My 14 year old grandson came out to me yesterday, I’m so pleased that we have the sort of relationship where he can confide in me, but, his ridiculous mother keeps telling him it is just a phase, he has assured me it isn’t, do you think I should have a talk with her or leave well alone? |
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I am curious as to why he came out to you...
Does he know about your bisexuality and therefore felt you were less likely to pass judgement??
Sounds like an ongoing discussion between you and his Mother will take place..
I think he is a very brave lad...he will find his own way .. |
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I’d tell your daughter that you support your grandson, if it’s a phase so be it (although we know it most likely isn’t a phase) but for the time being, if she could at least pretend to be accepting, that would be fab.
Let your grandson know that you love and support him, you will always be there for him and if he has any bother with anyone (including his mum) then you are there for him and will help in any way that you are able to.
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You know the family better than any one on here so personally I’d hopefully try and support everyone involved in your grandsons life.
My kids grandparents are not very understanding of such things but to be fair it’s their age so kudos to you for being supportive.
Best of luck op.
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I'd discus it with her, as she has the potential to make his life more comfortable every day. She can accept him today, without an unspoken conditional expectation that he's not gay and even that she may prefer him to be straight. It's certainly ideal that whatever his sexuality, it will be the best.
Her opinion is obviously something that she's free to hold but it's worthwhile her being given the opportunity to discuss what's behind it, as well as the implications that may arise from it too.
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