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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago
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Fab guys,
This is inspiration from another thread.
I’ve been told that plenty of Fab men are happy to take a lady out for a romantic dinner date. I disagree.
I’m wishing to see if any are?
Social distancing expected.
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Bhubaysi
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"Fab guys,
This is inspiration from another thread.
I’ve been told that plenty of Fab men are happy to take a lady out for a romantic dinner date. I disagree.
I’m wishing to see if any are?
Social distancing expected.
Reply within.
Bhubaysi
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Evening Bhubaysi
I'd love to meet with you and take you for a Romantic Meal...
Andy xx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not. A dinner yes but could be anywhere - McDonalds, Pizza Express or Wagamamas - or just a drink.
Not romantic though as I have no truck with romance. I'm all about the casual.
I won't even buy flowers.  |
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"I’ve had a couple of dinner dates from fab, it’s a lovely way to spend an evening "
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We've had loads of dinner dates with our swinging partners, it's great fun. We only do romance with each other though.
I personally think that people need to make a clear distinction between swinging and dating/romance because it can lead to misunderstanding. |
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It’s risky for a first meet - if things go badly you don’t want to wait until the dessert menu comes around before saying it’s time to leave.
A drink is usually better for a first meet but for someone that I know, a meal is an enjoyable evening |
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"Fab guys,
This is inspiration from another thread.
I’ve been told that plenty of Fab men are happy to take a lady out for a romantic dinner date. I disagree.
I’m wishing to see if any are?
Social distancing expected.
Reply within.
Bhubaysi
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I often do romantic dinners, but my partners are strictly picked to do it. Having control over their emotions and a very open communication friendship with me is imperative to being able to avoid unwanted drama.
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To me it feels more relaxed and natural to go for a drinks social meet, then dinner dates to get to know my lover. plus i love food and really really miss going to restaurants since lockdown started  |
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"Fab guys,
This is inspiration from another thread.
I’ve been told that plenty of Fab men are happy to take a lady out for a romantic dinner date. I disagree.
I’m wishing to see if any are?
Social distancing expected.
Reply within.
Bhubaysi
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I love the buzz of playing the couple in public with a married woman, and have shared many a lunch dates  I would happily take a Fab lady out for dinner too, especially if her cuck hubby was fully aware  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fab guys,
This is inspiration from another thread.
I’ve been told that plenty of Fab men are happy to take a lady out for a romantic dinner date. I disagree.
I’m wishing to see if any are?
Social distancing expected.
Reply within.
Bhubaysi
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I am into bdsm which is more classy and you normally meet for dinner on first date. |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
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On the rare occasion I meet someone new from fab I generally prefer informal coffee/drinks socials initially, if we get along & meet again then I'm happy to do dinner but definitely not looking for the romantic element. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I've had a number of pleasant dinner dates in a nice setting with people from here.
A "romantic" one i'd only do with one person."
Awww Chillout, there's someone you'd do a romantic dinner date with?  |
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I think the key word here is romantic. I've been out for dinner with a few people from here, but I'd only associate the word romantic with one of those people, the rest have been just friendly and social as part of a meet. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Out of interest what's the difference between a romantic dinner date and a dinner date where you're sizing up sexual compatibility?"
Personally speaking, the former I'd be far more affectionate, "loving" and generally sweeter. There would still be the flirtation of the first but the romantic wouldn't be so much about the sexual chemistry/tension; obviously I'd hope that would still be there but the main atmosphere is a lot different. Like the posters above, I've been on many dinner dates and they've been fantastic but there's only one I'd go on a romantic dinner date with (complete with PDAs aplenty ) |
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"Out of interest what's the difference between a romantic dinner date and a dinner date where you're sizing up sexual compatibility?"
I think romance is eye of the beholder.. for me romantic date is the location type of food and the conversation we share. |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
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"I've had a number of pleasant dinner dates in a nice setting with people from here.
A "romantic" one i'd only do with one person.
Awww Chillout, there's someone you'd do a romantic dinner date with? "
There is. |
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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago
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I've taken people out for dinner. Some have been romantic. Some just chilled.
I guess it depends on who you are taking out and what you both want from the evening. I can imagine nothing worse than having crossed wires where either one of you was expecting romance and the other wasn't.. awkward couple of hours ahead..
But yes I would wine and dine and treat them really special if it was warranted and wanted. |
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"I've taken people out for dinner. Some have been romantic. Some just chilled.
I guess it depends on who you are taking out and what you both want from the evening. I can imagine nothing worse than having crossed wires where either one of you was expecting romance and the other wasn't.. awkward couple of hours ahead..
But yes I would wine and dine and treat them really special if it was warranted and wanted. "
Some people will be faux romantic because they think it will make the other person more likely to have sex with them. This can lead to huge misunderstandings and expectations. |
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"I've taken people out for dinner. Some have been romantic. Some just chilled.
I guess it depends on who you are taking out and what you both want from the evening. I can imagine nothing worse than having crossed wires where either one of you was expecting romance and the other wasn't.. awkward couple of hours ahead..
But yes I would wine and dine and treat them really special if it was warranted and wanted.
Some people will be faux romantic because they think it will make the other person more likely to have sex with them. This can lead to huge misunderstandings and expectations. "
but if you already met and know you like eachother and met on fab, then there shouldn't be any confusion. |
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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago
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"I've taken people out for dinner. Some have been romantic. Some just chilled.
I guess it depends on who you are taking out and what you both want from the evening. I can imagine nothing worse than having crossed wires where either one of you was expecting romance and the other wasn't.. awkward couple of hours ahead..
But yes I would wine and dine and treat them really special if it was warranted and wanted.
Some people will be faux romantic because they think it will make the other person more likely to have sex with them. This can lead to huge misunderstandings and expectations.
but if you already met and know you like eachother and met on fab, then there shouldn't be any confusion. "
I agree... I deffo wouldn't meet first time for romantic meal.. it would be something that has developed and there is a mutual understanding. If I were Taking someone out romantically it would have been discussed beforehand.
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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago
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"I've taken people out for dinner. Some have been romantic. Some just chilled.
I guess it depends on who you are taking out and what you both want from the evening. I can imagine nothing worse than having crossed wires where either one of you was expecting romance and the other wasn't.. awkward couple of hours ahead..
But yes I would wine and dine and treat them really special if it was warranted and wanted.
Some people will be faux romantic because they think it will make the other person more likely to have sex with them. This can lead to huge misunderstandings and expectations.
The same could be said for the people that think she/he went for a social with me.. that entitles me. I've had evenings out at a pub or seeing a band - got on great but didn't want to take it further and had the same thrown at me expecting to end up in bed. Sometimes people just feel entitled. "
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"I've taken people out for dinner. Some have been romantic. Some just chilled.
I guess it depends on who you are taking out and what you both want from the evening. I can imagine nothing worse than having crossed wires where either one of you was expecting romance and the other wasn't.. awkward couple of hours ahead..
But yes I would wine and dine and treat them really special if it was warranted and wanted.
Some people will be faux romantic because they think it will make the other person more likely to have sex with them. This can lead to huge misunderstandings and expectations.
but if you already met and know you like eachother and met on fab, then there shouldn't be any confusion. "
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