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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Absolutely getting no where on here! Anyone advice for a newbie? Not sent any dick pics, crude comments, weird stuff, nothing and still got no where. Just looking to explore and meet new people. |
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Tink of your profile as a shop window in a high street. A shop window needs to look attractive, appealing and interesting to attract people to get through the door to look closer.
Do you feel your profile has that? |
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Too add to what has already been said, tell us about yourself in your profile.
For us we need to know that we could get along with you socially before any play happens. We look at profiles to see if interests match up.
For example if you're "all about the gym and partying with the lads" it'd be a no for us.
If you're a nerd who also loves the outdoors, awesome. Wes have something to talk about at a social. |
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"Absolutely getting no where on here! Anyone advice for a newbie? Not sent any dick pics, crude comments, weird stuff, nothing and still got no where. Just looking to explore and meet new people."
Ask yourself the question, if you were a woman walked into a pub and it was packed full of guys do you think you'd choose to talk to the one wearing a bin bag over his head ?
The odds on here are high enough but you're making them even higher by not showing something of yourself
Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What they said really^
No profile pic will get zero replies and zero views generally. Also being shy isn't an excuse for anything except not getting much sex. Try not to dwell on being shy and maybe use a different word like reserved?
Put some pics up, they don't have to be identifiable or recognisable ones but they'll get Yiu seen and you'll get more replies. And put something about yourself in writing in your bio, you can keep it brief rather than go into too much detail - just who you are, why you're here, what you're looking for and what you can offer ppl as a basic start. Then maybe work from there? It's not easy at all starting out but keep at it until you find what works for you..... 
Also put up status updates because then you'll appear on ppl's local updates feed and it'll make you more visible. If you get really desperate like me then use the forum and you'll make some friends here who will help you in your journey.... 
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