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i just can't get a meet lol
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"where the hell am i going wrong im not pushy i wouldn't say am the worst looking person in the world or is it my age  ?"
what was your expectation? just interested to know...
4 weeks.... honestly... people dropping their underwear for you???
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"yeah only 4 weeks i have been chatting for & getting no where lol "
At least you've been chatting! Patience.......... loads of patience is what you need as a single guy on here......  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your problem might be explained by your own words in your profile
I get to see what the typical young and horny guy your age is like most Friday and Saturday nights in town and it's not nice  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its pot luck and sticking through it on here that works, 4th month on this return visit and no meets so far  a few in about a year before that, just gotta treat this place as a bit of fun on the side almost |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your age is against you, not knocking you for trying but many people won't meet folks younger than their kids. Some will though, so don't give up.
Your profile is crap, sorry to be blunt, but it is crap and tells no-one anything about anything.
Bottom line of it is this: you've been on here for 4 weeks, you're a young lad with a bollox profile. You really need to sell yourself if you want to get anywhere on this or any other swinging site.
If it's just a shag you're after, maybe this is not the right type of site you need to be using. No disprespect intended but there are other sites where a shag is almost gauranteed. Sorry can't name them on here but one in particular has a fish in its name ... |
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"where the hell am i going wrong im not pushy i wouldn't say am the worst looking person in the world or is it my age ?"
The reality is that there are many more blokes here than there are women or couples. The likelihood of you being 'chosen' is limited - but it does and can happen Don't give up - just be patient... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"where the hell am i going wrong im not pushy i wouldn't say am the worst looking person in the world or is it my age ?"
Okay, its the Male of the couple this time! Right - looked at your profile. Yes, your age IS against you - specially as you are looking for couples aged up to 40. They could have CHILDREN your age!!!!!!!!! And, unless the wife has a fetish in that direction, despite what you may have been lead to believe in porn, Mums in general do NOT want to fuck their sons...... (the girls on here will now rip into me for that.... )
Your profile narrative is far too short - it doesn't tell anyone anything about you, what you are looking for or what you can offer. Again, given your age you need to be far more focussed on targeting women (and couples) who will be attracted to you. It's just MHO but I think you need to bring down your upper age range to 30.
And if you do expand your profile narrative, make sure it is in English - NOT text speak!!!!
And although this sounds like I/We are having a dig, you at least had the balls to ask for everyones opinion, so top marks for that mate.
Oh, and as L said above, you need BUCKET loads of PATIENCE as a single guy - the girls outnumber you 100-1, so you need to be creative when messaging to intro yourself - NO one-liners and NO cut & pasting!!!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your age is against you, not knocking you for trying but many people won't meet folks younger than their kids. Some will though, so don't give up.
Your profile is crap, sorry to be blunt, but it is crap and tells no-one anything about anything.
Bottom line of it is this: you've been on here for 4 weeks, you're a young lad with a bollox profile. You really need to sell yourself if you want to get anywhere on this or any other swinging site.
If it's just a shag you're after, maybe this is not the right type of site you need to be using. No disprespect intended but there are other sites where a shag is almost gauranteed. Sorry can't name them on here but one in particular has a fish in its name ..."
Glad to see you are being gentle with him lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Glad to see you are being gentle with him lol
Sometimes tough love is the only way forward  "
In the words of Dame Edna . . . 'Tough love never hurt anyone, Possum....' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"yeah only 4 weeks i have been chatting for & getting no where lol "
Im genuinely interested....what exactly were your expectations when you joined here?
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"Your age is against you, not knocking you for trying but many people won't meet folks younger than their kids. Some will though, so don't give up.
Your profile is crap, sorry to be blunt, but it is crap and tells no-one anything about anything.
Bottom line of it is this: you've been on here for 4 weeks, you're a young lad with a bollox profile. You really need to sell yourself if you want to get anywhere on this or any other swinging site.
If it's just a shag you're after, maybe this is not the right type of site you need to be using. No disprespect intended but there are other sites where a shag is almost gauranteed. Sorry can't name them on here but one in particular has a fish in its name ...
Glad to see you are being gentle with him lol"
Personally I found the post VERY tame from the Red Hots!  |
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Try establishing some banter and connections with people on here as it is a community after all,try camming in the chatrooms or via msn so that you can get verified via webcam and people can vouch for you as being a decent fella or go to a social or get a friend to join who knows you etc verifications help to show that your a safe bet as there are way too many young guys who are arrogant,egotistical,timewasters who spoil it for the rest of us,in the words rabbie burns "if at first you don't succeed,try,try again!" never give up and treat people with respect and always be polite and it should improve your chances of a meet also you need to pump your profile with better content and pics etc as you have alot of competition from other single guys on here,hope that's helpful |
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