FabSwingers.com > Forums > The Lounge > When you hear excuses to send a face picture
When you hear excuses to send a face picture
Jump to: Newest in thread
Heard them all! Had a bloke on pof last week arranged a social distance coffee meet going on profile pics we both had so we moved to whatsapp I sent a selfie there and then asked him for same he refused ! So i said how about a couple seconds vid chat for verification which he also refused hence meet never went ahead x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
 |
By *arksxMan
over a year ago
Leicester / London |
"'Due to my profession and high profile I don't send face pics'."
I've got a picture of Keith vaz (mp) wearing a fruit bowl on his head in a ladies dress making cock gobbling gesture with his hand taken circa 2005.
If he was willing to pose for that...people can send a face picture in 2020.
Being the MD of a ball bearing manufacturer or paper merchant in Slough doesn't mean shit or that you joined a swinging website. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"'Due to my profession and high profile I don't send face pics'.
I've got a picture of Keith vaz (mp) wearing a fruit bowl on his head in a ladies dress making cock gobbling gesture with his hand taken circa 2005.
If he was willing to pose for that...people can send a face picture in 2020.
Being the MD of a ball bearing manufacturer or paper merchant in Slough doesn't mean shit or that you joined a swinging website."
 |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I like too see a picture and if shes my type then I will play "
I like a pic preferably a quick vid chat to meet and a coffee meet b 4 deciding to play or not as think u can never decide without a face to face meet for me anyways x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Makes no sense why you wouldn't send a face picture to someone your interested in especially if your arranging to meet.
What ya going to do....turn up with a paper bag over your head with eye holes cut into it  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
Shangri-la |
If I've chatted to someone for a while, and I'm seriously considering a social meet, then I have no issue with sending a face pic & would expect them to do the same. However, I won't be pressurised into sending a face pic until I'm comfortable to do so & certainly won't send one on demand after only exchanging a few messages of small talk. If people don't like it then that's their problem not mine. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Makes no sense why you wouldn't send a face picture to someone your interested in especially if your arranging to meet.
What ya going to do....turn up with a paper bag over your head with eye holes cut into it "
No we only meet in clubs. Dont share pics on here. Been stung by that before. We are well known enough on the scene for staff to point us out in clubs. Our way of playing. Works for us and not bothered who it puts off. May not wirk for newbies but when you have been on the scene as long as us we don't need to prove ourselves to get play. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"No we only meet in clubs. Dont share pics on here. Been stung by that before. We are well known enough on the scene for staff to point us out in clubs. Our way of playing. Works for us and not bothered who it puts off. May not wirk for newbies but when you have been on the scene as long as us we don't need to prove ourselves to get play."
What works for you works for you. We don't have to prove ourselves either, whether newbies or not, but from our point of view, we want to actually meet people where we have a connection beyond physical sex. By the time we get to meet it's taken us to either get child care sorted for an evening, at our expense, or arrange a mid week day off, at our expense, only to find that there's no physical attraction. This could have been negated before that stage by sharing a face pic. We also frequently find that finding a couple where there is equal levels of attraction for our opposites and vice versa that would allow full swap to happen is very difficult as neither of us is prepared to 'take one for the team'. This too can be found early be sharing a face pic. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"No we only meet in clubs. Dont share pics on here. Been stung by that before. We are well known enough on the scene for staff to point us out in clubs. Our way of playing. Works for us and not bothered who it puts off. May not wirk for newbies but when you have been on the scene as long as us we don't need to prove ourselves to get play.
What works for you works for you. We don't have to prove ourselves either, whether newbies or not, but from our point of view, we want to actually meet people where we have a connection beyond physical sex. By the time we get to meet it's taken us to either get child care sorted for an evening, at our expense, or arrange a mid week day off, at our expense, only to find that there's no physical attraction. This could have been negated before that stage by sharing a face pic. We also frequently find that finding a couple where there is equal levels of attraction for our opposites and vice versa that would allow full swap to happen is very difficult as neither of us is prepared to 'take one for the team'. This too can be found early be sharing a face pic."
Crack on doing that then. If it works for you. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
People in here arguing over if you should or shouldn't send face pics are missing the point.
Would you guys seriously meet people who you weren't even slightly physically attracted to them?
We don't even like to start getting to know people before we swap face pics because it's just a total waste of time. Why bother wasting everyone's time talking if there's no initial attraction to build on. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"“It keeps getting declined by Fab. I have pics in my phone if you give me your number.”
 "
I've had this...he blocked me when I pointed out that you can send pictures direct from your phone on here now |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Makes no sense why you wouldn't send a face picture to someone your interested in especially if your arranging to meet.
What ya going to do....turn up with a paper bag over your head with eye holes cut into it "
I've had no complaints so far, and I change the bag regularly |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"People in here arguing over if you should or shouldn't send face pics are missing the point.
Would you guys seriously meet people who you weren't even slightly physically attracted to them?
We don't even like to start getting to know people before we swap face pics because it's just a total waste of time. Why bother wasting everyone's time talking if there's no initial attraction to build on."
We don't need to send face pics. We don't rely on fab for meets. We will be going to a certain club on a certain date, if our paths cross and there is mutual attraction then we will play. Have done it this way for a while now and it works for us. Relying on fabs for meets didn't work due to the high number of fakes and fantasists. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
