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I wonder what people would look like if.....
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By *litterbabe OP Woman
over a year ago
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Their physical appearance matched how beautiful they are as a person.
I realise of course there would be lots of grey area as as we all like different traits in people and beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but I found it an interesting ponder.
Wouldn't it be amazing to be able to see by looking at somebody if they are as internally attractive to you as they might be externally? |
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By *litterbabe OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I hope it works the other way round. WE are not kind on the eye but I would like to think we are good genuine people."
That is how I would think of it working, if you were good people that would show in your appearance |
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"Their physical appearance matched how beautiful they are as a person.
I realise of course there would be lots of grey area as as we all like different traits in people and beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but I found it an interesting ponder.
Wouldn't it be amazing to be able to see by looking at somebody if they are as internally attractive to you as they might be externally?"
Be amazing if this were real! But then also worked the other way round! Be a lot of ugly people in the world! |
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External beauty is kinda fixed, internal beauty can go up and down in an instant with mood and circumstance and also it can be worked on.....
I think they're very different things..... |
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"Their physical appearance matched how beautiful they are as a person.
I realise of course there would be lots of grey area as as we all like different traits in people and beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but I found it an interesting ponder.
Wouldn't it be amazing to be able to see by looking at somebody if they are as internally attractive to you as they might be externally?"
Like shallow hal  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It would be so easy to tell who means well and tries to be a good person and who did not have the same intentions in mind."
use your intuition
It’s a humans best friend x |
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Is personality that important if you're just going to have sex with someone? Would you be friends or marry someone just because they look great?
If I was hooking up with someone for casual sex I wouldn't have time to know them long enough to find put if they were a good person or not, so would it really matter? If I wanted a long term relationship or friendship that would develop over time and I'd be able to find out what they were really like and attraction can grow from there.
In my social life I don't refuse to get to know people based on what they look like which is what would happen. That would lead to a lot of missed opportunities.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm going to be predictable and ask how you'll measure external beauty?
Internal beauty is somewhat accepted as including kindness, open minded, loving, welcoming etc. How do they manifest themselves physically in appearance? Surely that's subjective?  |
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By *litterbabe OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Is personality that important if you're just going to have sex with someone? Would you be friends or marry someone just because they look great?
If I was hooking up with someone for casual sex I wouldn't have time to know them long enough to find put if they were a good person or not, so would it really matter? If I wanted a long term relationship or friendship that would develop over time and I'd be able to find out what they were really like and attraction can grow from there.
In my social life I don't refuse to get to know people based on what they look like which is what would happen. That would lead to a lot of missed opportunities.
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I agree totally, I wasn't referring the lifestyle I was just thinking it would be interesting if that's how the world was.
I can't actually remember the story from the film Shallow Hal so I'm going to put it back on my watch list as if I remember properly I think the kids would enjoy it too! |
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" I'm going to be predictable and ask how you'll measure external beauty?
Internal beauty is somewhat accepted as including kindness, open minded, loving, welcoming etc. How do they manifest themselves physically in appearance? Surely that's subjective? "
Yep. Also I find certain people that everyone thinks is lovely deeply unpleasant. Does that leave me with only the ugly guys? |
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It's an interesting thought, but we all have ugly thoughts occasionally. Even if it's just at the idiot who cut you up at the junction.
I don't personally think anyone looks perfect or are mentally perfect. We're all flawed to a point, it's just about embracing and accepting them all, in ourselves and each other |
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"It's an interesting thought, but we all have ugly thoughts occasionally. Even if it's just at the idiot who cut you up at the junction.
I don't personally think anyone looks perfect or are mentally perfect. We're all flawed to a point, it's just about embracing and accepting them all, in ourselves and each other "
^ This.
The pursuit of trying to be perfect will drive you crazy.
As well as embracing and accepting our flaws, we need to learn to cope with them and make sure that we can recognise and deal with them appropriately if possible. |
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"It's an interesting thought, but we all have ugly thoughts occasionally. Even if it's just at the idiot who cut you up at the junction.
I don't personally think anyone looks perfect or are mentally perfect. We're all flawed to a point, it's just about embracing and accepting them all, in ourselves and each other
^ This.
The pursuit of trying to be perfect will drive you crazy.
As well as embracing and accepting our flaws, we need to learn to cope with them and make sure that we can recognise and deal with them appropriately if possible."
Yes this this and more of this  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" I'm going to be predictable and ask how you'll measure external beauty?
Internal beauty is somewhat accepted as including kindness, open minded, loving, welcoming etc. How do they manifest themselves physically in appearance? Surely that's subjective?
Yep. Also I find certain people that everyone thinks is lovely deeply unpleasant. Does that leave me with only the ugly guys? "
No we're all on Fab because of our totally inappropriate thoughts. I haven't put anyone under my patio though!  |
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" I'm going to be predictable and ask how you'll measure external beauty?
Internal beauty is somewhat accepted as including kindness, open minded, loving, welcoming etc. How do they manifest themselves physically in appearance? Surely that's subjective?
Yep. Also I find certain people that everyone thinks is lovely deeply unpleasant. Does that leave me with only the ugly guys?
No we're all on Fab because of our totally inappropriate thoughts. I haven't put anyone under my patio though! "
Haven't you! We had to buy a cement mixer... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" I'm going to be predictable and ask how you'll measure external beauty?
Internal beauty is somewhat accepted as including kindness, open minded, loving, welcoming etc. How do they manifest themselves physically in appearance? Surely that's subjective?
Yep. Also I find certain people that everyone thinks is lovely deeply unpleasant. Does that leave me with only the ugly guys?
No we're all on Fab because of our totally inappropriate thoughts. I haven't put anyone under my patio though!
Haven't you! We had to buy a cement mixer... "
Pigs! Far easier
I think I just noticed a wart appear on my massive nose 
Though joking aside and returning to the OP....people change and evolve? Would they physically see their appearance become less attractive if their personality changed? I wonder if that would be more influential on behaviour than simply recognising that kindness should be an aim?
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" I'm going to be predictable and ask how you'll measure external beauty?
Internal beauty is somewhat accepted as including kindness, open minded, loving, welcoming etc. How do they manifest themselves physically in appearance? Surely that's subjective?
Yep. Also I find certain people that everyone thinks is lovely deeply unpleasant. Does that leave me with only the ugly guys?
No we're all on Fab because of our totally inappropriate thoughts. I haven't put anyone under my patio though!
Haven't you! We had to buy a cement mixer... Pigs! Far easier
I think I just noticed a wart appear on my massive nose
Though joking aside and returning to the OP....people change and evolve? Would they physically see their appearance become less attractive if their personality changed? I wonder if that would be more influential on behaviour than simply recognising that kindness should be an aim?
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Depends how you apply kindness but that's a whole other debate.
I think you'd see grief, unhappiness, jealousy and hurt more easily and maybe that would make you more inclined to be understanding towards another person. Or if you were the kind of person who goes for looks less so. I don't know. |
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"It could catch on..
Beauty is only skin deep but ugliness goes all the way to the bone..."
I said no to many really attractive men on fab, based on their personality they revealed to me. their arrogant attitude can turn me totally off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It could catch on..
Beauty is only skin deep but ugliness goes all the way to the bone..."
I'm not sure i agree (not just to disagree for the sake).
I've genuinely met people who have begaved in a terrible manner and even acted heiniously towards those who love them. When you dig deeper you realise how complex peoples lives can be, and how internally they so wanted to be someone else and be helped. They simply couldn't. That's not true ugliness that's the plight of troubled soul's? |
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