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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I was just browsing some pics and saw some I liked, so FAB'd them. I got a message from the person, but did not fit our criteria. Got another message straight after saying I was a pic collector with a fake profile and a timewaster....
Why are people so angry just because they dont get the reply they wanted?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"because some take this swinging malarky way too serious....
rather than be an add on to life, it is central.
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I agree. Some people simply lose perspective, maybe this has become their only outlet. I would imagine that would eventually lead to frustration for some. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Precious pouty people that would more than likely sit and cry if they got ignored and had no interest shown in them
Why put pics up for fabbing if you don't like the reaction you'll get from them? its easy to opt out |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"because some take this swinging malarky way too serious....
rather than be an add on to life, it is central.
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Exactly. We just mooch around on here and love the forums. We mainly play at parties, but do keep our options open when someone who seems really cool messages us for some fun.
I started on here as a single guy and was never pushy or disrespectful. If people aint interested in you, thats fine, its their bodies and their choice. I would not abuse anyone for saying 'no thanks' or ignoring me.
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god bless the dummy spitters,drama queens and tantrum throwers ! if someone react like that to a knock back then just confirms they werent anyone id ever meet anyway lol ! so just saves any furter time ,energy or thought on them. can concentrate on talking to the folks i would like to meet .  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Precious pouty people that would more than likely sit and cry if they got ignored and had no interest shown in them
Why put pics up for fabbing if you don't like the reaction you'll get from them? its easy to opt out"
Probably cos they only want to be fabbed by their 'target audience' - rather than all and sundry!
I'm more than happy to fab any pic I like, whether i've the slightest interest in the poster or not - I just see it as a way of complimenting someone on their photo skills.
I've been fabbed by people way outside the criteria i'm looking for - single guys, gay guys, couples in their 60's, couples from the other side of the world, people from Milton Keynes (only kidding - love your concrete cows!) - and again see it as a compliment.
I wouldn't dream of messaging saying WTF are you looking at me for?
Guess some are just way too fussy about who pays them compliments and see it as an intrusion on their personal space!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get messages from men who say they like my pics.
They dont want to meet me though.
I message them back, saying thanks.
Nice pics Legz  "
Thanks. nice pics ben.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why worrie yourself over people like that xxx just move on and do your own thing ...... would you really wish to meet people like that ? looks are just a small part of what makes swinging work . |
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"Why worrie yourself over people like that xxx just move on and do your own thing ...... would you really wish to meet people like that ? looks are just a small part of what makes swinging work . "
Here here.......... Thank god for that |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"I was just browsing some pics and saw some I liked, so FAB'd them. I got a message from the person, but did not fit our criteria. Got another message straight after saying I was a pic collector with a fake profile and a timewaster....
Why are people so angry just because they dont get the reply they wanted? "
Lots of people get cross and frustrated when they dont get what they want, a friend of mine recieved some very vitriolic emails from a so called friend once, she sent them to me, even as i read through them now i find the words quite amusing, i believe the saying is all piss n wind,especially when ppl dont get their own way.....laugh and dont let it bother you xx |
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"I was just browsing some pics and saw some I liked, so FAB'd them. I got a message from the person, but did not fit our criteria. Got another message straight after saying I was a pic collector with a fake profile and a timewaster....
Why are people so angry just because they dont get the reply they wanted? "
Omg thats lightweight ,we had a couple going around saying we didn't exist and it was a single guy.We solved it by arranging to meet all the people who had been told that at a social ,they were laying bets we would not turn up,
when we did it was a great night ,and the truth was out LOL. |
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"I was just browsing some pics and saw some I liked, so FAB'd them. I got a message from the person, but did not fit our criteria. Got another message straight after saying I was a pic collector with a fake profile and a timewaster....
Why are people so angry just because they dont get the reply they wanted? "
Oh who knows.... Maybe it's just immaturity.. Or they cant cope with rejection..
Had it myself yesterday from someone who I said I wasnt interested in due to lack of any info except "xxx" on the profile.... Apparently that made me a man  
Blocked and ignored lol |
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