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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What is that certain thing that makes you!!
When your friends family try to explain the type of person you are eg funny careing loyal bonkers.
Would you change it if so what for?
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By *arl17Man
over a year ago
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"The way I make people feel comfortable and good about themselves, My smile, my cuddles, my filthy humour, my arse. Lord I could go on all night. I'm kind of a big deal   "
Wish i was lol xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm often described in real life as friendly, awkward, gentle, silly and happy. I'd agree with all of it and I'm really happy with my fantastic personality. I wouldn't change much.  |
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I have, by choice, few friends (can count on one hand). They describe me as
Fierce,
Passionate
Loyal
Stubborn as fuck
Mad as a box of frogs
Very easy to "take the wrong way"
Would I change?
Not even if I could, straight John Bull all the way and if anyone has a problem with it or me then that's their problem not mine. |
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By *arl17Man
over a year ago
Central Portugal |
"I'm often described in real life as friendly, awkward, gentle, silly and happy. I'd agree with all of it and I'm really happy with my fantastic personality. I wouldn't change much. "
Same here, really don’t give a fuck... it is what it is x  |
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It would depend who you asked.
My colleagues would say I'm a sarcastic bitch with a heart of stone.
My family would say I'm the black sheep and stubborn as a mule.
My friends would say I'm sarcastic, funny, generous, silly, hedonistic, protective and loving.
I have to agree with all of them...people get the parts of me that match the parts of themselves that they choose to show to me. |
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By *arl17Man
over a year ago
Central Portugal |
"It would depend who you asked.
My colleagues would say I'm a sarcastic bitch with a heart of stone.
My family would say I'm the black sheep and stubborn as a mule.
My friends would say I'm sarcastic, funny, generous, silly, hedonistic, protective and loving.
I have to agree with all of them...people get the parts of me that match the parts of themselves that they choose to show to me. "
Best be yourself and not many things to many people I think x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It would depend who you asked.
My colleagues would say I'm a sarcastic bitch with a heart of stone.
My family would say I'm the black sheep and stubborn as a mule.
My friends would say I'm sarcastic, funny, generous, silly, hedonistic, protective and loving.
I have to agree with all of them...people get the parts of me that match the parts of themselves that they choose to show to me. "
It kind of makes me chuckle. I operate similar philosophy of presenting differently to different people.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have, by choice, few friends (can count on one hand). They describe me as
Fierce,
Passionate
Loyal
Stubborn as fuck
Mad as a box of frogs
Very easy to "take the wrong way"
Is fucking rite!!!!!!!!! Belta!!!!
Would I change?
Not even if I could, straight John Bull all the way and if anyone has a problem with it or me then that's their problem not mine. "
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By *arl17Man
over a year ago
Central Portugal |
"It would depend who you asked.
My colleagues would say I'm a sarcastic bitch with a heart of stone.
My family would say I'm the black sheep and stubborn as a mule.
My friends would say I'm sarcastic, funny, generous, silly, hedonistic, protective and loving.
I have to agree with all of them...people get the parts of me that match the parts of themselves that they choose to show to me.
It kind of makes me chuckle. I operate similar philosophy of presenting differently to different people.. "
Each to their own... just prefer an honest life but can appreciate others cannot do that.. guess i am lucky sometimes x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It would depend who you asked.
My colleagues would say I'm a sarcastic bitch with a heart of stone.
My family would say I'm the black sheep and stubborn as a mule.
My friends would say I'm sarcastic, funny, generous, silly, hedonistic, protective and loving.
I have to agree with all of them...people get the parts of me that match the parts of themselves that they choose to show to me.
It kind of makes me chuckle. I operate similar philosophy of presenting differently to different people.. "
I like that do we all act different infront of different people?
If i was the relaxed say do what i want person i work i would have been sacked a longgggg time ago.
Do we not change but maybe turn it in a bit or put a guard up infront of different people??
Id say so 100% |
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By *arl17Man
over a year ago
Central Portugal |
"It would depend who you asked.
My colleagues would say I'm a sarcastic bitch with a heart of stone.
My family would say I'm the black sheep and stubborn as a mule.
My friends would say I'm sarcastic, funny, generous, silly, hedonistic, protective and loving.
I have to agree with all of them...people get the parts of me that match the parts of themselves that they choose to show to me.
It kind of makes me chuckle. I operate similar philosophy of presenting differently to different people..
Each to their own... just prefer an honest life but can appreciate others cannot do that.. guess i am lucky sometimes x"
Can understand why you do, good luck as you deserve it like us all x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Apparently i attract 'stray cats'.. People in-need seem to seek me out.
It can drain you pretty quickly, so you have to keep topping yourself up and working on your resilience.. I wouldn't change it tho |
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"It would depend who you asked.
My colleagues would say I'm a sarcastic bitch with a heart of stone.
My family would say I'm the black sheep and stubborn as a mule.
My friends would say I'm sarcastic, funny, generous, silly, hedonistic, protective and loving.
I have to agree with all of them...people get the parts of me that match the parts of themselves that they choose to show to me.
It kind of makes me chuckle. I operate similar philosophy of presenting differently to different people..
Each to their own... just prefer an honest life but can appreciate others cannot do that.. guess i am lucky sometimes x"
That is the honest me, I am all of those things...but they're the different parts of me that come to the forefront when in the company of different people, based on how they act towards me. |
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By *arl17Man
over a year ago
Central Portugal |
"It would depend who you asked.
My colleagues would say I'm a sarcastic bitch with a heart of stone.
My family would say I'm the black sheep and stubborn as a mule.
My friends would say I'm sarcastic, funny, generous, silly, hedonistic, protective and loving.
I have to agree with all of them...people get the parts of me that match the parts of themselves that they choose to show to me.
It kind of makes me chuckle. I operate similar philosophy of presenting differently to different people..
Each to their own... just prefer an honest life but can appreciate others cannot do that.. guess i am lucky sometimes x
That is the honest me, I am all of those things...but they're the different parts of me that come to the forefront when in the company of different people, based on how they act towards me. "
Understand that but just can’t do it xx especially with adults and ‘friends’ xx |
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So you behave in an identical manner towards every single person that you ever come into contact with? I'm sorry, but I don't believe that. We all tailor our behaviour for different circumstances, it's part of social etiquette - I really hope that nobody would behave the same way at a funeral as they would at a funfair for example. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So you behave in an identical manner towards every single person that you ever come into contact with? I'm sorry, but I don't believe that. We all tailor our behaviour for different circumstances, it's part of social etiquette - I really hope that nobody would behave the same way at a funeral as they would at a funfair for example. "
With you Lily white thats what inwas tryin t say b4 |
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By *arl17Man
over a year ago
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"So you behave in an identical manner towards every single person that you ever come into contact with? I'm sorry, but I don't believe that. We all tailor our behaviour for different circumstances, it's part of social etiquette - I really hope that nobody would behave the same way at a funeral as they would at a funfair for example. "
Each to their own i guess xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Kind, loyal, moody, quiet, unsociable, antisocial, overthinker, funny
Wouldn't change anything because then it wouldn't be me.  "
And I forgot stubborn. Possibly add forgetful in as well. And imaginative and excitable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Kind, loyal, moody, quiet, unsociable, overthinker, funny
Wouldn't change anything because then it wouldn't be me. "
You should plagiarised my post only joking |
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By (user no longer on site)
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That is the honest me, I am all of those things...but they're the different parts of me that come to the forefront when in the company of different people, based on how they act towards me.
Understand that but just can’t do it xx especially with adults and ‘friends’ xx"
I agree with Lily White here.
In public and private we will behave differently depending on situations and who we are with.
People have different masks and I think everyone will, even if subtly, alter behaviour accordingly. And can you ever truly know someone?
Being honest is acknowledging you are a multitude and a personality is not a static thing but an ebbing and flowing of different characteristics. We are the sum of our parts even if they sometimes seem to be contradictory. |
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By *arl17Man
over a year ago
Central Portugal |
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That is the honest me, I am all of those things...but they're the different parts of me that come to the forefront when in the company of different people, based on how they act towards me.
Understand that but just can’t do it xx especially with adults and ‘friends’ xx
I agree with Lily White here.
In public and private we will behave differently depending on situations and who we are with.
People have different masks and I think everyone will, even if subtly, alter behaviour accordingly. And can you ever truly know someone?
Being honest is acknowledging you are a multitude and a personality is not a static thing but an ebbing and flowing of different characteristics. We are the sum of our parts even if they sometimes seem to be contradictory. "
You will eventually overcome if you can be honest and true to yourself xx |
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By *arl17Man
over a year ago
Central Portugal |
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That is the honest me, I am all of those things...but they're the different parts of me that come to the forefront when in the company of different people, based on how they act towards me.
Understand that but just can’t do it xx especially with adults and ‘friends’ xx
I agree with Lily White here.
In public and private we will behave differently depending on situations and who we are with.
People have different masks and I think everyone will, even if subtly, alter behaviour accordingly. And can you ever truly know someone?
Being honest is acknowledging you are a multitude and a personality is not a static thing but an ebbing and flowing of different characteristics. We are the sum of our parts even if they sometimes seem to be contradictory.
You will eventually overcome if you can be honest and true to yourself xx "
Either way i could not give a flying fuck these days lol
Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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That is the honest me, I am all of those things...but they're the different parts of me that come to the forefront when in the company of different people, based on how they act towards me.
Understand that but just can’t do it xx especially with adults and ‘friends’ xx
I agree with Lily White here.
In public and private we will behave differently depending on situations and who we are with.
People have different masks and I think everyone will, even if subtly, alter behaviour accordingly. And can you ever truly know someone?
Being honest is acknowledging you are a multitude and a personality is not a static thing but an ebbing and flowing of different characteristics. We are the sum of our parts even if they sometimes seem to be contradictory.
You will eventually overcome if you can be honest and true to yourself xx "
But what does 'honest and true' actually mean?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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That is the honest me, I am all of those things...but they're the different parts of me that come to the forefront when in the company of different people, based on how they act towards me.
Understand that but just can’t do it xx especially with adults and ‘friends’ xx
I agree with Lily White here.
In public and private we will behave differently depending on situations and who we are with.
People have different masks and I think everyone will, even if subtly, alter behaviour accordingly. And can you ever truly know someone?
Being honest is acknowledging you are a multitude and a personality is not a static thing but an ebbing and flowing of different characteristics. We are the sum of our parts even if they sometimes seem to be contradictory.
You will eventually overcome if you can be honest and true to yourself xx
Either way i could not give a flying fuck these days lol
Xx"
At different point we think we have sussed it all out, then something happens you get through it and think then you have it sussed, we never will have is sussed |
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"What is that certain thing that makes you!!
When your friends family try to explain the type of person you are eg funny careing loyal bonkers.
Would you change it if so what for?
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I'm far to modest to say.
Cal |
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MY base trait is supportive, I'm a giver so I feel compelled to help people.
The rest depends on the situation, I am a social chameleon and need to be able to show many differing parts of me in various scenarios |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Creative mad as a box of frogs dancer that has honour and understanding...if you d asked that 3 year ago..whoaaaaa the answer would have been so very different |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Kind, loyal, moody, quiet, unsociable, antisocial, overthinker, funny
Wouldn't change anything because then it wouldn't be me.
And I forgot stubborn. Possibly add forgetful in as well. And imaginative and excitable."
And can be shy/nervous in RL first of all but not too bad once warmed up |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I’m a bit like an onion the better you know me and the deeper and broader the level of mutual trust in our relationship, the more parts of me I reveal. However my core motivational value system guides the way I act generally. I’m aware of my strengths, when I overdo those strengths and my dark side. I aim no matter who I am dealing with to act with integrity but in some situations and with some people I haves failed, do fail and may continue to do that. I play many different roles and behave accordingly to that role and enjoy the switching between them. My public persona is similar but not as complete as my private self and I only get glimpses of my True self that witnesses me being human. |
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