How many of your meets are where you contact the other people first or do you always make your choice from who contacts you ?
Please can we have a rule where for every other meet the ladies and couples have to message a guy first and make the running, a guy can dream 
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
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Id guess that about 50%-ish of the people that Ive met are people where I have made the first contact.
I prefer to look for what I want, rather than wait to see what I am offered. |
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"Id guess that about 50%-ish of the people that Ive met are people where I have made the first contact.
I prefer to look for what I want, rather than wait to see what I am offered."
wow fair play i didnt think a lady would be that high a % of sorting own fun but it makes sence |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
North of The Wall - youll need your vest |
"Id guess that about 50%-ish of the people that Ive met are people where I have made the first contact.
I prefer to look for what I want, rather than wait to see what I am offered.
wow fair play i didnt think a lady would be that high a % of sorting own fun but it makes sence"
I removed my first post because I originally guessed at about 80%, but then I had a quick look at my friends list and its really about half and half... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes I contact them .. sometimes they contact me
I guess I could say ' no Im wildly popular and I pick and choose'
but that would be bollocks !!!!
I like to find people myself ... |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
North of The Wall - youll need your vest |
"Sometimes I contact them .. sometimes they contact me
I guess I could say ' no Im wildly popular and I pick and choose'
but that would be bollocks !!!!
I like to find people myself ... "
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"Id guess that about 50%-ish of the people that Ive met are people where I have made the first contact.
I prefer to look for what I want, rather than wait to see what I am offered."
Same here
But if we are honest it's only been the last 2 years or so that we have started contacting people that we like the look of. Used to wait and see who contacted us.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I am interested in chatting to someone I will message them.
I don't get this waiting for men to make the first move business. For todays apparent 'modern woman' and being on a swinging site where nsa and sexual freedom are what its all about, I fail to understand why women won't message men and hint or just sit back and wait for whoever comes along in their inbox.
I personally think its the fear of rejection and again that seems odd when don't we all agree that its ok to reject someone and accept it ourselves |
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"How many of your meets are where you contact the other people first or do you always make your choice from who contacts you ?
Please can we have a rule where for every other meet the ladies and couples have to message a guy first and make the running, a guy can dream
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I never make the first move. I know I'm going to meet from the first message generally. |
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I've never made first contact. It takes all my time reading / replying to the mails that I get...
Although, if I didnt spend as much time here in the forums I may have time to perve..... I mean browse |
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