Do people put pics up of themselves that are completely non representative of what they actually look like? It doesn’t matter if you were 8st 6 months ago. If you are 16st now, for goodness sake!! Put THAT pic up too! It would save us all a lot of time and effort.
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I put up pics that show me in my best light. There are more wobbly pics in my friends only pics. I used to either meet at clubs or do socials first so they can see me in my wobbly, 3D glory before we decide if it goes any further x |
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"I put up pics that show me in my best light. There are more wobbly pics in my friends only pics. I used to either meet at clubs or do socials first so they can see me in my wobbly, 3D glory before we decide if it goes any further x"
Agreed. At the end of the day, I am who I am. I’m not a fan of having my photo taken at the best of the times so the photos I do have are the ones I feel make me look my best. I have only met someone once who didn’t look like their photo. They looked nothing like their photo. Needless to say, our meeting was cut short. |
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"Do people put pics up of themselves that are completely non representative of what they actually look like? It doesn’t matter if you were 8st 6 months ago. If you are 16st now, for goodness sake!! Put THAT pic up too! It would save us all a lot of time and effort.
Does anyone else ever feel “Mis sold” when you go for a meet?"
Totally agree. A few 6 months old or so yes,but keep updating them too.
Nothing worse than walking past someone you think your meeting and there stood in front of you looking well what can i say..  |
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"What about if they were 16 stone but are now 8, does it work that way round too."
I think it works every way around. If you want to meet a bigger girl and a stick turns up. You may be quite perplexed. |
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"I am now who I've always been  "
... and very lovely looking too.
Don’t get me wrong though, I have no problem with bigger girls or slim girls. But as another poster has said, I bloody well walked passed the lass I was meeting! |
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"Do people put pics up of themselves that are completely non representative of what they actually look like? It doesn’t matter if you were 8st 6 months ago. If you are 16st now, for goodness sake!! Put THAT pic up too! It would save us all a lot of time and effort.
Does anyone else ever feel “Mis sold” when you go for a meet?"
I’m actually an automated robot made with aubergines and powered by lemons. Don’t tell anyone though, took me ages to select these photos. |
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"Do people put pics up of themselves that are completely non representative of what they actually look like? It doesn’t matter if you were 8st 6 months ago. If you are 16st now, for goodness sake!! Put THAT pic up too! It would save us all a lot of time and effort.
Does anyone else ever feel “Mis sold” when you go for a meet?
I’m actually an automated robot made with aubergines and powered by lemons. Don’t tell anyone though, took me ages to select these photos. "
It was proving I’m not a robot with pictures of zebra crossings and traffic lights that I found most difficult to calculate |
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"Do people put pics up of themselves that are completely non representative of what they actually look like? It doesn’t matter if you were 8st 6 months ago. If you are 16st now, for goodness sake!! Put THAT pic up too! It would save us all a lot of time and effort.
Does anyone else ever feel “Mis sold” when you go for a meet?
I’m actually an automated robot made with aubergines and powered by lemons. Don’t tell anyone though, took me ages to select these photos.
It was proving I’m not a robot with pictures of zebra crossings and traffic lights that I found most difficult to calculate "
Hello, how are your lemon reserves? 
What is Zebra. |
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"Do people put pics up of themselves that are completely non representative of what they actually look like? It doesn’t matter if you were 8st 6 months ago. If you are 16st now, for goodness sake!! Put THAT pic up too! It would save us all a lot of time and effort.
Does anyone else ever feel “Mis sold” when you go for a meet?
I’m actually an automated robot made with aubergines and powered by lemons. Don’t tell anyone though, took me ages to select these photos. "
I like lemons |
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"What about if they were 16 stone but are now 8, does it work that way round too.
I think it works every way around. If you want to meet a bigger girl and a stick turns up. You may be quite perplexed."
A stick ? I’m pretty sure anyone would be disappointed if an actual stick turned up but if you’re referring to a slim lady don’t use that word , just sayin’ |
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"What about if they were 16 stone but are now 8, does it work that way round too.
I think it works every way around. If you want to meet a bigger girl and a stick turns up. You may be quite perplexed.
A stick ? I’m pretty sure anyone would be disappointed if an actual stick turned up but if you’re referring to a slim lady don’t use that word , just sayin’"
Oh I dunno. I’d be pretty impressed by a stick that could talk |
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As with most things there is a margin of appreciation in photos.
It needs to be reasonably representative, but it doesnt need to show you in your worst light.
It needs to be reasonably recent, but even a couple of years shouldnt be a huge concern. Few people change from being "Someone i'd like to fuck" to "Fuck no" in the space of 24 months.
If you have substantially changed, gained or lost masses of weight, been slapped around the face with a shovel since they were taken, yes, you should update your photos or at the very least remove the old ones which are misleading. |
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