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It's just a sex site forum, innit....?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

What do you think about the fab forum? What does it mean to you? How seriously do you take it? Does it make you laugh and snort uncontrollably as you post? Does it give you great joy? Do you take what you see to heart or get offended by the _iews of strangers? Have your made good friends here....? Are there highs and lows?

Think before replying please, I want to hear your second thoughts rather than your gut reaction if that's ok....

Much love as always and try to stay positive if it's possible.....

Nip x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Made good friends here

Always some good threads and some really funny ones

Beats the news offerings on tv

Cake

The end

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Made good friends here

Always some good threads and some really funny ones

Beats the news offerings on tv

Cake

The end

I STILL don't get the cake thing....

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By *umalotagainMan over a year ago

a town called malice

There is definitely a group who do not interact with anyone out with their group ( or that is what I noticed) and there are others who interact with everyone

Some good laughs on here though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think it’s a good waste of time

Doesn’t mean much to me

Don’t take it very seriously at all, usually.

Depends what I post

Nope

Depends

I have indeed made some lovely friends

Yep

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I. Kinda like the rich tapestry of posters and their wide experience /knowledge

Really enjoy chatting to like minded people and love seeing people's photo updates

Its very addictive

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There is definitely a group who do not interact with anyone out with their group ( or that is what I noticed) and there are others who interact with everyone

Some good laughs on here though"

That darn clique, at it again

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By * Sophie xTV/TS over a year ago

Derby

"I. Kinda like the rich tapestry of posters and their wide experience /knowledge

Really enjoy chatting to like minded people and love seeing people's photo updates

Its very addictive

Often too addictive!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It’s my online haven. Somewhere I can be all of myself and express whichever bit of me needs a voice at the time.

I have some lovely online friends on it and hop I get to know some other acquaintances on it better as time goes by. I’ve met a few people face to face and fewer skin to skin and they all hold a place in my heart.

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By *umalotagainMan over a year ago

a town called malice

"There is definitely a group who do not interact with anyone out with their group ( or that is what I noticed) and there are others who interact with everyone

Some good laughs on here though

That darn clique, at it again "

They get everywhere

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Made good friends here

Always some good threads and some really funny ones

Beats the news offerings on tv

Cake

The end

I STILL don't get the cake thing....

I’ll make you a cake when we return to uk

It’s a foodie thing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not seriously at all. I like the serious posts though where people are arguing with a little picture of their penis/tits/arse/whatever next to the significant point they’re trying to make to a stranger on the internet. Even better if RIP thread. Condolences given next to shot of their vag.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I enjoy it. Sometimes I really do need to log off, and also not get too deep, but I enjoy reading others perspectives, being challenged on my own and some heart warming moments and ridiculous humour.

I'm getting intolerant on the graphic sex act advice topics..you'd swear people thought they were professional sports coaches. Or maybe I'm just grumpy!

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By *oodnitegirlWoman over a year ago

Yorkshire

It’s better than eastenders.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just perving on attractive people

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By * Sophie xTV/TS over a year ago

Derby

"It’s better than eastenders. "

Anything is better than Eastenders

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By *tephTV67TV/TS over a year ago

Cheshire

I think the majority of people on Fab, don’t even know the forums exists. So I’m not too concerned about an insignificant comment I’ve made on here.

But if it was removed tomorrow, I’d be off the site not long after, it’ has a wealth of humour, insults, controversy, good and bad of human nature and on a few occasions has actually made me rethink some of my own opinions.

Plus everyone who posts is very sexy, yes everyone #pleaselikeme

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"There is definitely a group who do not interact with anyone out with their group ( or that is what I noticed) and there are others who interact with everyone

Some good laughs on here though"

You're always welcome at Nippy's place,as are all....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It’s better than eastenders.

Anything is better than Eastenders

I’m from the east end where the fuck did they find these script writers !!!!!

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By *9alMan over a year ago

Bridgend

I don't think this forum is better than cake but might be more healthy ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I. Kinda like the rich tapestry of posters and their wide experience /knowledge

Really enjoy chatting to like minded people and love seeing people's photo updates

Its very addictive

Haha it can be very addictive, it's not always a bad addiction. Btw you owe me vag...

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

I participated more a few years ago, took a break and am back enjoying them very much. I always stayed on the periphery and dipped in and out and was never part of the regulars who all interacted with each other in mosts threads. I was happy with that and happy watching the others having fun in their own way of using the forum.

I am also part of the forum in Fabguys and they are a good few years behind this one. There is little difference though

Enjoy it in your own way, do what pleases you ( within the rules

) and it passes the time, you learn from other people's stories/life experiences but I think the most important thing is: Be Kind

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I. Kinda like the rich tapestry of posters and their wide experience /knowledge

Really enjoy chatting to like minded people and love seeing people's photo updates

Its very addictive

Often too addictive!

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

My personal opinion.

All of life is here. I look at what people don't say and who they don't say it to.

I haven't made many friends here, I don't make friends easily and its just the Internet innit.

I don't take it seriously

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Here lies my vag lol who like to try negropgilia ,I prob spelt that wrong lol

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By * Sophie xTV/TS over a year ago

Derby

"It’s better than eastenders.

Anything is better than Eastenders

I’m from the east end where the fuck did they find these script writers !!!!!

They're probably ex MP's modelling it on life inside the House of Lords

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It’s my online haven. Somewhere I can be all of myself and express whichever bit of me needs a voice at the time.

Doc that's actually beautiful, that's kinda how I feel too, it's my little escape and my ME space away from the pressures of life and work and parenthood....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Made good friends here

Always some good threads and some really funny ones

Beats the news offerings on tv

Cake

The end

I STILL don't get the cake thing....

I’ll make you a cake when we return to uk

It’s a foodie thing

Deal!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Cake is king !

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By *umalotagainMan over a year ago

a town called malice

"There is definitely a group who do not interact with anyone out with their group ( or that is what I noticed) and there are others who interact with everyone

Some good laughs on here though

You're always welcome at Nippy's place,as are all....

Cheers fella

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I participated more a few years ago, took a break and am back enjoying them very much. I always stayed on the periphery and dipped in and out and was never part of the regulars who all interacted with each other in mosts threads. I was happy with that and happy watching the others having fun in their own way of using the forum.

I am also part of the forum in Fabguys and they are a good few years behind this one. There is little difference though

Enjoy it in your own way, do what pleases you ( within the rules

) and it passes the time, you learn from other people's stories/life experiences but I think the most important thing is: Be Kind

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It’s better than eastenders.

Anything is better than Eastenders

I’m from the east end where the fuck did they find these script writers !!!!!

They're probably ex MP's modelling it on life inside the House of Lords

Lot of pegging then lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

That proper made me laugh out loud! Thanks fella....

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By *riar BelisseWoman over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

It's lots of fun with flirtatious perusal.

I take from it what I want to. If I want to flirt I will, If I am in a serious mood I play in the virus section.

I see it as a place to interact with like minded people and participate in some pic challenges.

I'm not going to take people's online personality to heart though, people let you see what they want you to see and I make my own decisions about them when I meet them face to face

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I. Kinda like the rich tapestry of posters and their wide experience /knowledge

Really enjoy chatting to like minded people and love seeing people's photo updates

Its very addictive

Haha it can be very addictive, it's not always a bad addiction. Btw you owe me vag...

My gorgeous mate sent me one to pass on to you, but it looked so nice i kept it for myself

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By * Sophie xTV/TS over a year ago

Derby

"It’s better than eastenders.

Anything is better than Eastenders

I’m from the east end where the fuck did they find these script writers !!!!!

They're probably ex MP's modelling it on life inside the House of Lords

Lot of pegging then lol

Probably...lucky buggers

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By *cotsguyyMan over a year ago

Belfast and Fife

A fun read

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

" I enjoy it. Sometimes I really do need to log off, and also not get too deep, but I enjoy reading others perspectives, being challenged on my own and some heart warming moments and ridiculous humour.

I'm getting intolerant on the graphic sex act advice topics..you'd swear people thought they were professional sports coaches. Or maybe I'm just grumpy!"

I really enjoy your contributions and your outlook. You're like my not so secret man crush

I'd love a bear with you one day!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don’t take it seriously but sometimes do appreciate the serious subjects that are sometimes covered, it can be uplifting, frustrating, hilarious and sometimes even lonely on the occasions you get ignored! But on the whole I love it and have made some lovely friends plus there’s always somebody fit to perv at

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It’s better than eastenders.

Anything is better than Eastenders

I’m from the east end where the fuck did they find these script writers !!!!!

They're probably ex MP's modelling it on life inside the House of Lords

Lot of pegging then lol

Probably...lucky buggers

I wouldn’t class doing Boris’s bum as lucky !

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It’s better than eastenders. "

I was chatting to someone just last night and they were telling me some drama they'd encountered and I was like fucking hell this place!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Just perving on attractive people "

They're perving on you too I'm sure....

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By * Sophie xTV/TS over a year ago

Derby

"It’s better than eastenders.

Anything is better than Eastenders

I’m from the east end where the fuck did they find these script writers !!!!!

They're probably ex MP's modelling it on life inside the House of Lords

Lot of pegging then lol

Probably...lucky buggers

I wouldn’t class doing Boris’s bum as lucky ! "

Well i was thinking more from the point of the one being pegged but now youve said that I shall retract my application form

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It’s better than eastenders.

Anything is better than Eastenders

Covid put a stop to Stenders....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We only just started on forums finding it a good laugh

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By *he riverdeep69Couple over a year ago

North west ish

It's not a swingers forum, more a ego trip/'look at me I'm on a swingers site' type of mentality. Lots of broken people pretending to be something they aren't. But if they are happy then crack on.

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By *affeine DuskMan over a year ago

Caerphilly

It's a great place for dick jokes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I think the majority of people on Fab, don’t even know the forums exists. So I’m not too concerned about an insignificant comment I’ve made on here.

Plus everyone who posts is very sexy, yes everyone #pleaselikeme

It's all I come here for myself really. And yeah the ppl are a great mix....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I don't think this forum is better than cake but might be more healthy ?"

I'm more of a biscuit man, is that wrong....?

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By * Sophie xTV/TS over a year ago

Derby

"It’s better than eastenders.

Anything is better than Eastenders

Covid put a stop to Stenders....

See, even Covid is better

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I. Kinda like the rich tapestry of posters and their wide experience /knowledge

Really enjoy chatting to like minded people and love seeing people's photo updates

Its very addictive

Haha it can be very addictive, it's not always a bad addiction. Btw you owe me vag...

My gorgeous mate sent me one to pass on to you, but it looked so nice i kept it for myself

Groove Junkies -Midnight -Moorhouse records xx

Thank me later

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I am also part of the forum in Fabguys and they are a good few years behind this one. There is little difference though

Enjoy it in your own way, do what pleases you ( within the rules

) and it passes the time, you learn from other people's stories/life experiences but I think the most important thing is: Be Kind

BE KIND people!

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By * Sophie xTV/TS over a year ago

Derby

"It's a great place for dick jokes.

Or joke dicks?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love the forum! And during Covid and lockdown it has been fantastic to be able to have a natter with people since my days aren't as busy as they used to be and I have too much time on my hands.

I don't take it very seriously. I mean, I enjoy posting and chatting but it isn't a vital part of my day to make sure I get on. I speak to a few lovely people though which is always enjoyable. I wouldn't say I've made any amazing friendships yet.

Overall, I'd give it four stars.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"My personal opinion.

All of life is here. I look at what people don't say and who they don't say it to.

I haven't made many friends here, I don't make friends easily and its just the Internet innit.

I don't take it seriously "

I think sometimes silence can be deafening on the forums, with people not saying things....

You can't take it seriously when the pics are so sexy and everyone is trying to get inside their next adventure....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It’s better than eastenders.

Anything is better than Eastenders

Covid put a stop to Stenders....

You wanted to fiddle Peggy own up

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By *iddlesticksMan over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

Is there a forum? How does that work.

Personally I like posting random stuff and having a bit of escapism from real life.

Oh and flirting, I nearly forgot flirting.

I’ve become friends with some lovely people and I’m thankful for that.

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple over a year ago

Newcastle

It entertains me mostly. I have made some genuine friends I hope and some who I just like to have a harmless flirt with. I don't take it very seriously at all. I just try to be myself x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Cake is king ! "

So basically if I start putting cake in my pics I'll get sex?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It's lots of fun with flirtatious perusal.

I take from it what I want to. If I want to flirt I will, If I am in a serious mood I play in the virus section.

I see it as a place to interact with like minded people and participate in some pic challenges.

I'm not going to take people's online personality to heart though, people let you see what they want you to see and I make my own decisions about them when I meet them face to face

Omg, you've been to the virus section!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I. Kinda like the rich tapestry of posters and their wide experience /knowledge

Really enjoy chatting to like minded people and love seeing people's photo updates

Its very addictive

Haha it can be very addictive, it's not always a bad addiction. Btw you owe me vag...

My gorgeous mate sent me one to pass on to you, but it looked so nice i kept it for myself

Mean...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Cake is king !

So basically if I start putting cake in my pics I'll get sex?"

When I first joined many moons ago was a single Pringle ,mention chef and cake ,no longer single -the end

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"A fun read

It is isn't it. Fuck the papers.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Will have a wee think OP, and will add later

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"My personal opinion.

All of life is here. I look at what people don't say and who they don't say it to.

I haven't made many friends here, I don't make friends easily and its just the Internet innit.

I don't take it seriously

I think sometimes silence can be deafening on the forums, with people not saying things....

Ain't that the truth!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I don’t take it seriously but sometimes do appreciate the serious subjects that are sometimes covered, it can be uplifting, frustrating, hilarious and sometimes even lonely on the occasions you get ignored! But on the whole I love it and have made some lovely friends plus there’s always somebody fit to perv at

It's emotional at times. I'm glad for bumping into you two and I perv on the pair of you quite a bit...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I. Kinda like the rich tapestry of posters and their wide experience /knowledge

Really enjoy chatting to like minded people and love seeing people's photo updates

Its very addictive

Haha it can be very addictive, it's not always a bad addiction. Btw you owe me vag...

My gorgeous mate sent me one to pass on to you, but it looked so nice i kept it for myself

Groove Junkies -Midnight -Moorhouse records xx

Thank me later

OMG i LOVE it xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It’s better than eastenders.

Anything is better than Eastenders

I’m from the east end where the fuck did they find these script writers !!!!!

They're probably ex MP's modelling it on life inside the House of Lords

Lot of pegging then lol

Probably...lucky buggers

I wouldn’t class doing Boris’s bum as lucky ! "

I'd do Boris!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What do you think about the fab forum? What does it mean to you? How seriously do you take it? Does it make you laugh and snort uncontrollably as you post? Does it give you great joy? Do you take what you see to heart or get offended by the _iews of strangers? Have your made good friends here....? Are there highs and lows?

Think before replying please, I want to hear your second thoughts rather than your gut reaction if that's ok....

Much love as always and try to stay positive if it's possible.....

Nip x"

It’s OK but lacks a lot of functionality that you see in larger forums. No I don’t take a jot of it seriously and I do not get offended at all. It’s amusing to read posts and thoughts now and then.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"We only just started on forums finding it a good laugh "

Be sure to stay and you're always welcome on my threads with any _iew at all....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It's not a swingers forum, more a ego trip/'look at me I'm on a swingers site' type of mentality. Lots of broken people pretending to be something they aren't. But if they are happy then crack on. "

I guess that could be said for some but I wouldn't say the majority, I like it here. It must hold more than that for you or there would be no reason for you to be here, surely?

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By *riar BelisseWoman over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

"It's lots of fun with flirtatious perusal.

I take from it what I want to. If I want to flirt I will, If I am in a serious mood I play in the virus section.

I see it as a place to interact with like minded people and participate in some pic challenges.

I'm not going to take people's online personality to heart though, people let you see what they want you to see and I make my own decisions about them when I meet them face to face

Omg, you've been to the virus section!

Hell yes, its fun strutting my geek

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It's a great place for dick jokes.

Tell us one?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It’s better than eastenders.

Anything is better than Eastenders

Covid put a stop to Stenders....

See, even Covid is better

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I love the forum! And during Covid and lockdown it has been fantastic to be able to have a natter with people since my days aren't as busy as they used to be and I have too much time on my hands.

Overall, I'd give it four stars.

No amazing friends, yet?????

(Crying emoji)

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It’s better than eastenders.

Anything is better than Eastenders

Covid put a stop to Stenders....

You wanted to fiddle Peggy own up

Me? Does she have cake?

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By *emorefridaCouple over a year ago

La la land

What does the forum mean to me, actually it's changed a lot for me recently. I've used it to find like minded people, people I wouldn't encounter in day to day life. That means I'm not particularly popular but I enjoy conversing with those I do chat to. I also use it to clear my own _iews on certain subjects.

Sometimes it makes me laugh at the seriousness some people take it. And it's not about those who post on deep topics or take things seriously. It's generally the look at me threads, with no substance or fun. I think some have highs and lows as they think popularity on here is important, it is not, just be true to yourself that is all that matters. Because I like debate I don't take things to heart, everyone is entitled to their own opinions. But I do like the ridiculous that is to be found here, not naming names but some posters make me laugh a lot

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By *iddlesticksMan over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

I think the forums would be better if you had to have a cock pic avatar to be able to post, even the women.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Is there a forum? How does that work.

Personally I like posting random stuff and having a bit of escapism from real life.

Oh and flirting, I nearly forgot flirting.

I’ve become friends with some lovely people and I’m thankful for that.

I enjoy flirting with you Fiddle.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It entertains me mostly. I have made some genuine friends I hope and some who I just like to have a harmless flirt with. I don't take it very seriously at all. I just try to be myself x"

Your boobs are very impressive, thanks....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Cake is king !

So basically if I start putting cake in my pics I'll get sex?

When I first joined many moons ago was a single Pringle ,mention chef and cake ,no longer single -the end

Noted....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OK. Being serious for a minute, yeah I know not my normal habitat! I have been genuinely charmed by the acceptance, friendliness, kindness I have encountered here. I know its only online and yes its no substitute for real face to face interaction, but the forums have in their own way been a support for me. I have, through the interactions I have enjoyed here managed to accept myself more.

There are also a bunch of idiots floating around too, but once you filter them, the forums feel like a good place to be

There. Now anyone FAF?

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By *he riverdeep69Couple over a year ago

North west ish

"It's not a swingers forum, more a ego trip/'look at me I'm on a swingers site' type of mentality. Lots of broken people pretending to be something they aren't. But if they are happy then crack on.

I guess that could be said for some but I wouldn't say the majority, I like it here. It must hold more than that for you or there would be no reason for you to be here, surely?

Im just nosy and like to keep up to date with whats happening in clubs. Lost faith in this site and forum years ago.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Will have a wee think OP, and will add later

We have a winner!

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By *abasaurus RexMan over a year ago

Gloucestershire

It’s just a forum like any other. This one just happens to focus on shagging, but it’s generally pretty fun!

I like that there’s a lot of focus on interaction with real people here, and that on the whole people are here for a good time, not to be ultra serious

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I. Kinda like the rich tapestry of posters and their wide experience /knowledge

Really enjoy chatting to like minded people and love seeing people's photo updates

Its very addictive

Haha it can be very addictive, it's not always a bad addiction. Btw you owe me vag...

My gorgeous mate sent me one to pass on to you, but it looked so nice i kept it for myself

Groove Junkies -Midnight -Moorhouse records xx

Thank me later

OMG i LOVE it xx"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It’s my online haven. Somewhere I can be all of myself and express whichever bit of me needs a voice at the time.

Doc that's actually beautiful, that's kinda how I feel too, it's my little escape and my ME space away from the pressures of life and work and parenthood....

Yep Nippy that’s how I see it. A bit like an online sandpit. I can be childlike when I want, play the Fool, collect my more serious thoughts, be helpful to others when they are struggling if they ask, get help in the odd occasion I need to process some stuff, There is a wonderful cross section of people and I really enjoy getting a different perspective on stuff from them. I learn from those who have diametrically opposing _iews to mine and often shift my perspective at least slightly as a result of reading what they write.

It has even helped me develop my work.

I am grateful I discovered it and for the people on it. I am a better person than I was before.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It’s my online haven. Somewhere I can be all of myself and express whichever bit of me needs a voice at the time.

Doc that's actually beautiful, that's kinda how I feel too, it's my little escape and my ME space away from the pressures of life and work and parenthood....

It has even helped me develop my work.

I am grateful I discovered it and for the people on it. I am a better person than I was before."

Ahh this is lovely

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Think before replying please, I want to hear your second thoughts rather than your gut reaction if that's ok....

Much love as always and try to stay positive if it's possible.....

Nip x

Tell me about the functionality issues? Nice couple and View will fix that in a jiffy....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It's lots of fun with flirtatious perusal.

I take from it what I want to. If I want to flirt I will, If I am in a serious mood I play in the virus section.

I see it as a place to interact with like minded people and participate in some pic challenges.

I'm not going to take people's online personality to heart though, people let you see what they want you to see and I make my own decisions about them when I meet them face to face

Omg, you've been to the virus section!

Hell yes, its fun strutting my geek

Just picturing you shouting YOU CAN'T HANDLE THE TRUTH!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"What does the forum mean to me, actually it's changed a lot for me recently. I've used it to find like minded people, people I wouldn't encounter in day to day life. That means I'm not particularly popular but I enjoy conversing with those I do chat to. I also use it to clear my own _iews on certain subjects.

Are you laughing now?

I like the different mix though, I've often changed my opinion on something important because of someone on a sex site forum, I think that's pretty amazing....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I think the forums would be better if you had to have a cock pic avatar to be able to post, even the women. "

I think it should be a rule of entry on each thread to send the OP vag....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"OK. Being serious for a minute, yeah I know not my normal habitat! I have been genuinely charmed by the acceptance, friendliness, kindness I have encountered here. I know its only online and yes its no substitute for real face to face interaction, but the forums have in their own way been a support for me. I have, through the interactions I have enjoyed here managed to accept myself more.

There are also a bunch of idiots floating around too, but once you filter them, the forums feel like a good place to be

There. Now anyone FAF?"

I agree, I have one particular friend here who I ask for advice on most things when I need a sensible open mind....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It's not a swingers forum, more a ego trip/'look at me I'm on a swingers site' type of mentality. Lots of broken people pretending to be something they aren't. But if they are happy then crack on.

I guess that could be said for some but I wouldn't say the majority, I like it here. It must hold more than that for you or there would be no reason for you to be here, surely?

Im just nosy and like to keep up to date with whats happening in clubs. Lost faith in this site and forum years ago. "

Things can change in both directions. I think the forum is more open and accepting lately with plenty of new faces. I hope they can change your mind...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It’s just a forum like any other. This one just happens to focus on shagging, but it’s generally pretty fun!

I like that there’s a lot of focus on interaction with real people here, and that on the whole people are here for a good time, not to be ultra serious

Some of the challenges and video stuff makes ppl a lot more real. It was great to hear some voices last week and very surprising how ppl are not how you'd imagined....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It’s my online haven. Somewhere I can be all of myself and express whichever bit of me needs a voice at the time.

Doc that's actually beautiful, that's kinda how I feel too, it's my little escape and my ME space away from the pressures of life and work and parenthood....

It has even helped me develop my work.

I am grateful I discovered it and for the people on it. I am a better person than I was before."

That my friend is a very healthy outlook to possess!

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By *otSoPoshWoman over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

It's a place where I can be a little more of myself than I can in the real world, push my comfort zone and get out of my head.

And I've made some amazing friends here in the few short weeks I've been terrorising y'all.

Sure, it can be infuriating at times, and I've still got to find a way of not taking some things personally or reading between lines that may not be there apart from in my imagination, but on the whole it's been a brilliant way to try and avoid thinking about isolation over lockdown.

Plus, flirting is fun.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It's a place where I can be a little more of myself than I can in the real world, push my comfort zone and get out of my head.

And I've made some amazing friends here in the few short weeks I've been terrorising y'all.

Plus, flirting is fun. "

You're a forum gem!

I'm still a better flirt than you....

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By *otSoPoshWoman over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"It's a place where I can be a little more of myself than I can in the real world, push my comfort zone and get out of my head.

And I've made some amazing friends here in the few short weeks I've been terrorising y'all.

Plus, flirting is fun.

You're a forum gem!

I'm still a better flirt than you....

I'm learning from the master.

Come teach me sir

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It's a place where I can be a little more of myself than I can in the real world, push my comfort zone and get out of my head.

And I've made some amazing friends here in the few short weeks I've been terrorising y'all.

Plus, flirting is fun.

You're a forum gem!

I'm still a better flirt than you....

I'm learning from the master.

Come teach me sir

Terms.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's emotional at times. I'm glad for bumping into you two and I perv on the pair of you quite a bit...

Awwwww you too

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By *otSoPoshWoman over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"It's a place where I can be a little more of myself than I can in the real world, push my comfort zone and get out of my head.

And I've made some amazing friends here in the few short weeks I've been terrorising y'all.

Plus, flirting is fun.

You're a forum gem!

I'm still a better flirt than you....

I'm learning from the master.

Come teach me sir

Terms....."

I've new terms. They involve you, me and Frida in the stream

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some people really take it seriously

,you do realise that certain people think they are the only ones that can start certain threads haha get a fucking grip, how old are you

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It's a place where I can be a little more of myself than I can in the real world, push my comfort zone and get out of my head.

And I've made some amazing friends here in the few short weeks I've been terrorising y'all.

Plus, flirting is fun.

You're a forum gem!

I'm still a better flirt than you....

I'm learning from the master.

Come teach me sir

Terms.....

I've new terms. They involve you, me and Frida in the stream

Accepted

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Like the tide, the forum ebbs and flows, when it ebbs it can be quite a dark and unwelcoming place, with snipers around every corner, when it flows though it can be quite joyous and full of fun.

I have a lot to be thankful to the forums for, friends, encounters and much more and without the forums I'd have left the site a long time ago probably.

I enjoy being able to debate points and share opinions and _iews, and try to steer clear of the downright trite - sadly not always easy on either front as there will always be those that take offence at an opposing opinion or seek to lower the tone a notch further but that's forums across the internet for you.

I've backed off from them a little lately because they're not "doing it" for me personally as much as they once did but it doesn't bother me, I have enough people that I talk to off forum to make it not be a concern in the slightest. I'll just wait for the next flow of the tide and decide if I want to dive in deeper.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Some people really take it seriously

,you do realise that certain people think they are the only ones that can start certain threads haha get a fucking grip, how old are you

You should do a late night nocturnal dash....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Like the tide, the forum ebbs and flows, when it ebbs it can be quite a dark and unwelcoming place, with snipers around every corner, when it flows though it can be quite joyous and full of fun.

I have a lot to be thankful to the forums for, friends, encounters and much more and without the forums I'd have left the site a long time ago probably.

That's a fine way of putting it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some people really take it seriously

,you do realise that certain people think they are the only ones that can start certain threads haha get a fucking grip, how old are you

You should do a late night nocturnal dash....

Nah

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Like the tide, the forum ebbs and flows, when it ebbs it can be quite a dark and unwelcoming place, with snipers around every corner, when it flows though it can be quite joyous and full of fun.

I have a lot to be thankful to the forums for, friends, encounters and much more and without the forums I'd have left the site a long time ago probably.

I hear you GM, but why wait, why not help make things better, for all of us? You're always welcome here....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Some people really take it seriously

,you do realise that certain people think they are the only ones that can start certain threads haha get a fucking grip, how old are you

You should do a late night nocturnal dash....

Nah"

Dare you!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's a place where I can be a little more of myself than I can in the real world, push my comfort zone and get out of my head.

And I've made some amazing friends here in the few short weeks I've been terrorising y'all.

Plus, flirting is fun. "

One of the things I like is that when I feel infuriated I’m learning about myself. I’m seeing my shadow in the mirror so I can do some personal development work to integrate another disowned bit of me. I notice very little infuriates me in here now at least not to the extent it did and I’m feeling a little more integrated as a result. I have been amazed what a little shift in how I approached the place changed what I got out of it.

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By *otSoPoshWoman over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"It's a place where I can be a little more of myself than I can in the real world, push my comfort zone and get out of my head.

And I've made some amazing friends here in the few short weeks I've been terrorising y'all.

Plus, flirting is fun.

You're a forum gem!

I'm still a better flirt than you....

I'm learning from the master.

Come teach me sir

Terms.....

I've new terms. They involve you, me and Frida in the stream

Accepted

Thought you might

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It's a place where I can be a little more of myself than I can in the real world, push my comfort zone and get out of my head.

And I've made some amazing friends here in the few short weeks I've been terrorising y'all.

Plus, flirting is fun.

I echo that. I used to be a complete tit in here and I got what I deserved.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It's a place where I can be a little more of myself than I can in the real world, push my comfort zone and get out of my head.

And I've made some amazing friends here in the few short weeks I've been terrorising y'all.

Plus, flirting is fun.

You're a forum gem!

I'm still a better flirt than you....

I'm learning from the master.

Come teach me sir

Terms.....

I've new terms. They involve you, me and Frida in the stream

Accepted

Thought you might

Soon yeah?

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By *otSoPoshWoman over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"It's a place where I can be a little more of myself than I can in the real world, push my comfort zone and get out of my head.

And I've made some amazing friends here in the few short weeks I've been terrorising y'all.

Plus, flirting is fun.

I just step away and have a stomp of my perfectly booted feet, then stick a smile on and try and turn it around. Or make another coffee and that usually calms me.

Your way is probably healthier though....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's a place where I can be a little more of myself than I can in the real world, push my comfort zone and get out of my head.

And I've made some amazing friends here in the few short weeks I've been terrorising y'all.

Plus, flirting is fun.

I echo that. I used to be a complete tit in here and I got what I deserved.

I like the change I’ve seen in you. It has been good to see you grow

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By *otSoPoshWoman over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"It's a place where I can be a little more of myself than I can in the real world, push my comfort zone and get out of my head.

And I've made some amazing friends here in the few short weeks I've been terrorising y'all.

Plus, flirting is fun.

You're a forum gem!

I'm still a better flirt than you....

I'm learning from the master.

Come teach me sir

Terms.....

I've new terms. They involve you, me and Frida in the stream

Accepted

Thought you might

Soon yeah?

I'm ready and waiting for you two

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Also, just a quick random question, but does the term innit get anyone's back up unnecessarily? I realised after I posted, maybe it would offend, but that's just how I type..... .....none intended anyway...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's a place where I can be a little more of myself than I can in the real world, push my comfort zone and get out of my head.

And I've made some amazing friends here in the few short weeks I've been terrorising y'all.

Plus, flirting is fun.

I just step away and have a stomp of my perfectly booted feet, then stick a smile on and try and turn it around. Or make another coffee and that usually calms me.

Your way is probably healthier though.... "

It was something useful I picked up on my other favourite internet haunt- Integral Life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It's a place where I can be a little more of myself than I can in the real world, push my comfort zone and get out of my head.

And I've made some amazing friends here in the few short weeks I've been terrorising y'all.

Plus, flirting is fun.

I echo that. I used to be a complete tit in here and I got what I deserved.

I like the change I’ve seen in you. It has been good to see you grow

Thanks fella, always learning....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Also, just a quick random question, but does the term innit get anyone's back up unnecessarily? I realised after I posted, maybe it would offend, but that's just how I type..... .....none intended anyway...

Not mine. I just see it as one of your quirks.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Made a couple of good friends. Met the most amazing man....what's not to like about Fab

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Made a couple of good friends. Met the most amazing man....what's not to like about Fab"

Awww, I'm glad to hear that, long may it last....

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Like the tide, the forum ebbs and flows, when it ebbs it can be quite a dark and unwelcoming place, with snipers around every corner, when it flows though it can be quite joyous and full of fun.

I have a lot to be thankful to the forums for, friends, encounters and much more and without the forums I'd have left the site a long time ago probably.

I hear you GM, but why wait, why not help make things better, for all of us? You're always welcome here....

Why wait? Because they're not "doing it" for me currently for a multitude of reasons some forum related, some not, so I'm not particularly inclined to get involved apart from things that take my interest, and currently they are minimal.

Like I said, doesn't bother me in the slightest, I'm no different in myself and can accept that things change and not always for the better it's life and the way it goes

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By *otSoPoshWoman over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

It's part of your charm Nip

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I. Kinda like the rich tapestry of posters and their wide experience /knowledge

Really enjoy chatting to like minded people and love seeing people's photo updates

Its very addictive

Haha it can be very addictive, it's not always a bad addiction. Btw you owe me vag...

My gorgeous mate sent me one to pass on to you, but it looked so nice i kept it for myself

Groove Junkies -Midnight -Moorhouse records xx

Thank me later

OMG i LOVE it xx"

I have my uses

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I dip in and out when I have idle time

The characters amuse me

My face contorts at a lot of what I read

I'm not fond of the often chatroom feel about a lot of threads atm

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It’s better than eastenders.

Anything is better than Eastenders

Covid put a stop to Stenders....

You wanted to fiddle Peggy own up

Me? Does she have cake?"

There is always Mary Berrie

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Chuck flour at it ,aim for the damp patch

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Like the tide, the forum ebbs and flows, when it ebbs it can be quite a dark and unwelcoming place, with snipers around every corner, when it flows though it can be quite joyous and full of fun.

I have a lot to be thankful to the forums for, friends, encounters and much more and without the forums I'd have left the site a long time ago probably.

I hear you GM, but why wait, why not help make things better, for all of us? You're always welcome here....

Like I said, doesn't bother me in the slightest, I'm no different in myself and can accept that things change and not always for the better it's life and the way it goes"

I know, I just meant if you see it as an opportunity to give rather than receive then the rewards could be greater. Anyway, I respect your choice and that's fine, I hope it gets better for you

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Chuck flour at it ,aim for the damp patch

That sounds hawt!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im invisible.. lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

One of the things I realised about the forum for me was they were a mirror of myself. If I was feeling crappy, the forum felt crappy. If I was feeling irritated the forum would feel irritating. When I realised that I looked inside instead of to the forum for why. It was a light bulb moment for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I dip in and out when I have idle time

The characters amuse me

My face contorts at a lot of what I read

I'm not fond of the often chatroom feel about a lot of threads atm "

Haha, when I'm on fab secretly on my phone, people often see my face changing and stifling giggles and ask wtf I'm up to.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Im invisible.. lol "

I see you! Just fabbed you too....

You're always welcome here....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Im invisible.. lol "

Not now you aren’t:

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"One of the things I realised about the forum for me was they were a mirror of myself. If I was feeling crappy, the forum felt crappy. If I was feeling irritated the forum would feel irritating. When I realised that I looked inside instead of to the forum for why. It was a light bulb moment for me."

That, my empowered friend, is a very important point!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Chuck flour at it ,aim for the damp patch

That sounds hawt!

It’s the way she holds her hands you know you want them on your dick

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Chuck flour at it ,aim for the damp patch

That sounds hawt!

It’s the way she holds her hands you know you want them on your dick

Who, Mary?

PERVERT!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Chuck flour at it ,aim for the damp patch

That sounds hawt!

It’s the way she holds her hands you know you want them on your dick

Who, Mary?

PERVERT!

Cheers mate I’ll take that

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Like the tide, the forum ebbs and flows, when it ebbs it can be quite a dark and unwelcoming place, with snipers around every corner, when it flows though it can be quite joyous and full of fun.

I have a lot to be thankful to the forums for, friends, encounters and much more and without the forums I'd have left the site a long time ago probably.

I hear you GM, but why wait, why not help make things better, for all of us? You're always welcome here....

Like I said, doesn't bother me in the slightest, I'm no different in myself and can accept that things change and not always for the better it's life and the way it goes

I know, I just meant if you see it as an opportunity to give rather than receive then the rewards could be greater. Anyway, I respect your choice and that's fine, I hope it gets better for you

I don't see the forum as an "opportunity" for anything, and never have done, not in those or general terms anyway. Certainly have never been a "taker" anyway.

Nor is my current perception of them any kind of reflection of myself either - for some that might be the case, but having been around internet forums since the dawn of the internet I know how they work (and they're all pretty much the same and have the same character types just different subject matter) and personally don't let them dictate my mood, or conversely my mood dictate them.

I also know that I'm not alone in the way I currently feel as Chill's now closed thread showed over the weekend.

Either way, they are what they are to each of us as individuals and

I certainly don't think the forums themselves require a great deal of deep thought or introspection.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It kills time but ever so quiet at 4am haha