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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Question - why do people on here refer to men & women as males & females? It seems odd to me that people use these terms, and it's restricted to this site as far as I can tell.

In normal conversation you wouldn't use those terms, so why on here?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ok so... Frying pan and dishcloth? Wood and stone??

No idea what else to call the gender differences.....!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Ok so... Frying pan and dishcloth? Wood and stone??

No idea what else to call the gender differences.....!"

Huh?

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By *hilloutMan over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I personally employ men / women most of the time.

I suppose male / female has sexual undertones given the site's nature?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lads/lasses

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lads and Ladettes

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I personally employ men / women most of the time.

I suppose male / female has sexual undertones given the site's nature?"

Does it? How so?

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It rubs me the wrong way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It rubs me the wrong way."

Me too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I always felt that ladies/gentlemen seemed more common.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS over a year ago

Cheshire

I’m confused, I’m both

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By *amish SMan over a year ago

Eastleigh

Got to be some reason, physical and descriptive terms maybe.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It’s in the t&c conditions.

Always check the small print

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By *ornyhappyCouple over a year ago

perth

See all sorts of terms used on here to be honest so hadn't given it much thought until now.

Generally, male/female are the recognised terms used when discussing sexual situations though so I'd guess that's why.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

It reads so oddly though - it's just not used in normal speech. I find it very weird. Maybe it's just me!

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I’m confused, I’m both

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"It reads so oddly though - it's just not used in normal speech. I find it very weird. Maybe it's just me!"

To me it feels almost demeaning.

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By *partharmonyCouple over a year ago

Ruislip

"It rubs me the wrong way."

Do you need somebody to rub you the right way?

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"It rubs me the wrong way.

Do you need somebody to rub you the right way? "

Oh, always

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By *ornyhappyCouple over a year ago

perth

If talking about threesomes say, it'd be MMF or MFF or MFM etc. The site itself uses both, in 'looking for' you can look for men or women but couples are M/F or F/F or M/M.

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