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We’ve had one or two spontaneous meets that have been great. But they are out weighed by the disastrous spontaneous ones which is why we like a social first and the planned ones have been much more successful (although we never actually plan what happens on the planned meets, we very much go with the flow!) |
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"We’ve had one or two spontaneous meets that have been great. But they are out weighed by the disastrous spontaneous ones which is why we like a social first and the planned ones have been much more successful (although we never actually plan what happens on the planned meets, we very much go with the flow!) "
I guess I just like the fact of not knowing whats going to happen, instead of a long build up where you talk about almost every detail of whats going to happen... maybe its just me haha |
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"We’ve had one or two spontaneous meets that have been great. But they are out weighed by the disastrous spontaneous ones which is why we like a social first and the planned ones have been much more successful (although we never actually plan what happens on the planned meets, we very much go with the flow!)
I guess I just like the fact of not knowing whats going to happen, instead of a long build up where you talk about almost every detail of whats going to happen... maybe its just me haha"
Doesn't matter how much you talk you never know what it will be like until it happens. How they kiss, how they feel, how they react, the sounds they make. I'm always so excited to experience those things. |
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"You could always chat for 5 months and then get stood up 
Its happened to me in the past. I would not allow it to happen again "
How do you stop it, he wasn't even from Fab!  |
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"You could always chat for 5 months and then get stood up
Its happened to me in the past. I would not allow it to happen again
How do you stop it, he wasn't even from Fab! "
She was. This is why I prefer to go into phone contact. It shows how serious they are. |
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"We have always done planned meets but I would like to have a completely spontaneous meet as it would be a different experience for us and add to the excitement I imagine.
Mrs x"
I think it does add to the excitement but im massively outweighed on this debate haha |
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"The calls and texts leading up to a planned meet is one of the best parts  "
Totally agree. The build up. Talking about what you are going to do. Thinking about what to wear for that person. Imagining them undressing you. It is part of the whole experience x |
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"The calls and texts leading up to a planned meet is one of the best parts "
too right 
I have had both types of meets but only ever been letdown by a planned meet. |
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"You could always chat for 5 months and then get stood up
Its happened to me in the past. I would not allow it to happen again
How do you stop it, he wasn't even from Fab! "
Not good but sadly cant stop them. Timewasters are always going to be there, had it happen a couple of times x |
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"The calls and texts leading up to a planned meet is one of the best parts
Totally agree. The build up. Talking about what you are going to do. Thinking about what to wear for that person. Imagining them undressing you. It is part of the whole experience x"
Exactly, telling them how you are going to pleasure and them telling you ... so no surprise and fully aware of what’s on the table .... or floor/counter /stairs/ kitchen/bathroom/bedroom  |
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Plus it give you a chance to shower etc and get ready for the night ahead
