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To your late teens/early 20's but with all the knowledge you have now,how would you change things,what would you do differently?
Or are you happy with how your life has worked out,would you keep it the same? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would definitely go back and change a few things but suspect that in doing so I’d make things worse somehow haha. Life is good, lovely family and an amazing wife of 15 years so maybe Marty Mcfly manoeuvres would be daft. |
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By *ouanna JoWoman
over a year ago
A little village |
"There's choices I have made in that time of my life that were bad choices. I wouldn't change a thing though, as I wouldn't be person I am today.
Same 
Same "
Same again. My choices led me to here and I like where I am.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's choices I have made in that time of my life that were bad choices. I wouldn't change a thing though, as I wouldn't be person I am today.
Same
Same "
Same |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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Fuck that. Absolutely zero good can come from time travel and attempts to change the past, regardless of which time travel rules you go with, it always bites you in the ass and fucks things up much much worse than it could have been one way or another. At the very best you trade one thing for another - by telling your past self about things you are prepared for things that may now never come to pass, resulting in new difficult and challenges you would never have face otherwise, in turn being unprepared to deal with them. |
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It's good to see that most of you are happy with where you're at now, I don't think I would change any major life events but I would change how much time and effort I put into making the wrong people happy and concentrate a little more on the right ones.
Learning that it's ok to just be myself at an early age would have made my life a lot easier! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's are things I'd like to avoid. Someone special I'd like to save but truth is I woulsnt be who I am today without all that has happened to me along the way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nah, if you knew everything what was going happen then you wouldn't learn things at the right time and you'd avoid knowing the pain of mistakes which is invaluable....
I love me now a fuck load more than I did when I was twenty, but I wouldn't get to be me now if I knew it all back then, I'd just be a cocky mean knowledgeable twat.....
I've had awful things happen in the past and ppl who know me would assume I'd jump straight for the time machine, but no I actually wouldn't. Life would fuck up in some other way if I did I'm sure. I'm content as I am, thanks....  |
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I often wonder what would have happened if I had said no instead of yes ... but if I had, I probably would not have found fab and all the friends I have made over the last 11 years - so I guess I would not change a thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The thing is with time travel is that could already have done it.
You could now be in the paradox you changed into. "
Or as in many worlda theory, have made all possible descisions and after each choice, branches off into alternate reality  |
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I'd have told my mum to go fuck herself when she made me take a shitty job at a petrol garage instead of the embalming course that I had my heart set on and got offered a place on purely so she could have £40 a month housekeeping off me.
Yes, that would have changed things hugely not just career wise but life wise too, as I met my sons dad at the petrol garage I worked at.
I love my son dearly, which is why, if I had the chance over, I'd have never brought him into a world with such evil and hardship.
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I'd go back and re-live those years, because that's the time when I was completely hedonistic and had an absolute blast 
I wouldn't change anything though...yes, I've made some mistakes, I've experienced pain and loss, but I wouldn't be where I am now or know some of the amazing people that are currently in my life |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To your late teens/early 20's but with all the knowledge you have now,how would you change things,what would you do differently?
Or are you happy with how your life has worked out,would you keep it the same?"
I’d go back with a Sports Book of results and put massive bets and make a fortune. Other than that I wouldn’t change a thing. |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
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"The thing is with time travel is that could already have done it.
You could now be in the paradox you changed into.
Then I need to do it again because I obviously didn't learn enough  "
But what you did previously could've been worse, or even not as bad. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To your late teens/early 20's but with all the knowledge you have now,how would you change things,what would you do differently?
Or are you happy with how your life has worked out,would you keep it the same?
I’d go back with a Sports Book of results and put massive bets and make a fortune. Other than that I wouldn’t change a thing."
Now that sounds like a great idea for a movie |
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Oh I would definitely love to go back, I held back too much. Too well behaved, too unsure of myself.
I just think of all the missed opportunities and the ones I didn't even realise were opportunities and time wasted with certain people. |
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