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I so often see people complaining about the messages they receive and I can see why!
I decided to to block all the lovely gorgeous guys and the twats too.
Ladies...do wait for guys to come to you or do you go looking for your 'ideal'? Or both?
Guys...how do you feel about being blocked? |
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now ain't the best time for me to answer really as I'm not looking for anyone or anything.
But I've been a stumbler before. Someone would catch my attention in the forums and I'd stumble upon them that way.
Other than that if I felt a 'fix' was nearing I'd go to a club. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I block newbies, non photo-verified people and people with no public pics.
My mailbox is much better "
Me too.
I just couldn’t cope with the volume of mail I was receiving. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dont really like to block but if you get around 6 messages and no reply that's normally a big hit your pestering. The rude final message from them then the block from THEM is always funny. It's not about us being rude, your either not interested or you haven't read our profile so you're not getting a reply. But we so read every message |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I so often see people complaining about the messages they receive and I can see why!
I decided to to block all the lovely gorgeous guys and the twats too.
Ladies...do wait for guys to come to you or do you go looking for your 'ideal'? Or both?
Guys...how do you feel about being blocked?"
I block the most annoying ones |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I don't block all but I do have quite tight filters. If I'm looking for someone I prefer being proactive in doing so, that's not to say I don't appreciate a message or two but I generally think if they respond well to my first message, it bodes well for them and my vagina. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't block all but I do have quite tight filters. If I'm looking for someone I prefer being proactive in doing so, that's not to say I don't appreciate a message or two but I generally think if they respond well to my first message, it bodes well for them and my vagina. "
Which is in no way any reflection of your filters.. |
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"I block newbies, non photo-verified people and people with no public pics.
My mailbox is much better
Same
I never thought about doing this!
Its easier than blocking all men x"
This is a much better option for me x
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I don't block all but I do have quite tight filters. If I'm looking for someone I prefer being proactive in doing so, that's not to say I don't appreciate a message or two but I generally think if they respond well to my first message, it bodes well for them and my vagina.
Which is in no way any reflection of your filters.."
It took me a few minutes to realise what you were saying. Naughty Sam! |
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"I don't block all but I do have quite tight filters. If I'm looking for someone I prefer being proactive in doing so, that's not to say I don't appreciate a message or two but I generally think if they respond well to my first message, it bodes well for them and my vagina.
Which is in no way any reflection of your filters..
It took me a few minutes to realise what you were saying. Naughty Sam! "
And me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not fussed now. When I first joined fab I used to wonder why people did certain things, especially when they constantly changed and removed blocks and filters. Some folk do definitely play games with the block in combination with forum politics for attention or passive aggressive shitty nonsense etc, but others also have genuine honourable reasons too. It's not usually too productive trying to figure out one from the other - either way a block is a block.
I just take it for what it is and I think if someone chooses to do anything and it's not harming others then it's their choice and none of my concern. Not worth a second thought really so I just try to focus on the ppl who are interested and interesting, and leave the rest behind, innit.... |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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"Blocks have never bothered me in the slightest - the person obviously had their reason for doing so and that reason is no concern of mine...it really is as simple as that "
That’s the way I look at it as well. |
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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago
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"I so often see people complaining about the messages they receive and I can see why!
I decided to to block all the lovely gorgeous guys and the twats too.
Ladies...do wait for guys to come to you or do you go looking for your 'ideal'? Or both?
Guys...how do you feel about being blocked?"
I couldn't care, it their loss not mine and I wish them luck in finding what they want. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I so often see people complaining about the messages they receive and I can see why!
I decided to to block all the lovely gorgeous guys and the twats too.
Ladies...do wait for guys to come to you or do you go looking for your 'ideal'? Or both?
Guys...how do you feel about being blocked?"
I went looking but gave up because locals are Neanderthals.
If I want an ego boost I put my cleavage pic public and tick Looking For men.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Looks like I've gotta dress like a sexy ass lady now to get your attention Belle..?
Great pic. I'm sure someone has copied it.
Lol it's me... "
No I mean I think a woman copied that sexy pose you have there. Better keep an eye on her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Looks like I've gotta dress like a sexy ass lady now to get your attention Belle..?
Great pic. I'm sure someone has copied it.
Lol it's me...
No I mean I think a woman copied that sexy pose you have there. Better keep an eye on her. "
I'm just Captain Burke
Belle is the real McCoy...
Thankfully I've blocked all men so I wont be getting any unwanted attention lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If someone has blocked all males from messaging, why should it bother me? That’s their choice. As a few others have said thats just how it is on fab. I think the guys who get really abusive when they’re polietly told “no” are simply the ones who feel someone SHOULD have sex with them. That’s a whole different debate though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get the absolute rage when I find someone I like and I cant message due to filters. Makes my blood boil and I end up trashing my house. Especially when they're up for bum fun.....inconsiderate arseholes!
I'm kidding BTW! |
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"I so often see people complaining about the messages they receive and I can see why!
I decided to to block all the lovely gorgeous guys and the twats too.
Ladies...do wait for guys to come to you or do you go looking for your 'ideal'? Or both?
Guys...how do you feel about being blocked?"
Both! But if I see a particularly handsome guy I’ll inbox |
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Imagine not meeting everyones preferences and not having all the ladies and couples take an interest in your profile and messaging!
Being blocked is part of fab! Its like being pied on nights out it happens x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I so often see people complaining about the messages they receive and I can see why!
I decided to to block all the lovely gorgeous guys and the twats too.
Ladies...do wait for guys to come to you or do you go looking for your 'ideal'? Or both?
Guys...how do you feel about being blocked?
I went looking but gave up because locals are Neanderthals.
If I want an ego boost I put my cleavage pic public and tick Looking For men.
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It’s a bit irritating when I see someone nice, local, and a witty opening message springs to mind... only to find I can’t send one because I’m one year older than their filters allow. But I just move on, it’s their loss. |
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Both have advantages and disadvantages.
I've had my filters at "you shall not pass" (you can't message me if you're male, female, trans, or any kind of couple) since April because it's not worth it right now |
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"I get the absolute rage when I find someone I like and I cant message due to filters. Makes my blood boil and I end up trashing my house. Especially when they're up for bum fun.....inconsiderate arseholes!
I'm kidding BTW! "
The cheek of it all eh! |
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"Looks like I've gotta dress like a sexy ass lady now to get your attention Belle..?
Great pic. I'm sure someone has copied it.
Lol it's me...
No I mean I think a woman copied that sexy pose you have there. Better keep an eye on her.
I'm just Captain Burke
Belle is the real McCoy...
Thankfully I've blocked all men so I wont be getting any unwanted attention lol"
I loved your pic, it waa perfectly posed. You rocked the look |
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