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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi Fabbers,
So I haven't ever had people round who I hadn't previously met at a club but am hoping to in the future now I have my own place.
What are other people's experiences? Both from single guys and those visiting them? Any particular do's n don'ts? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have hosted, i treat any lady who comes here like i would on a date, dress well, smell good, make house presentable, make sure i have refreshments available.
Basically everything possible to make my guest comfortable |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"To be honest i feel more comfortable in a hotel. I will always pay half the cost. I feel a bit uneasy in someones home."
Thanks, might add that into my profile |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have hosted, i treat any lady who comes here like i would on a date, dress well, smell good, make house presentable, make sure i have refreshments available.
Basically everything possible to make my guest comfortable "
So basically just like hosting a party but with someone you don't know? Do you tend to chat on phone to them both first? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have hosted, i treat any lady who comes here like i would on a date, dress well, smell good, make house presentable, make sure i have refreshments available.
Basically everything possible to make my guest comfortable
So basically just like hosting a party but with someone you don't know? Do you tend to chat on phone to them both first?"
Yeah mate usually have an 'impression' of them before hand. Give it a go! Good luck! |
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I have a fab friend who I meet at his place. We met for an evening in a bar first. I feel very comfortable at his place. I often arrive to find him cooking us some dinner with music playing. I usually end up stood in the kitchen doorway chatting to him as he cooks. I'm very spoilt  . |
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Only once and then I’d known them for some time and was convinced they weren’t weirdos.
Clean sheets, bottled water or other refreshments available, obviously condoms and lube (if required).
The other thing I’d definitely recommend is, no matter how much you trust the other person, keep your credit cards hidden, money or valuables stored away and someone to call afterwards so they know everything went well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I went to meet a girl in my car once for a social and she took a picture of my reg plate before she got in the car then sent it to her friend. I actually thought, good on her for being sensible!
We went for a drive and ended up pumping in the car! Was a good night.  |
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"I have a fab friend who I meet at his place. We met for an evening in a bar first. I feel very comfortable at his place. I often arrive to find him cooking us some dinner with music playing. I usually end up stood in the kitchen doorway chatting to him as he cooks. I'm very spoilt . "
Sounds great. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"And for the love of god, make sure there are no skid marks in the toilet pan."
So I will clean the sheets beforehand as well as after, get a range of salty, roasted and plain snacks, plenty of booze and also non alcoholic, Coom them dinner, hide my valuables, buy a baseball bat and phone a friend.
Hotel tips anyone? |
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"And for the love of god, make sure there are no skid marks in the toilet pan.
So I will clean the sheets beforehand as well as after, get a range of salty, roasted and plain snacks, plenty of booze and also non alcoholic, Coom them dinner, hide my valuables, buy a baseball bat and phone a friend.
Hotel tips anyone?"
You don't have to cook them dinner, like I said I'm just spoilt  . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"And for the love of god, make sure there are no skid marks in the toilet pan.
So I will clean the sheets beforehand as well as after, get a range of salty, roasted and plain snacks, plenty of booze and also non alcoholic, Coom them dinner, hide my valuables, buy a baseball bat and phone a friend.
Hotel tips anyone?
You don't have to cook them dinner, like I said I'm just spoilt ."
Oh I did for my last friend who came over, although we got a bit distracted so had to order pizza in the first night  |
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"And for the love of god, make sure there are no skid marks in the toilet pan.
So I will clean the sheets beforehand as well as after, get a range of salty, roasted and plain snacks, plenty of booze and also non alcoholic, Coom them dinner, hide my valuables, buy a baseball bat and phone a friend.
Hotel tips anyone?
You don't have to cook them dinner, like I said I'm just spoilt .
Oh I did for my last friend who came over, although we got a bit distracted so had to order pizza in the first night "
That is a danger |
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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago
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"And for the love of god, make sure there are no skid marks in the toilet pan.
So I will clean the sheets beforehand as well as after, get a range of salty, roasted and plain snacks, plenty of booze and also non alcoholic, Coom them dinner, hide my valuables, buy a baseball bat and phone a friend.
Hotel tips anyone?"
You sit are sorted to accommodate 
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I have had no problems when I accommodate. Apart from what other people have mentioned, clean sheets, house clean, drinks and cooking food etc. Make sure you make the lady feels comfortable and relaxed. For a lady to visit your home and she doesn't really know you is a big step.
If the lady sleeps over, make sure you have breakfast ready to cook, sex can make you hungry. |
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"All great advice but one thing, if I clean my house so its all sparkling to 'parental visit standard' won't they assume I am secretly married?"
Only if you have women's belongings everywhere . It's easy to tell when it's just a guy that lives somewhere. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Homes can be way too personal unless it's someone you know it are comfortable with. Plus there are some lovely ppl on fab but also there are some absolute stalking fruitcakes, so be selective fella....  |
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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago
Weirdsville South Coast Dorset |
"All great advice but one thing, if I clean my house so its all sparkling to 'parental visit standard' won't they assume I am secretly married?"
Hahahahahaha not really! Might assume you have a little OCD or a cleaning obsession but I do like visiting a mans home that is proper clean, not just "attempted effort". But if you are hiding the wife, just make sure her toothbrush and obvious toiletries are hidden many make that mistake! |
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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago
Weirdsville South Coast Dorset |
"Homes can be way too personal unless it's someone you know it are comfortable with. Plus there are some lovely ppl on fab but also there are some absolute stalking fruitcakes, so be selective fella.... "
Sadly the fruitcakes run around fab free nippy! Some hide it, some don't try and some don't see they are it, nowt stranger then fab folk |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Homes can be way too personal unless it's someone you know it are comfortable with. Plus there are some lovely ppl on fab but also there are some absolute stalking fruitcakes, so be selective fella....
Sadly the fruitcakes run around fab free nippy! Some hide it, some don't try and some don't see they are it, nowt stranger then fab folk"
Love your cunt btw  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oil all the locks. It’s embarrassing for the victim when the fire brigade have to cut them out of the shackles while naked
Not if you can convince the firemen to join in!  "
Ooh, I could always pretend there broken and put a firemans outfit on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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cleanliness and have like some kinda atmosphere ready
i dont mean candles and shit just like some nice music playing. I remember one guy who had some incense going and that mellowed me out completely |
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"I have hosted, i treat any lady who comes here like i would on a date, dress well, smell good, make house presentable, make sure i have refreshments available.
Basically everything possible to make my guest comfortable "
This is exactly what I do.
The only thing I’d add is that to avoid awkwardness, I quite often suggest we meet for coffee or a drink first somewhere close to the house. That way it gives both parties an opportunity to call it off if they’re not feeling the chemistry in person.
I find it takes the pressure off on both sides and just sets things up really nicely. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To be honest i feel more comfortable in a hotel. I will always pay half the cost. I feel a bit uneasy in someones home."
Same here..much more relaxing in a hotel.
Definitely 50/50 split x |
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