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Ask people how they are., there reply to far
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So I decided a couple of months ago but instead of messaging something stupid like I normally did lol. I decided that I will ask people how they are doing and how they are coping with what's going on in the world not asking for a meet up not asking for a drink I'm anything like that and every single time I send a message all I get is too far. All I'm trying to do is to see how people are be kind to the world  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How many times a day do you think we get asked how we are?
Had a good day/week?
How's it going babe?
Etc etc etc yawn.
I've got a messaging test idea for you. Message men, you'll get a better response rate. They have more time from reading less messages asking them how they are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it's intrusive when strangers on a sex site ask how I'm doing. They are pretending to care because they want a fuck.  "
This is a general comment. I'm not saying *you* don't care OP. X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"At least 50 percent of my messages received are asking how I'm coping, how I'm finding things, etc
So you're not alone in sending messages like that"
Yeah but then I bet they're next messages you fancy meeting up so I can cure your loneliness  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Lots of people use this site for sex not chatting, try chatting to people who post on the forums lots of them are happy to chat  "
I'll be honest I don't really want to chat but with this pandemic going on that's the only thing we can all do pretty much  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How many times a day do you think we get asked how we are?
Had a good day/week?
How's it going babe?
Etc etc etc yawn.
I've got a messaging test idea for you. Message men, you'll get a better response rate. They have more time from reading less messages asking them how they are. "
And I understand where you're coming from the amount of messages that you probably get one word messages or should I say one wine messages when I send a message I try in sell myself so to speak that doesn't mean getting my willy out  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"At least 50 percent of my messages received are asking how I'm coping, how I'm finding things, etc
So you're not alone in sending messages like that
Yeah but then I bet they're next messages you fancy meeting up so I can cure your loneliness "
I've no idea, because I don't reply |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"So I decided a couple of months ago but instead of messaging something stupid like I normally did lol. I decided that I will ask people how they are doing and how they are coping with what's going on in the world not asking for a meet up not asking for a drink I'm anything like that and every single time I send a message all I get is too far. All I'm trying to do is to see how people are be kind to the world "
It's quite a common way to get into a conversation in order to get a shag. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think it's intrusive when strangers on a sex site ask how I'm doing. They are pretending to care because they want a fuck. "
I've always said that everyone on this website deep down they just want a good hard session so I totally get where they're coming from and I've seen messages from one of the woman friends on here and I've seen that it's just hey how are you hey what you up to it's like they've got no passion in messages a lot of copy and paste messages |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So I decided a couple of months ago but instead of messaging something stupid like I normally did lol. I decided that I will ask people how they are doing and how they are coping with what's going on in the world not asking for a meet up not asking for a drink I'm anything like that and every single time I send a message all I get is too far. All I'm trying to do is to see how people are be kind to the world
It's quite a common way to get into a conversation in order to get a shag. "
It is but sometimes when I send a message it could be someone from down under not literally down under but they could be down south when I'm north west but I'm just seeing how they're doing of course we all want a good session of course we all want to get our willy wet and our lady bits wet |
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"So I decided a couple of months ago but instead of messaging something stupid like I normally did lol. I decided that I will ask people how they are doing and how they are coping with what's going on in the world not asking for a meet up not asking for a drink I'm anything like that and every single time I send a message all I get is too far. All I'm trying to do is to see how people are be kind to the world "
No great disrespect and I have no doubt your intentions are only to be kind but your questions must be two of the most bland trite tedious and numbing questions any one could receive |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"At least 50 percent of my messages received are asking how I'm coping, how I'm finding things, etc
So you're not alone in sending messages like that
Yeah but then I bet they're next messages you fancy meeting up so I can cure your loneliness
I've no idea, because I don't reply "
So on a first message what is it that you are looking for something that stands out from all the rest?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do you REALLY want to know how they are OP? Or perchance would you wish to see their boobies n shiz......  "
Well I think 85% of women on here already got their boobs and shiz out in first place |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"So I decided a couple of months ago but instead of messaging something stupid like I normally did lol. I decided that I will ask people how they are doing and how they are coping with what's going on in the world not asking for a meet up not asking for a drink I'm anything like that and every single time I send a message all I get is too far. All I'm trying to do is to see how people are be kind to the world
It's quite a common way to get into a conversation in order to get a shag.
It is but sometimes when I send a message it could be someone from down under not literally down under but they could be down south when I'm north west but I'm just seeing how they're doing of course we all want a good session of course we all want to get our willy wet and our lady bits wet "
You'd be surprised at how far people will travel for a shag. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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I get messages like that all the time. I don't mind chatting to local people but I don't see the point in chatting with someone miles away because I can guarantee if you answer it will go on from there. Pointless if you don't fancy them and/or they're miles away! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well.i do my best I'm polite always send my face pic and always read the profile all I get is the block button and nothing else...a lot of women here are shalow.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How about I send this in a first message
The new king, Hamlet's uncle, murdered Hamlet's father. His father's ghost appears to him to describe the murder and charge Hamlet with seeking revenge. Hamlet's mother committed adultery with Claudius before her husband's death and married Claudius with "unseemly" haste ffs
Have a good day  |
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"How about I send this in a first message
The new king, Hamlet's uncle, murdered Hamlet's father. His father's ghost appears to him to describe the murder and charge Hamlet with seeking revenge. Hamlet's mother committed adultery with Claudius before her husband's death and married Claudius with "unseemly" haste ffs
Have a good day "
Actually it’s unique, shows a level of intelligence and quite amusing.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well.i do my best I'm polite always send my face pic and always read the profile all I get is the block button and nothing else...a lot of women here are shalow.."
How are they shallow? What do you mean? |
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"Well.i do my best I'm polite always send my face pic and always read the profile all I get is the block button and nothing else...a lot of women here are shalow..
How are they shallow? What do you mean?"
It means they're not interested in him which makes the women shallow,you know how it goes. Man rejects woman = woman shallow,same old same old... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well.i do my best I'm polite always send my face pic and always read the profile all I get is the block button and nothing else...a lot of women here are shalow..
How are they shallow? What do you mean?"
Concerned with mainly superficial matters |
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In all honesty I get those types of messages by the dozen daily, and whilst I'm sure they are well intentioned they are just repetitive. I don't for one minute think that any of them really want to know how I am and if I hear "how are you coping during lock down" one more time I will scream
Trying personalising the mails a bit to the specific person or profile, you might get more responses |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I reply to all messages received but with no content messages like hi or how you doing I just reply with hello or ok thank you.
Maybe you need to up your game on here op.
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