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over a year ago
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Scenario, if I came round a couples house and your husband happened to have his wicked way with me in the kitchen, is that fantasy for some.
Asking for a friend lol |
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"Scenario, if I came round a couples house and your husband happened to have his wicked way with me in the kitchen, is that fantasy for some.
Asking for a friend lol"
I have had the same fantasy but with a married woman  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Scenario, if I came round a couples house and your husband happened to have his wicked way with me in the kitchen, is that fantasy for some.
Asking for a friend lol
I have had the same fantasy but with a married woman "
I mean that they woman was aware and enjoyed the thought, not that he was actually cheating. I don't think I made that very clear. |
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I'm sure it is for some, maybe.
I couldn't personally think of much worse. I think most people who've been cheated on, grossly lied to or had their trust broken would struggle with this, as there's not much else that can make you feel more worthless as a partner. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm sure it is for some, maybe.
I couldn't personally think of much worse. I think most people who've been cheated on, grossly lied to or had their trust broken would struggle with this, as there's not much else that can make you feel more worthless as a partner."
Don't get me wrong, I've very much been there and know how it feels. I did just wonder as I read some like to watch and not touch and if anyone liked to hear but not see. |
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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago
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"Scenario, if I came round a couples house and your husband happened to have his wicked way with me in the kitchen, is that fantasy for some.
Asking for a friend lol"
We have many fantasies based on this dynamic. X |
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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago
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"I'm glad it wasn't a crazy idea."
To be fair, it's not crazy. Fairly tame 
I'd like Hubby to bring a girl home and then get into our bed with her... Whilst I'm already there "asleep". |
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"I'm sure it is for some, maybe.
I couldn't personally think of much worse. I think most people who've been cheated on, grossly lied to or had their trust broken would struggle with this, as there's not much else that can make you feel more worthless as a partner.
Don't get me wrong, I've very much been there and know how it feels. I did just wonder as I read some like to watch and not touch and if anyone liked to hear but not see."
See, me and bubble have said the same as long as we both knew
, I would like to equally watch and not touch, hear and not see but also the oppsite watch and join in but I guess I'm weird haha I do have some "out there" fantasies as do bubble, |
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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago
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"No the idea is you would enjoy it. Otherwise it wouldn't happen."
We're in the category of enjoying it happening, and everything being in the open with each other. If anything was going on behind backs, that's when there's an issue. As long as its mutually consented by all 3, we have no issues. |
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"No the idea is you would enjoy it. Otherwise it wouldn't happen.
We're in the category of enjoying it happening, and everything being in the open with each other. If anything was going on behind backs, that's when there's an issue. As long as its mutually consented by all 3, we have no issues. "
That I understand, I think the word "cheat" was probably not the best choice as cheating is the polar opposite of being open with each other. |
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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago
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"Possibly bad choice of word but I couldn't think how else to word it."
I don't think so. Its just the way some people see that word. For us we don't see it as cheating as long as we both know. |
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