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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We are both expecting our 3rd child at the end of the year but this is our first since we've been in the lifestyle. We are taking a break from clubs and meets (well we were anyway because of lockdown but now we've just extended it by a year)
Has anyone in the lifestyle had a similar experience and how did you change your swinging sex lives because of it? |
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There’s a real fetish scene for pregnancy and pregnant women should you want to play there’s plenty who would. I met a lovely couple on here a few years back she was a surrogate for her best friend and they used to post pictures of her bump etc for the pregnancy fetishists out there. It shouldn’t have to stop the play.
Congratulations and hope it all goes ok for you. Sorry I can’t help I’m child free here. |
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"There’s a real fetish scene for pregnancy and pregnant women should you want to play there’s plenty who would. I met a lovely couple on here a few years back she was a surrogate for her best friend and they used to post pictures of her bump etc for the pregnancy fetishists out there. It shouldn’t have to stop the play.
Congratulations and hope it all goes ok for you. Sorry I can’t help I’m child free here. "
Oh yeah we know, personally I (Mr) think she looks incredible with a bump, and with her hormones our sex at home uslly doubles when shes pregnant.
Sadly our bdsm fun has been reigned in a bit |
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By *ouanna JoWoman
over a year ago
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I don’t have experience of this but my partner and I discussed that if i were to fall pregnant this wouldn’t be a part of our lives at that time. That’s because we personally wouldn’t feel comfortable but obviously that’s not to say others don’t do it! Also huge congratulations to you  |
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"I don’t have experience of this but my partner and I discussed that if i were to fall pregnant this wouldn’t be a part of our lives at that time. That’s because we personally wouldn’t feel comfortable but obviously that’s not to say others don’t do it! Also huge congratulations to you "
Thanks
Yeah safety is paramount to us. The fab crazies don't seem like the most safe people to play with. |
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By *ouanna JoWoman
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"I don’t have experience of this but my partner and I discussed that if i were to fall pregnant this wouldn’t be a part of our lives at that time. That’s because we personally wouldn’t feel comfortable but obviously that’s not to say others don’t do it! Also huge congratulations to you
Thanks
Yeah safety is paramount to us. The fab crazies don't seem like the most safe people to play with. "
Yeah safety is very important! But for us it’s less the safety aspect and more the feeling of just being uncomfortable. We talked about it and for us, pregnancy with our first child is such a special and intimate thing, we just wouldn’t want to include others sexually during that time. If that makes any sense. But everyone’s different. |
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"I stopped swinging while trying to get pregnant. Baba is one at the end of the month, haven’t slept with anyone else in two years. "
Same as our plans really, we plan on leaving play until she's 1 also. And slowly get back into bdsm once Mrs has recovered fully and feels confident enough |
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"I don’t have experience of this but my partner and I discussed that if i were to fall pregnant this wouldn’t be a part of our lives at that time. That’s because we personally wouldn’t feel comfortable but obviously that’s not to say others don’t do it! Also huge congratulations to you
Thanks
Yeah safety is paramount to us. The fab crazies don't seem like the most safe people to play with.
Yeah safety is very important! But for us it’s less the safety aspect and more the feeling of just being uncomfortable. We talked about it and for us, pregnancy with our first child is such a special and intimate thing, we just wouldn’t want to include others sexually during that time. If that makes any sense. But everyone’s different. "
It's our third and you can tell be our wrinkles lol
I'd love to get some tasteful pics of her naked with the baby bump  |
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"I stopped swinging while trying to get pregnant. Baba is one at the end of the month, haven’t slept with anyone else in two years.
Same as our plans really, we plan on leaving play until she's 1 also. And slowly get back into bdsm once Mrs has recovered fully and feels confident enough"
Good plan. Congrats xxx |
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