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I know you! Identifying fab folk in the real world...
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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I know it's been done, but I'm now asking too.... What do y'all think about the etiquette of coming across fabbers in the real world?
(obviously come across them all you like if you're having sexy time with them, that's different)
Say, hypothetically of course, you were one of my neighbours and you'd seen my pics or you'd read my thread today and then you were to shout out in public asking if I'd sorted my milk problem yet - would that be acceptable, or just icky and a little bit wrong?
Most of us seem to know the unwritten rules if fab, but what would you do if someone hadn't got the memo or hadn't read what hadn't been written and chose to embarrass you in public in your real world? - Ignore? Slap? Kick in the nads? Tell their wife in revenge?
What are your rules of fab club?
*purely hypothetical sitch, obvs.... |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I'd scream at you and drop my pants! 
What if you didn't have any pants on?
I'd drop yours... "
Well obvs if it was you I'd let you......
But what if it were hypothetical creepy milk person?
Although I kinda like thought of you randomly dropping your pants and screaming....  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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I would expect to be treated in that situation as I would (and have done) treat anyone I "spotted"...with discretion.
If someone "outed" me publically, it would depend on the situation and circumstance but most likely I would ignore and/or deny and if I knew who the person was on here, later send a polite but strongly worded message pointing out the error of their ways and suggesting next time they spot me in Tesco they at most give a polite nod, but ideally ignore me and if they really must let me know they've seen me, to send a message on here after the event. |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I never have but I'd stay quiet in public. You never know a person's circumstances and what's the point causing any embarrassment "
Exactly. Good man. You can have a cheesecake as a reward. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve seen a couple of fab folk locally and the unwritten rule is say nothing
That's what I thought.... "
One of them looked waaaaaaay different to her pics  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I haven’t been “busted” on Fab yet, but did bump into women I’d known in real life on Match and other dating sites. In common with everyone else, I’d prefer it if people didn’t come up to me and I respect that too.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd scream at you and drop my pants!
What if you didn't have any pants on?
I'd drop yours...
Well obvs if it was you I'd let you......
But what if it were hypothetical creepy milk person?
Although I kinda like thought of you randomly dropping your pants and screaming.... "
I'd call round his place later tonight when his wife is back at home and drop them some milk, like Benny fucking Hill, innit....  |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I would expect to be treated in that situation as I would (and have done) treat anyone I "spotted"...with discretion.
If someone "outed" me publically, it would depend on the situation and circumstance but most likely I would ignore and/or deny and if I knew who the person was on here, later send a polite but strongly worded message pointing out the error of their ways and suggesting next time they spot me in Tesco they at most give a polite nod, but ideally ignore me and if they really must let me know they've seen me, to send a message on here after the event."
Precisely what I've always done. In the past obvs, as this is hypothetical and I haven't left the house in a while.
Although I did once burst into a fit of giggles. But there was more reason than just recognition and I apologised later.... |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Btw, stop pinching my threads! 
You took WAY too long.... I was speeding it up
You copy pasted and changed one sentence ffs....  "
Told you I was going to.... |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I’ve seen a couple of fab folk locally and the unwritten rule is say nothing
That's what I thought....
One of them looked waaaaaaay different to her pics "
Oh god. Wasn't me was it? I'm actually a 5'0" skinny woman with no boobies and green skin. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Btw, stop pinching my threads!
You took WAY too long.... I was speeding it up
You copy pasted and changed one sentence ffs....
Told you I was going to.... "
I'll tell you next time I'm about to put a sink plunger in your bumhole if that makes it alright.... |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"I'd scream at you and drop my pants!
What if you didn't have any pants on?
I'd drop yours...
Well obvs if it was you I'd let you......
But what if it were hypothetical creepy milk person?
Although I kinda like thought of you randomly dropping your pants and screaming....
I'd call round his place later tonight when his wife is back at home and drop them some milk, like Benny fucking Hill, innit.... "
I adore your mind Nip.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve seen a couple of fab folk locally and the unwritten rule is say nothing
That's what I thought....
One of them looked waaaaaaay different to her pics
Oh god. Wasn't me was it? I'm actually a 5'0" skinny woman with no boobies and green skin. "
Unwritten rule is ...  |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Btw, stop pinching my threads!
You took WAY too long.... I was speeding it up
You copy pasted and changed one sentence ffs....
Told you I was going to....
I'll tell you next time I'm about to put a sink plunger in your bumhole if that makes it alright...."
Next time? 
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"I’ve seen a couple of fab folk locally and the unwritten rule is say nothing
That's what I thought....
One of them looked waaaaaaay different to her pics
Oh god. Wasn't me was it? I'm actually a 5'0" skinny woman with no boobies and green skin.
Unwritten rule is ... "
Nice to know my secret is safe with you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Btw, stop pinching my threads!
You took WAY too long.... I was speeding it up
You copy pasted and changed one sentence ffs....
Told you I was going to....
I'll tell you next time I'm about to put a sink plunger in your bumhole if that makes it alright....
Next time?
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How do you know if you like it until you've tried five times....? |
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It's down right creepy and wrong.
A few weeks ago a faceless torso on here. Decided to message me that he'd seen me walking in the village I lived. I've no idea when he saw me or if we followed me back home or if I had my kids on me etc.
In all honesty it really rattled me.
Think this person needs to have a word with themselves and try and think about it from a female perspective |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has your neighbour shouted out the window about this thread yet, hypothetically.....
My hypothetical neighbour? "
Omg, you made him/her up hypothetically just to get me to hypothetically write this hypothetical thread which I didn't write.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's down right creepy and wrong.
A few weeks ago a faceless torso on here. Decided to message me that he'd seen me walking in the village I lived. I've no idea when he saw me or if we followed me back home or if I had my kids on me etc.
In all honesty it really rattled me.
Think this person needs to have a word with themselves and try and think about it from a female perspective "
Creepy af!   |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Btw, stop pinching my threads!
You took WAY too long.... I was speeding it up
You copy pasted and changed one sentence ffs....
Told you I was going to....
I'll tell you next time I'm about to put a sink plunger in your bumhole if that makes it alright....
Next time?
How do you know if you like it until you've tried five times....? "
Cos you told me I would after you'd tried it 5 times and liked it. And obvs everything you like I like because I blindly follow your lead  |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"It's down right creepy and wrong.
A few weeks ago a faceless torso on here. Decided to message me that he'd seen me walking in the village I lived. I've no idea when he saw me or if we followed me back home or if I had my kids on me etc.
In all honesty it really rattled me.
Think this person needs to have a word with themselves and try and think about it from a female perspective "
It's horrible and creepy. By all means message and say hi, you look lovely and I see we are close....
But that's kind of stalky... |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Has your neighbour shouted out the window about this thread yet, hypothetically.....
My hypothetical neighbour?
Omg, you made him/her up hypothetically just to get me to hypothetically write this hypothetical thread which I didn't write.... "
Hypothetically. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I walked past one the other day. He was with his work colleague (as he works about 500m from where I live). I had my sunglasses on so not sure if he clocked me. I just looked straight forward and never looked back. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Btw, stop pinching my threads!
You took WAY too long.... I was speeding it up
You copy pasted and changed one sentence ffs....
Told you I was going to....
I'll tell you next time I'm about to put a sink plunger in your bumhole if that makes it alright....
Next time?
How do you know if you like it until you've tried five times....?
Cos you told me I would after you'd tried it 5 times and liked it. And obvs everything you like I like because I blindly follow your lead "
Genuinely lol'd at that..... |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I walked past one the other day. He was with his work colleague (as he works about 500m from where I live). I had my sunglasses on so not sure if he clocked me. I just looked straight forward and never looked back. "
That's the healthy way to do it! |
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"It's down right creepy and wrong.
A few weeks ago a faceless torso on here. Decided to message me that he'd seen me walking in the village I lived. I've no idea when he saw me or if we followed me back home or if I had my kids on me etc.
In all honesty it really rattled me.
Think this person needs to have a word with themselves and try and think about it from a female perspective
It's horrible and creepy. By all means message and say hi, you look lovely and I see we are close....
But that's kind of stalky... "
Exactly and I sometimes think some men forget, that women are wary of male attention when it's unexpected like that. Women are taught to look over the shoulders when walking alone, to carry keys in their hands just in case. |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Btw, stop pinching my threads!
You took WAY too long.... I was speeding it up
You copy pasted and changed one sentence ffs....
Told you I was going to....
I'll tell you next time I'm about to put a sink plunger in your bumhole if that makes it alright....
Next time?
How do you know if you like it until you've tried five times....?
Cos you told me I would after you'd tried it 5 times and liked it. And obvs everything you like I like because I blindly follow your lead
Genuinely lol'd at that..... "
Thought you might |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For once I'm glad i don't live near you posh, hypothetically....
That's made me sad "
You're only saying that because you want hypothetical pink junk.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never spotted someone but I'd keep quiet about it unless I fancied them. If I fancied them I'd probably send a message saying heyyyyyyyyyy this is awkward but helloooo do you like me? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a fab lady and she's seen me twice at work now and not said hello!
She's promised to next time!
Also I had a sexy fireman recognise me! As long as I'm not with the kids I wouldn't mind a fab acknowledgement hello
And I would do similar. Though it's minimal the amount of people with faces up. |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"For once I'm glad i don't live near you posh, hypothetically....
That's made me sad
You're only saying that because you want hypothetical pink junk...."
And because we would have so much fun being neighbours....
But yeah. Mostly pink thingy |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I've never spotted someone but I'd keep quiet about it unless I fancied them. If I fancied them I'd probably send a message saying heyyyyyyyyyy this is awkward but helloooo do you like me? "
I think that's more than acceptable as long as you don't add.... Saw you walking down the street and followed you home.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For once I'm glad i don't live near you posh, hypothetically....
That's made me sad
You're only saying that because you want hypothetical pink junk....
And because we would have so much fun being neighbours....
But yeah. Mostly pink thingy"
I definitely wouldn't pop round to borrow a pint, js.... |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"I have a fab lady and she's seen me twice at work now and not said hello!
She's promised to next time!
Also I had a sexy fireman recognise me! As long as I'm not with the kids I wouldn't mind a fab acknowledgement hello
And I would do similar. Though it's minimal the amount of people with faces up. "
I think with face pics on view it's slightly different..... But I'd still be really subtle and not mention fab.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well last time I was on fab,I was in Tesco's with my mam,when a guy came up to me and said hey your on fab arnt you,was really unacceptable,I had to lie to my mam |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Iv spotted a few fabbers I usually just smile at them and move on I don’t think any of them even know who is was
If I spotted you NSP I think I’d give you a big cuddle "
To be fair, if I spotted you I'd do the same..... |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"For once I'm glad i don't live near you posh, hypothetically....
That's made me sad
You're only saying that because you want hypothetical pink junk....
And because we would have so much fun being neighbours....
But yeah. Mostly pink thingy
I definitely wouldn't pop round to borrow a pint, js.... "
I've got other things you can have a pint of. Just not milk |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Well last time I was on fab,I was in Tesco's with my mam,when a guy came up to me and said hey your on fab arnt you,was really unacceptable,I had to lie to my mam "
That really is unacceptable! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've never spotted someone but I'd keep quiet about it unless I fancied them. If I fancied them I'd probably send a message saying heyyyyyyyyyy this is awkward but helloooo do you like me?
I think that's more than acceptable as long as you don't add.... Saw you walking down the street and followed you home.... "
Why do people actually approach others in such creepy ways? It's so odd.
I think when you're on here you have to accept and take the risk that you might be spotted. And I'm ok with that as long as the people who do see me treat me with some respect. I think the best thing to do is just send a quick message asking if they are your cup of tea, if not forget about it and move on. But it's like most men turn into sex crazy stalkers that make you fear for your life.
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I've never spotted someone but I'd keep quiet about it unless I fancied them. If I fancied them I'd probably send a message saying heyyyyyyyyyy this is awkward but helloooo do you like me?
I think that's more than acceptable as long as you don't add.... Saw you walking down the street and followed you home....
Why do people actually approach others in such creepy ways? It's so odd.
I think when you're on here you have to accept and take the risk that you might be spotted. And I'm ok with that as long as the people who do see me treat me with some respect. I think the best thing to do is just send a quick message asking if they are your cup of tea, if not forget about it and move on. But it's like most men turn into sex crazy stalkers that make you fear for your life.
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Completely. And when they hypothetically live next door.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've never spotted someone but I'd keep quiet about it unless I fancied them. If I fancied them I'd probably send a message saying heyyyyyyyyyy this is awkward but helloooo do you like me?
I think that's more than acceptable as long as you don't add.... Saw you walking down the street and followed you home....
Why do people actually approach others in such creepy ways? It's so odd.
I think when you're on here you have to accept and take the risk that you might be spotted. And I'm ok with that as long as the people who do see me treat me with some respect. I think the best thing to do is just send a quick message asking if they are your cup of tea, if not forget about it and move on. But it's like most men turn into sex crazy stalkers that make you fear for your life.
Completely. And when they hypothetically live next door.... "
Oh my god does he actually live next to you or is this just a hypothetical situation?!? I'm scared for you now! |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"The first rule of fab club is do not talk about fab club. Sail past like ships in the night. "
But just so you know, if you see me in the street I expect you to say hi to my boobs.... |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I've never spotted someone but I'd keep quiet about it unless I fancied them. If I fancied them I'd probably send a message saying heyyyyyyyyyy this is awkward but helloooo do you like me?
I think that's more than acceptable as long as you don't add.... Saw you walking down the street and followed you home....
Why do people actually approach others in such creepy ways? It's so odd.
I think when you're on here you have to accept and take the risk that you might be spotted. And I'm ok with that as long as the people who do see me treat me with some respect. I think the best thing to do is just send a quick message asking if they are your cup of tea, if not forget about it and move on. But it's like most men turn into sex crazy stalkers that make you fear for your life.
Completely. And when they hypothetically live next door....
Oh my god does he actually live next to you or is this just a hypothetical situation?!? I'm scared for you now! "
Don't be scared for me my lovely. I know his wife. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've never spotted someone but I'd keep quiet about it unless I fancied them. If I fancied them I'd probably send a message saying heyyyyyyyyyy this is awkward but helloooo do you like me?
I think that's more than acceptable as long as you don't add.... Saw you walking down the street and followed you home....
Why do people actually approach others in such creepy ways? It's so odd.
I think when you're on here you have to accept and take the risk that you might be spotted. And I'm ok with that as long as the people who do see me treat me with some respect. I think the best thing to do is just send a quick message asking if they are your cup of tea, if not forget about it and move on. But it's like most men turn into sex crazy stalkers that make you fear for your life.
Completely. And when they hypothetically live next door....
Oh my god does he actually live next to you or is this just a hypothetical situation?!? I'm scared for you now!
Don't be scared for me my lovely. I know his wife. "
I don't know if you are being serious or not!! |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I don't mind a message to say, hey, I think I've seen you out and about. It doesn't really come to anything but it's nice in an odd way if someone has seen me and thinks a) I look like my photos enough for them to recognise me when I'm full on scruff mode and b) they give me a compliment off that.
If it's one of those creepy "I know you from x, y and z" and they give no clue it's a weird power thing and that's not on. I've not had that one though for a good 5 years or so now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I let someone who messaged me know that I was the one who sat behind him in GCSE Geography for 2 years. He was good about it in the sense that he swore blind to not tell anyone but I really regretted it as he then kept bugging me to go for a "drink" but I didn't fancy him. I had to block him in the end as he wouldn't leave me alone (even after me repeatedly saying no thank you) and became a bit scared he would tell people but it was quite a while ago now and I haven't had anyone from school pop up and call me a massive slag 
Also it's funny how, although we were friendly and laughed and joked around a lot in class, he didn't admit to fancying me until he saw me on a sex site 10 years later... What a coincidence, right ? |
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"I don't mind a message to say, hey, I think I've seen you out and about. It doesn't really come to anything but it's nice in an odd way if someone has seen me and thinks a) I look like my photos enough for them to recognise me when I'm full on scruff mode and b) they give me a compliment off that.
If it's one of those creepy "I know you from x, y and z" and they give no clue it's a weird power thing and that's not on. I've not had that one though for a good 5 years or so now."
God yes the power game they play is fucking creepy. I hate it.
"Oh I know you."
"Where do you know me from?"
"Oh I've seen you around don't worry sexy!! I'll come say hi! "
I'm usually not too bothered as I can tell they are bullshitting but I had someone do it the other week who was very very local to my area (I'm not in Birmingham) and I creeped out as he was just being a fucking weirdo about it on some weird power trip! |
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This is why I have who's near off and don't play or chat to anyone in my local area, I'd be very angry especially if I'm out with my family, that includes any fwb and this is part of our boundaries rules agreements |
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"The first rule of fab club is do not talk about fab club. Sail past like ships in the night.
But just so you know, if you see me in the street I expect you to say hi to my boobs.... "
Don't worry, I won't be in a ship that day, I'll be in a....... motorboat  |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I don't mind a message to say, hey, I think I've seen you out and about. It doesn't really come to anything but it's nice in an odd way if someone has seen me and thinks a) I look like my photos enough for them to recognise me when I'm full on scruff mode and b) they give me a compliment off that.
If it's one of those creepy "I know you from x, y and z" and they give no clue it's a weird power thing and that's not on. I've not had that one though for a good 5 years or so now."
I like that theory. "I've seen you about and I still like you" would be nice in a message, like you say, flattering.
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"The first rule of fab club is do not talk about fab club. Sail past like ships in the night.
But just so you know, if you see me in the street I expect you to say hi to my boobs....
Don't worry, I won't be in a ship that day, I'll be in a....... motorboat "
Excellent news..... |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I let someone who messaged me know that I was the one who sat behind him in GCSE Geography for 2 years. He was good about it in the sense that he swore blind to not tell anyone but I really regretted it as he then kept bugging me to go for a "drink" but I didn't fancy him. I had to block him in the end as he wouldn't leave me alone (even after me repeatedly saying no thank you) and became a bit scared he would tell people but it was quite a while ago now and I haven't had anyone from school pop up and call me a massive slag
Also it's funny how, although we were friendly and laughed and joked around a lot in class, he didn't admit to fancying me until he saw me on a sex site 10 years later... What a coincidence, right ? "
Such a coincidence..... And to let someone know that once they've actually messaged you I would say is perfectly fine, as you've got that connection there.
It's the out of the blue ones that bug me |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"This is why I have who's near off and don't play or chat to anyone in my local area, I'd be very angry especially if I'm out with my family, that includes any fwb and this is part of our boundaries rules agreements"
I do the same. My town is away too small to be playing within it. |
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I have actually seen a couple who I had been at a social with a few weeks earlier. (she had very brightly coloured hair, it was tough to miss her!) I didn't sat anything as they didn't, though I did mention it to them the next time I messaged them (as a "by the way" not a message saying "I saw you...") |
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over a year ago
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I wouldn't say anything if I recognised anyone out and about as it would also incriminate me of being on here.
If someone has public face pics I assume they are happy to be approached off site and identified publicly. |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I have actually seen a couple who I had been at a social with a few weeks earlier. (she had very brightly coloured hair, it was tough to miss her!) I didn't sat anything as they didn't, though I did mention it to them the next time I messaged them (as a "by the way" not a message saying "I saw you...")"
I think if you've met them in "fab life" it's acceptable to mention it.... Just not if you haven't.... |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't say anything if I recognised anyone out and about as it would also incriminate me of being on here.
If someone has public face pics I assume they are happy to be approached off site and identified publicly. "
I'd say public identification would still have it's limits but yes, I'd agree. |
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We have seen a few people we have recognised from fab while we have been out and about shopping etc .Would never dream of approaching them and I would hope people would do the same if they seen us out and about . |
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"I wouldn't say anything if I recognised anyone out and about as it would also incriminate me of being on here.
If someone has public face pics I assume they are happy to be approached off site and identified publicly. "
I occasionally use face pics here, but just to be clear, DO NOT APPROACH ME IN PUBLIC about fab, approach me where the pics are presented....! Jesus....
Does the logic in this argument extend to slapping my arse because it's out in public today too.... |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't say anything if I recognised anyone out and about as it would also incriminate me of being on here.
If someone has public face pics I assume they are happy to be approached off site and identified publicly.
I occasionally use face pics here, but just to be clear, DO NOT APPROACH ME IN PUBLIC about fab, approach me where the pics are presented....! Jesus....
Does the logic in this argument extend to slapping my arse because it's out in public today too...."
That's what I mean by public identification has its limits... A message here is identification enough.
Can I slap your arse? |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"We have seen a few people we have recognised from fab while we have been out and about shopping etc .Would never dream of approaching them and I would hope people would do the same if they seen us out and about ."
You speak the sense. It's nice to know many do... |
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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago
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I know of a few fab people locally and if I see them I'd say hi as a neighbour as I know them. But wouldn't discuss anything else with them and it goes both ways. Tends to work well and I've had no issues so far.
I.guess there will be occasions where there is some person that can't keep their mouth shut or hope that by mentioning to you they know you're on fab it'll get them laid.. but that must be in the minority. |
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"I wouldn't say anything if I recognised anyone out and about as it would also incriminate me of being on here.
If someone has public face pics I assume they are happy to be approached off site and identified publicly.
I occasionally use face pics here, but just to be clear, DO NOT APPROACH ME IN PUBLIC about fab, approach me where the pics are presented....! Jesus....
Does the logic in this argument extend to slapping my arse because it's out in public today too....
That's what I mean by public identification has its limits... A message here is identification enough.
Can I slap your arse? "
Yes, but only in full view of your rear neighbour with the big windows.... |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't say anything if I recognised anyone out and about as it would also incriminate me of being on here.
If someone has public face pics I assume they are happy to be approached off site and identified publicly.
I occasionally use face pics here, but just to be clear, DO NOT APPROACH ME IN PUBLIC about fab, approach me where the pics are presented....! Jesus....
Does the logic in this argument extend to slapping my arse because it's out in public today too....
That's what I mean by public identification has its limits... A message here is identification enough.
Can I slap your arse?
Yes, but only in full view of your rear neighbour with the big windows.... "
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I know of a few fab people locally and if I see them I'd say hi as a neighbour as I know them. But wouldn't discuss anything else with them and it goes both ways. Tends to work well and I've had no issues so far.
I.guess there will be occasions where there is some person that can't keep their mouth shut or hope that by mentioning to you they know you're on fab it'll get them laid.. but that must be in the minority. "
See, if you actually know them anyway I'd say that's fine and then you can always have the conversation on here about if you want to talk about here off here. |
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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago
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"I know of a few fab people locally and if I see them I'd say hi as a neighbour as I know them. But wouldn't discuss anything else with them and it goes both ways. Tends to work well and I've had no issues so far.
I.guess there will be occasions where there is some person that can't keep their mouth shut or hope that by mentioning to you they know you're on fab it'll get them laid.. but that must be in the minority.
See, if you actually know them anyway I'd say that's fine and then you can always have the conversation on here about if you want to talk about here off here. "
Yep and those I don't know tbh I would probably not recognise them with clothes on! So no chance of me saying anything. |
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over a year ago
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My rule of thumb for people I don't know is: if they're with anybody, do nothing, say nothing. If they're on their own, just smile and nod like a normal human and go about your business.
A message later on, with a face pic, saying something like "I'm not sure if that was you I saw earlier, but if it was, Hi!" is a bit of a gamble, but I'd be OK with receiving something like that myself. There are ways of saying this stuff without sounding overtly creepy.
Just, y'know, lay off with the "Hurr hurr, you look dead sexy when you bend over to reach the beans!" stuff... |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I know of a few fab people locally and if I see them I'd say hi as a neighbour as I know them. But wouldn't discuss anything else with them and it goes both ways. Tends to work well and I've had no issues so far.
I.guess there will be occasions where there is some person that can't keep their mouth shut or hope that by mentioning to you they know you're on fab it'll get them laid.. but that must be in the minority.
See, if you actually know them anyway I'd say that's fine and then you can always have the conversation on here about if you want to talk about here off here.
Yep and those I don't know tbh I would probably not recognise them with clothes on! So no chance of me saying anything. "
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"What happens on fab stays on fab.
End of
This! I probably wouldn’t approach in real life unless there was lots of eye contact and open invitation.
I might drop a line on here, though. "
I think with eye contact and open invitation that is just flirting and makes it more than acceptable to approach. As long as your first line isn't "seen your fanny on fab, cracking clit", I think you manage to stay off the creep scale |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"My rule of thumb for people I don't know is: if they're with anybody, do nothing, say nothing. If they're on their own, just smile and nod like a normal human and go about your business.
A message later on, with a face pic, saying something like "I'm not sure if that was you I saw earlier, but if it was, Hi!" is a bit of a gamble, but I'd be OK with receiving something like that myself. There are ways of saying this stuff without sounding overtly creepy.
Just, y'know, lay off with the "Hurr hurr, you look dead sexy when you bend over to reach the beans!" stuff... "
This being a normal human thing. Is there a manual? I could do with it.
And yes. Non creepy messages are lovely. We all like those.... |
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over a year ago
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"What happens on fab stays on fab.
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This! I probably wouldn’t approach in real life unless there was lots of eye contact and open invitation.
I might drop a line on here, though.
I think with eye contact and open invitation that is just flirting and makes it more than acceptable to approach. As long as your first line isn't "seen your fanny on fab, cracking clit", I think you manage to stay off the creep scale "
I probably wouldn't approach even in that situation. |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"What happens on fab stays on fab.
End of
This! I probably wouldn’t approach in real life unless there was lots of eye contact and open invitation.
I might drop a line on here, though.
I think with eye contact and open invitation that is just flirting and makes it more than acceptable to approach. As long as your first line isn't "seen your fanny on fab, cracking clit", I think you manage to stay off the creep scale
I probably wouldn't approach even in that situation. "
I've never approached anyone in real life. Ever. |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I would hate it if someone approached me when I was out.
It's creepy.
My postman is on here - every time I see him I run away "
My brother in law is. I ran away from him when I saw him long before I knew that though.
Does the postie know you know? |
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over a year ago
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"What happens on fab stays on fab.
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This! I probably wouldn’t approach in real life unless there was lots of eye contact and open invitation.
I might drop a line on here, though.
I think with eye contact and open invitation that is just flirting and makes it more than acceptable to approach. As long as your first line isn't "seen your fanny on fab, cracking clit", I think you manage to stay off the creep scale "
I've seen all of your fannies..... |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"What happens on fab stays on fab.
End of
This! I probably wouldn’t approach in real life unless there was lots of eye contact and open invitation.
I might drop a line on here, though.
I think with eye contact and open invitation that is just flirting and makes it more than acceptable to approach. As long as your first line isn't "seen your fanny on fab, cracking clit", I think you manage to stay off the creep scale
I've seen all of your fannies..... "
Ahh but to truly see the fanny, one must touch the fanny |
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"I would hate it if someone approached me when I was out.
It's creepy.
My postman is on here - every time I see him I run away
My brother in law is. I ran away from him when I saw him long before I knew that though.
Does the postie know you know?"
Oh nooo awkward!
Does he know you're here?
My postie knows - he's messaged me on here and on Tinder - it's just too close to home. |
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over a year ago
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"What happens on fab stays on fab.
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This! I probably wouldn’t approach in real life unless there was lots of eye contact and open invitation.
I might drop a line on here, though.
I think with eye contact and open invitation that is just flirting and makes it more than acceptable to approach. As long as your first line isn't "seen your fanny on fab, cracking clit", I think you manage to stay off the creep scale
I've seen all of your fannies.....
Ahh but to truly see the fanny, one must touch the fanny "
Ahhh, but I've seen you seeing it. Can you tell me what it truly looks like....?  |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I would hate it if someone approached me when I was out.
It's creepy.
My postman is on here - every time I see him I run away
My brother in law is. I ran away from him when I saw him long before I knew that though.
Does the postie know you know?
Oh nooo awkward!
Does he know you're here?
My postie knows - he's messaged me on here and on Tinder - it's just too close to home."
My sister knows I'm here so possibly. He messaged me way back when and I blocked and deleted swiftly.
Too close to home for me is pretty much all of town! |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"What happens on fab stays on fab.
End of
This! I probably wouldn’t approach in real life unless there was lots of eye contact and open invitation.
I might drop a line on here, though.
I think with eye contact and open invitation that is just flirting and makes it more than acceptable to approach. As long as your first line isn't "seen your fanny on fab, cracking clit", I think you manage to stay off the creep scale
I've seen all of your fannies.....
Ahh but to truly see the fanny, one must touch the fanny
Ahhh, but I've seen you seeing it. Can you tell me what it truly looks like....? "
It wouldn't be the same to me as it would be to you, as beauty and fannies are in the eye of the beholder. So I could tell you what it truly looks like to me but you'd have to have a proper look yourself to know.  |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I work with somone whos on fab lucky i seen there profile before they seen me and blocked them "
But you'd not go up to them at work and say anything, would you? |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"If there on here and your on here , your both like minded people , so no harm done in my eyes
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I see why you might say that but in many of the examples here do you not think it could come across as creepy? |
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"If there on here and your on here , your both like minded people , so no harm done in my eyes
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What, to just approach you at Tesco or at the pub with your mates? Fuck that! Even if I somehow agreed with you then I'd still see from some of the replies on this thread that many ppl would be embarrassed or offended and not want it, so armed with that knowledge I'd never dare approach someone off here in public knowing that it might upset them. Is it so difficult to just message them on fab....?  |
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over a year ago
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"What happens on fab stays on fab.
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This! I probably wouldn’t approach in real life unless there was lots of eye contact and open invitation.
I might drop a line on here, though.
I think with eye contact and open invitation that is just flirting and makes it more than acceptable to approach. As long as your first line isn't "seen your fanny on fab, cracking clit", I think you manage to stay off the creep scale
I've seen all of your fannies..... "
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"I would hate it if someone approached me when I was out.
It's creepy.
My postman is on here - every time I see him I run away
My brother in law is. I ran away from him when I saw him long before I knew that though.
Does the postie know you know?
Oh nooo awkward!
Does he know you're here?
My postie knows - he's messaged me on here and on Tinder - it's just too close to home.
My sister knows I'm here so possibly. He messaged me way back when and I blocked and deleted swiftly.
Too close to home for me is pretty much all of town! "
Is he your sisters partner?
Yeah too close to home is a risk - when I first joined these sites I made some errrm .. questionable choices
And I still see a couple of them around the town I live in.
Luckily they're not the stalker indiscreet types.
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"If there on here and your on here , your both like minded people , so no harm done in my eyes
What, to just approach you at Tesco or at the pub with your mates? Fuck that! Even if I somehow agreed with you then I'd still see from some of the replies on this thread that many ppl would be embarrassed or offended and not want it, so armed with that knowledge I'd never dare approach someone off here in public knowing that it might upset them. Is it so difficult to just message them on fab....? "
I had a rethink about my answer. While I still want to know if he doesn't think it could be creepy.... I want to change it to this. |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"What happens on fab stays on fab.
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This! I probably wouldn’t approach in real life unless there was lots of eye contact and open invitation.
I might drop a line on here, though.
I think with eye contact and open invitation that is just flirting and makes it more than acceptable to approach. As long as your first line isn't "seen your fanny on fab, cracking clit", I think you manage to stay off the creep scale
I've seen all of your fannies.....
Oh wow, all of them?? How many has she got and can I have a peek? "
Incoming.... |
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I think the creepy thing about the hypothetical example in this thread was that the hypothetical guy would have been sat at his hypothetical home actually online on fab watching a thread, but still felt it OK to shout from his window at the hypothetical OP when he could have just sent a hypothetical fab message...... |
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"I think the creepy thing about the hypothetical example in this thread was that the hypothetical guy would have been sat at his hypothetical home actually online on fab watching a thread, but still felt it OK to shout from his window at the hypothetical OP when he could have just sent a hypothetical fab message......"
That’s hypothetically fucked up!!!
Just NO. |
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"What happens on fab stays on fab.
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This! I probably wouldn’t approach in real life unless there was lots of eye contact and open invitation.
I might drop a line on here, though.
I think with eye contact and open invitation that is just flirting and makes it more than acceptable to approach. As long as your first line isn't "seen your fanny on fab, cracking clit", I think you manage to stay off the creep scale
I've seen all of your fannies.....
Oh wow, all of them?? How many has she got and can I have a peek?
Incoming.... "
Vag wall? |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I would hate it if someone approached me when I was out.
It's creepy.
My postman is on here - every time I see him I run away
My brother in law is. I ran away from him when I saw him long before I knew that though.
Does the postie know you know?
Oh nooo awkward!
Does he know you're here?
My postie knows - he's messaged me on here and on Tinder - it's just too close to home.
My sister knows I'm here so possibly. He messaged me way back when and I blocked and deleted swiftly.
Too close to home for me is pretty much all of town!
Is he your sisters partner?
Yeah too close to home is a risk - when I first joined these sites I made some errrm .. questionable choices
And I still see a couple of them around the town I live in.
Luckily they're not the stalker indiscreet types.
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My sister's husband, yes.
I will admit, the one person I met who lives in town is now one of my closest friends.... No benefits just best mates. |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"What happens on fab stays on fab.
End of
This! I probably wouldn’t approach in real life unless there was lots of eye contact and open invitation.
I might drop a line on here, though.
I think with eye contact and open invitation that is just flirting and makes it more than acceptable to approach. As long as your first line isn't "seen your fanny on fab, cracking clit", I think you manage to stay off the creep scale
I've seen all of your fannies.....
Oh wow, all of them?? How many has she got and can I have a peek?
Incoming....
Vag wall?"
You know it baby
That was totally when you fell for my charms |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I think the creepy thing about the hypothetical example in this thread was that the hypothetical guy would have been sat at his hypothetical home actually online on fab watching a thread, but still felt it OK to shout from his window at the hypothetical OP when he could have just sent a hypothetical fab message......"
I'd just like to say.... In his garden. Hypothetically. |
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We have noticed quite a few people on here that we know but would never say anything.
If anyone knows us we would be quite happy to receive a private message on here from them but would not like it if they said anything in public. |
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"I think the creepy thing about the hypothetical example in this thread was that the hypothetical guy would have been sat at his hypothetical home actually online on fab watching a thread, but still felt it OK to shout from his window at the hypothetical OP when he could have just sent a hypothetical fab message......
I'd just like to say.... In his garden. Hypothetically. "
Hypothetical eye contact....?
Build a wall!!!!! |
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Been a few occasions we have seen someone from Fab out in the real world and usually just give a smile or a nod.
Have bumped into a play partner in tesco (other supermarkets are available) and stopped for a chat as was just us.
However on one occasion had a gent spot us in the local supermarket car park whilst was shopping with the children and he decide to approach and try and have a conversation about setting up a meet, I (Mr) quickly ushered the children into the car and had a quiet word in his ear that if he ever tried that again I would have no hesitation in knocking his block off. |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I think the creepy thing about the hypothetical example in this thread was that the hypothetical guy would have been sat at his hypothetical home actually online on fab watching a thread, but still felt it OK to shout from his window at the hypothetical OP when he could have just sent a hypothetical fab message......
I'd just like to say.... In his garden. Hypothetically.
Hypothetical eye contact....?
Build a wall!!!!! "
There's 2 walls between us.... It's complicated. But it would have to be about 30 feet tall because he's at the top of the hill.
Hypothetically |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"We have noticed quite a few people on here that we know but would never say anything.
If anyone knows us we would be quite happy to receive a private message on here from them but would not like it if they said anything in public."
This. But no creepy following you home type messages |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Been a few occasions we have seen someone from Fab out in the real world and usually just give a smile or a nod.
Have bumped into a play partner in tesco (other supermarkets are available) and stopped for a chat as was just us.
However on one occasion had a gent spot us in the local supermarket car park whilst was shopping with the children and he decide to approach and try and have a conversation about setting up a meet, I (Mr) quickly ushered the children into the car and had a quiet word in his ear that if he ever tried that again I would have no hesitation in knocking his block off. "
And these are the people we are talking about! Creepy. Inappropriate. And downright scary especially for a lot of women |
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N got noticed on here by someone she knew. All they did was message her on Facebook and dropped the word fab a few times to see if she caught on. Subtle enough and gave us chance to choose if we gave away that we knew what he was talking about or not. |
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"I think the creepy thing about the hypothetical example in this thread was that the hypothetical guy would have been sat at his hypothetical home actually online on fab watching a thread, but still felt it OK to shout from his window at the hypothetical OP when he could have just sent a hypothetical fab message......
I'd just like to say.... In his garden. Hypothetically.
Hypothetical eye contact....?
Build a wall!!!!!
There's 2 walls between us.... It's complicated. But it would have to be about 30 feet tall because he's at the top of the hill.
Hypothetically "
Paint his window panes, hypothetically....
Where's the sex stream anyway? |
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"I think the creepy thing about the hypothetical example in this thread was that the hypothetical guy would have been sat at his hypothetical home actually online on fab watching a thread, but still felt it OK to shout from his window at the hypothetical OP when he could have just sent a hypothetical fab message......
I'd just like to say.... In his garden. Hypothetically.
Hypothetical eye contact....?
Build a wall!!!!!
There's 2 walls between us.... It's complicated. But it would have to be about 30 feet tall because he's at the top of the hill.
Hypothetically
Paint his window panes, hypothetically....
Where's the sex stream anyway?"
Buy a drone n fly it to hover over the two walls, see if it makes him feel uneasy at the thought he’s being watched. |
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"And these are the people we are talking about! Creepy. Inappropriate. And downright scary especially for a lot of women"
I feel sorry for any woman who has to deal with a creep like that and he was lucky it was me who got to him as Mrs would have probably given his nuts a really tight squeeze whilst telling him what to do |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"N got noticed on here by someone she knew. All they did was message her on Facebook and dropped the word fab a few times to see if she caught on. Subtle enough and gave us chance to choose if we gave away that we knew what he was talking about or not."
But why do it that way and not on here? |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I think the creepy thing about the hypothetical example in this thread was that the hypothetical guy would have been sat at his hypothetical home actually online on fab watching a thread, but still felt it OK to shout from his window at the hypothetical OP when he could have just sent a hypothetical fab message......
I'd just like to say.... In his garden. Hypothetically.
Hypothetical eye contact....?
Build a wall!!!!!
There's 2 walls between us.... It's complicated. But it would have to be about 30 feet tall because he's at the top of the hill.
Hypothetically
Paint his window panes, hypothetically....
Where's the sex stream anyway?"
Other side of the house. Garden kinda goes all round. |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"And these are the people we are talking about! Creepy. Inappropriate. And downright scary especially for a lot of women
I feel sorry for any woman who has to deal with a creep like that and he was lucky it was me who got to him as Mrs would have probably given his nuts a really tight squeeze whilst telling him what to do "
Good on her!
So many women wouldn't be able to though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think the creepy thing about the hypothetical example in this thread was that the hypothetical guy would have been sat at his hypothetical home actually online on fab watching a thread, but still felt it OK to shout from his window at the hypothetical OP when he could have just sent a hypothetical fab message......
I'd just like to say.... In his garden. Hypothetically.
Hypothetical eye contact....?
Build a wall!!!!!
There's 2 walls between us.... It's complicated. But it would have to be about 30 feet tall because he's at the top of the hill.
Hypothetically
Paint his window panes, hypothetically....
Where's the sex stream anyway?
Other side of the house. Garden kinda goes all round. "
I bet your neighbours love you! |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"I think the creepy thing about the hypothetical example in this thread was that the hypothetical guy would have been sat at his hypothetical home actually online on fab watching a thread, but still felt it OK to shout from his window at the hypothetical OP when he could have just sent a hypothetical fab message......
I'd just like to say.... In his garden. Hypothetically.
Hypothetical eye contact....?
Build a wall!!!!!
There's 2 walls between us.... It's complicated. But it would have to be about 30 feet tall because he's at the top of the hill.
Hypothetically
Paint his window panes, hypothetically....
Where's the sex stream anyway?
Other side of the house. Garden kinda goes all round.
I bet your neighbours love you! "
Most of the garden is hidden from view. It's just the bit that he can see....
And I don't do naughty stuff in the garden. Yet. You've not come over |
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"N got noticed on here by someone she knew. All they did was message her on Facebook and dropped the word fab a few times to see if she caught on. Subtle enough and gave us chance to choose if we gave away that we knew what he was talking about or not.
But why do it that way and not on here? "
Single men are blocked through our profile and he had her on his fb friends list due to knowing her for years. |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I have seen a few people who are on here. We just past each other or I think we have said friendly hello and went on our way "
And that's the way to do it! |
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
The right place |
I’ve never been spotted as far as I know.
If I was with other people I’d definitely not want anyone walking up to me and asking if I was on fab. But if I was on my own and it wasn’t a really public space then I’d probably be ok with someone saying hi. Or at least messaging on fab to see if it was me. |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"N got noticed on here by someone she knew. All they did was message her on Facebook and dropped the word fab a few times to see if she caught on. Subtle enough and gave us chance to choose if we gave away that we knew what he was talking about or not.
But why do it that way and not on here?
Single men are blocked through our profile and he had her on his fb friends list due to knowing her for years."
That's fair then..... And actually if it was someone I knew I would be fine with it in that way... |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"I’ve never been spotted as far as I know.
If I was with other people I’d definitely not want anyone walking up to me and asking if I was on fab. But if I was on my own and it wasn’t a really public space then I’d probably be ok with someone saying hi. Or at least messaging on fab to see if it was me. "
But still time and place indeed..... |
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"N got noticed on here by someone she knew. All they did was message her on Facebook and dropped the word fab a few times to see if she caught on. Subtle enough and gave us chance to choose if we gave away that we knew what he was talking about or not.
But why do it that way and not on here?
Single men are blocked through our profile and he had her on his fb friends list due to knowing her for years.
That's fair then..... And actually if it was someone I knew I would be fine with it in that way... "
Yeah we appreciated how he approached it. We almost set up something for the next night but we couldn't make it work. |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"N got noticed on here by someone she knew. All they did was message her on Facebook and dropped the word fab a few times to see if she caught on. Subtle enough and gave us chance to choose if we gave away that we knew what he was talking about or not.
But why do it that way and not on here?
Single men are blocked through our profile and he had her on his fb friends list due to knowing her for years.
That's fair then..... And actually if it was someone I knew I would be fine with it in that way...
Yeah we appreciated how he approached it. We almost set up something for the next night but we couldn't make it work."
That seems a shame. Glad it kind of worked out though and wasn't weird. |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I saw a guy we met a few times in the supermarket with his wife. I just gave him a little smile and nod. Never dream of saying anything to him "
He must have been worried.... |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"The way they walk when buying a watermelon
But would you tell them you know?
Nope. "
That's because you're polite, non creepy and a great fabber, obviously. |
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Live in an area where I personally know a number of swingers out with fab. Also know a few couples and some guys in the same area. Same rules apply.. if you know each other then a nod or a chat is appropriate. Otherwise it’s discretion assured . |
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"I work with somone whos on fab lucky i seen there profile before they seen me and blocked them "
One of the managers at work had photos of her daughter on her desk and I recognised her immediately from Fab. Managed to contain my excitement and not compliment her on her daughter's quite excellent fanny pics though. |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I work with somone whos on fab lucky i seen there profile before they seen me and blocked them
One of the managers at work had photos of her daughter on her desk and I recognised her immediately from Fab. Managed to contain my excitement and not compliment her on her daughter's quite excellent fanny pics though."
She had her daughter's fanny pics on her desk?! Dude.... |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Live in an area where I personally know a number of swingers out with fab. Also know a few couples and some guys in the same area. Same rules apply.. if you know each other then a nod or a chat is appropriate. Otherwise it’s discretion assured ."
Best way. Always |
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"I saw a guy we met a few times in the supermarket with his wife. I just gave him a little smile and nod. Never dream of saying anything to him
He must have been worried.... "
nah he just smiled back. He knows he can trust me |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I saw a guy we met a few times in the supermarket with his wife. I just gave him a little smile and nod. Never dream of saying anything to him
He must have been worried.... nah he just smiled back. He knows he can trust me "
That's the way it should be. |
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"I saw a guy we met a few times in the supermarket with his wife. I just gave him a little smile and nod. Never dream of saying anything to him
He must have been worried.... nah he just smiled back. He knows he can trust me
That's the way it should be. "
absolouetly. What goes on fab stays on fab x |
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"What happens on fab stays on fab.
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This! I probably wouldn’t approach in real life unless there was lots of eye contact and open invitation.
I might drop a line on here, though.
I think with eye contact and open invitation that is just flirting and makes it more than acceptable to approach. As long as your first line isn't "seen your fanny on fab, cracking clit", I think you manage to stay off the creep scale
I probably wouldn't approach even in that situation.
I've never approached anyone in real life. Ever. "
*ponders an exception * |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"What happens on fab stays on fab.
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This! I probably wouldn’t approach in real life unless there was lots of eye contact and open invitation.
I might drop a line on here, though.
I think with eye contact and open invitation that is just flirting and makes it more than acceptable to approach. As long as your first line isn't "seen your fanny on fab, cracking clit", I think you manage to stay off the creep scale
I probably wouldn't approach even in that situation.
I've never approached anyone in real life. Ever.
*ponders an exception *"
You should. But not in a creepy fab stalker way. Just a hi how are you today way |
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