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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So after seeing quite a few threads that seem to pit one body type against the other, I decided to do something different.
We are all different. Different shapes, different sizes and that is what makes us beautiful. They say beauty is in the eye of the beholder but we need to be able to love ourselves too. That's not easy to do when society is constantly telling us we need to look a certain way to be classed as beautiful or sexy. Sexy is subjective, everyone will see sexy as something different and that's okay. If we were all the same the world would be a very boring place.
To back this up - as I can be just as bad for hating my body - I've changed my avatar to a pic of the bits I really don't like about me. It's completely unfiltered and raw for all to see, In the hope that some of you will join in and we can share our natural beauty with eachother.
I will do my best to reply to everyone but please support eachother too.
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
As you know, hate mine. This is a completely unfiltered version and oh dear god. Hate that bit between the boobs and the bum.
Not fishing for compliments because nothing anyone can say will make a difference to my feelings about it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"As you know, hate mine. This is a completely unfiltered version and oh dear god. Hate that bit between the boobs and the bum.
Not fishing for compliments because nothing anyone can say will make a difference to my feelings about it. "
I do know and I also know me telling you your gorgeous will make no difference but you are gorgeous, inside and out 
Thank you lovely xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As you know, hate mine. This is a completely unfiltered version and oh dear god. Hate that bit between the boobs and the bum.
Not fishing for compliments because nothing anyone can say will make a difference to my feelings about it. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I love myself and my body. Well there days with and days without. But I do love myself mostly. And that is really important to keep myself happy. "
It is very important and it's wonderful that you do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As you know, hate mine. This is a completely unfiltered version and oh dear god. Hate that bit between the boobs and the bum.
Not fishing for compliments because nothing anyone can say will make a difference to my feelings about it.
I do know and I also know me telling you your gorgeous will make no difference but you are gorgeous, inside and out
Thank you lovely xx"
Sparkles gorgeous |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am happy with the person i am and the body i am in . Its taken alot of years to get to feel like this .
Self love isn't a narcissist thing , its coming to terms with who you are
Be as compassionate with your self as you are with others 
Great thread Sparkles x x x x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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For me it's not about body size/shape but it really is personality and you as a person.
And the undedinable quality which will make someone sexy in my eyes regardless of body |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"As you know, hate mine. This is a completely unfiltered version and oh dear god. Hate that bit between the boobs and the bum.
Not fishing for compliments because nothing anyone can say will make a difference to my feelings about it.
I do know and I also know me telling you your gorgeous will make no difference but you are gorgeous, inside and out
Thank you lovely xx
Sparkles gorgeous "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I am happy with the person i am and the body i am in . Its taken alot of years to get to feel like this .
Self love isn't a narcissist thing , its coming to terms with who you are
Be as compassionate with your self as you are with others
Great thread Sparkles x x x x"
Thank you Taff and I agree completely. It's one of the toughest things to do for a lot of people, me included xx |
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I have good days and bad days. It's a work in progress. But more good than bad and certainly better that say, this time two years ago.
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I'll be brave with my profile pic and show a little more than normal |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"As you know, hate mine. This is a completely unfiltered version and oh dear god. Hate that bit between the boobs and the bum.
Not fishing for compliments because nothing anyone can say will make a difference to my feelings about it.
I do know and I also know me telling you your gorgeous will make no difference but you are gorgeous, inside and out
Thank you lovely xx"
You know it means a lot from you and I think the same about you woman xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"For me it's not about body size/shape but it really is personality and you as a person.
And the undedinable quality which will make someone sexy in my eyes regardless of body "
Completely agree |
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"As you know, hate mine. This is a completely unfiltered version and oh dear god. Hate that bit between the boobs and the bum.
Not fishing for compliments because nothing anyone can say will make a difference to my feelings about it. "
I'm like you. I like the bit from chest up and my bum. Bit in between, much less so  |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
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I have good days and bad days. It's a work in progress. But more good than bad and certainly better that say, this time two years ago.
I'll be brave with my profile pic and show a little more than normal "
Go for it you beautiful woman. A gorgeous lady inside and outside and I love you xx |
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I have good days and bad days. It's a work in progress. But more good than bad and certainly better that say, this time two years ago.
I'll be brave with my profile pic and show a little more than normal
Go for it you beautiful woman. A gorgeous lady inside and outside and I love you xx"
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I don't love my body, however I'm thankful to it for getting me this far despite everything I've thrown at it.
I love myself as in the who of me, although I'm well aware I need much tweaking to like who I am, or moreso the "why" I am. |
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"As you know, hate mine. This is a completely unfiltered version and oh dear god. Hate that bit between the boobs and the bum.
Not fishing for compliments because nothing anyone can say will make a difference to my feelings about it. "
Bloody stunning pic woman, I told you that yesterday |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I have good days and bad days. It's a work in progress. But more good than bad and certainly better that say, this time two years ago.
I'll be brave with my profile pic and show a little more than normal "
Thank you for joining in gorgeous |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I don't love my body, however I'm thankful to it for getting me this far despite everything I've thrown at it.
I love myself as in the who of me, although I'm well aware I need much tweaking to like who I am, or moreso the "why" I am."
Loving ourselves inside is just as important, you keep going. You are a wonderful, strong woman |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OK, fat me is up for a bit 
Not fat at all, thank you
I'm not exactly svelte, Sparkly lovely lady  "
You are a wonderfully kind and beautiful woman who I'm honoured to call a friend. One day we'll get our hug xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Lovely thread! I have lumps, bumps and wobbly bits then I remember at 46 years of age I am going to have some wobbles
Work in progress I guess. That best describes me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lovely thread! I have lumps, bumps and wobbly bits then I remember at 46 years of age I am going to have some wobbles
Work in progress I guess. That best describes me "
And yup, my tummy. I love it and hate it, too lumpy but it has carried and kept safe the most precious humans in my world |
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"OK, fat me is up for a bit
Not fat at all, thank you
I'm not exactly svelte, Sparkly lovely lady
You are a wonderfully kind and beautiful woman who I'm honoured to call a friend. One day we'll get our hug xx"
I can't wait to be able to get my sparkly hug |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I’m at peace with my body with all its scars and marks. Thank you for posting this thread my sparkly friend and those of you who aren’t brave enough to post a pic, just write something |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Lovely thread! I have lumps, bumps and wobbly bits then I remember at 46 years of age I am going to have some wobbles
Work in progress I guess. That best describes me
And yup, my tummy. I love it and hate it, too lumpy but it has carried and kept safe the most precious humans in my world "
Beautiful thank you xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’m just normal guy older than I want to be but not a lot I can do about that  "
Nope, not much we can do about our age unfortunately thank you for joining in |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"People posting pics of their 'bad bits' that still look a trillion times better than my 'good' bits. "
I very much doubt that but there's no pressure to post |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Who gives a monkeys!
we should always learn to love ourselves. we are just all perfect imperfections!!!
I am for sure nowhere near perfect and if you don’t like it. you can just jump in a Uber "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m at peace with my body with all its scars and marks. Thank you for posting this thread my sparkly friend and those of you who aren’t brave enough to post a pic, just write something "
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
I have days when my body bothers me more than others - I accept it for what it is though and know for the most part there's not a lot I can do about it and also accept that to those that matter it's not my body that matters but the person inside it, and him I'm at peace with.
I will, when I can, be heading back to the gym to try and do something about my gut though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Waiting for mine to upload.
I have big issues with my body but I'm learning to live with them.
Jo.Xx "
Nothing wrong with your body from where I'm looking. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My body, my skin, my colour, my lines, my shape... They are what they are...
Sexy isnt a shape, it's an attitude
Whatever you have, wear it with confidence and give zero fucks what others think |
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"Changed my avatar pic for this, I won’t keep it there for long 
I love it! I really like scars.
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Skydrol, I genuinely have no idea why anyone would look at your scar and have any issues with it? However it happened, its just a scar. An old injury. Most people have scars of some sort. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My body, my skin, my colour, my lines, my shape... They are what they are...
Sexy isnt a shape, it's an attitude
Whatever you have, wear it with confidence and give zero fucks what others think "
This |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have days when my body bothers me more than others - I accept it for what it is though and know for the most part there's not a lot I can do about it and also accept that to those that matter it's not my body that matters but the person inside it, and him I'm at peace with.
I will, when I can, be heading back to the gym to try and do something about my gut though "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"My body, my skin, my colour, my lines, my shape... They are what they are...
Sexy isnt a shape, it's an attitude
Whatever you have, wear it with confidence and give zero fucks what others think "
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"Waiting for mine to upload.
I have big issues with my body but I'm learning to live with them.
Jo.Xx
Nothing wrong with your body from where I'm looking. X"
Thank you.
But no matter what others say. I won't think it until 'I' believe it.
I genuinely do appreciate the compliment though.
Jo.Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Changed my avatar pic for this, I won’t keep it there for long
I love it! I really like scars.
Skydrol, I genuinely have no idea why anyone would look at your scar and have any issues with it? However it happened, its just a scar. An old injury. Most people have scars of some sort. "
Thank you, it’s taken me a lot to accept it if I ever will |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Waiting for mine to upload.
I have big issues with my body but I'm learning to live with them.
Jo.Xx "
I mean this Jo, your body is beautiful. And I love whenever I see your photos pop up on my feed. |
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So after seeing quite a few threads that seem to pit one body type against the other, I decided to do something different.
We are all different. Different shapes, different sizes and that is what makes us beautiful. They say beauty is in the eye of the beholder but we need to be able to love ourselves too. That's not easy to do when society is constantly telling us we need to look a certain way to be classed as beautiful or sexy. Sexy is subjective, everyone will see sexy as something different and that's okay. If we were all the same the world would be a very boring place.
To back this up - as I can be just as bad for hating my body - I've changed my avatar to a pic of the bits I really don't like about me. It's completely unfiltered and raw for all to see, In the hope that some of you will join in and we can share our natural beauty with eachother.
I will do my best to reply to everyone but please support eachother too.
Happy Sunday all "
I love this!
I recently posted a photo of Babygirl on her back, nipples in clamps and tummy in full view.
She hate her tits as she thinks they are to small and her tummy because of stretch marks.
The bits she hates are also my favourite and I loved seeing her like that.
That photo is rapidly becoming very fabled and is also the one we have probably received the most direct messages about.
We are all so critical of our bodies but remember, what we think is unattractive may well be the bits others like the most. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People posting pics of their 'bad bits' that still look a trillion times better than my 'good' bits.
I very much doubt that but there's no pressure to post "
I once read an article about supermodels. (Old name for them so it was many many years ago!)
They said they had body issues too - always some part they wanted bigger or smaller or different.
That helped me, knowing that. Great thread OP. X
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I (fem) spent dacades struggling with body image issues. I'd avoid mirrors, refuse to be photographed, hide my body under shapeless clothes.
It has taken a long time for me to learn to love the skin I'm in & not to constantly compare myself to others. Now, whilst there are undoubtedly things I would like to change, & I still have occasional moments of insecurity, I am generally comfortable with my body, can see beyond the flaws, and celebrate it.
K |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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So after seeing quite a few threads that seem to pit one body type against the other, I decided to do something different.
We are all different. Different shapes, different sizes and that is what makes us beautiful. They say beauty is in the eye of the beholder but we need to be able to love ourselves too. That's not easy to do when society is constantly telling us we need to look a certain way to be classed as beautiful or sexy. Sexy is subjective, everyone will see sexy as something different and that's okay. If we were all the same the world would be a very boring place.
To back this up - as I can be just as bad for hating my body - I've changed my avatar to a pic of the bits I really don't like about me. It's completely unfiltered and raw for all to see, In the hope that some of you will join in and we can share our natural beauty with eachother.
I will do my best to reply to everyone but please support eachother too.
Happy Sunday all
I love this!
I recently posted a photo of Babygirl on her back, nipples in clamps and tummy in full view.
She hate her tits as she thinks they are to small and her tummy because of stretch marks.
The bits she hates are also my favourite and I loved seeing her like that.
That photo is rapidly becoming very fabled and is also the one we have probably received the most direct messages about.
We are all so critical of our bodies but remember, what we think is unattractive may well be the bits others like the most."
It's a beautiful pic and yes, agree completely about the bits we don't like are usually the parts others do. I'm very self conscious of my boobs and trying to build a better relationship with them but have a friend who absolutely adores them and all the bits I don't like.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"People posting pics of their 'bad bits' that still look a trillion times better than my 'good' bits.
I very much doubt that but there's no pressure to post
I once read an article about supermodels. (Old name for them so it was many many years ago!)
They said they had body issues too - always some part they wanted bigger or smaller or different.
That helped me, knowing that. Great thread OP. X
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The fashion/modelling industry is riddled with people with body issues. They are people just like you and I.
Thank you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I (fem) spent dacades struggling with body image issues. I'd avoid mirrors, refuse to be photographed, hide my body under shapeless clothes.
It has taken a long time for me to learn to love the skin I'm in & not to constantly compare myself to others. Now, whilst there are undoubtedly things I would like to change, & I still have occasional moments of insecurity, I am generally comfortable with my body, can see beyond the flaws, and celebrate it.
K"
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By (user no longer on site)
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Ok well here’s the bit I hate above all the other bits I hate and try and hide in any photos , no one has ran away screaming yet when I’ve got undressed but I’m sure there will be a first time |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't like how i look, I have scars from surgery, wobbly tummy/skin from putting a lot of weight on twice due to medication i had to take but I'm still here so count myself very lucky x
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I love this thread, it's so nice to see a range of people posting and posting unfiltered photos - you're beautiful in your own unique way and I've really enjoyed seeing them. We're our own worst critic and we shouldn't be x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I forgot to add that what you see is me as I don't use filters ect. I do have a new shower vid which shows me as I am and I'll make it public for a little while x |
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I have a picture of my stomach from LBC thread a while back. When I initially put it up I put it from private to public so many times. Would people see me differently because of my stomach etc etc.
But when speaking to someone else about it, they mentioned that I'm on the tipping point of being confident. And I guess that rang true, so I left it up. And I've not had one negative comment about that picture though I dislike it. Body confident I may not be but I'm really working towards accepting it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a picture of my stomach from LBC thread a while back. When I initially put it up I put it from private to public so many times. Would people see me differently because of my stomach etc etc.
But when speaking to someone else about it, they mentioned that I'm on the tipping point of being confident. And I guess that rang true, so I left it up. And I've not had one negative comment about that picture though I dislike it. Body confident I may not be but I'm really working towards accepting it "
Gorgeous xxx |
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It’s taken me a long, long time to like my body with all it’s faults. Scars from surgeries, spongey. cellulite, wobbly bits and being married to someone who got enjoyment from body shaming. But, I love me now and that’s what’s important. |
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When I first joined a few years back I only did it so I could post anonymous nude pics and gauge whether anyone would actually be attracted to me. I was terrified people would see my floppy, scarred mum belly and run a mile! A few years down the line I still hate lots of bits of me, but I care soooooo much less and have even become a bit of an exhibitionist! I love looking at so many different bodies on here and quite often the bits I find hottest are the same bits they're insecure about, so I now think fuck it, some people will be into my dodgy parts too |
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So after seeing quite a few threads that seem to pit one body type against the other, I decided to do something different.
We are all different. Different shapes, different sizes and that is what makes us beautiful. They say beauty is in the eye of the beholder but we need to be able to love ourselves too. That's not easy to do when society is constantly telling us we need to look a certain way to be classed as beautiful or sexy. Sexy is subjective, everyone will see sexy as something different and that's okay. If we were all the same the world would be a very boring place.
To back this up - as I can be just as bad for hating my body - I've changed my avatar to a pic of the bits I really don't like about me. It's completely unfiltered and raw for all to see, In the hope that some of you will join in and we can share our natural beauty with eachother.
I will do my best to reply to everyone but please support eachother too.
Happy Sunday all "
Hey miss sparks
I will join in and post another pic....believe it or not the last one I posted I really despise but i know I have come a little ways as before I wouldn’t have even taken my shirt off.
(I’m nervous about this lol) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I first joined a few years back I only did it so I could post anonymous nude pics and gauge whether anyone would actually be attracted to me. I was terrified people would see my floppy, scarred mum belly and run a mile! A few years down the line I still hate lots of bits of me, but I care soooooo much less and have even become a bit of an exhibitionist! I love looking at so many different bodies on here and quite often the bits I find hottest are the same bits they're insecure about, so I now think fuck it, some people will be into my dodgy parts too "
Although I'm still not brave enough to display the ugly belly haha! I just figure by the time someone's there to see that in person I'll distract them so they don't notice it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Great thread Sparkles..
At the ripe old age of 50 now its more about living with and loving what I do have.. Good and bad days we all have,but if we are healthy and happy ish then thats all that counts.. I think we always see the worst in ourselves and beat ourselves up about our bodies instead of making the most of them.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ok well here’s the bit I hate above all the other bits I hate and try and hide in any photos , no one has ran away screaming yet when I’ve got undressed but I’m sure there will be a first time "
Thank you for joining in |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have not posted any new pics
The ones I have do show my body in its true form. I was fat as a kid and always have been to this day.
I am 6'3 and weigh about 23 stone. I am a 48-50" waste and have been for over ten years.
I spent years being bullied over my size.
Yes I'm fat but if you have an issue with that then it's your issue not mine. If you can't see beyond it then your missing out one meeting a loving and caring man.
I know this is a personal view please feel free to comment in the thread or private. |
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"I don't like how i look, I have scars from surgery, wobbly tummy/skin from putting a lot of weight on twice due to medication i had to take but I'm still here so count myself very lucky x
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have not posted any new pics
The ones I have do show my body in its true form. I was fat as a kid and always have been to this day.
I am 6'3 and weigh about 23 stone. I am a 48-50" waste and have been for over ten years.
I spent years being bullied over my size.
Yes I'm fat but if you have an issue with that then it's your issue not mine. If you can't see beyond it then your missing out one meeting a loving and caring man.
I know this is a personal view please feel free to comment in the thread or private. "
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I know a lot of these ladies in the thread....I would like to say that you are beautiful, amazing and sexy both inside and out and I feel honoured that I know you
(I could go on quite awhile with this but I’d best get back to my corner before I get more embarrassed ) |
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"I have not posted any new pics
The ones I have do show my body in its true form. I was fat as a kid and always have been to this day.
I am 6'3 and weigh about 23 stone. I am a 48-50" waste and have been for over ten years.
I spent years being bullied over my size.
Yes I'm fat but if you have an issue with that then it's your issue not mine. If you can't see beyond it then your missing out one meeting a loving and caring man.
I know this is a personal view please feel free to comment in the thread or private.
Waist dammit "
Thank you for sharing Wonko. I think everyone forgets that guys are equally likely to have body hang ups as women |
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I echo the OPs post but to add one thing - if you want to change your body and how you feel then it’s in your hands to do so. I’m happy to help anyone who wants to see feel free to message me. |
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"I have not posted any new pics
The ones I have do show my body in its true form. I was fat as a kid and always have been to this day.
I am 6'3 and weigh about 23 stone. I am a 48-50" waste and have been for over ten years.
I spent years being bullied over my size.
Yes I'm fat but if you have an issue with that then it's your issue not mine. If you can't see beyond it then your missing out one meeting a loving and caring man.
I know this is a personal view please feel free to comment in the thread or private.
Waist dammit
Thank you for sharing Wonko. I think everyone forgets that guys are equally likely to have body hang ups as women "
Your welcome |
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Great thread sparkles, I hate this pic, it’s one I’d normally delete. But I thought I’d show the real me at the moment. My stomach is scarred and wobbly and misshapen due to surgery and losing weight and putting some of the weight back on.
I know I have body dysmorphia and really don’t know what people find attractive about me, but at 55 I need to start accepting this is me. X |
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"Great thread sparkles, I hate this pic, it’s one I’d normally delete. But I thought I’d show the real me at the moment. My stomach is scarred and wobbly and misshapen due to surgery and losing weight and putting some of the weight back on.
I know I have body dysmorphia and really don’t know what people find attractive about me, but at 55 I need to start accepting this is me. X "
Scars are part of life. They tell the story of you and although they may not look nice they should be loved and cherished as they made you who you are today and we wouldn't have you any other way |
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"I echo the OPs post but to add one thing - if you want to change your body and how you feel then it’s in your hands to do so. I’m happy to help anyone who wants to see feel free to message me. "
Gianluca, some bits cannot be changed. The stretch marks, the saggy apron after childbirth, the loose skin etc. It doesn't go away with exercise or diet. Not everything can be fixed and maybe we shouldn't try to? |
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"When I first joined a few years back I only did it so I could post anonymous nude pics and gauge whether anyone would actually be attracted to me. I was terrified people would see my floppy, scarred mum belly and run a mile! A few years down the line I still hate lots of bits of me, but I care soooooo much less and have even become a bit of an exhibitionist! I love looking at so many different bodies on here and quite often the bits I find hottest are the same bits they're insecure about, so I now think fuck it, some people will be into my dodgy parts too "
You are stunning. |
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There's things I may wish were different, but when ask if I'd change them, I'm not sure? Would I be me?
I understand how people may feel, and its heartbreaking to see the impact it can have on their happiness and life.
Everyone deserves happiness at the very least. |
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"When I first joined a few years back I only did it so I could post anonymous nude pics and gauge whether anyone would actually be attracted to me. I was terrified people would see my floppy, scarred mum belly and run a mile! A few years down the line I still hate lots of bits of me, but I care soooooo much less and have even become a bit of an exhibitionist! I love looking at so many different bodies on here and quite often the bits I find hottest are the same bits they're insecure about, so I now think fuck it, some people will be into my dodgy parts too
You are stunning. "
Thank you so much Mrs! I feel the same about all the lovelies on this thread. My face is like  thinking 'you can't see you look great?' |
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"When I first joined a few years back I only did it so I could post anonymous nude pics and gauge whether anyone would actually be attracted to me. I was terrified people would see my floppy, scarred mum belly and run a mile! A few years down the line I still hate lots of bits of me, but I care soooooo much less and have even become a bit of an exhibitionist! I love looking at so many different bodies on here and quite often the bits I find hottest are the same bits they're insecure about, so I now think fuck it, some people will be into my dodgy parts too
You are stunning.
Thank you so much Mrs! I feel the same about all the lovelies on this thread. My face is like thinking 'you can't see you look great?'"
You do look hot in your lingerie |
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I used to hate my bum but with all the kind messages I've had from my short time on FAB i feel slightly happier to have changed my profile pic to show it.... im still not convinced its as great as some people tell me.... but at least i now have the courage to show it off! |
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"I used to hate my bum but with all the kind messages I've had from my short time on FAB i feel slightly happier to have changed my profile pic to show it.... im still not convinced its as great as some people tell me.... but at least i now have the courage to show it off! "
It’s a lovely bum |
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"Waiting for mine to upload.
I have big issues with my body but I'm learning to live with them.
Jo.Xx
I mean this Jo, your body is beautiful. And I love whenever I see your photos pop up on my feed. "
Awe LBC 
Thank you... You know I adore your body and you showing your curves gives me the courage and confidence to show mine.
Jo.Xx |
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"I echo the OPs post but to add one thing - if you want to change your body and how you feel then it’s in your hands to do so. I’m happy to help anyone who wants to see feel free to message me. "
"Grant me the serenity to accept the things that I cannot change the courage to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference."
But your offer is appreciated. 
Jo.Xx |
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I had years of (my now ex) husband telling me I was horrible to look at n no one would want me, I piled the weight in n hated myself. I stopped making any kind of effort as it was pointless, I left him a year ago, n now on my own journey of rebuilding myself back to the person I once was. Some days are good some are just ok luckily it’s rare to have a bad one now. I’m starting to get my confidence back and being on here has helped massively as I dare to put more pics up etc... I just need to get my ass in gear n take the plunge to start socialising again, n keep reminding myself how amazing I am xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Sorry for all the posts I missed, got distracted.
Really appreciate everyone who's joined in, posted pics and commented.
You are all wonderful and beautiful |
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"Sorry for all the posts I missed, got distracted.
Really appreciate everyone who's joined in, posted pics and commented.
You are all wonderful and beautiful "
As are you |
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"Sorry for all the posts I missed, got distracted.
Really appreciate everyone who's joined in, posted pics and commented.
You are all wonderful and beautiful "
And you are too |
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