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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

What puts you off people you started chatting to on here? I mean it started so well but then, poof! You lose interest. What did they say?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Most of the time it's nothing specific. It's more a feel thing.

When you know, you know.

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By *latinumkittenWoman over a year ago

from Home Counties to Middle Earth

Negativity

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Usually when I don't feel like I'm a priority because I'm a right diva like that.....

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By *otSoPoshWoman over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Depends. Sometimes it's just the feeling, sometimes they'll say something that bugs me.

Often it's "what size are your boobs"

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By *emorefridaCouple over a year ago

La la land

Been several occasions when a guy has called me a good girl. That's game over for me unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Might be any number of reasons. Sometimes it can be worth giving it a second chance...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What puts you off people you started chatting to on here? I mean it started so well but then, poof! You lose interest. What did they say?

Usually just a clash between personalities.

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By *B69Woman over a year ago

Wiltshire

When it gets repetitive

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh, and if they start asking me about my forum friends.... Defo trouble!

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By *emorefridaCouple over a year ago

La la land

"Depends. Sometimes it's just the feeling, sometimes they'll say something that bugs me.

Often it's "what size are your boobs" "

That annoys me like they actually know the difference between say a 34GG and 36G

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Women that eat berries from their feet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Yep I get every single one of your replies so far

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Someone that only wants to chat sex , that’s all good but I like a bit of ‘normal’ chatter too x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Most of the time it's nothing specific. It's more a feel thing.

When you know, you know.

Yes this and also some the convo just flows, others its just as if they can't be arsed because they are talking to several at once.

Or when the conversation is going great and they just say well do you fancy a fuck then or what.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Most of the time it's nothing specific. It's more a feel thing.

When you know, you know.

That's exactly it.

I don't have a list of things I don't like - I just feel it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Women that eat berries from their feet."

Except this one. Why does it have to be hands? Feet are just as good if trained

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Depends. Sometimes it's just the feeling, sometimes they'll say something that bugs me.

Often it's "what size are your boobs"

That annoys me like they actually know the difference between say a 34GG and 36G

What size are yours Frida?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Would love to but not free at min got any more pics

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

“Do you do race play”

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Women that eat berries from their feet.

Except this one. Why does it have to be hands? Feet are just as good if trained

But are the feet clean?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Women that eat berries from their feet.

Except this one. Why does it have to be hands? Feet are just as good if trained

But are the feet clean?"

Probably cleaner than some people’s hands. I do get if if they wanted to feed you said berries with their feet though...

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By *otSoPoshWoman over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Depends. Sometimes it's just the feeling, sometimes they'll say something that bugs me.

Often it's "what size are your boobs"

That annoys me like they actually know the difference between say a 34GG and 36G

I know!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"“Do you do race play”"

Really?

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman over a year ago

On a mooch

It really is just a vibe, not necessarily from anything they’ve said or done, but my gut says no and I listen to my gut

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By *otSoPoshWoman over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"What puts you off people you started chatting to on here? I mean it started so well but then, poof! You lose interest. What did they say?

How about you Inca?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"What puts you off people you started chatting to on here? I mean it started so well but then, poof! You lose interest. What did they say?

How about you Inca? "

When they’re too keen...

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By *otSoPoshWoman over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"What puts you off people you started chatting to on here? I mean it started so well but then, poof! You lose interest. What did they say?

How about you Inca?

When they’re too keen..."

Ahh yes. That one.....

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By *emorefridaCouple over a year ago

La la land

"Depends. Sometimes it's just the feeling, sometimes they'll say something that bugs me.

Often it's "what size are your boobs"

That annoys me like they actually know the difference between say a 34GG and 36G

I know! "

Though to be fair had a mate who was a plastic surgeon and he could guess women's bra sizes. It was his party trick. But the vast majority of men, why does it matter?

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By *acey_RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

Xenophobia, lies, making judgemental comments about others, trying to compliment me by putting others down, if there's just not a mental spark enough to maintain attraction, if they don't get my sense of humour, if they start feeling entitled to me and my time, if they get pissy if I don't always reply super quickly to their messages, if they start making weird comments about my partner, posting desperate sounding statuses, incompatiblity in sexual tastes... God that's a lot isn't it

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By *a LunaWoman over a year ago

South Wales

Too keen. Too clingy. They mention other women (the lack of discretion and tact), they fawn over me in pm and ignore me on the forums, that kind of thing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When they call me love/baby/sweeheart etc

Ask for pics/size my boobs are/what do I like

One sentence answers or returning to the conversation with "Hi/How are you/GoodMorning" etc. BORING !!

Disappearing for days at a time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've heard that many people lose interest in me because something better comes along

that really puts you in a bit of a pickle

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Women that eat berries from their feet.

Except this one. Why does it have to be hands? Feet are just as good if trained

But are the feet clean?

Probably cleaner than some people’s hands. I do get if if they wanted to feed you said berries with their feet though...

I'd be okay if they've had a bath. I'd even eat a strawberry from the bum!

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By *otSoPoshWoman over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Depends. Sometimes it's just the feeling, sometimes they'll say something that bugs me.

Often it's "what size are your boobs"

That annoys me like they actually know the difference between say a 34GG and 36G

I know!

Though to be fair had a mate who was a plastic surgeon and he could guess women's bra sizes. It was his party trick. But the vast majority of men, why does it matter? "

Exactly. My answer is usually "the left is as big as my head, the right slightly smaller"

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By *oxyvixen99Woman over a year ago

Newtownabbey

When the conversation is stilted, one word or emoji replies

When they start complaining about others on the site

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When they call me love/baby/sweeheart etc

Ask for pics/size my boobs are/what do I like

One sentence answers or returning to the conversation with "Hi/How are you/GoodMorning" etc. BORING !!

Disappearing for days at a time

People really ask the size of breasts???

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When the conversation is stilted, one word or emoji replies

When they start complaining about others on the site

That's the difference with me I always try and send a nice long message to begin with

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By *emorefridaCouple over a year ago

La la land

"Depends. Sometimes it's just the feeling, sometimes they'll say something that bugs me.

Often it's "what size are your boobs"

That annoys me like they actually know the difference between say a 34GG and 36G

I know!

Though to be fair had a mate who was a plastic surgeon and he could guess women's bra sizes. It was his party trick. But the vast majority of men, why does it matter?

Exactly. My answer is usually "the left is as big as my head, the right slightly smaller" "

Mine is bigger than your hands

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Depends. Sometimes it's just the feeling, sometimes they'll say something that bugs me.

Often it's "what size are your boobs"

That annoys me like they actually know the difference between say a 34GG and 36G

I know!

Though to be fair had a mate who was a plastic surgeon and he could guess women's bra sizes. It was his party trick. But the vast majority of men, why does it matter?

Exactly. My answer is usually "the left is as big as my head, the right slightly smaller" "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Too keen. Too clingy. They mention other women (the lack of discretion and tact), they fawn over me in pm and ignore me on the forums, that kind of thing

Oh yes. I have had that recently. The mentioning other fab ladies that they want to meet! All in messages to ME! Like... if they want to meet these others why not just message THEM. Such a turn off, as every woman wants to be made to feel special! Just because we are on fab doesn't mean you can't use manners guys and try to woo us!

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I've heard that many people lose interest in me because something better comes along

that really puts you in a bit of a pickle

How rude

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Xenophobia, lies, making judgemental comments about others, trying to compliment me by putting others down, if there's just not a mental spark enough to maintain attraction, if they don't get my sense of humour, if they start feeling entitled to me and my time, if they get pissy if I don't always reply super quickly to their messages, if they start making weird comments about my partner, posting desperate sounding statuses, incompatiblity in sexual tastes... God that's a lot isn't it

. "

Most of this

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What puts you off people you started chatting to on here? I mean it started so well but then, poof! You lose interest. What did they say?

Never mind that, lets talk some more about your bum!

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By *viatrixWoman over a year ago

Redhill

“So what does one have to do to have fun with you?”

(Pre-covid times) Asking to meet for a social and then leaving it to me to find a place to have a drink/meal...

Asking sex related questions as if we were in a job interview: “do you squirt? do you like oral/anal? what times are you available to meet?”

and a long etcetera.

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By *inkysexpotMan over a year ago

leeds

Sometimes its what they don't say...as in lack of effort when your having a conversation

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By *asilyled1Man over a year ago

ogmore valley

"Depends. Sometimes it's just the feeling, sometimes they'll say something that bugs me.

Often it's "what size are your boobs"

That annoys me like they actually know the difference between say a 34GG and 36G

What size are yours Frida?

34B I reckon!

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By *emorefridaCouple over a year ago

La la land

"Depends. Sometimes it's just the feeling, sometimes they'll say something that bugs me.

Often it's "what size are your boobs"

That annoys me like they actually know the difference between say a 34GG and 36G

What size are yours Frida?

Too big for you to handle

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By *emorefridaCouple over a year ago

La la land

"Depends. Sometimes it's just the feeling, sometimes they'll say something that bugs me.

Often it's "what size are your boobs"

That annoys me like they actually know the difference between say a 34GG and 36G

What size are yours Frida?

34B I reckon!

Waw how did you guess?

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By *oxyvixen99Woman over a year ago

Newtownabbey

"When the conversation is stilted, one word or emoji replies

When they start complaining about others on the site

That's the difference with me I always try and send a nice long message to begin with

I'm not talking about first messages though. I mean when the conversation dries up.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"What puts you off people you started chatting to on here? I mean it started so well but then, poof! You lose interest. What did they say?

Never mind that, lets talk some more about your bum!"

Can you ever have a non sexual convo with a woman Bants?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Sometimes its what they don't say...as in lack of effort when your having a conversation

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"“So what does one have to do to have fun with you?”

(Pre-covid times) Asking to meet for a social and then leaving it to me to find a place to have a drink/meal...

Asking sex related questions as if we were in a job interview: “do you squirt? do you like oral/anal? what times are you available to meet?”

and a long etcetera. "

Sounds like more of an interrogation than a conversation!

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By *otSoPoshWoman over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Depends. Sometimes it's just the feeling, sometimes they'll say something that bugs me.

Often it's "what size are your boobs"

That annoys me like they actually know the difference between say a 34GG and 36G

I know!

Though to be fair had a mate who was a plastic surgeon and he could guess women's bra sizes. It was his party trick. But the vast majority of men, why does it matter?

Exactly. My answer is usually "the left is as big as my head, the right slightly smaller"

There may have been a d*unken measuring situation once at the rugby club...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've always done my best to make sure that no conversation gets dried up there is always something to talk about

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What puts you off people you started chatting to on here? I mean it started so well but then, poof! You lose interest. What did they say?

Never mind that, lets talk some more about your bum!

Can you ever have a non sexual convo with a woman Bants?

Of course I can and I have done in the past....but what I chat about with my mother has nothing to do with anyone in here!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Depends. Sometimes it's just the feeling, sometimes they'll say something that bugs me.

Often it's "what size are your boobs"

That annoys me like they actually know the difference between say a 34GG and 36G

What size are yours Frida?

Too big for you to handle

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By *emorefridaCouple over a year ago

La la land

"Depends. Sometimes it's just the feeling, sometimes they'll say something that bugs me.

Often it's "what size are your boobs"

That annoys me like they actually know the difference between say a 34GG and 36G

I know!

Though to be fair had a mate who was a plastic surgeon and he could guess women's bra sizes. It was his party trick. But the vast majority of men, why does it matter?

Exactly. My answer is usually "the left is as big as my head, the right slightly smaller"

There may have been a d*unken measuring situation once at the rugby club...

Haha me and mates did once weigh our boobs whilst d*unk but that's a different story

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By *emorefridaCouple over a year ago

La la land

"Depends. Sometimes it's just the feeling, sometimes they'll say something that bugs me.

Often it's "what size are your boobs"

That annoys me like they actually know the difference between say a 34GG and 36G

What size are yours Frida?

Too big for you to handle

To be fair you had good warning

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By *partharmonyCouple over a year ago

Ruislip

"Someone that only wants to chat sex , that’s all good but I like a bit of ‘normal’ chatter too x"

Exactly! You've got to have something to talk about!

I had a perfectly pleasant but fairly uninteresting chat with a guy who asked some questions about our sex life - what we like, have done and want to do - which I answered. Then he asked if we wanted to meet. He seemed to think that asking us about our sex life counted as a conversation that would make us want to meet him. If somebody doesn't have anything more interesting to say or ask about than that then it's just going to be a no.

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By *otSoPoshWoman over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Depends. Sometimes it's just the feeling, sometimes they'll say something that bugs me.

Often it's "what size are your boobs"

That annoys me like they actually know the difference between say a 34GG and 36G

I know!

Though to be fair had a mate who was a plastic surgeon and he could guess women's bra sizes. It was his party trick. But the vast majority of men, why does it matter?

Exactly. My answer is usually "the left is as big as my head, the right slightly smaller"

There may have been a d*unken measuring situation once at the rugby club...

Haha me and mates did once weigh our boobs whilst d*unk but that's a different story

It's a fun time. Let's you and I do both when we get together...

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By *iamondCougarWoman over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"What puts you off people you started chatting to on here? I mean it started so well but then, poof! You lose interest. What did they say?

It’s usually mundane conversation - I’m not good with mundane

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By *emorefridaCouple over a year ago

La la land

"Depends. Sometimes it's just the feeling, sometimes they'll say something that bugs me.

Often it's "what size are your boobs"

That annoys me like they actually know the difference between say a 34GG and 36G

I know!

Though to be fair had a mate who was a plastic surgeon and he could guess women's bra sizes. It was his party trick. But the vast majority of men, why does it matter?

Exactly. My answer is usually "the left is as big as my head, the right slightly smaller"

There may have been a d*unken measuring situation once at the rugby club...

Haha me and mates did once weigh our boobs whilst d*unk but that's a different story

It's a fun time. Let's you and I do both when we get together...

I'll make sure to bring the scales lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Depends. Sometimes it's just the feeling, sometimes they'll say something that bugs me.

Often it's "what size are your boobs"

That annoys me like they actually know the difference between say a 34GG and 36G

What size are yours Frida?

Too big for you to handle

To be fair you had good warning

And I thought were were mates, I'm so ignoring your next message....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"What puts you off people you started chatting to on here? I mean it started so well but then, poof! You lose interest. What did they say?

It’s usually mundane conversation - I’m not good with mundane

Oh yeeeeeessssssss

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By *luebellRacerCouple over a year ago

Shropshire

"Usually when I don't feel like I'm a priority because I'm a right diva like that.....

Come here let me stroke your head...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What puts you off people you started chatting to on here? I mean it started so well but then, poof! You lose interest. What did they say?

How about you Inca?

When they’re too keen..."

I can see that but they might just be acting the fool?

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By *emorefridaCouple over a year ago

La la land

"Depends. Sometimes it's just the feeling, sometimes they'll say something that bugs me.

Often it's "what size are your boobs"

That annoys me like they actually know the difference between say a 34GG and 36G

What size are yours Frida?

Too big for you to handle

To be fair you had good warning

And I thought were were mates, I'm so ignoring your next message....

Really? You wouldn't really you're too nice

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Usually when I don't feel like I'm a priority because I'm a right diva like that.....

Come here let me stroke your head...

Always....

Best helmet pic I've ever seen btw...

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By *asilyled1Man over a year ago

ogmore valley

"Depends. Sometimes it's just the feeling, sometimes they'll say something that bugs me.

Often it's "what size are your boobs"

That annoys me like they actually know the difference between say a 34GG and 36G

What size are yours Frida?

34B I reckon!

Waw how did you guess? "

I had a little help from my 14” cock!

And you say men can’t do sizes!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sometimes its what they don't say...as in lack of effort when your having a conversation

I can see how someone could get that impression...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Depends. Sometimes it's just the feeling, sometimes they'll say something that bugs me.

Often it's "what size are your boobs"

That annoys me like they actually know the difference between say a 34GG and 36G

What size are yours Frida?

Too big for you to handle

To be fair you had good warning

And I thought were were mates, I'm so ignoring your next message....

Really? You wouldn't really you're too nice "

Depends if you're sending boobs or not.....

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By *emorefridaCouple over a year ago

La la land

"Depends. Sometimes it's just the feeling, sometimes they'll say something that bugs me.

Often it's "what size are your boobs"

That annoys me like they actually know the difference between say a 34GG and 36G

What size are yours Frida?

34B I reckon!

Waw how did you guess?

I had a little help from my 14” cock!

And you say men can’t do sizes!!

What you use your cock as a ruler

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By *otSoPoshWoman over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Depends. Sometimes it's just the feeling, sometimes they'll say something that bugs me.

Often it's "what size are your boobs"

That annoys me like they actually know the difference between say a 34GG and 36G

I know!

Though to be fair had a mate who was a plastic surgeon and he could guess women's bra sizes. It was his party trick. But the vast majority of men, why does it matter?

Exactly. My answer is usually "the left is as big as my head, the right slightly smaller"

There may have been a d*unken measuring situation once at the rugby club...

Haha me and mates did once weigh our boobs whilst d*unk but that's a different story

It's a fun time. Let's you and I do both when we get together...

I'll make sure to bring the scales lol "

I'll make sure I've got something to measure with.....

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By *emorefridaCouple over a year ago

La la land

"Depends. Sometimes it's just the feeling, sometimes they'll say something that bugs me.

Often it's "what size are your boobs"

That annoys me like they actually know the difference between say a 34GG and 36G

I know!

Though to be fair had a mate who was a plastic surgeon and he could guess women's bra sizes. It was his party trick. But the vast majority of men, why does it matter?

Exactly. My answer is usually "the left is as big as my head, the right slightly smaller"

There may have been a d*unken measuring situation once at the rugby club...

Haha me and mates did once weigh our boobs whilst d*unk but that's a different story

It's a fun time. Let's you and I do both when we get together...

I'll make sure to bring the scales lol

I'll make sure I've got something to measure with.....

Sounds like a fun evening to me

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By *hrista BellendWoman over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

When we run out of things to talk about, normally takes a couple of days to cover most topics and see what you have in common and how it flows, I think it naturally just tapers off with most and the others we would have arranged to meet very quickly, thats how I do it anyway

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Aside from the obvious "tangible" things - the biggest factor for me is "does it flow naturally or does it feel awkward and stilted" and sometimes it's neither persons fault, it just fizzles naturally.

When it does, it doesn't concern me, it's just a natural thing and leaves me free to focus on the conversations that do flow easily

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes this and also some the convo just flows, others its just as if they can't be arsed because they are talking to several at once"

I do like a bit of back and forth otherwise it can feel like you're talking into thin air. Especially on the web. Unless someone just says I'm busy at the moment how do you know??

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By *heerFlirtMan over a year ago

Quite near Bath usually

"What puts you off people you started chatting to on here? I mean it started so well but then, poof! You lose interest. What did they say?

I’ve often wondered this.... but from the other perspective!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What puts you off people you started chatting to on here? I mean it started so well but then, poof! You lose interest. What did they say?

I’ve often wondered this.... but from the other perspective!

Amen

I hear you brother

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By *asilyled1Man over a year ago

ogmore valley

"Depends. Sometimes it's just the feeling, sometimes they'll say something that bugs me.

Often it's "what size are your boobs"

That annoys me like they actually know the difference between say a 34GG and 36G

What size are yours Frida?

34B I reckon!

Waw how did you guess?

I had a little help from my 14” cock!

And you say men can’t do sizes!!

What you use your cock as a ruler

You’ve seen it so know I might have made that bit up!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't think it's ever happened when I have lost interest because of something someone said.

Usually the other way around and that's normal with the ratio on here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There can sometimes be a few false starts with 1-to-1 on the web.

Things can easily get misunderstood as you haven't got body language or tone to convey meaning.

Sometimes it's best just to be upfront about what is bothering you and have a conversation about that.

Especially if you think the other person is worth the effort.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Depends. Sometimes it's just the feeling, sometimes they'll say something that bugs me.

Often it's "what size are your boobs"

That annoys me like they actually know the difference between say a 34GG and 36G

What size are yours Frida?

Too big for you to handle

To be fair you had good warning

And I thought were were mates, I'm so ignoring your next message....

Really? You wouldn't really you're too nice

Depends if you're sending boobs or not.....

Love you!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't think it's ever happened when I have lost interest because of something someone said.

Usually the other way around and that's normal with the ratio on here

I hear you brother!

(On a side note what's the temperature in Birmingham at the moment? Has it cooled down a bit?)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"one word or emoji replies

Interesting perspective. I can see how that could be off-putting.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Cooling down here in Brum. Dark clouds.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Cooling down here in Brum. Dark clouds. "

I had a feeling it might be...

Thanks for the info.

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By *oneyBear100Couple over a year ago

Gatwick area

People that can only manage only single word or really basic one line responses. If they can't engage enough to chat properly how poor is playtime potentially going to be.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What puts you off people you started chatting to on here? I mean it started so well but then, poof! You lose interest. What did they say?

It's more of a feeling than an actual thing said for me... Sometimes it's the wording of a message or constant misspelling, pathetic I know, but I do like to have a connection on meets and a chat, so if someone struggles to communicate even when they have spell check then they will probably struggle face to face. Is that me being petty..?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"People that can only manage only single word or really basic one line responses. If they can't engage enough to chat properly how poor is playtime potentially going to be."

It's a conundrum

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"What puts you off people you started chatting to on here? I mean it started so well but then, poof! You lose interest. What did they say?

No I don’t think so. It’s the same with the ones who try too hard, I feel it’s going to just be stressful to meet them...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When the 3rd message is

"when can you meet?"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What puts you off people you started chatting to on here? I mean it started so well but then, poof! You lose interest. What did they say?

No I don’t think so. It’s the same with the ones who try too hard, I feel it’s going to just be stressful to meet them..."

I'd lean the other way slightly but I wouldn't feel it would be a stressful meet because of that.

Might have a bit of nervous energy to start with (especially if someone has been out of the game for a few years) but things would probably settle down after a bit.

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By *asilyled1Man over a year ago

ogmore valley

"When the 3rd message is

"when can you meet?"

Third?? That’s my second,first one is hi

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When you are asking all the questions and basically carrying the whole conversation

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Depends. Sometimes it's just the feeling, sometimes they'll say something that bugs me.

Often it's "what size are your boobs" "

What puts me off is people who can’t distinguish between humour and reality

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Depends. Sometimes it's just the feeling, sometimes they'll say something that bugs me.

Often it's "what size are your boobs"

What puts me off is people who can’t distinguish between humour and reality

So ‘get a ruler and measure your dick now’ is ok as long as I put a ‘lol’ at the end?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Depends. Sometimes it's just the feeling, sometimes they'll say something that bugs me.

Often it's "what size are your boobs" "

Well What size are they? Asking for a friend of course

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Cooling down here in Brum. Dark clouds.

I had a feeling it might be...

Thanks for the info."

You're welcome

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When you are asking all the questions and basically carrying the whole conversation

It's interesting to see a difference between the male/female perspective

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When you talk about the same things over and over. Or when all you can talk about with someone is sex.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When you talk about the same things over and over. Or when all you can talk about with someone is sex. "

...and people who demand a without giving.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When you are asking all the questions and basically carrying the whole conversation

It's interesting to see a difference between the male/female perspective

"
Well that's always going to happen

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By *orraine999Woman over a year ago

Somewhere

It could be anything Incandescent. Short one word answers or conversations that feel forced or it just fizzles out.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When you talk about the same things over and over. Or when all you can talk about with someone is sex. "

Engaging conversation can be difficult using text, or am I just getting on a bit ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It could be anything Incandescent. Short one word answers or conversations that feel forced or it just fizzles out.

Just missing that connection right?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When you talk about the same things over and over. Or when all you can talk about with someone is sex.

Engaging conversation can be difficult using text, or am I just getting on a bit ? "

Disagree. You can have an engaging conversation in text just as in person. Especially if someone loves writing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It could be anything Incandescent. Short one word answers or conversations that feel forced or it just fizzles out.

Just missing that connection right?"

Maybe. But sometimes humour or winding someone up can be a good way to make that connection.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When you talk about the same things over and over. Or when all you can talk about with someone is sex.

Engaging conversation can be difficult using text, or am I just getting on a bit ?

Disagree. You can have an engaging conversation in text just as in person. Especially if someone loves writing."

Fair enough, maybe I don't like writing as much as others

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"When you talk about the same things over and over. Or when all you can talk about with someone is sex.

Engaging conversation can be difficult using text, or am I just getting on a bit ?

Disagree. You can have an engaging conversation in text just as in person. Especially if someone loves writing."

Yeah agree with you - on-line conversations can be just as flowing and engaging as in person ones, and just like in person ones, it takes finding someone who finds you as engaging as you do them, and with whom the conversation just flows naturally and without effort from one subject to the next

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What puts you off people you started chatting to on here? I mean it started so well but then, poof! You lose interest. What did they say?

No I don’t think so. It’s the same with the ones who try too hard, I feel it’s going to just be stressful to meet them...

I'd lean the other way slightly but I wouldn't feel it would be a stressful meet because of that.

Might have a bit of nervous energy to start with (especially if someone has been out of the game for a few years) but things would probably settle down after a bit."

I understand what you are saying, but you just get that feeling that a face to face conversation will be exactly the same... It is nothing against the person at all, I just feel that there is no real connection...

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By *orraine999Woman over a year ago

Somewhere

"When you are asking all the questions and basically carrying the whole conversation

I agree. That’s when the one word responses begin. They want to have a conversation with you but The conversation feels forced. Xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It could be anything Incandescent. Short one word answers or conversations that feel forced or it just fizzles out.

Just missing that connection right?

Maybe. But sometimes humour or winding someone up can be a good way to make that connection."

Prefer talking, humour flows so much easier.

Hats off to the people that can pull it off by text

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not neccesarily. On-line conversations are completely different to face to face ones.

It's a similar situation when I was younger and I met a girl at a party and afterwards we had a telephone relationship for about a month before meeting face to face.

The phone conversations just flowed and were great and engaging but when we finally met in person it all fell flat and we just didn't get on.

On-line one of the people may not be as comfotable as the other one chatting on-line but is better face to face or vice versa.

And there's no cues like body language or tone of voice or physical interaction - which can give rise to more misunderstandings.

The only real decider is face to face. You might or might not get on but unless you give it a go you'll never find out.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What puts you off people you started chatting to on here? I mean it started so well but then, poof! You lose interest. What did they say?

"
mostly feeling ...and hate blank profiles!notjing worse

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It could be anything Incandescent. Short one word answers or conversations that feel forced or it just fizzles out.

Just missing that connection right?

Maybe. But sometimes humour or winding someone up can be a good way to make that connection.

Prefer talking, humour flows so much easier.

Hats off to the people that can pull it off by text

Forsooth sir I have a quibble with your dribble

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By *orkshireBeef26Man over a year ago

Kirkella

"What puts you off people you started chatting to on here? I mean it started so well but then, poof! You lose interest. What did they say?

Fancy chat and getting to know you better xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It could be anything Incandescent. Short one word answers or conversations that feel forced or it just fizzles out.

Just missing that connection right?

Maybe. But sometimes humour or winding someone up can be a good way to make that connection.

Prefer talking, humour flows so much easier.

Hats off to the people that can pull it off by text

Forsooth sir I have a quibble with your dribble

It's raining in Brum.

And I only dribble or should that be drabble for the ladies

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

The only real decider is face to face. You might or might not get on but unless you give it a go you'll never find out."

Agree you can't truly *know* until you're actually face to face, but in the instances where a conversation has truly flowed on line I've always found it's transferred pretty well to in person, because you've already established that rapport and sense of knowing each other, so you have points of reference to draw on to talk about etc.

I guess it depends on the level you have talked on-line too - but certainly in my experience I've found it's helped.

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By *latinumkittenWoman over a year ago

from Home Counties to Middle Earth

"Women that eat berries from their feet.

Except this one. Why does it have to be hands? Feet are just as good if trained

But are the feet clean?

Probably cleaner than some people’s hands. I do get if if they wanted to feed you said berries with their feet though...

I'd be okay if they've had a bath. I'd even eat a strawberry from the bum!"

You like it, apparently. What was your point again?

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By *hrista BellendWoman over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

"When you talk about the same things over and over. Or when all you can talk about with someone is sex. "

This

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

Things that have put me off previously (the abridged version)

- Not feeling like they are making a particular effort. You know when the conversation is carried by you? And their messages are closed and give you nothing to work with but they still message you. Yeah that. Or they just talk about themselves constantly. You bring up something, no questions. Back to them. Yawn.

- Reading their posts on the fora. Any 'isms, slut shaming or even an inability to disagree with another without making it personal. I like people who can challenge me and make me think but not when it comes with a side helping of arrogant twuntery.

- Constantly bringing up the racial differences between us. No thank you. Not my kink.

- When I find out they are also planning on meeting one of my close friends. I have no problems with people meeting other people but I avoid drama and don't meet those my close friends are. I've seen it go wrong before too many times.

- When I feel like my vagina is starting to belong to the fora women tick sheet.

Apart from all that, I'm really easy going.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Things that have put me off previously (the abridged version)

- Constantly bringing up the racial differences between us. No thank you. Not my kink.

- When I feel like my vagina is starting to belong to the fora women tick sheet.

Apart from all that, I'm really easy going.

Laughing so much... kisses

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By *r not quite virginMan over a year ago

rochdale

I often find me being honest puts people off me ?????. Would they rather I lie? Lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" I like people who can challenge me and make me think

I'd agree there. Even better when they give you something you can really get your teeth into...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It can vary but normally if I am the only one asking questions and making an effort, if they can't put the effort in to asking me a few questions then they certainly ain't going to keep up with me in the bedroom, plus I like to be chased just as much as I like chasing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When it becomes obvious that sex is that only person’s topic of conversation, or the other nail in the coffin, a response of ‘lol’ to every message.All of the above hint at a complete vacancy, and lack of adventure, curiosity and imagination, just bang average, mundanity, and who wants that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"plus I like to be chased just as much as I like chasing. "

I do like the chase but being chased can be good too...

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By *orraine999Woman over a year ago

Somewhere

"It could be anything Incandescent. Short one word answers or conversations that feel forced or it just fizzles out.

Just missing that connection right?

Maybe. But sometimes humour or winding someone up can be a good way to make that connection.

Prefer talking, humour flows so much easier.

Hats off to the people that can pull it off by text

These conversations are some of the best and you’re right, they’re not easy to pull iff.

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By * and R cple4Couple over a year ago

swansea

As soon as they start talking to me like I’m not part of a couple it’s a instant block ..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't have to worry as nobody messages me anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I don't have to worry as nobody messages me anyway

Me senses a joke...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't have to worry as nobody messages me anyway

Me senses a joke...

Well yes I am a joke it must be said

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By *otSoPoshWoman over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"I don't have to worry as nobody messages me anyway

Me senses a joke...

Well yes I am a joke it must be said

You're doing a really slow puzzle with your profile pics aren't you....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't have to worry as nobody messages me anyway

Me senses a joke...

Well yes I am a joke it must be said

You're doing a really slow puzzle with your profile pics aren't you....

One eye or lips

Of course it is the left eye this time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't have to worry as nobody messages me anyway

You and me both, unless I make the effort which seems to be vaining in the current climate.

I don't have my profile hidden.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's all going well then the woman says, "I would really like to eat some cheerios out of your gaping butt hole" puts me off right away.

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By *naquest321Man over a year ago

Carlisle

I’m bored with this thread now so I’m not reading anymore

well I might.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It could be anything Incandescent. Short one word answers or conversations that feel forced or it just fizzles out.

Just missing that connection right?

Maybe. But sometimes humour or winding someone up can be a good way to make that connection.

Prefer talking, humour flows so much easier.

Hats off to the people that can pull it off by text

These conversations are some of the best and you’re right, they’re not easy to pull iff.

It's when the abbreviation goes in the wrong place. Usually signals the end of conversation.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't have to worry as nobody messages me anyway

You and me both, unless I make the effort which seems to be vaining in the current climate.

I don't have my profile hidden. "

Mine is only hidden at the moment as I am will 99% of the time respond to even one line messages, even if to say thanks but no thanks.

If I am busy the easiest way not to offend is to hide my profile.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't have to worry as nobody messages me anyway

Yup this

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I don't have to worry as nobody messages me anyway

Yup this

You’re special Wonko but the right one is out there somewhere waiting for you

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By *otSoPoshWoman over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"I don't have to worry as nobody messages me anyway

Me senses a joke...

Well yes I am a joke it must be said

You're doing a really slow puzzle with your profile pics aren't you....

One eye or lips

Of course it is the left eye this time

And a gorgeous one it is...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Many things will be a conversation killer. Some guys are just too neutral, they don’t have the X-Factor and are missing that something about them that will make me feel attracted and want to chat. I think some guys on here suppress their natural charisma and personality and try to be as neutral as possible to avoid any possibility of being rejected for saying or doing anything that might cut the conversation. But with me, it backfires on them because I get so bored of the usual boring questions. I do like flirty, funny guys but no initial crudeness as that also will make me disappear.

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By *asilyled1Man over a year ago

ogmore valley

"Many things will be a conversation killer. Some guys are just too neutral, they don’t have the X-Factor and are missing that something about them that will make me feel attracted and want to chat. I think some guys on here suppress their natural charisma and personality and try to be as neutral as possible to avoid any possibility of being rejected for saying or doing anything that might cut the conversation. But with me, it backfires on them because I get so bored of the usual boring questions. I do like flirty, funny guys but no initial crudeness as that also will make me disappear. "

Noted

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By *ngelfireWoman over a year ago

Birmingham

When they message me multiple times asking why I haven’t replied when I’ve been away from fan all day doing real life stuff . Far too needy and clingy. Imagine what they be like if you actually met them!

When they interrogate me about What I enjoy or am willing to do sexually and in the absence of any fun conversations.

When there isn’t a conversational spark and it doesn’t flow

When the thirst and desperation is dripping for every panting message and they are begging for sexy talk and to meet for sex, again often in the absence of any normal fun chatting

Gut feeling!

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By *uriouscouple83Couple over a year ago

Worcester

When they message you and get impatient if you haven’t replied within minutes and send a follow up message either exactly the same as the last or just “?”

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"When they message me multiple times asking why I haven’t replied when I’ve been away from fan all day doing real life stuff . Far too needy and clingy. Imagine what they be like if you actually met them!

When they interrogate me about What I enjoy or am willing to do sexually and in the absence of any fun conversations.

When there isn’t a conversational spark and it doesn’t flow

When the thirst and desperation is dripping for every panting message and they are begging for sexy talk and to meet for sex, again often in the absence of any normal fun chatting

Gut feeling!

Beautifully put

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By *est Wales WifeCouple over a year ago

Near Carmarthen

" You lose interest. What did they say?

Usually something completely contrary to what we have said in our (admittedly long) profile showing that they have completely failed to read or understand it.

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By *issmorganWoman over a year ago

Calderdale innit

They get pushy about meeting or say something creepy or disclose a partner to me.

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By *lbinoGorillaMan over a year ago

Redditch

I seem to kill any conversation I get into, somehow*

I must be bad at recognising when the conversation has run its course, as it almost always ends with my sending a last message which remains unread

* I can sense that this may well be the last comment on this thread too

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

"What puts you off people you started chatting to on here? I mean it started so well but then, poof! You lose interest. What did they say?

Mmmmmmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"What puts you off people you started chatting to on here? I mean it started so well but then, poof! You lose interest. What did they say?

Mmmmmmmmmm "

Is hmmmmmmm ok?

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

Fucking loads!

When they come across all "yeah I understand how you feel" and 2 sentences later they start talking about sex and I automatically think "you've not listened to a fucking word ya cunt, what part of I have zero sex drive do you not understand?"

When I discover they're not single and are a big Billy bullshit

If they've met someone I would wave at as they tumbled off a cliff edge instead of trying to grab their arm.

If they don't like the same music as me

If they think they know my job better than I do

If they're the "you've been to Tenerife but I've been to Elevenerife" kind

If they sound like they're trying to convince themselves of something instead of just telling me shizzle

If they use the word perfect when referencing me. Get fucked stud, I ain't perfect so stop trying to get up my drain pipe via smoke blowing techniques

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What puts you off people you started chatting to on here? I mean it started so well but then, poof! You lose interest. What did they say?

Nothing really sometimes I don’t have time to reply

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By *itty9899Man over a year ago

Craggy Island

To preachy or demanding or two many questions.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Toilet pictures being sent

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

" Toilet pictures being sent

You're lucky I've dropped the kids off at the pool already today

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By *agnar1980Man over a year ago

Poole

Someone who Isn’t interested in finding out about Me, just wants my cock all the time!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"What puts you off people you started chatting to on here? I mean it started so well but then, poof! You lose interest. What did they say?

Nothing really sometimes I don’t have time to reply

Overloaded cutie

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What puts you off people you started chatting to on here? I mean it started so well but then, poof! You lose interest. What did they say?

Nothing really sometimes I don’t have time to reply

Overloaded cutie

Well I don’t drink and Fab either so that really cuts down my replying time

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By *elle xWoman over a year ago

Doire Theas

"What puts you off people you started chatting to on here? I mean it started so well but then, poof! You lose interest. What did they say?

Nothing really sometimes I don’t have time to reply

Overloaded cutie

Well I don’t drink and Fab either so that really cuts down my replying time

You are too well behaved at times

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What puts you off people you started chatting to on here? I mean it started so well but then, poof! You lose interest. What did they say?

Nothing really sometimes I don’t have time to reply

Overloaded cutie

Well I don’t drink and Fab either so that really cuts down my replying time

You are too well behaved at times

I think we all should in a way

It’d certainly narrow down the messages you lot get

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By *iamond coupleCouple over a year ago

leeds

The word “bare back” being brought into the conversation

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By *elle xWoman over a year ago

Doire Theas

"What puts you off people you started chatting to on here? I mean it started so well but then, poof! You lose interest. What did they say?

Nothing really sometimes I don’t have time to reply

Overloaded cutie

Well I don’t drink and Fab either so that really cuts down my replying time

You are too well behaved at times

I think we all should in a way

It’d certainly narrow down the messages you lot get

Well this is true

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The word “bare back” being brought into the conversation"

I usually insert that word into the conversation about Benidorm

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By *orthern StarsCouple over a year ago

Durham

When they want instant sex chat. We don't mind some sex chat but we like to have some decent conversation first.

Also if anyone calls me 'babe'. Yuk. Hate it with a passion.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"When they want instant sex chat. We don't mind some sex chat but we like to have some decent conversation first.

Also if anyone calls me 'babe'. Yuk. Hate it with a passion.

Mrs"

But you are a babe, babe... sorry... hun/ duck/ pet/ luv

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By *hunky GentMan over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I tend to be put off when they say they want me to go on a Diet. Lol

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By *orthern StarsCouple over a year ago

Durham

"When they want instant sex chat. We don't mind some sex chat but we like to have some decent conversation first.

Also if anyone calls me 'babe'. Yuk. Hate it with a passion.

Mrs

But you are a babe, babe... sorry... hun/ duck/ pet/ luv

Thanks darl

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

"What puts you off people you started chatting to on here? I mean it started so well but then, poof! You lose interest. What did they say?

Mmmmmmmmmm

Is hmmmmmmm ok?

Amazing what one little letter can do!

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By *asilyled1Man over a year ago

ogmore valley

"I tend to be put off when they say they want me to go on a Diet. Lol"

Don’t ever change chunky,you’re an absolute diamond in the forums and a true gent

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By *rink Me xxWoman over a year ago

Shropshire

For some reason when a guy writes "hehe" Instantly lose interest

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