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"11 years ago to my first club visit was town house. Had a brilliant time.x"
What was it like? What did you get up to? Very intrigued by other people’s first experiences, as someone who’s never been! |
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By *weetguy33 OP Man
over a year ago
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I was Very nervous going as a single guy. But the club staff and members were very friendly.
Its been about 9 years since I last went their. I think town house is under new management now.
Was a brilliant place lots going on over 3 floors. |
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HU9, I went on a quiet night, people were friendly (bar the stinky couple we met when being shown around!) Wish I went on a busy night, I was the only female there that night.
First and only time I’ve been to a club, would like the guts to try others |
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By *omnlynneCouple
over a year ago
milton keynes |
first club many years ago was ranch4play in Florida when I was a single man then with my wife was arousals in dunstable and after a few visits finally broke our swinging cherry with a couple called Julia and Steve who lynne described as "like been fucked by a redwood tree" ...he was a big boy  |
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My first and forever favourite was SX (now Play) last year, been so many times cos I love the atmosphere so much, I felt so free, can't wait to get back! 
Those who've not been to Townhouse since the new owners should give it a try, Vicky and Jim have done a great job, it's our other fave! xx |
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I can't remember the name of it, it was in Manchester somewhere, but not cupids (it's probably shut down, it was about 17 years ago)...it was a right dump, and the clientele were, errmm, interesting  It's a wonder I ever went to a club again after that  |
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"I can't remember the name of it, it was in Manchester somewhere, but not cupids (it's probably shut down,
Was it Amour ?"
That doesn't ring any bells...but I am getting old and generally can't remember what I had for dinner yesterday, never mind something from nearly 20 years ago  When I say Manchester, I mean the general north west area...as in the other side of the Pennines somewhere, I can remember going on the M62 to get there |
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"When Quest was called ISIS in different premises to where it is now.
I have a fondness for old Quest. "
I'm not so keen on ISIS. Or Al-Queda. My first club was The Lodge in Gloucester. Very sadly, it closed a few years ago and there are no local clubs now. I enjoyed Club Sx last year, so look forward to visiting it as Club Play and to trying the Townhouse when they reopen. |
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T took me to Xtasia - it was a Christmas foam party & I was terrified!!! It looked like great fun but I spent the night watching others having fun & in awe of their confidence 
Not been for some time but it is my favourite club
J x |
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No.3 in Chorley was the first club I visited. I was so nervous going in, didn’t know what to expect, had read so many feel-good stories about the club scene! Anyway, it was a quiet night, and driving home afterwards I wondered what all the fuss was about? It’s just a pub, where people wear less clothes...... |
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Vanilla Alternative about 3 years ago, Great first club with bedrooms and a bar area that you can chill in before going into the play areas, I was chatting to a Woman/couple for 11 months before meeting up with them and her other meet, 1st club, 1st meet 1st mmmf,
What a night  |
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By *nnejohnCouple
over a year ago
warrington |
"I can't remember the name of it, it was in Manchester somewhere, but not cupids (it's probably shut down,
Was it Amour ?
That doesn't ring any bells...but I am getting old and generally can't remember what I had for dinner yesterday, never mind something from nearly 20 years ago When I say Manchester, I mean the general north west area...as in the other side of the Pennines somewhere, I can remember going on the M62 to get there "
xanadu? |
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over a year ago
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The Gatehouse, absolutely awesome and it was that good, I went twice a week until the lock down.. Met some fantastic people there. Not all are brilliant but I'd definitely say 99% are. Everyone is welcome and reasonably priced and no membership fee. Staff are very friendly and welcoming. |
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over a year ago
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Pandoras in Leeds last year. First and only time we have been to a club. We enjoyed it and the staff were great but it was a quiet night. Looking forward trying different clubs once its safe do do so |
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Mine as a single female was partners thank god it was an organised social with chat friends otherwise I'd never of gone through the door.
As a couple I took scouse to entice not log after it opened but we went as mates and 2 yrs later we are still together ? lol |
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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago
norwich |
"Tease 2 in cambridgeshire, it was a bit sleazy x
Wasn’t it ! And that accommodation was like an old school. "
Lol, it was all breeze blocks ,dark rooms and closed doors, the lights in the accommodation was so bad I might as well have put my makeup on with my eyes closed , lol x |
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over a year ago
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Went to quest for the first time with my ex 3 years ago. We didn't do anything a part from chatting to other couples. We wanted to see what a club was like and never even thought about swinging before. |
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By *ouanna JoWoman
over a year ago
A little village |
"Vanilla Alternative about 3 years ago, Great first club with bedrooms and a bar area that you can chill in before going into the play areas, I was chatting to a Woman/couple for 11 months before meeting up with them and her other meet, 1st club, 1st meet 1st mmmf,
What a night "
Friends of ours went there, they said it was amazing too. |
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I live near Heathrow but always found myself travelling to Birmingham for clubs. Chams and Xtasia as I didn't fancy the prospect of bumping into someone I know.
I have tried Hellfire a couple of times too  |
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over a year ago
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"11 years ago to my first club visit was town house. Had a brilliant time.x"
First club and where we met was Southend Utd Football Club.
Like you op we had planned to go to the Townhouse as it looks like a brilliant club but some cunt sneezed and the world hanged.
T |
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"I can't remember the name of it, it was in Manchester somewhere, but not cupids (it's probably shut down, it was about 17 years ago)...it was a right dump, and the clientele were, errmm, interesting It's a wonder I ever went to a club again after that "
Adam and Eves? |
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over a year ago
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Partners in bury about 17 years ago maybe more , we loved the wet area there and met some lovely couples who helped us find our feet , not been back for years now , we discovered townhouse a few years after and its been our local and prefered club ever since though we have tried many more |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A club called Utopia on the A5 between Telford and Cannock.
Sadly no longer a club, and the building is run down.
It was beautiful country mansiOn with extensive grounds, huge swimming pool, jacuzzis, saunas, lots of playrooms, some with open fires.
A cave system in the basement area, with each cave kitted out for various styles of play, club area and a bar.
Really miss that place, and every time we drive past we daydream that we’d have the money to buy, renovate the building and reopen it as a club. |
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"A club called Utopia on the A5 between Telford and Cannock.
Sadly no longer a club, and the building is run down.
It was beautiful country mansiOn with extensive grounds, huge swimming pool, jacuzzis, saunas, lots of playrooms, some with open fires.
A cave system in the basement area, with each cave kitted out for various styles of play, club area and a bar.
Really miss that place, and every time we drive past we daydream that we’d have the money to buy, renovate the building and reopen it as a club. "
That was our first club too, been trying to remember the name but couldn't! If you win the lottery and re-open it, we'll be back |
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"A club called Utopia on the A5 between Telford and Cannock.
Sadly no longer a club, and the building is run down.
It was beautiful country mansiOn with extensive grounds, huge swimming pool, jacuzzis, saunas, lots of playrooms, some with open fires.
A cave system in the basement area, with each cave kitted out for various styles of play, club area and a bar.
Really miss that place, and every time we drive past we daydream that we’d have the money to buy, renovate the building and reopen it as a club.
That was our first club too, been trying to remember the name but couldn't! If you win the lottery and re-open it, we'll be back "
It would take a lottery win! The poor old building is in a very sorry state now 
We loved it there, and it had so so much potential to easily be one of the best in the uk given location and building size and facilities, just needed good business management. |
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"A club called Utopia on the A5 between Telford and Cannock.
Sadly no longer a club, and the building is run down.
It was beautiful country mansiOn with extensive grounds, huge swimming pool, jacuzzis, saunas, lots of playrooms, some with open fires.
A cave system in the basement area, with each cave kitted out for various styles of play, club area and a bar.
Really miss that place, and every time we drive past we daydream that we’d have the money to buy, renovate the building and reopen it as a club.
That was our first club too, been trying to remember the name but couldn't! If you win the lottery and re-open it, we'll be back
It would take a lottery win! The poor old building is in a very sorry state now
We loved it there, and it had so so much potential to easily be one of the best in the uk given location and building size and facilities, just needed good business management. "
I always planned to go as a friend told me about it, think he may have done DJ sets at the time but never got there before it closed |
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"A club called Utopia on the A5 between Telford and Cannock.
Sadly no longer a club, and the building is run down.
It was beautiful country mansiOn with extensive grounds, huge swimming pool, jacuzzis, saunas, lots of playrooms, some with open fires.
A cave system in the basement area, with each cave kitted out for various styles of play, club area and a bar.
Really miss that place, and every time we drive past we daydream that we’d have the money to buy, renovate the building and reopen it as a club.
That was our first club too, been trying to remember the name but couldn't! If you win the lottery and re-open it, we'll be back
It would take a lottery win! The poor old building is in a very sorry state now
We loved it there, and it had so so much potential to easily be one of the best in the uk given location and building size and facilities, just needed good business management.
I always planned to go as a friend told me about it, think he may have done DJ sets at the time but never got there before it closed "
Shame you missed it.
We loved it, very often we would head there after work on Friday and not go home until early hours of a Monday morning ready (or not so), to go to work |
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over a year ago
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Small club in horwich about 15 years ago, can't remember the name of it. Not sure if it's still there
Went to a private birthday social there for the owner at the time
Was a very enjoyable night
If anyone remembers it please feel free to message |
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Ours was Chameleons . Stayed about 30mins and drove home in silence . Then tried again after a few months and been to a few in uk and GC . .Really enjoy them now .
Chams and Townhouse are the favs but looking to enjoy more when allowed . . ( Covid etc ) |
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Mine was Pandora in Leeds , i was so so nervous. I tried few times before in but never had the courage to do it , till the day i finall win the courage.
The club is just amazing the staff are so friendly.
From staff to some costumers i have the lucky to call them my friends , they are people with great heart and always have supported me and care .
Make sometime i don't see them because lack of time and personal situation that happened, but can't wait to back and see again lovely friends and enjoying the club as always and having my pink gin tonic.
I do love this club and the friends i have done there 
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Chameleons with an ex who I had ready fallen out of love with. We went to try and patch over an already failing relationship.
Thank god I persevered and went again. This time on my own and had a great time. Its my favourite club. |
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JDs for a BBW night. I was terrified while driving there, nervous when I arrived at the car park but once I went in it was great.
The staff were really friendly, showed me around and didn’t laugh when I asked what the St Andrew’s Cross was for and the guests were great too |
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"JDs for a BBW night. I was terrified while driving there, nervous when I arrived at the car park but once I went in it was great.
The staff were really friendly, showed me around and didn’t laugh when I asked what the St Andrew’s Cross was for and the guests were great too"
I really wanted to go to jaydees |
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"My first event was the BBB after party but that's in a nighclub the rent out for the event. My first actual club was Xotic Xtreme. I'm pretty sure its closed down now. "
it has. Sadly I don't think it will reopen again.
For me it was chams about 20 years ago |
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"JDs for a BBW night. I was terrified while driving there, nervous when I arrived at the car park but once I went in it was great.
The staff were really friendly, showed me around and didn’t laugh when I asked what the St Andrew’s Cross was for and the guests were great too
I really wanted to go to jaydees "
With me to take the piss for how naive I was? |
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"JDs for a BBW night. I was terrified while driving there, nervous when I arrived at the car park but once I went in it was great.
The staff were really friendly, showed me around and didn’t laugh when I asked what the St Andrew’s Cross was for and the guests were great too
I really wanted to go to jaydees
With me to take the piss for how naive I was? "
Only for like 5 mins.... Then I'd make it up to you  |
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"JDs for a BBW night. I was terrified while driving there, nervous when I arrived at the car park but once I went in it was great.
The staff were really friendly, showed me around and didn’t laugh when I asked what the St Andrew’s Cross was for and the guests were great too
I really wanted to go to jaydees
With me to take the piss for how naive I was?
Only for like 5 mins.... Then I'd make it up to you "
That sounds like an amazing night |
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"JDs for a BBW night. I was terrified while driving there, nervous when I arrived at the car park but once I went in it was great.
The staff were really friendly, showed me around and didn’t laugh when I asked what the St Andrew’s Cross was for and the guests were great too"
Yep - love JayDees. No reason to ever feel strange or nervous there - everyone puts you at ease straight away, and it is so friendly. Missing it during lockdown, to be honest.... |
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My first club was Adam and Eves in Eccles. Great experience especially back in the 80's.
Then moved on to Xanadu in Manchester, then Club Manchester when Xanadu closed then onto the Gatehouse. Also been to Partners and Cupids. Tbf, all are different in their approach and atmosphere. Some are very cliquey whereas some are friendly. Some have membership for single guys which can make it an expensive first night. |
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"My first club was Adam and Eves in Eccles. Great experience especially back in the 80's.
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Mine (Mr) was also the Adam & Eve circa 1987/88.
Not many of us that can go that far back.
Mrs first was Fun4two in Holland 2009. |
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"Ours was Chameleons . Stayed about 30mins and drove home in silence . Then tried again after a few months and been to a few in uk and GC . .Really enjoy them now .
Chams and Townhouse are the favs but looking to enjoy more when allowed . . ( Covid etc ) "
Our first time at Chams we didn't like it. It was a BBW party night. We didn't like the atmosphere at all. Said the club was not for us, never to return. Luckily we were tempted back because its open in the day time and the sun was out for the sun deck. Had a great time, met some great people and ended up staying over. Its now our favourite club and go when we can. |
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"A club called Utopia on the A5 between Telford and Cannock.
Sadly no longer a club, and the building is run down.
It was beautiful country mansiOn with extensive grounds, huge swimming pool, jacuzzis, saunas, lots of playrooms, some with open fires.
A cave system in the basement area, with each cave kitted out for various styles of play, club area and a bar.
Really miss that place, and every time we drive past we daydream that we’d have the money to buy, renovate the building and reopen it as a club.
That was our first club too, been trying to remember the name but couldn't! If you win the lottery and re-open it, we'll be back
It would take a lottery win! The poor old building is in a very sorry state now
We loved it there, and it had so so much potential to easily be one of the best in the uk given location and building size and facilities, just needed good business management.
I always planned to go as a friend told me about it, think he may have done DJ sets at the time but never got there before it closed
Shame you missed it.
We loved it, very often we would head there after work on Friday and not go home until early hours of a Monday morning ready (or not so), to go to work "
T drives past twice a day. It had a fire either last year or year before & has no roof. I can see the site being sold for housing or to the hospital next door
J x |
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My first ever club was the Fetish club “ Der Peutch “ way back in the 80s . At Touch Dance Studios in Balham south London .. it was still very underground back then .. Had a hell of a job finding out about events , pre internet |
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"11 years ago to my first club visit was town house. Had a brilliant time.x
Still waiting on me first one... I'm a chicken "
I was same felt sick with worry but was brill and made to feel comfortable straight away |
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Chams ........... quite a few years ago now, was my first and a few visits with a female friend, was also my last ............ just wouldn’t go on my own .... was more comfy with company |
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"The first club I ever went to was called G-Spot in Leicester around 30 years ago. "
A place called the G-Spot?
Was the area swamped with frustrated men desperately trying to find it?
(Sorry couldn’t resist) |
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I went to my first one just before lockdown, strictly not really a club more a spa but went to Rios with a couple of friends. It was a really great day. Thoroughly enjoyed it. |
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First club ... the boardroom in Salford now closed then started going to Adam and eves in Eccles where I still go occasionallly predominantly now it’s partners in bury or Cupids for the BI party night which was awesome ???? |
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Last Halloween I went to silks at Croydon hall in minehead, absolutely buzzing night but it closed at new year. Went to another after that and it was awful! So dirty we made our excuse and left pretty quickly! Silks has made an impression I’m not sure another place would be the same |
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"First club ... the boardroom in Salford now closed then started going to Adam and eves in Eccles where I still go occasionallly predominantly now it’s partners in bury or Cupids for the BI party night which was awesome ????"
The Boardroom. Now that brings back memories. It was actually my 2nd club but used to go quite a lot in the early 90's.
Rough and ready but I had some good fun in there. |
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I'm not sure what it was called, it was in a church. I think it was called The Cool Kids club. I remember there was a little disco and I was drinking some blue raspberry juice and eating strawberry strings and I felt like a badass.
I'd rate it 10/10 good memories. |
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