i have done is that a problem

Did it work out for you that time then?

Ha yes it has we will be having sex soon x"

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By *oupleforxtrafunCouple over a year ago

Nottingham

"Thank you all for your lovely comments she now unblocked me and apologised for taking it the wrong way....

Oh that's good but you dont want to meet her now anyway so she wont have to endure your nastiness.

Show me your willy please

"
lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You were doing so well in that she actually chose to send you pics, or was that the first.

Truthfully though it can be entertaining. On the flip side of that was a fake dentist profile asking me which daisies I preferred.

Neither thankyou as I like wildflowers in the fields.

His response

'I only asked so I know which flowers to put on your coffin when I'm murdering your pussy'

I have no idea what the local cat did to offend him so much. However I chose not to block just asked please never message me again, crude. To which he blocked me.

There are certainly some queer folk out there.

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