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Having no luck where am I going wrong
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I appreciate what you say about pics but you need something! A blank profile pic will only serve to get you ignored because why would someone click on it.
What would draw anyone in?
A profile pic doesn't have to give your identity away, just a tease to the reader. A pic gives annimpress, so far you leave none! |
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over a year ago
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Maybe put some info on your profile? It's very boring! Put something about yourself and say that you have pics available.... Right now, there's nothing at all on there! |
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over a year ago
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"Having no luck on here I don’t have pics on profile because I no people on here but have them on request but can’t get to meet a couple and it something I wanna do any tips  "
Youre in the North West
You arent allowed out anyway |
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"Having no luck on here I don’t have pics on profile because I no people on here but have them on request but can’t get to meet a couple and it something I wanna do any tips "
The " no luck " boat you're in is the biggest boat on fab waters ...and it's full to capacity..and certainly in these strange times will be for the foreseeable future ..l think anyway. |
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"And, your nee here..find your feet. You are not alone, many of us struggle to find what we are looking for, especially guys. "
^ it’s a real slog here. Single males are ten a penny.
Very few will talk to you without some public pics at the very least. Make sure you read people’s profiles, if they ask for something in a message (e.g face pics) then don’t message unless you include them as they’ll at best delete, at worst block.
Might sound weird but have a look around at some single male profiles and see if there are any you think that are well done and use them for inspiration. |
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"What do I put what I like to do and stuff x"
People want to know what you are like (not just what you like). People want to know that they can have a conversation with you. You haven't put anything that might make people think they would enjoy chatting with you.
Your lack of photos, whatever your reasoning, is going to be a big handicap for you.
What do you write in your messages? It would have to be pretty spectacular to get past the difficulties above. Most messages we get are terrible. Give us an example of what you write and we'll give you some feedback. |
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Hi OP.
Look at it this way. Your profile is your "shop window". If there's nothing eye catching in your shop window people will just walk on by.
I get a lot of messages and some women get hundreds or more every week. A profile with no pix and nothing to make it stand out will just end up ignored or deleted.
For me a profile with two or three pix (don't have to be identifying, could be torso or rear shot or even your shoes!) and a bit of personality coming across in the text, about what you like and also a bit of humour...that's what catches my eye.
Good luck!
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