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Do you find it easier to pull birds in reality or on fab?
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I don't hunt.
I prefer a mutual crossing of paths.
I think making connections anywhere other than online is going to be difficult with social distancing in place and in place for the foreseeable.
Either or for me. I used to get given a phone number or asked for mine at least once a month at work. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"I don't hunt, but I do like watching birds.
I'm hopefully going to Bempton to watch puffins this week."
Love Bempton have been a couple of times and the puffins are a sight to behold but so are the cliffs full of all manner of seabirds |
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"Same applies to you ladies.. Easier on here or do you preffer to do your hunting in real life  "
I’ve never pulled a bird - but my puppy ate two pigeons a few weeks ago! One week it was the baby - the following week he got the mummy. 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer on here as people read your profile and know exactly what you want. Don't struggle in public either but with the whole covid situation obviously been difficult... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If it wasn't for Fab, I most likely wouldn't have sex tbh.
I never approach men and I can never tell if someone is flirting or if they fancy me. "
This. Women literally have to spell it out to me.
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I think that it depends on the type of “pull”. Hook ups are pretty easy imo. There’s plenty of guys on the prowl for some action. But if you are looking to date and find your Mr right, I think that is a trickier task. But it all depends on who your Mr right is I suppose. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Pulling definitely easier in real life, although I haven't been to a pub or club since relaxing of lock down, so haven't been able to dance and gently pull a lady towards me for a while  |
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I tend to find it easier to meet people via the internet in general.
When I’m out I prefer to focus on whatever social event I’m at, partly because I’m useless at picking up early signals that someone’s interested in me. Partly because it feels like a waste of time as I’m usually there/out for a reason, e.g Seeing friends. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh gosh. ALL of my friends and family are married, so If I go out, it's not on the pull! Plus I'm shit at picking up signals as an adult. As a teenager I did just fine.
Also, there seems more open appreciation on here for chunky birds than out in the real world  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely easier in person, most of the times I go out I pull tbh, case in point last weekend. 2 numbers, 1 one night stand, first weekend out in a party like atmosphere since the lockdown because of the pandemic.
Fab hmm. Hmm, still waiting lol, nah I've had a couple of meets, couple of canceled meets, but I prefer the one to one.
Then to and yes I'm being a bit cocky or very confident, I just need to walk in a room most times and I get hit on by women constantly lol. I rarely have to ask for numbers, a dance, sex anything like that.
Tbh, I only joined fab because I couldn't go out to pubs and clubs lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Same applies to you ladies.. Easier on here or do you preffer to do your hunting in real life "
Real life... even in the swinging world at clubs, events etc is way more productive |
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In reality you could extend this to online vs real life (pub, club, etc).
In modern life for many reasons it’s easier online: people have busy lives and online is convenient.
Another reason is age profile. Look at the average age of people on fab - tend to be above 25. As people get older clubs tend to be ruled out for most as it’s usually younger people there and pubs can be difficult as your friends that you go on the pull with are married or in long term relationships and are not available.
And lastly, lots of people are naturally shy in real life or find it awkward to strike up a conversation, so chatting on here (or other online sites) is a real ice breaker for some and leaves the initial meet easier.
Now if we could only do something about the 15:1 ratio of men:women on fab we’d have it licked! (No pun intended... well maybe ) |
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I find it way easier to find dates on vanilla sites or out and about. I think the descretion and too much instant sex chat is off putting. The men have too much choice and flutter about like bees. That's my impression  |
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"In reality you could extend this to online vs real life (pub, club, etc).
In modern life for many reasons it’s easier online: people have busy lives and online is convenient.
Another reason is age profile. Look at the average age of people on fab - tend to be above 25. As people get older clubs tend to be ruled out for most as it’s usually younger people there and pubs can be difficult as your friends that you go on the pull with are married or in long term relationships and are not available.
And lastly, lots of people are naturally shy in real life or find it awkward to strike up a conversation, so chatting on here (or other online sites) is a real ice breaker for some and leaves the initial meet easier.
Now if we could only do something about the 15:1 ratio of men:women on fab we’d have it licked! (No pun intended... well maybe )"
I think alot of women are scared off instantly on fab, you have to be mentally tough as old bootw to cope with the contents. Most of my female friends are too nervous to go online and chat. So rely on meeting men through work, hobbies or through friendship circles |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I find it way easier to find dates on vanilla sites or out and about. I think the descretion and too much instant sex chat is off putting. The men have too much choice and flutter about like bees. That's my impression "
That is my opinion for women on here. It's certainly not the case for me online because I can only chat with who messages me and I hardly if ever get any messages.. So no choice at all. |
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"I'm sorry for mentioning the word bird now because I've been blocked by a few ladies.
It doesn't take much for me to ruffle their feathers  "
Well, it was an important issue, so at least you didn’t stick your head in the sand. Bet you feel like a bit of a turkey now though. But don’t worry; the experience will make you wise as an owl |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm sorry for mentioning the word bird now because I've been blocked by a few ladies.
It doesn't take much for me to ruffle their feathers
Well, it was an important issue, so at least you didn’t stick your head in the sand. Bet you feel like a bit of a turkey now though. But don’t worry; the experience will make you wise as an owl "
Yeah I think it would be wise if I stayed off the forums all together, because I keep getting blocked for what I say.
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Much easier in reality, fab can be a minefield at times especially as a single guy. You’re just a tiny needle in a massive haystack 99.99999% of the time.
Meanwhile in reality, there’s so many other factors you can use to gauge interest other than simply just words. |
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"I'm sorry for mentioning the word bird now because I've been blocked by a few ladies.
It doesn't take much for me to ruffle their feathers
Well, it was an important issue, so at least you didn’t stick your head in the sand. Bet you feel like a bit of a turkey now though. But don’t worry; the experience will make you wise as an owl
Yeah I think it would be wise if I stayed off the forums all together, because I keep getting blocked for what I say.
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And what's the problem with getting blocked for what you say? I get blocked. And?
It means that instead of meeting someone who you won't get on with, who doesn't like things you say, you won't meet them and have that awkwardness by accident. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm sorry for mentioning the word bird now because I've been blocked by a few ladies.
It doesn't take much for me to ruffle their feathers
Well, it was an important issue, so at least you didn’t stick your head in the sand. Bet you feel like a bit of a turkey now though. But don’t worry; the experience will make you wise as an owl
Yeah I think it would be wise if I stayed off the forums all together, because I keep getting blocked for what I say.
And what's the problem with getting blocked for what you say? I get blocked. And?
It means that instead of meeting someone who you won't get on with, who doesn't like things you say, you won't meet them and have that awkwardness by accident."
..spot on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I definitely have more luck on here than on a night out
Really for a woman that sounds surprising, I must say."
I very rarely pull on a night out. I had not much luck on dating sites either but on here I’ve done ok lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Same applies to you ladies.. Easier on here or do you preffer to do your hunting in real life "
I find it much easier in real life. I’ve met one lady from fab since I’ve been on here. It is much easier to meet people outside of it though they’re bound not to be kinky. I’ll persevere for now .... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm sorry for mentioning the word bird now because I've been blocked by a few ladies.
It doesn't take much for me to ruffle their feathers
Well, it was an important issue, so at least you didn’t stick your head in the sand. Bet you feel like a bit of a turkey now though. But don’t worry; the experience will make you wise as an owl
Yeah I think it would be wise if I stayed off the forums all together, because I keep getting blocked for what I say.
And what's the problem with getting blocked for what you say? I get blocked. And?
It means that instead of meeting someone who you won't get on with, who doesn't like things you say, you won't meet them and have that awkwardness by accident."
Hmm I suppose you are right |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP Ive read threads where you complain that its ' impossible' for you to meet ladies on here
Have you considered that using words like " bird" may not be helping you? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP Ive read threads where you complain that its ' impossible' for you to meet ladies on here
Have you considered that using words like " bird" may not be helping you?"
It's just a word a bit of banter/fun. I think it's a silly reason to block someone forever. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't hunt, but I do like watching birds.
I'm hopefully going to Bempton to watch puffins this week."
Good luck, we're going at the end of the month but they'll probably be gone by then,but apparently still plenty to see. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't seek vanilla so easier to come across Kinkstars online unfortunately.
Perhaps I can set up a business venture of badges or Tshirts to help make kinky fuckers reveal themselves in the public eye. |
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