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It’s been a massive fantasy for me ever since I can remember... From the first time I discovered porn online it was a category I always came back to haha. And all my 25 years of searching I’ve never actually came close to doing anything with one haha
So I'm curious, has anyone else had these fantasies or actually done it?? |
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"It’s been a massive fantasy for me ever since I can remember... From the first time I discovered porn online it was a category I always came back to haha. And all my 25 years of searching I’ve never actually came close to doing anything with one haha
So I'm curious, has anyone else had these fantasies or actually done it??"
Older? Check
Woman? Fuckit... I'll get my coat |
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I think I've always said it that it doesn't matter how young you are well of course it does as long as you're over the age of 18 19 20 is always to have that thing for an older woman. I don't think there's anything wrong with a fantasy  as long as it comes true  |
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"We've met younger men but let's face it, most of the men on here are younger than us  .
Would you be meeting this lady alone? Or with your partner? "
Yeah but if you look at your pictures I don't think any person would have you both down and 63 |
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"It’s been a massive fantasy for me ever since I can remember... From the first time I discovered porn online it was a category I always came back to haha. And all my 25 years of searching I’ve never actually came close to doing anything with one haha
So I'm curious, has anyone else had these fantasies or actually done it??"
You were watching porn as a baby??? |
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Absolutely adore meets with older women!
Know what they want and like and know how to get it! Never shy about anything always looking to please aswell.
What more could you ask for... |
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"It’s been a massive fantasy for me ever since I can remember... From the first time I discovered porn online it was a category I always came back to haha. And all my 25 years of searching I’ve never actually came close to doing anything with one haha
That is a little bit disturbing if he was watching p*** as a baby
So I'm curious, has anyone else had these fantasies or actually done it??
You were watching porn as a baby???"
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"We've met younger men but let's face it, most of the men on here are younger than us .
Would you be meeting this lady alone? Or with your partner?
Yeah but if you look at your pictures I don't think any person would have you both down and 63"
Thanks, unless you think we look older   |
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"We've met younger men but let's face it, most of the men on here are younger than us .
Would you be meeting this lady alone? Or with your partner?
Yeah but if you look at your pictures I don't think any person would have you both down and 63
Thanks, unless you think we look older "
I don't think anyone would ever class you as older than 63 I told people that it's my 40th birthday in a couple of weeks and some people actually said to me I look older I really did not take that as a compliment   |
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"Most likely alone as although my partner is bi she knows this has been a fantasy of mine well before I met her haha. "
Best to make that clear.
you can use the reply+quote button under the post you're replying to. That way we know who you're replying to |
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"It’s been a massive fantasy for me ever since I can remember... From the first time I discovered porn online it was a category I always came back to haha. And all my 25 years of searching I’ve never actually came close to doing anything with one haha
So I'm curious, has anyone else had these fantasies or actually done it??"
I’ve had encounters (more so than those my around my own age) with women who are older than me and I have to say they have been way more fun and pleasurable than those my own age!
Not because they’ve ‘taught me something’ - a cliche term I hate! But rather that they just know how to relax and have a laugh which tends to lead to a better time getting down to it! 
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"So I'm curious, has anyone else had these fantasies or actually done it??"
Extremely common fantasy, you’re not even close to alone! If anything it’s a bit crowded
I’ve been fortunate enough to meet some amazing women, thankfully not all of them ladies. Thoroughly recommended.
Though.. when I was younger I had all sorts of ideas, preconceptions of why it would be amazing, and practical experience has taught me (personally, subjectively) that there’s no difference based on age and it’s actually the personality and sexuality that matters.
I just happen to find women of a broad range of ages hot.  |
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"We've met younger men but let's face it, most of the men on here are younger than us .
Would you be meeting this lady alone? Or with your partner?
Yeah but if you look at your pictures I don't think any person would have you both down and 63
Thanks, unless you think we look older
I don't think anyone would ever class you as older than 63 I told people that it's my 40th birthday in a couple of weeks and some people actually said to me I look older I really did not take that as a compliment "
That's not great, you don't look 40, genuinely but I wouldn't expect you to a 31. Unless you had a very difficult paper round |
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"Most likely alone as although my partner is bi she knows this has been a fantasy of mine well before I met her haha.
Best to make that clear.
you can use the reply+quote button under the post you're replying to. That way we know who you're replying to "
Ohhh right - never knew haha Thanks! |
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"It’s been a massive fantasy for me ever since I can remember... From the first time I discovered porn online it was a category I always came back to haha. And all my 25 years of searching I’ve never actually came close to doing anything with one haha
So I'm curious, has anyone else had these fantasies or actually done it??"
Yep, actually done it. Lost my virginity to someone 5 years older (she was married with a kid, which made her feel older in my eyes).
I was once a member of a website for young guys and older women when I was in my mid twenties. 38 year old, 54 year old, 42 year old. Loved each interaction and always miss it. |
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"We've met younger men but let's face it, most of the men on here are younger than us .
Would you be meeting this lady alone? Or with your partner?
Yeah but if you look at your pictures I don't think any person would have you both down and 63
Thanks, unless you think we look older
I don't think anyone would ever class you as older than 63 I told people that it's my 40th birthday in a couple of weeks and some people actually said to me I look older I really did not take that as a compliment
That's not great, you don't look 40, genuinely but I wouldn't expect you to a 31. Unless you had a very difficult paper round "
No hand on heart what my age says it is my truthful age I know that there is a lot of people on this website that do pretend to be younger and a lot of people do pretend to be older so they can actually message the women men that they want. It doesn't even work for me anyway the women that I try to speak to the couples that I speak to it's always a negative no |
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"We've met younger men but let's face it, most of the men on here are younger than us .
Would you be meeting this lady alone? Or with your partner?
Yeah but if you look at your pictures I don't think any person would have you both down and 63
Thanks, unless you think we look older
I don't think anyone would ever class you as older than 63 I told people that it's my 40th birthday in a couple of weeks and some people actually said to me I look older I really did not take that as a compliment
That's not great, you don't look 40, genuinely but I wouldn't expect you to a 31. Unless you had a very difficult paper round
No hand on heart what my age says it is my truthful age I know that there is a lot of people on this website that do pretend to be younger and a lot of people do pretend to be older so they can actually message the women men that they want. It doesn't even work for me anyway the women that I try to speak to the couples that I speak to it's always a negative no "
Not much point lying about age. You can always tell when you meet someone. Like the guy who te us all about his first lads holiday which he would have taken at age 8 if his stated age was correct |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We've met younger men but let's face it, most of the men on here are younger than us .
Would you be meeting this lady alone? Or with your partner?
Yeah but if you look at your pictures I don't think any person would have you both down and 63
Thanks, unless you think we look older
I don't think anyone would ever class you as older than 63 I told people that it's my 40th birthday in a couple of weeks and some people actually said to me I look older I really did not take that as a compliment
That's not great, you don't look 40, genuinely but I wouldn't expect you to a 31. Unless you had a very difficult paper round
No hand on heart what my age says it is my truthful age I know that there is a lot of people on this website that do pretend to be younger and a lot of people do pretend to be older so they can actually message the women men that they want. It doesn't even work for me anyway the women that I try to speak to the couples that I speak to it's always a negative no
Not much point lying about age. You can always tell when you meet someone. Like the guy who te us all about his first lads holiday which he would have taken at age 8 if his stated age was correct "
It's like don't get me wrong sometimes I can check out a woman's profile or a couples profile and I think to myself I would really really really love to get talking to them and then you'll see that there is criteria is a little bit under or over the age that you are you do have that thought in your head maybe if I could change my age things would be alright  |
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"We've met younger men but let's face it, most of the men on here are younger than us .
Would you be meeting this lady alone? Or with your partner?
Yeah but if you look at your pictures I don't think any person would have you both down and 63
Thanks, unless you think we look older
I don't think anyone would ever class you as older than 63 I told people that it's my 40th birthday in a couple of weeks and some people actually said to me I look older I really did not take that as a compliment
That's not great, you don't look 40, genuinely but I wouldn't expect you to a 31. Unless you had a very difficult paper round
No hand on heart what my age says it is my truthful age I know that there is a lot of people on this website that do pretend to be younger and a lot of people do pretend to be older so they can actually message the women men that they want. It doesn't even work for me anyway the women that I try to speak to the couples that I speak to it's always a negative no
Not much point lying about age. You can always tell when you meet someone. Like the guy who te us all about his first lads holiday which he would have taken at age 8 if his stated age was correct
It's like don't get me wrong sometimes I can check out a woman's profile or a couples profile and I think to myself I would really really really love to get talking to them and then you'll see that there is criteria is a little bit under or over the age that you are you do have that thought in your head maybe if I could change my age things would be alright "
Look at it this way. A lot of people have a cut off of 55. You can get older. There's no chance of us getting younger |
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when i was 19 i had a coplue of sexual encounters with a 38 year old women, started off with dirty messages to each other, then the day came it happened where we met up and fucked it was good times and great for a younger guy like me to get laid by a older women and a milf at that |
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"We've met younger men but let's face it, most of the men on here are younger than us .
Would you be meeting this lady alone? Or with your partner?
Yeah but if you look at your pictures I don't think any person would have you both down and 63
Thanks, unless you think we look older
I don't think anyone would ever class you as older than 63 I told people that it's my 40th birthday in a couple of weeks and some people actually said to me I look older I really did not take that as a compliment
That's not great, you don't look 40, genuinely but I wouldn't expect you to a 31. Unless you had a very difficult paper round
No hand on heart what my age says it is my truthful age I know that there is a lot of people on this website that do pretend to be younger and a lot of people do pretend to be older so they can actually message the women men that they want. It doesn't even work for me anyway the women that I try to speak to the couples that I speak to it's always a negative no
Not much point lying about age. You can always tell when you meet someone. Like the guy who te us all about his first lads holiday which he would have taken at age 8 if his stated age was correct
It's like don't get me wrong sometimes I can check out a woman's profile or a couples profile and I think to myself I would really really really love to get talking to them and then you'll see that there is criteria is a little bit under or over the age that you are you do have that thought in your head maybe if I could change my age things would be alright
Look at it this way. A lot of people have a cut off of 55. You can get older. There's no chance of us getting younger "
Oh no, my days are numbered. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We've met younger men but let's face it, most of the men on here are younger than us .
Would you be meeting this lady alone? Or with your partner?
Yeah but if you look at your pictures I don't think any person would have you both down and 63
Thanks, unless you think we look older
I don't think anyone would ever class you as older than 63 I told people that it's my 40th birthday in a couple of weeks and some people actually said to me I look older I really did not take that as a compliment
That's not great, you don't look 40, genuinely but I wouldn't expect you to a 31. Unless you had a very difficult paper round
No hand on heart what my age says it is my truthful age I know that there is a lot of people on this website that do pretend to be younger and a lot of people do pretend to be older so they can actually message the women men that they want. It doesn't even work for me anyway the women that I try to speak to the couples that I speak to it's always a negative no
Not much point lying about age. You can always tell when you meet someone. Like the guy who te us all about his first lads holiday which he would have taken at age 8 if his stated age was correct
It's like don't get me wrong sometimes I can check out a woman's profile or a couples profile and I think to myself I would really really really love to get talking to them and then you'll see that there is criteria is a little bit under or over the age that you are you do have that thought in your head maybe if I could change my age things would be alright
Look at it this way. A lot of people have a cut off of 55. You can get older. There's no chance of us getting younger
Oh no, my days are numbered."
Yeah but the only problem with me is I all message someone who's older than me me and even if I am able to message that they will give me a negative response back and say not interested I don't know what I've got to do |
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"Yeah but the only problem with me is I all message someone who's older than me me and even if I am able to message that they will give me a negative response back and say not interested I don't know what I've got to do "
Time to deploy the sky remote.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Always been one of my favorite things and yes I’ve enjoyed many older women which of course as I approach 60 is now just a memory.
My all time favorite was 18 years older than me when I was 35 and she was a lovely friend for many years until we left the UK.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We've met younger men but let's face it, most of the men on here are younger than us .
Would you be meeting this lady alone? Or with your partner?
Yeah but if you look at your pictures I don't think any person would have you both down and 63
Thanks, unless you think we look older
I don't think anyone would ever class you as older than 63 I told people that it's my 40th birthday in a couple of weeks and some people actually said to me I look older I really did not take that as a compliment
That's not great, you don't look 40, genuinely but I wouldn't expect you to a 31. Unless you had a very difficult paper round
No hand on heart what my age says it is my truthful age I know that there is a lot of people on this website that do pretend to be younger and a lot of people do pretend to be older so they can actually message the women men that they want. It doesn't even work for me anyway the women that I try to speak to the couples that I speak to it's always a negative no
Not much point lying about age. You can always tell when you meet someone. Like the guy who te us all about his first lads holiday which he would have taken at age 8 if his stated age was correct
It's like don't get me wrong sometimes I can check out a woman's profile or a couples profile and I think to myself I would really really really love to get talking to them and then you'll see that there is criteria is a little bit under or over the age that you are you do have that thought in your head maybe if I could change my age things would be alright
Look at it this way. A lot of people have a cut off of 55. You can get older. There's no chance of us getting younger
Oh no, my days are numbered."
I've just realised my age range prefs exclude you, Bluebell. That won't do at all. Changed! |
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I wouldn't say I exclusively go for older women but my last 3 sexual partners have all been at least 10 years older than me. I wasn't looking for them, it just happened. |
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Hopefully I'm meeting a lovely older lady next weekend. It's been a fantasy of mine since I was at school so I'm excited.
We are going out for a drink first so it will be interesting to see how people react.
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"It’s been a massive fantasy for me ever since I can remember... From the first time I discovered porn online it was a category I always came back to haha. And all my 25 years of searching I’ve never actually came close to doing anything with one haha
So I'm curious, has anyone else had these fantasies or actually done it??"
I would love to be seduced by a lady at least in her 50's |
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"It’s been a massive fantasy for me ever since I can remember... From the first time I discovered porn online it was a category I always came back to haha. And all my 25 years of searching I’ve never actually came close to doing anything with one haha
So I'm curious, has anyone else had these fantasies or actually done it??
I would love to be seduced by a lady at least in her 50's"
Oh really!!! |
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"It’s been a massive fantasy for me ever since I can remember... From the first time I discovered porn online it was a category I always came back to haha. And all my 25 years of searching I’ve never actually came close to doing anything with one haha
So I'm curious, has anyone else had these fantasies or actually done it??
I would love to be seduced by a lady at least in her 50's
Oh really!!! "
Massive fantasy of mine! I want to feel pressured into it though!  |
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"It’s been a massive fantasy for me ever since I can remember... From the first time I discovered porn online it was a category I always came back to haha. And all my 25 years of searching I’ve never actually came close to doing anything with one haha
So I'm curious, has anyone else had these fantasies or actually done it??
I would love to be seduced by a lady at least in her 50's
Oh really!!!
Massive fantasy of mine! I want to feel pressured into it though! "
Whys that?  |
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"It’s been a massive fantasy for me ever since I can remember... From the first time I discovered porn online it was a category I always came back to haha. And all my 25 years of searching I’ve never actually came close to doing anything with one haha
So I'm curious, has anyone else had these fantasies or actually done it??
Older? Check
Woman? Fuckit... I'll get my coat"
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"It’s been a massive fantasy for me ever since I can remember... From the first time I discovered porn online it was a category I always came back to haha. And all my 25 years of searching I’ve never actually came close to doing anything with one haha
So I'm curious, has anyone else had these fantasies or actually done it??
I would love to be seduced by a lady at least in her 50's
Oh really!!!
Massive fantasy of mine! I want to feel pressured into it though!
Whys that? "
Not sure...just what I would like. Someone older that wont take no for an answer! Clearly I'll be saying yes at some point. |
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You are an idiot if you ignore or dismiss older women. In my experience, they are bolder, more assured and confident, kinky and a lot of fun to be with. Aad they shoot from the hip too. |
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"You are an idiot if you ignore or dismiss older women. In my experience, they are bolder, more assured and confident, kinky and a lot of fun to be with. Aad they shoot from the hip too. "
Nobody's an idiot for preferring younger women.
Every age has its advantages and disadvantages but I reckon the majority of men would go for younger women given the choice |
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Very much like you OP I've always had a thing for older women since I was 16. It was always a huge turn on and my porn favourite.
I have been very lucky and since joining fab several years ago now. All of my meets have been fulfilled and surpassed my fantasies and it's true what they say. Older women are definitely the best.
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"It’s been a massive fantasy for me ever since I can remember... From the first time I discovered porn online it was a category I always came back to haha. And all my 25 years of searching I’ve never actually came close to doing anything with one haha
So I'm curious, has anyone else had these fantasies or actually done it??"
So how much older? |
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"It’s been a massive fantasy for me ever since I can remember... From the first time I discovered porn online it was a category I always came back to haha. And all my 25 years of searching I’ve never actually came close to doing anything with one haha
So I'm curious, has anyone else had these fantasies or actually done it?? So how much older? "
10- 15 years minimum x |
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"You're aware your age limit is 60 maximum? We frequently find ourselves outside those ONLY settings but as people get older they never update their age settings. "
I’ll keep that in mind and change it when I get a bit older x |
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Very much depends on the person rather than age. Confidence and having enough in common to communicate well is important to me. Although it has to be said I've been known to enjoy a younger man x |
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"Very much depends on the person rather than age. Confidence and having enough in common to communicate well is important to me. Although it has to be said I've been known to enjoy a younger man x"
Good to know guess I’ll have some more faith in myself if an opportunity arises xx |
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