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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

For a man to comment on or compliment another mans 'good looks' (or other attributes) without having to qualify it with 'btw I am straight' ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i feel the need to add 'btw im straight' when i compliment women.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

and I mean on here btw

I see so many posts with that qualification

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For a man to comment on or compliment another mans 'good looks' (or other attributes) without having to qualify it with 'btw I am straight' ?"

if they say nice cock then btw i am straight i'd have to wonder

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"i feel the need to add 'btw im straight' when i compliment women. "

but, why ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

personally for me if a guy wants to compliment me i just say thanks and im not bothered if hes straight or gay really,btw im straight lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"For a man to comment on or compliment another mans 'good looks' (or other attributes) without having to qualify it with 'btw I am straight' ?

if they say nice cock then btw i am straight i'd have to wonder"

am with you on the 'nice' cock front, but recognising someone has a big one or is an attractive fella facially or has a good body isn't a declaration of sexuality

it is an appreciation or at least a recognition of what is

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For a man to comment on or compliment another mans 'good looks' (or other attributes) without having to qualify it with 'btw I am straight' ?"

I don't see why not you can comment on a child being hansom or pretty without sexual meaning.

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

if I like the cock, I like the cock

and me saying it thro the tinternet, it never bothers me to say anything

now if I was shouting it thro their letterbox, maybe I might add a caveat

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i feel the need to add 'btw im straight' when i compliment women.

but, why ?"

because sometimes especially on a site like this, a compliment on someones appearance can be seen as a flirtatious statement. If you were to send out a message to someone you liked the look of with the intent of meeting surely you'd pay a compliment to the way that person looked

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By *innamon!Woman over a year ago

no matter

When I compliment a lady I dont feel the need to follow with I'm straight..I do smile at the reaction I get tho often quite surprised to receive positive comments from a women.

I love to message people and say good things. Sometimes not well taken though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For a man to comment on or compliment another mans 'good looks' (or other attributes) without having to qualify it with 'btw I am straight' ?

if they say nice cock then btw i am straight i'd have to wonder

am with you on the 'nice' cock front, but recognising someone has a big one or is an attractive fella facially or has a good body isn't a declaration of sexuality

it is an appreciation or at least a recognition of what is "

i agree, but can't see myself sending a message to another man saying i think they're good looking or got a good body. if they put it in pics they probably know it already.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For a man to comment on or compliment another mans 'good looks' (or other attributes) without having to qualify it with 'btw I am straight' ?

I don't see why not you can comment on a child being hansom or pretty without sexual meaning. "

I was going to say something similar. You can also say your mums pretty or your dads handsome to a make without having intentions of boneing them. Well I can

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"i feel the need to add 'btw im straight' when i compliment women.

but, why ?

but you can compliment people you see and have no intention (or hope of) ever meeting and it is meant as just that, a compliment

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For a man to comment on or compliment another mans 'good looks' (or other attributes) without having to qualify it with 'btw I am straight' ?"

I would imagine someone like Andrej Pejic gets told he "looks good" by straight men on a daily basis....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"For a man to comment on or compliment another mans 'good looks' (or other attributes) without having to qualify it with 'btw I am straight' ?

if they say nice cock then btw i am straight i'd have to wonder

am with you on the 'nice' cock front, but recognising someone has a big one or is an attractive fella facially or has a good body isn't a declaration of sexuality

it is an appreciation or at least a recognition of what is

i agree, but can't see myself sending a message to another man saying i think they're good looking or got a good body. if they put it in pics they probably know it already."

am not talking about private messages, am talking more forum posts

pm's are just that, private and in that the context of the remark, may take on a whole new meaning

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When I compliment a lady I dont feel the need to follow with I'm straight..I do smile at the reaction I get tho often quite surprised to receive positive comments from a women.

I love to message people and say good things. Sometimes not well taken though.

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you say nice things to me any day babe xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i will fab pictures of both sexes if they are artistic and appeal to me.

If i were to send the message though and im aware the woman is bi sexual and looking for a meet then i just add 'btw im striaght'

people on here are not always honest in their profiles when it comes to sexuality and so im just verifying that i am straight

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"i will fab pictures of both sexes if they are artistic and appeal to me.

If i were to send the message though and im aware the woman is bi sexual and looking for a meet then i just add 'btw im striaght'

people on here are not always honest in their profiles when it comes to sexuality and so im just verifying that i am straight "

because you think that the person may think you are coming on to them, or because you are scared they might come on to you ? or both ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i will fab pictures of both sexes if they are artistic and appeal to me.

If i were to send the message though and im aware the woman is bi sexual and looking for a meet then i just add 'btw im striaght'

people on here are not always honest in their profiles when it comes to sexuality and so im just verifying that i am straight

because you think that the person may think you are coming on to them, or because you are scared they might come on to you ? or both ?

more that im coming on to them, my intentions were innocent just to pay a compliment where its due

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"i will fab pictures of both sexes if they are artistic and appeal to me.

If i were to send the message though and im aware the woman is bi sexual and looking for a meet then i just add 'btw im striaght'

people on here are not always honest in their profiles when it comes to sexuality and so im just verifying that i am straight

because you think that the person may think you are coming on to them, or because you are scared they might come on to you ? or both ?

more that im coming on to them, my intentions were innocent just to pay a compliment where its due

so just let the compliment stand

if they feel the need to come back, then say 'thanks, but i am straight'

then bolt your doors and lock your windows

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

No not at all, if i complimented a guy doesnt mean i want to shag him or a woman. I get quite a few women coment on my profile and im sure they dont want to shag me

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By *abloBackMan over a year ago

London

I am not complimenting any men on here because I am a lesbian!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I am not complimenting any men on here because I am a lesbian!"

lol!! nice one

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For a man to comment on or compliment another mans 'good looks' (or other attributes) without having to qualify it with 'btw I am straight' ?"

yes

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By *londeCazWoman over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

It's obvious to me that should a straight guy compliment another guy, regardless whether the profile says straight/bi/gay, if they don't add the "btw I'm straight" comment, the complimentee immediately turns into a raging woofter and bombards the complimenter with messages, lurks in the foliage outside his house at all hours of the day and kidnaps his pet chinchilla

btw this is a joke (another caveat that seems to be becoming more common on the forums

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By *etillanteWoman over a year ago

It does seem perfectly acceptable for a lady to complment another lady. If a lady complimented me I would take it how it was intended whether she was straight, bi or lesbian.

Men should learn to accept the same in my humble opinion.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why not?

I would make complimentary comments about another woman's look/dress sense etc., without fear of being mistaken for hitting on her.

I believe it is more to do with the way it is said/done/etc...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It never bothers me. A compliment is a compliment.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

But Bussy, you're not straight, you drink from both taps!

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