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It’s dead easy man:
1 - Start a “normal“ relationship
2 - Have a frank discussion
3 - Don’t be butthurt if it doesn’t go your way
Repeat ad nauseum Or until you strike gold and someone takes you up on it...  |
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I wouldn't mind one but it's tough to find someone on the same page, or rather someone who'll stay on the same page. Women always see me as a full on bf after a few meets and want serious stuff and don't want to share. I'm doing something wrong....  |
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"I wouldn't mind one but it's tough to find someone on the same page, or rather someone who'll stay on the same page. Women always see me as a full on bf after a few meets and want serious stuff and don't want to share. I'm doing something wrong.... "
So what you want is a fwb? Not a proper relationship with the added zing of swinging? |
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"I wouldn't mind one but it's tough to find someone on the same page, or rather someone who'll stay on the same page. Women always see me as a full on bf after a few meets and want serious stuff and don't want to share. I'm doing something wrong....
So what you want is a fwb? Not a proper relationship with the added zing of swinging? "
Yeah, well tbh just being able to find a fwb would be great! Women I meet always seem to want more. I'm well aware that I apparently emit some secret love waves or summat, but why can't ppl just want a shag and a giggle without getting feels? If I could find a fwb I'd then be really interested in exploring swinging as a couple for sure....  |
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As long as you stay aware of your goal, you can let it guide how you live your life. Most relationships do require some luck in finding someone with mutual attraction and needs. You can tip the odds in your favour though, such as via a swinging centred focus.
The numbers of single men here are so overwhelming, whatever they are looking for, that it's made really tough. You can probably only improve chances by increasing your social circle of people who are involved in swinging. It's tougher atm due to restrictions in some respects but the current emphasis on social-only contact could be a benefit too.
My take on relationships is that the greater the pressure, the tougher it can be |
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"It’s dead easy man:
1 - Start a “normal“ relationship
2 - Have a frank discussion
3 - Don’t be butthurt if it doesn’t go your way
Repeat ad nauseum Or until you strike gold and someone takes you up on it... "
This. I was lucky though. I’d been at it years and he didn’t need much persuading. I wouldn’t have carried on the relationship had he not been interested though. I’m not giving up my swinging friends. I like it too much |
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Yes here too, all explained on my profile, but it's not the be all and end all if it doesn't happen.
I just take things as they come (pardon the pun!) and no expectations. Having some lovely conversations with people at the moment too
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I dream of a long term relationship with a lady who also loves swinging. Sharing a loving relationship with a Hot Wife, listening to her and seeing her with other men sounds heavenly. Just have keep dreaming I suppose x |
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Easier and more likely to meet someone in a club like chams...theres a lady ive known for years we never know when we will meet...but as soon as we see each other its magical....tin every way possible ....more chance of meeting some like minded person in a club |
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