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6 weeks in and in need of tips
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So... enjoying my time on fab but thought about leaving as 1 out of maybe 50 women reply, bringing me onto my question. Do any of you Ladies have any tips and maybe point me in the right direction? I've always been polite and not just sent a dick pic as I'd imagine this must get pretty dull after awhile. Maybe change my pics? Any advice would would be gratefully received. Many thanks to whoever answers. Here's hoping. Andy
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Nothing wrong with your profile maybe add a bit more to the text, but the pictures are good.
With the lockdown, chances of meeting will have gone down dramatically since March. But the clubs, hotel meets and socials are starting to appear on the site again, so just give it time.
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Hi Andy,
I think one in fifty is pretty good but it does make me wonder how many messages you're sending. Do you really fit with what hundreds of women are looking for?
Maybe concentrate on the profiles you're compatible with.
There isn't a magic formula that guarantees a response, it really is down to sheer weight of numbers of men compared to women.
It does help a bit to join in the forum in a positive and friendly way too but there are no guarantees.
Good luck  |
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It's maybe not your profile at all, it's more exposure (no,not naked)
Get yourself seen more, post on the forums more, use the chat rooms ... get people knowing you for you and not just pics and some words may work far better for you
Good luck |
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Most receive that many messages they bulk delete .. I don’t message people but my mail box is open so to speak .. like the field of dreams movie if you build it they will come  |
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"It's maybe not your profile at all, it's more exposure (no,not naked)
Get yourself seen more, post on the forums more, use the chat rooms ... get people knowing you for you and not just pics and some words may work far better for you
Good luck "
Definitely this , pics are good like someone else said maybe a bit more text , mentioning the dog is a cute touch |
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"this is to ensure the person viewing understands i take oral hygiene seriously  "
OP ... use the reply+quote button (right hand button) if you want to respond to a specific message
OP = original poster ie ... you |
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"this is to ensure the person viewing understands i take oral hygiene seriously "
Op if you click reply and quote on the right it shows who you’re replying to.
I understand, it’s just a bit odd |
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"I'm not like a blanket sender this is over the course of a few days lol. Not like in an hour. F*** that. My thumbs would kill  "
You have to remember that women get inundated with messages. If they go online to reply they just end up with more than when they started.
It is difficult even to get a message read never mind replied to.
Keep trying and good luck. |
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"this is to ensure the person viewing understands i take oral hygiene seriously
Op if you click reply and quote on the right it shows who you’re replying to.
I understand, it’s just a bit odd "
Agree the toothbrush pic is strange.
Profile looks good otherwise OP. Make sure you're reading profiles before you message and as said above, the fact your new will out a lot of people off. The forum is a great place to get to know people and vise versa. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So... enjoying my time on fab but thought about leaving as 1 out of maybe 50 women reply, bringing me onto my question. Do any of you Ladies have any tips and maybe point me in the right direction? I've always been polite and not just sent a dick pic as I'd imagine this must get pretty dull after awhile. Maybe change my pics? Any advice would would be gratefully received. Many thanks to whoever answers. Here's hoping. Andy
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It seems like you have passed the initiation process and you have been crazy enough to post on the forum.
Now have a Tip-Top and enjoy |
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The last few months here haven't permitted users to meet until recently and this only for socials. People have had their main life be a priority - family, friends, health, jobs, finances etc
It's an irregular time here with clubs closed for action, where some choose to meet socially and for sex.
Every new man here struggles to get established and active. The people in your area and their tastes etc influence how you get on.
A high quality profile is a big winner. Your photos are good. As with others, I'd suggest more information in the text. You have to sell yourself via that pagem |
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I think your profile is pretty good. Unfortunately it’s a bit of a numbers game.. there are sooooo many single men on here these days that sometimes it’s difficult to see the wood for the trees... so to speak.
If I were you I’d only message couples or females where you match what they are looking for, remember to read their profiles fully and don’t take it to heart if you get ignored. |
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"It’s not a bad profile, except the toothbrush pic, that’s a bit odd.
Maybe some bum pics 
Note to OP ... Hippy does like a bum pic
I do
I do too
OK ... generally, the ladies like a bum pic "
You have a nice bum Monkey |
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"Hi Andy,
I think one in fifty is pretty good but it does make me wonder how many messages you're sending. Do you really fit with what hundreds of women are looking for?
Maybe concentrate on the profiles you're compatible with.
There isn't a magic formula that guarantees a response, it really is down to sheer weight of numbers of men compared to women.
It does help a bit to join in the forum in a positive and friendly way too but there are no guarantees.
Good luck "
This
All the best OP, definitely look to message those that you’re compatible with |
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"Tooth brush pic has now left the building 
Excellent now show us all your bum im on my own, taking an arse shot would be tricky i reckom, unless I train my dog. Lol "
It could be a real smart arse (the dog) |
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"Tooth brush pic has now left the building
Excellent now show us all your bum im on my own, taking an arse shot would be tricky i reckom, unless I train my dog. Lol "
Where's there's a will.... I did my own arse shot  |
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"Tooth brush pic has now left the building
Excellent now show us all your bum im on my own, taking an arse shot would be tricky i reckom, unless I train my dog. Lol "
Get a stand for your phone OP, it makes arse shots easier. I took pretty much all my arse pics myself. |
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"Cake you need cakes
Cakes? Am I missing something? (Apart from cakes) lol
Get a picture of cake on your profile, the ladies will flock to you ..honest "
Yup .. it's true... you'll be beating them off with a stick!!
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I (mr) being a Michelin trained chef wooed the Mrs with food porn!
Get your apron on lads and get cooking! Btw ladies love cake free tip !
Today is her bday so it's lemon drizzle x 2 ,warm lobster salad and pickled sides, Brazilian sirloin done in a sweet Japanese glaze on Jasmine rice ,lemon drizzle with creme anglaise, champagne, then hide the sausage anyway she wants! |
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"I (mr) being a Michelin trained chef wooed the Mrs with food porn!
Get your apron on lads and get cooking! Btw ladies love cake free tip !
Today is her bday so it's lemon drizzle x 2 ,warm lobster salad and pickled sides, Brazilian sirloin done in a sweet Japanese glaze on Jasmine rice ,lemon drizzle with creme anglaise, champagne, then hide the sausage anyway she wants! "
Well that makes 2 of us (chefs) |
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"Tooth brush pic has now left the building
Excellent now show us all your bum im on my own, taking an arse shot would be tricky i reckom, unless I train my dog. Lol "
Just prop your phone up somewhere and use the timer? I do all my pics myself. |
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"Tooth brush pic has now left the building
Excellent now show us all your bum im on my own, taking an arse shot would be tricky i reckom, unless I train my dog. Lol
Just prop your phone up somewhere and use the timer? I do all my pics myself."
Can get a cheap gorilla pod off amazing for £10 too |
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"Tooth brush pic has now left the building "
Didn’t see it sadly but I think you look very nice and smiley!
If you were local to me, sent an articulate message and were looking for the same as me - I’d reply! |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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Looks fine apart from the verification. I thought phone veris aren't allowed anymore? Like some have said, 7 weeks isn't very long on fab, just make sure you read profiles and make sure you are what they are looking for before messaging. Good luck. X |
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"Nothing wrong with your profile maybe add a bit more to the text, but the pictures are good.
With the lockdown, chances of meeting will have gone down dramatically since March. But the clubs, hotel meets and socials are starting to appear on the site again, so just give it time.
Good luck Op "
Covid... kills everything. |
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I think you're doing ok fella, when it happens it'll happen, enjoy the lead up to that.....
Show as much personality in your messages as you can. Don't necessarily take too much notice of the angry demands and shopping lists requested in in some profiles, better usually to avoid those hardened ones and find someone fresh and open to chat with and just be yourself.
Profile looks good to me. It's probably already been said but just bear in mind the billions of ppl you're competing with. The lucky ladies have a lot to choose from so stay positive and try not to take any rejection to heart.... |
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"I think you're doing ok fella, when it happens it'll happen, enjoy the lead up to that.....
Show as much personality in your messages as you can. Don't necessarily take too much notice of the angry demands and shopping lists requested in in some profiles, better usually to avoid those hardened ones and find someone fresh and open to chat with and just be yourself.
Profile looks good to me. It's probably already been said but just bear in mind the billions of ppl you're competing with. The lucky ladies have a lot to choose from so stay positive and try not to take any rejection to heart.... "
Thanks for that bud |
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