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By *bt96 OP Man
over a year ago
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how did everyone manage to get the first meet on here to get verified? nobody will meet because im not verified but how am I ever going to get verified if everyone says that... I dont get how people got started on here
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If you look at profiles where they have pics, its likely the ones who you choose to look at most intently will have at least one face pic among other pics too and have a positive profile write up indicating what you have to offer any potential persons on here and what you are looking for too.
Pretty much any guy with no face pics is doomed to fail and saying you're giving up already is quite negative and will have people looking elsewhere Op. |
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"how did everyone manage to get the first meet on here to get verified? nobody will meet because im not verified but how am I ever going to get verified if everyone says that... I dont get how people got started on here
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My first was in a club and as prior to the lockdown I used to go out regularly, so verifications were quite easy to get.
However some of my meets, won’t get verified as those people don’t want others to know they’ve been with a Tgirl. So it can be difficult in other ways as well.
You can be webcam verified but these aren’t as good as actual meeting the person in reality.
My advice get to a social once they start up again. |
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"how did everyone manage to get the first meet on here to get verified? nobody will meet because im not verified but how am I ever going to get verified if everyone says that... I dont get how people got started on here
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Take a picture of your hand doing the 'thumbs up' thingy and make it your profile pic and I will come and buy you a pint and touch your bum after lockdown. 
...or, just hop in the cam room and ask nicely to get verified. Seems less fun but whatevs
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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Take a look at what you can do differently to what you are doing now - the answers are all in your hands
It might be revising your profile so it reads better, adding new pics, changing your approach (blind messaging people isn't the only option), adjusting your expectations or attitude or writing different messages, or approaching a different type of person, or even a combination of all of those.
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Veris, or lack there of, are often blamed for not getting meets, as if spending 10 minutes camming with someone is suddenly going to make all the difference. I had 5 meets before my first veri, because I really could see the point of them, having previously used another site that didn’t use them. Far more important to sort your profile out, learn how to message nicely, visit some clubs, go to some organised socials, use the forums, and engage with the lifestyle. |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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I met a local fella. He took me hiking.
The things i do for verifications... 
I’m sure others have said, but maybe try camming with someone (Make sure you make it clear its for veri purposes so they don’t cam and run).
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"how did everyone manage to get the first meet on here to get verified? nobody will meet because im not verified but how am I ever going to get verified if everyone says that... I dont get how people got started on here
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Just lower your standards to the very bottom of the pile then slowly build them back up with the more veris you get! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If someone really wants to meet you, then trust Nippy, they will meet you!!! Make them REALLY WANT to meet you fella and quit complaining unless you want a pity meet?
I mean that in the nicest and most helpful way possible 
Also, as a side note, when talking with people you don't really know that well - the reason they might site isn't always the real reason. Lack of veri's is often a polite excuse to say no thanks due to something more personal or difficult to say to avoid hurting your feelings.....
Good luck!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just simply got chatting on the forums and a certain someone took a shine and we met in person for some conversation then a week later went to a club and since then have been on a few club visits.
Not verified anymore because I deleted my old account but I'm not really looking to be verified |
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By *bt96 OP Man
over a year ago
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"If someone really wants to meet you, then trust Nippy, they will meet you!!! Make them REALLY WANT to meet you fella and quit complaining unless you want a pity meet?
I mean that in the nicest and most helpful way possible
Also, as a side note, when talking with people you don't really know that well - the reason they might site isn't always the real reason. Lack of veri's is often a polite excuse to say no thanks due to something more personal or difficult to say to avoid hurting your feelings.....
Good luck! "
Oh i do understand that but alot of the time ill go to message someone and it says they only accept messages from verified users? I think even unverified should still be able to send a message even if its just one... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If someone really wants to meet you, then trust Nippy, they will meet you!!! Make them REALLY WANT to meet you fella and quit complaining unless you want a pity meet?
I mean that in the nicest and most helpful way possible
Also, as a side note, when talking with people you don't really know that well - the reason they might site isn't always the real reason. Lack of veri's is often a polite excuse to say no thanks due to something more personal or difficult to say to avoid hurting your feelings.....
Good luck!
Oh i do understand that but alot of the time ill go to message someone and it says they only accept messages from verified users? I think even unverified should still be able to send a message even if its just one... "
Get on cam in the chat rooms and ask someone politely if they'd mind verifying you. They're all quite friendly. Problem solved! I would if you asked... |
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