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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Would people admit it if they had ?"
You'd he surprised... status updates from some seem to indicate they have met..
Just curious to see if the outside world is opening up a bit jow xx |
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"Would people admit it if they had ?
You'd he surprised... status updates from some seem to indicate they have met..
Just curious to see if the outside world is opening up a bit jow xx"
Oh I know, they're great aren't they? My favourite so far is the CAM veri I saw so far saying how great he smelled, how good his touch is, he is so good with his tongue, what a great fuck and other magical details like that... |
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"Would people admit it if they had ?
You'd he surprised... status updates from some seem to indicate they have met..
Just curious to see if the outside world is opening up a bit jow xx
Oh I know, they're great aren't they? My favourite so far is the CAM veri I saw so far saying how great he smelled, how good his touch is, he is so good with his tongue, what a great fuck and other magical details like that..."
To be fair to that person - fab aren’t publishing actual meets so I believe they automatically divert to Cam meets.
And yes Op - in answer to your question I was a born again Virgin March to June then tentatively started dipping my toe back into the water in July with a couple of ‘bubble buddies’
I eagerly await the tar and feather brigade!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would people admit it if they had ?
You'd he surprised... status updates from some seem to indicate they have met..
Just curious to see if the outside world is opening up a bit jow xx
Oh I know, they're great aren't they? My favourite so far is the CAM veri I saw so far saying how great he smelled, how good his touch is, he is so good with his tongue, what a great fuck and other magical details like that...
To be fair to that person - fab aren’t publishing actual meets so I believe they automatically divert to Cam meets.
And yes Op - in answer to your question I was a born again Virgin March to June then tentatively started dipping my toe back into the water in July with a couple of ‘bubble buddies’
I eagerly await the tar and feather brigade! "
It's a bit daft to be publicly declaring that you aren't sticking to the guidelines |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would people admit it if they had ?
You'd he surprised... status updates from some seem to indicate they have met..
Just curious to see if the outside world is opening up a bit jow xx
Oh I know, they're great aren't they? My favourite so far is the CAM veri I saw so far saying how great he smelled, how good his touch is, he is so good with his tongue, what a great fuck and other magical details like that...
To be fair to that person - fab aren’t publishing actual meets so I believe they automatically divert to Cam meets.
And yes Op - in answer to your question I was a born again Virgin March to June then tentatively started dipping my toe back into the water in July with a couple of ‘bubble buddies’
I eagerly await the tar and feather brigade! "
Shame on you woman and the pleasures of the flesh you've wantonly peddled.
I demand you get in your car now and drive naked down the M6 of atonement to my door so as I myself can administer your punishment... I've got cake  |
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over a year ago
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Can honestly say I have not met during lockdown. But then as a single man of a certain age I didn’t meet much prior to lockdown so it’s really situation normal  |
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"Would people admit it if they had ?
You'd he surprised... status updates from some seem to indicate they have met..
Just curious to see if the outside world is opening up a bit jow xx
Oh I know, they're great aren't they? My favourite so far is the CAM veri I saw so far saying how great he smelled, how good his touch is, he is so good with his tongue, what a great fuck and other magical details like that...
To be fair to that person - fab aren’t publishing actual meets so I believe they automatically divert to Cam meets.
And yes Op - in answer to your question I was a born again Virgin March to June then tentatively started dipping my toe back into the water in July with a couple of ‘bubble buddies’
I eagerly await the tar and feather brigade!
It's a bit daft to be publicly declaring that you aren't sticking to the guidelines "
I’m a great believer in honesty!
I consider myself to be behaving cautiously and responsibly. Covid will be here for a long time. Freedoms which the government issues one week are withdrawn the next. Whilst I understand the reasoning, this will go on indefinitely until the majority of the population have been vaccinated - and that may never happen.
We’ve been told that covid is something we need to learn to live with - so I’m doing just that.
I’m not willing (or able if my mental wellbeing is to continue) to give up physical intimacy, affection and general human closeness/contact indefinitely- and I doubt I’m in the minority.
When we look in the future at the havoc that has been wreaked by Covid, I suspect a huge increase in suicide, self harm and general mental health issues will be high on the list due to the enforced isolation this virus has caused!
I’m more than happy to debate the issue further should anyone wish - but I won’t apologise for being human with basic human needs! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Others for fun as yet? Or still playing it safe."
We could meet if we wanted too but we will not even consider it until a vaccine is available due to the threat of death to one of us.!!
Have you met any one op??????
T |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Be wary of the FAB police.
I reconnected with someone of a dating site [not fab, repeat not fab].
People are going to meet, human nature, you cant stop it.
It is large social gathering that I'm avoiding. |
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" tentatively started dipping my toe back into the water in July with a couple of ‘bubble buddies’
You can only have one bubble buddy"
Feel free to read the rest of the text. I believe I’ve explained myself adequately. People, of course, are entitled to disagree and disapprove. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would people admit it if they had ?
You'd he surprised... status updates from some seem to indicate they have met..
Just curious to see if the outside world is opening up a bit jow xx
Oh I know, they're great aren't they? My favourite so far is the CAM veri I saw so far saying how great he smelled, how good his touch is, he is so good with his tongue, what a great fuck and other magical details like that...
To be fair to that person - fab aren’t publishing actual meets so I believe they automatically divert to Cam meets.
And yes Op - in answer to your question I was a born again Virgin March to June then tentatively started dipping my toe back into the water in July with a couple of ‘bubble buddies’
I eagerly await the tar and feather brigade!
It's a bit daft to be publicly declaring that you aren't sticking to the guidelines
I’m a great believer in honesty!
I consider myself to be behaving cautiously and responsibly. Covid will be here for a long time. Freedoms which the government issues one week are withdrawn the next. Whilst I understand the reasoning, this will go on indefinitely until the majority of the population have been vaccinated - and that may never happen.
We’ve been told that covid is something we need to learn to live with - so I’m doing just that.
I’m not willing (or able if my mental wellbeing is to continue) to give up physical intimacy, affection and general human closeness/contact indefinitely- and I doubt I’m in the minority.
When we look in the future at the havoc that has been wreaked by Covid, I suspect a huge increase in suicide, self harm and general mental health issues will be high on the list due to the enforced isolation this virus has caused!
I’m more than happy to debate the issue further should anyone wish - but I won’t apologise for being human with basic human needs! "
I agree with you. I haven't met anyone since lockdown but everyone has to decide _ased on their own opinion of the risks. Fab is against meeting using their site but without evidence it couldn't be traced back to them meaning it shouldn't jeopardize the site legally.
Were now in a state of fluctuating numbers of cases and as you've said it's not going anywhere soon so I hope people will realise this is a personal choice that some would've considered carefully. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would people admit it if they had ?
You'd he surprised... status updates from some seem to indicate they have met..
Just curious to see if the outside world is opening up a bit jow xx
Oh I know, they're great aren't they? My favourite so far is the CAM veri I saw so far saying how great he smelled, how good his touch is, he is so good with his tongue, what a great fuck and other magical details like that...
To be fair to that person - fab aren’t publishing actual meets so I believe they automatically divert to Cam meets.
And yes Op - in answer to your question I was a born again Virgin March to June then tentatively started dipping my toe back into the water in July with a couple of ‘bubble buddies’
I eagerly await the tar and feather brigade!
It's a bit daft to be publicly declaring that you aren't sticking to the guidelines
I’m a great believer in honesty!
I consider myself to be behaving cautiously and responsibly. Covid will be here for a long time. Freedoms which the government issues one week are withdrawn the next. Whilst I understand the reasoning, this will go on indefinitely until the majority of the population have been vaccinated - and that may never happen.
We’ve been told that covid is something we need to learn to live with - so I’m doing just that.
I’m not willing (or able if my mental wellbeing is to continue) to give up physical intimacy, affection and general human closeness/contact indefinitely- and I doubt I’m in the minority.
When we look in the future at the havoc that has been wreaked by Covid, I suspect a huge increase in suicide, self harm and general mental health issues will be high on the list due to the enforced isolation this virus has caused!
I’m more than happy to debate the issue further should anyone wish - but I won’t apologise for being human with basic human needs! "
Great reply Peachy and to read something as honest as that is very refreshing for the normal everyday fabspeak and I personally (not that it matters) respect your post and your personal approach.
No debate needed from me!!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Others for fun as yet? Or still playing it safe.
We could meet if we wanted too but we will not even consider it until a vaccine is available due to the threat of death to one of us.!!
Have you met any one op??????
T"
Nope. I have been a Shielder for so long now I have forgotten what the outside world looks like. I get the odd request from bi men to meet and offerig to suck me off. But turn them down.. best response 'can't get covid from a blow job'.. |
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Adults will make their considered choices, create bubbles, have socials meets, all of which is allowed.
Each person knows their own circumstances, so their choice, just like those that are choosing to fly off on holiday or flood the beaches in this country.
Personally, if it was me, I’d rather have a 1-2-1 with someone I trust than sit on a crowded beach
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Others for fun as yet? Or still playing it safe.
We could meet if we wanted too but we will not even consider it until a vaccine is available due to the threat of death to one of us.!!
Have you met any one op??????
T
Nope. I have been a Shielder for so long now I have forgotten what the outside world looks like. I get the odd request from bi men to meet and offerig to suck me off. But turn them down.. best response 'can't get covid from a blow job'.. "
Oh how I miss your services!!!
South mimms not blow jobs.
T |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Adults will make their considered choices, create bubbles, have socials meets, all of which is allowed.
Each person knows their own circumstances, so their choice, just like those that are choosing to fly off on holiday or flood the beaches in this country.
Personally, if it was me, I’d rather have a 1-2-1 with someone I trust than sit on a crowded beach
Agree.. i think in principle. You can never know the full interactions of the other person though.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Others for fun as yet? Or still playing it safe.
We could meet if we wanted too but we will not even consider it until a vaccine is available due to the threat of death to one of us.!!
Have you met any one op??????
T
Nope. I have been a Shielder for so long now I have forgotten what the outside world looks like. I get the odd request from bi men to meet and offerig to suck me off. But turn them down.. best response 'can't get covid from a blow job'..
Oh how I miss your services!!!
South mimms not blow jobs.
T"
South Mimms. Not a sceatch on Newport Pagnell or Leigh Delamare services.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's the public declarations and personal justifications I take exception to
I read them as an almost teenage sounding 'fuck you' to the rules
I don't know why folks just don't go about their business quietly |
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"Adults will make their considered choices, create bubbles, have socials meets, all of which is allowed.
Each person knows their own circumstances, so their choice, just like those that are choosing to fly off on holiday or flood the beaches in this country.
Personally, if it was me, I’d rather have a 1-2-1 with someone I trust than sit on a crowded beach
Agree.. i think in principle. You can never know the full interactions of the other person though.
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That is where the trust comes in and knowing the other individual. I’m not talking about a new person, but someone you’ve known a while and that’s why you’ve created your bubble. |
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By *ndy64hMan
over a year ago
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We have to understand that a site like this will be under scrutiny by various organisations to ensure they are not endorsing people meeting.
However, the rules do allow people to meet with others, form bubbles, and judging by the amount people you see out and about today, social distancing is being flaunted all the time.
You need to think very carefully about your own risk, the risk to the other person, the risk to other people they are in contact with, the risk to other people you are in contact with.
I can't see this site condoning meets until next year at the earliest, and possibly even longer. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would people admit it if they had ?
You'd he surprised... status updates from some seem to indicate they have met..
Just curious to see if the outside world is opening up a bit jow xx
Oh I know, they're great aren't they? My favourite so far is the CAM veri I saw so far saying how great he smelled, how good his touch is, he is so good with his tongue, what a great fuck and other magical details like that...
To be fair to that person - fab aren’t publishing actual meets so I believe they automatically divert to Cam meets.
And yes Op - in answer to your question I was a born again Virgin March to June then tentatively started dipping my toe back into the water in July with a couple of ‘bubble buddies’
I eagerly await the tar and feather brigade! "
Not true, they don't. I recently received a late meet veri from a lovely guy I knew before lockdown, and it's still sitting there where I can't publish it - it doesn't automatically convert over. |
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"It's the public declarations and personal justifications I take exception to
I read them as an almost teenage sounding 'fuck you' to the rules
I don't know why folks just don't go about their business quietly "
Because the thread asked if anyone had met? |
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"Would people admit it if they had ?
You'd he surprised... status updates from some seem to indicate they have met..
Just curious to see if the outside world is opening up a bit jow xx
Oh I know, they're great aren't they? My favourite so far is the CAM veri I saw so far saying how great he smelled, how good his touch is, he is so good with his tongue, what a great fuck and other magical details like that...
To be fair to that person - fab aren’t publishing actual meets so I believe they automatically divert to Cam meets.
And yes Op - in answer to your question I was a born again Virgin March to June then tentatively started dipping my toe back into the water in July with a couple of ‘bubble buddies’
I eagerly await the tar and feather brigade!
Not true, they don't. I recently received a late meet veri from a lovely guy I knew before lockdown, and it's still sitting there where I can't publish it - it doesn't automatically convert over."
Yeah that don’t convert over. Mine are from before lockdown (actually met on dating apps anyway, not here) and are just hidden. |
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"Would people admit it if they had ?
You'd he surprised... status updates from some seem to indicate they have met..
Just curious to see if the outside world is opening up a bit jow xx
Oh I know, they're great aren't they? My favourite so far is the CAM veri I saw so far saying how great he smelled, how good his touch is, he is so good with his tongue, what a great fuck and other magical details like that...
To be fair to that person - fab aren’t publishing actual meets so I believe they automatically divert to Cam meets.
And yes Op - in answer to your question I was a born again Virgin March to June then tentatively started dipping my toe back into the water in July with a couple of ‘bubble buddies’
I eagerly await the tar and feather brigade!
Not true, they don't. I recently received a late meet veri from a lovely guy I knew before lockdown, and it's still sitting there where I can't publish it - it doesn't automatically convert over."
Ah ok. Apologies - seems I was misinformed by a fab friend!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My health and the health of my family mean more to me than sex"
^^This^^
Had offers but turned them down. Not willing to risk health of my family. Happy to chat, make a connection on here and look to the future.
Meanwhile I'm enjoying the forums |
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By *aver999Couple
over a year ago
East Mids |
We haven't met during the lock down but would for a coffee or pint that's OK ... oh no that's been revoked OK we can still meet them in a park
Would we want to break the rules? Perhaps but is it worth the risk to us or anyone else, we don't think it is.
(Our current understanding of bubbles - you can form a bubble 1 household with 1 other single person or single parent, no member of the bubble can be in another bubble.) |
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"Would people admit it if they had ?
You'd he surprised... status updates from some seem to indicate they have met..
Just curious to see if the outside world is opening up a bit jow xx
Oh I know, they're great aren't they? My favourite so far is the CAM veri I saw so far saying how great he smelled, how good his touch is, he is so good with his tongue, what a great fuck and other magical details like that...
To be fair to that person - fab aren’t publishing actual meets so I believe they automatically divert to Cam meets.
And yes Op - in answer to your question I was a born again Virgin March to June then tentatively started dipping my toe back into the water in July with a couple of ‘bubble buddies’
I eagerly await the tar and feather brigade!
It's a bit daft to be publicly declaring that you aren't sticking to the guidelines
I’m a great believer in honesty!
I consider myself to be behaving cautiously and responsibly. Covid will be here for a long time. Freedoms which the government issues one week are withdrawn the next. Whilst I understand the reasoning, this will go on indefinitely until the majority of the population have been vaccinated - and that may never happen.
We’ve been told that covid is something we need to learn to live with - so I’m doing just that.
I’m not willing (or able if my mental wellbeing is to continue) to give up physical intimacy, affection and general human closeness/contact indefinitely- and I doubt I’m in the minority.
When we look in the future at the havoc that has been wreaked by Covid, I suspect a huge increase in suicide, self harm and general mental health issues will be high on the list due to the enforced isolation this virus has caused!
I’m more than happy to debate the issue further should anyone wish - but I won’t apologise for being human with basic human needs!
Great reply Peachy and to read something as honest as that is very refreshing for the normal everyday fabspeak and I personally (not that it matters) respect your post and your personal approach.
No debate needed from me!!
T"
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(Our current understanding of bubbles - you can form a bubble 1 household with 1 other single person or single parent, no member of the bubble can be in another bubble.)"
The single parent must not have children over 18 living with them. |
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"Would people admit it if they had ?
You'd he surprised... status updates from some seem to indicate they have met..
Just curious to see if the outside world is opening up a bit jow xx
Oh I know, they're great aren't they? My favourite so far is the CAM veri I saw so far saying how great he smelled, how good his touch is, he is so good with his tongue, what a great fuck and other magical details like that...
To be fair to that person - fab aren’t publishing actual meets so I believe they automatically divert to Cam meets.
And yes Op - in answer to your question I was a born again Virgin March to June then tentatively started dipping my toe back into the water in July with a couple of ‘bubble buddies’
I eagerly await the tar and feather brigade!
It's a bit daft to be publicly declaring that you aren't sticking to the guidelines
I’m a great believer in honesty!
I consider myself to be behaving cautiously and responsibly. Covid will be here for a long time. Freedoms which the government issues one week are withdrawn the next. Whilst I understand the reasoning, this will go on indefinitely until the majority of the population have been vaccinated - and that may never happen.
We’ve been told that covid is something we need to learn to live with - so I’m doing just that.
I’m not willing (or able if my mental wellbeing is to continue) to give up physical intimacy, affection and general human closeness/contact indefinitely- and I doubt I’m in the minority.
When we look in the future at the havoc that has been wreaked by Covid, I suspect a huge increase in suicide, self harm and general mental health issues will be high on the list due to the enforced isolation this virus has caused!
I’m more than happy to debate the issue further should anyone wish - but I won’t apologise for being human with basic human needs! "
That's pretty much how I'm feeling about things, too, Peach. Although I probably couldn't have articulated it quite as well.
While I'm not seeing anyone for naughties, I have two or three bubbles at the moment (as a friend described it, more of a foam  ) but I don't see any of them together, and living (and largely working) alone it's proved necessary for my mental health. I've had to reach out recently to a friend who is a mental health first aider and have actually just been assessed and passed for further support for anxiety and depression. Which are possibly longer-term problems than I realised, but lockdown certainly hasn't helped with them
And as you say, people assess risks on an individual basis |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Others for fun as yet? Or still playing it safe.
Being a single Male I’ve been here since 2008 and haven’t met anyone   "
I would say that was playing it exceptionally safe |
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"Would people admit it if they had ?
You'd he surprised... status updates from some seem to indicate they have met..
Just curious to see if the outside world is opening up a bit jow xx
Oh I know, they're great aren't they? My favourite so far is the CAM veri I saw so far saying how great he smelled, how good his touch is, he is so good with his tongue, what a great fuck and other magical details like that...
To be fair to that person - fab aren’t publishing actual meets so I believe they automatically divert to Cam meets.
And yes Op - in answer to your question I was a born again Virgin March to June then tentatively started dipping my toe back into the water in July with a couple of ‘bubble buddies’
I eagerly await the tar and feather brigade!
It's a bit daft to be publicly declaring that you aren't sticking to the guidelines
I’m a great believer in honesty!
I consider myself to be behaving cautiously and responsibly. Covid will be here for a long time. Freedoms which the government issues one week are withdrawn the next. Whilst I understand the reasoning, this will go on indefinitely until the majority of the population have been vaccinated - and that may never happen.
We’ve been told that covid is something we need to learn to live with - so I’m doing just that.
I’m not willing (or able if my mental wellbeing is to continue) to give up physical intimacy, affection and general human closeness/contact indefinitely- and I doubt I’m in the minority.
When we look in the future at the havoc that has been wreaked by Covid, I suspect a huge increase in suicide, self harm and general mental health issues will be high on the list due to the enforced isolation this virus has caused!
I’m more than happy to debate the issue further should anyone wish - but I won’t apologise for being human with basic human needs!
That's pretty much how I'm feeling about things, too, Peach. Although I probably couldn't have articulated it quite as well.
While I'm not seeing anyone for naughties, I have two or three bubbles at the moment (as a friend described it, more of a foam ) but I don't see any of them together, and living (and largely working) alone it's proved necessary for my mental health. I've had to reach out recently to a friend who is a mental health first aider and have actually just been assessed and passed for further support for anxiety and depression. Which are possibly longer-term problems than I realised, but lockdown certainly hasn't helped with them
And as you say, people assess risks on an individual basis "
I feel for your friend. I know from experience how draining it can be to focus on the mental health of others whilst trying to look after your own.
Sending hugs to both of you. Xx |
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There's a post in the Swingers Chat forum from a couple who had DP yesterday. We've had loads of single guys and couples asking to meet.
We got told 'oh you believe all that do you' by a couple when we explained that we weren't meeting because of the virus ! |
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over a year ago
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"My health and the health of my family mean more to me than sex
^^This^^
Had offers but turned them down. Not willing to risk health of my family. Happy to chat, make a connection on here and look to the future.
Meanwhile I'm enjoying the forums "
Same here.
I won't be able to see my parents or hug my nan until this is over, and that hurts a lot more than not getting laid. |
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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago
Whitley Bay |
As soon as I could 'bubble' , I did. I'm poly and it's hard not to see lovers. One I see without intimacy. Another with. We are talking about extending a tiny bit in the coming months but with thought and care and by making informed choices according to personal circumstances and situations. I won't be casually meeting people any time soon if we don't already have a solid _ase of communication and trust around our lifestyles. Slowly slowly and consciously.
It's all tricky and tentative and I feel it all requires sensitivity to others and their choices, whatever they are.
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"My health and the health of my family mean more to me than sex
^^This^^
Had offers but turned them down. Not willing to risk health of my family. Happy to chat, make a connection on here and look to the future.
Meanwhile I'm enjoying the forums "
Double this.
I wish I didn't have to be as careful but I do. |
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I would be in a bubble if it wasn't for travel restrictions, and I absolutely will be once those restrictions are lifted. But that is with someone that I know and trust. I won't be meeting anyone new for the foreseeable future. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So my answer is technically yes BUT we actually know eachother in the “real” world and both have been isolating so she was in my social bubble and I had a Covid test after and was negative. A girls gotta do what a girls gotta do right.... i doubt I’d meet a stranger or a holidaymaker (I’ve had offers as I live in Cornwall). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Every other message is asking to meet 
I turned my filters to "you shall not pass" in April. It's glorious"
Hi Swing
I turned newbies off... That helped a bit  |
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"Every other message is asking to meet
I turned my filters to "you shall not pass" in April. It's glorious
Hi Swing
I turned newbies off... That helped a bit "
Haha. Yes.
But basically, no, I'm not expanding my swinging circle during a pandemic. So I'm not dealing with the inbox hassle |
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"Curious? Why?"
Curious to see if people have met for more than social meets.. because wanted to see if my faith in humanity had been restored. But seems people put sexual gratification ahead of health, not only of themselves but others.. |
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"Curious? Why?
Curious to see if people have met for more than social meets.. because wanted to see if my faith in humanity had been restored. But seems people put sexual gratification ahead of health, not only of themselves but others.. "
Some people have always put their sexual gratification ahead of health...it ain't front page news.
You might have to find some other kind of barometer to measure your "faith in humanity". |
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"Would people admit it if they had ?
You'd he surprised... status updates from some seem to indicate they have met..
Just curious to see if the outside world is opening up a bit jow xx
Oh I know, they're great aren't they? My favourite so far is the CAM veri I saw so far saying how great he smelled, how good his touch is, he is so good with his tongue, what a great fuck and other magical details like that...
To be fair to that person - fab aren’t publishing actual meets so I believe they automatically divert to Cam meets.
And yes Op - in answer to your question I was a born again Virgin March to June then tentatively started dipping my toe back into the water in July with a couple of ‘bubble buddies’
I eagerly await the tar and feather brigade!
It's a bit daft to be publicly declaring that you aren't sticking to the guidelines
I’m a great believer in honesty!
I consider myself to be behaving cautiously and responsibly. Covid will be here for a long time. Freedoms which the government issues one week are withdrawn the next. Whilst I understand the reasoning, this will go on indefinitely until the majority of the population have been vaccinated - and that may never happen.
We’ve been told that covid is something we need to learn to live with - so I’m doing just that.
I’m not willing (or able if my mental wellbeing is to continue) to give up physical intimacy, affection and general human closeness/contact indefinitely- and I doubt I’m in the minority.
When we look in the future at the havoc that has been wreaked by Covid, I suspect a huge increase in suicide, self harm and general mental health issues will be high on the list due to the enforced isolation this virus has caused!
I’m more than happy to debate the issue further should anyone wish - but I won’t apologise for being human with basic human needs! "
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"Would people admit it if they had ?
You'd he surprised... status updates from some seem to indicate they have met..
Just curious to see if the outside world is opening up a bit jow xx
Oh I know, they're great aren't they? My favourite so far is the CAM veri I saw so far saying how great he smelled, how good his touch is, he is so good with his tongue, what a great fuck and other magical details like that..."
That’s a very special camera! |
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"Only slapping my cock on cam nowadays
Who is Cam?
Someone I met at Asda last summer I had you down as a sainsburys guy. "
I go to Waitrose with my fiat Panda tbh but I'd like to act like I am an accessible guy for ppl who shop at Asda with their Audi. |
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"Only slapping my cock on cam nowadays
Who is Cam?
Someone I met at Asda last summer I had you down as a sainsburys guy.
He was, til he got barred from the watermelon aisle "
ahhh of course. His watermelon fetish got him in trouble |
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"Curious? Why?
Curious to see if people have met for more than social meets.. because wanted to see if my faith in humanity had been restored. But seems people put sexual gratification ahead of health, not only of themselves but others.. "
Humans are but animals who cannot be what they are not. Humans are not some special sacred thing who are progressing to some utopian promised land. Humans are a multitude not a homogeneousissity. Humanity does not need your faith. |
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"Adults will make their considered choices, create bubbles, have socials meets, all of which is allowed.
Each person knows their own circumstances, so their choice, just like those that are choosing to fly off on holiday or flood the beaches in this country.
Personally, if it was me, I’d rather have a 1-2-1 with someone I trust than sit on a crowded beach
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Likewise |
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