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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
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"Definitely not.
Get chatting to a single woman, everything is going great, thinking of arranging a social & then she asks if I'd be interested in her fwb/boyfriend/husband joining "
This, or it's a bloke messaging you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definitely not.
Get chatting to a single woman, everything is going great, thinking of arranging a social & then she asks if I'd be interested in her fwb/boyfriend/husband joining "
I feel your pain  |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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Singles profiles that then say “boyfriend/husband/fwb must attend should be booted off or changed to a couple even if the guy is only watching.
Ok to say “He’ll come to a social for my safety” in our opinion but anymore & you’re a couple, whether he’s playing or not.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definitely not.
Get chatting to a single woman, everything is going great, thinking of arranging a social & then she asks if I'd be interested in her fwb/boyfriend/husband joining
This, or it's a bloke messaging you "
Exactly this to both points.
I have met women a handful of times from here but its really not easy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No. It’s much more difficult.
I wouldnt of thought that "
It’s probably the same as the majority of men find it on here. Extremely rare to get a message from a woman (apart from friends). Maybe once every 4/5 months or so. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Singles profiles that then say “boyfriend/husband/fwb must attend should be booted off or changed to a couple even if the guy is only watching.
Ok to say “He’ll come to a social for my safety” in our opinion but anymore & you’re a couple, whether he’s playing or not.
S"
Iv had this where the "woman has said her partner has to be for her safety, when i said "so I can bring mine for my safety"
I was told "urm my partner wouldn't be happy having another man there but he will make sure your safe too and its not a ploy just for safety".
Do these people think we are stupid. |
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Serious question: when you all do your bi ladies thread hot tub party's etc It seems from a outside straight female (ie me  ) point of view that you are all dabbling with each other.
Or is this not the case? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Serious question: when you all do your bi ladies thread hot tub party's etc It seems from a outside straight female (ie me ) point of view that you are all dabbling with each other.
Or is this not the case?"
No. I think distance is the issue. A while ago I tried to organise a big get together but it’s just a nightmare to organise. Shame as it would be fun. I’m not talking a big orgy! Just a girlie weekend and whatever happens happens so to speak x |
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"Serious question: when you all do your bi ladies thread hot tub party's etc It seems from a outside straight female (ie me ) point of view that you are all dabbling with each other.
Or is this not the case?
No. I think distance is the issue. A while ago I tried to organise a big get together but it’s just a nightmare to organise. Shame as it would be fun. I’m not talking a big orgy! Just a girlie weekend and whatever happens happens so to speak x"
That is a shame as I bet the girls would love that, even a pamper spa day leading into a fab social night would be fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Serious question: when you all do your bi ladies thread hot tub party's etc It seems from a outside straight female (ie me ) point of view that you are all dabbling with each other.
Or is this not the case?
No. I think distance is the issue. A while ago I tried to organise a big get together but it’s just a nightmare to organise. Shame as it would be fun. I’m not talking a big orgy! Just a girlie weekend and whatever happens happens so to speak x
That is a shame as I bet the girls would love that, even a pamper spa day leading into a fab social night would be fun "
Yes something like that would be brilliant x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Serious question: when you all do your bi ladies thread hot tub party's etc It seems from a outside straight female (ie me ) point of view that you are all dabbling with each other.
Or is this not the case?
No. I think distance is the issue. A while ago I tried to organise a big get together but it’s just a nightmare to organise. Shame as it would be fun. I’m not talking a big orgy! Just a girlie weekend and whatever happens happens so to speak x
That is a shame as I bet the girls would love that, even a pamper spa day leading into a fab social night would be fun "
That's a great idea actually.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Serious question: when you all do your bi ladies thread hot tub party's etc It seems from a outside straight female (ie me ) point of view that you are all dabbling with each other.
Or is this not the case?
No. I think distance is the issue. A while ago I tried to organise a big get together but it’s just a nightmare to organise. Shame as it would be fun. I’m not talking a big orgy! Just a girlie weekend and whatever happens happens so to speak x
That is a shame as I bet the girls would love that, even a pamper spa day leading into a fab social night would be fun That's a great idea actually. "
I know how to end a thread  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find it easier to meet woman I am way to picky when it comes to men I find woman more attractive and easier to get on with, just wish I could find woman that liked me I am not everyone's cup of tea being a bbw. |
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No. Harder. There always seems to be a fb/fwb/bf/partner/husband lurking in the background that will get mentioned as having to be there or watch. No!!! Single women should be exactly that, and meet as such x |
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"Serious question: when you all do your bi ladies thread hot tub party's etc It seems from a outside straight female (ie me ) point of view that you are all dabbling with each other.
Or is this not the case?
No. I think distance is the issue. A while ago I tried to organise a big get together but it’s just a nightmare to organise. Shame as it would be fun. I’m not talking a big orgy! Just a girlie weekend and whatever happens happens so to speak x
That is a shame as I bet the girls would love that, even a pamper spa day leading into a fab social night would be fun
Yes something like that would be brilliant x"
No fun spa day sounds flippin brilliant.  Mrs B x |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I suspect it's as hard if not harder than it is for a bisexual guy to meet a bisexual guy that doesn't want just to go straight to sex talk or talk of meeting - and that's blooming hard "
It's not about you, let the women have their thread. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I suspect it's as hard if not harder than it is for a bisexual guy to meet a bisexual guy that doesn't want just to go straight to sex talk or talk of meeting - and that's blooming hard "
My husband is on fab guys and has the same problem |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Much of the issues i'm reading here would be better resolved if Fab would enforce their policies on profile types.
If you are on here as a single, but your partner must be involved, you shouldnt be on here as a single. You should be on as a couple. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Much of the issues i'm reading here would be better resolved if Fab would enforce their policies on profile types.
If you are on here as a single, but your partner must be involved, you shouldnt be on here as a single. You should be on as a couple. "
Exactly. When we were looking to meet women together we had a joint profile. It’s wrong to look for that on a single profile. If I messaged a single woman’s profile I wouldn’t expect her to want a partner involved especially if it’s not specified on her profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Serious question: when you all do your bi ladies thread hot tub party's etc It seems from a outside straight female (ie me ) point of view that you are all dabbling with each other.
Or is this not the case?
No. I think distance is the issue. A while ago I tried to organise a big get together but it’s just a nightmare to organise. Shame as it would be fun. I’m not talking a big orgy! Just a girlie weekend and whatever happens happens so to speak x
That is a shame as I bet the girls would love that, even a pamper spa day leading into a fab social night would be fun
Yes something like that would be brilliant x
No fun spa day sounds flippin brilliant. Mrs B x"
Yaayyy Spa day!! I'm in... Also Incandescent was trying to establish interest for a club night, so that would be another great opportunity  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No I think with woman it’s harder, you want to establish that friendship too as well as attraction but it’s a fine line as then you don’t want to risk ruining your friendship |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No. Harder. There always seems to be a fb/fwb/bf/partner/husband lurking in the background that will get mentioned as having to be there or watch. No!!! Single women should be exactly that, and meet as such x"
Exactly this  and as a single fem, who looks for single fems, I have been perceived to be one of those with a hidden agenda, which couldn't be further from the truth.
Really frustrating  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"I suspect it's as hard if not harder than it is for a bisexual guy to meet a bisexual guy that doesn't want just to go straight to sex talk or talk of meeting - and that's blooming hard
It's not about you, let the women have their thread. "
And no-one said it was about me - was a straightforward answer to a straightforward question, no need to try and see something that patently wasn't there no matter how much you try and dilute it with poked tongues |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I suspect it's as hard if not harder than it is for a bisexual guy to meet a bisexual guy that doesn't want just to go straight to sex talk or talk of meeting - and that's blooming hard
It's not about you, let the women have their thread.
And no-one said it was about me - was a straightforward answer to a straightforward question, no need to try and see something that patently wasn't there no matter how much you try and dilute it with poked tongues"
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